Dating, Marriage and Divorce Conversations (DMD)

In this episode, I had an opportunity to sit down with Mrs. Leorah Elin (a veteran matchmaker) and Mrs. Rachel Burnham (a dating coach) to a difficult and sensitive conversation and discuss the challenges facing those who are in the dating scene. We touched on many topics and aspects of dating. Hope you enjoy!
Mrs. Leorah Elin, a noted shadchan, dating coach, kallah teacher, and educator from Waterbury, Connecticut, has been successfully making shidduchim for over 22 years.
Leorah’s warmth and kindness make her a highly sought-after shadchan and her expertise includes successfully matching couples and providing them with invaluable encouragement along the way. Her shidduch clientele spans a variety of backgrounds, styles and ages. Leorah provides custom-tailored guidance and personal mentorship throughout the entire dating process.
She can be reached at [email protected]
Mrs. Rachel Burnham’s deep experience and expertise comes from the trenches. She dated for 14 years. Hundreds of men, thousands of dates. Between her own experience and those of the countless clients and friends which she counseled she has successfully confronted virtually every scenario in modern frum / Orthodox dating.
In addition to her own broad dating experience, as a matchmaker and mentor, Rachel has guided countless singles and dating couples toward connective, meaningful, satisfying, and loving relationships. A naturally outgoing people person, Rachel’s enthusiasm about relationships and appreciation of the benefits deep connection brings makes her coaching not only her profession but her passion as well.
Rachel can be found at ww.d8gr8.com

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Clients often ask me how I apply Imago techniques and tools in my own life. In this episode I share how my wife and I have used Imago to help navigate a very challenging period in our lives as a couple and as a family.

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Have you ever wondered what truly fuels the sparks of attraction? Join us as Rachel Burnham (dating coach) and Leorah Elin (matchmaker) share their insights into the dynamic world of dating and relationships. In a candid conversation, we unravel how our personal histories, attitudes, and the energy we emanate deeply influence our romantic connections. Learn why positivity and self-growth aren't just feel-good terms, but essential elements in magnetizing the love life you desire.
Navigating the dating scene can be a labyrinth of emotions and decisions, especially when faced with limiting beliefs about love. We dissect these challenges, offering actionable strategies to transform a negative dating perspective into a positive, empowering experience. Hear firsthand how fostering self-development before diving into a relationship can lead to more meaningful partnerships, and understand why embracing openness and non-judgment is crucial in forming genuine connections.
This episode is not just a treasure trove of advice for the lovelorn. We also delve into the profound ways in which our quest for companionship aligns with timeless Torah teachings. Discover the role of self-belief in cementing strong relationships with others and with Hashem, and how the power of manifestation intertwines with spiritual principles to shape the fabric of our lives. With Rachel and Leon's wisdom guiding the way, we pave a path toward deepening our understanding of love and the unseen forces that guide our hearts.

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Have you ever paused to consider the relationship you have with yourself? In this episode, we take you through a recent mountain hike that sparked deep introspection on self-worth and the overlooked necessity of self-care. We explore the common pitfalls of getting lost in external relationships and social media distractions, stressing the importance of dedicating time to connect with our inner selves. Discover how creative and personal expression can help us overcome the fears of failure and success that often block our path to self-discovery. Through shared experiences and honest trial and error, we uncover insights that make us wiser and better equipped to tackle life's challenges.
Moving forward, we shift focus to living a soulful life of service beyond the confines of ego. We examine how the soul embodies our unique talents, potentials, and the sources of our joy and purpose. By understanding the ego's protective nature, we learn how to channel its energy towards serving a higher purpose and co-creating with God. This journey involves sharing our gifts selflessly without the craving for fame or recognition. Embrace the tools and capacities you have, trust in your role within the grand tapestry of life, and find fulfillment in your contributions to the world around you.

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This episode explores two most common ways couples show up to their relationships. Sometimes we are transactional, i.e. just seeking to complete a transaction. Sometimes we are relational, i.e. seeking deep and meaningful connection. How do we shift from being transactional and become more relational in our romantic lives.

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