đź”’ Getting Rejected When Cold Approaching Women Is Normal
07/17/19 • 17 min
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Today I will be revealing a big secret that the majority of seduction gurus try to hide from you:
A LARGE PORTION OF YOUR APPROACHES WILL END UP IN *REJECTION!
You see everyone who starts learning game has a pie chart made up of 3 categories of women. The categories are the Yes, No, and Maybe women. Depending on your race, height, looks, physique, age, charisma, and appearance your percentages in each category will either be higher or lower than other guys around you (another secret most seduction gurus will never tell you is that being good looking and tall will improve your odds a bit).
For the sake of simplicity, let's say you are an average guy all around. Well your percentages would be somewhere around 10% Yes girls, 30% Neutral girls, and 60% No girls (these numbers are a guesstimates based on guys I've taught).
But this is the pie chart at the BEGINNING of your journey, not at the end. You see, when you are a newbie, you will make all sorts of mistakes. You will approach nervously, your body language will be bad, you will fidget, your voice will crack, you will say dumb things, etc. And all of these factors will lead to you creeping out the girls or them ending their interaction with you.
Each approach, regardless of how it goes will help you get better. Each approach will help you improve not only your confidence but also how you are coming across - aka your seduction attributes.
After a few thousand approaches, your pie chart will change. The percentage of Yes girls will increase, so will the Neutral girls, and the No girls will decrease. How much will depend on how much your game has improved.
*Rejection = By rejection, I don't mean that the woman will tell you to "F#&k off" or slap you. That almost never happens. What I mean is that she ignores you, finds some way to end the interaction, refuses to give you her contact info (or gives fake info), or tells you she has a boyfriend.
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Visit: http://datingarchitect.com/
Today I will be revealing a big secret that the majority of seduction gurus try to hide from you:
A LARGE PORTION OF YOUR APPROACHES WILL END UP IN *REJECTION!
You see everyone who starts learning game has a pie chart made up of 3 categories of women. The categories are the Yes, No, and Maybe women. Depending on your race, height, looks, physique, age, charisma, and appearance your percentages in each category will either be higher or lower than other guys around you (another secret most seduction gurus will never tell you is that being good looking and tall will improve your odds a bit).
For the sake of simplicity, let's say you are an average guy all around. Well your percentages would be somewhere around 10% Yes girls, 30% Neutral girls, and 60% No girls (these numbers are a guesstimates based on guys I've taught).
But this is the pie chart at the BEGINNING of your journey, not at the end. You see, when you are a newbie, you will make all sorts of mistakes. You will approach nervously, your body language will be bad, you will fidget, your voice will crack, you will say dumb things, etc. And all of these factors will lead to you creeping out the girls or them ending their interaction with you.
Each approach, regardless of how it goes will help you get better. Each approach will help you improve not only your confidence but also how you are coming across - aka your seduction attributes.
After a few thousand approaches, your pie chart will change. The percentage of Yes girls will increase, so will the Neutral girls, and the No girls will decrease. How much will depend on how much your game has improved.
*Rejection = By rejection, I don't mean that the woman will tell you to "F#&k off" or slap you. That almost never happens. What I mean is that she ignores you, finds some way to end the interaction, refuses to give you her contact info (or gives fake info), or tells you she has a boyfriend.
Visit: http://datingarchitect.com/ for more great content!
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Lessons from 17 Years in the PUA Community
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Today I’m going to tell you about what I learned from being in the seduction community for over 17 years. Now, I’m not going to be going over specific techniques or strategies on picking up women. I’m going to be covering big picture stuff.
These are lessons you learn over time, hence the title “Lessons from 17 Years in the PUA Community.” I’m going to be going over 5 of them today and I think I’m going to do a part 2 in the future because I have other things I’ve learned that I want to share, but 5 lessons is enough for today. And do stay tuned until the end, bc they get better as I go through them. Ok so without further delay let’s go over lesson number 1!
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Why You Should Start Talking to 9s and 10s
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In today's episode, I talk about why you should start approaching 9s and 10s. These are the super hot girls that most guys are too intimated to even look at, let alone approach. By going up and talking to these girls you will quickly realize that they are not as special as you think and that most are just normal girls.
By talking to them over and over, you will not only improve your game, but you will improve your chances of dating one of these super hotties in the near future. And don't worry if you get rejected by the first few that you approach, each rejection you experience today will prepare you for the hottie you will date in the future.
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Welcome to the Dating Architect Podcast the number one balls to the wall. Zero B s podcast for men who want to date the kind of hot girls that'll make other men jealous. Get all your exes raging mad. Join us. Let us help you build your ideal dating life. Hey, it's Jack! And today I wanted to talk about rejection. Now, this is a very important subject because a lot of guys avoid going out and approaching girls because they fear rejection. But I wanted to cove
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