
Dating After Divorce
Sade Curry
Dating after Divorce is a podcast for divorced women that explores the divorce journey and teaches real strategies for fully recovering from a divorce, rebuilding your life, dating and getting happily re-partnered again. Join Certified Life Coach, Sade Curry for real practical wisdom and real-world techniques from her own divorce journey and life coaching practice. Sade teaches you how to quickly go from divorced and alone to happily remarried while building your best life after divorce along the way. Visit http://sadecurry.com to learn more.
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164. The 10 Dates in 30 Days Challenge
Dating After Divorce
03/02/23 • 18 min
We are kicking off the 10 DATES IN 30 DAYS CHALLENGE on the Dating After Divorce Academy!
If you are actively dating now, you should definitely try this out in the next 30 days. Challenge yourself and meet men - free from pressure.
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Dating with your Core Values helps you Easily Connect With Your True Match Partner (without chasing, settling, or wasting time with non-committal men)
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The Core Values Dating Blueprint Helps you:
DISCOVER YOUR CORE VALUES
❤️ Take the core values test and discover your core values
❤️ Explore the parts of your mission, life story, beliefs and lifestyle that are most important to your relationship
❤️ Create a relationship vision that clearly aligns with your core values so that you know the type of partner that would be right for you
❤️ Identify the critical attributes of your partner that will make him a fit for your values and relationship vision
❤️ Easily weed out the men aren't a fit and recognize the man who is
CREATE YOUR CORE VALUES BLUEPRINT
❤️ Get the exact framework for crafting your core values dating blueprint that shows you what to say and how to date to meet the partner who’s right for you
❤️ Learn the 5 steps to translating your core values into a written blueprint that guides your dating decisions
PUT YOUR BEST SELF OUT THERE AT EVERY STAGE OF DATING
❤️ Learn exactly how to apply your core values to every part of dating - Add it to your dating profile so that it is as unique and compelling as you are
❤️ Use core values in text messages to tell great stories and inspire interesting conversations
❤️ Use core values to ask questions that qualify if a man is right for you
❤️ Use core values at social events and in person interactions to effortlessly attract people in the room who match you
❤️ Learn how to express your core values with confidence and clarity at every stage of the dating process
Get Your Core Values Dating Blueprint Now

151. Nurturing Intimacy Recap Episode with Melissa Cameron
Dating After Divorce
12/13/22 • 19 min
“I had a few underlying feelings, but I didn't have a vision, so to speak, until you took me through the Irresistible You Worksheets. That was the point that I got a clear vision of what my relationship could look like.”
“I'm feeling really good about the place that we got to...I'm 43 and I've met the man of my dreams, so possible.”
“So I was in a place where I was very clear about what I was looking for.”
If you have been my longtime listeners might remember my client, Melissa Cameron, and her success story which was published on the podcast.
Today, I did a check in with Melissa, a year after she met her new partner to talk about where she was, and to recap, the best parts of the work that we did together. I hope you enjoy this short recap episode with Melissa Cameron.
Discover Your "Core Values Dating Blueprint" And How You Can Use It On:
- Dating Apps
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- and Social Events To Meet & Attract Eligible Men Who Match You
Dating with your Core Values helps you Easily Connect With Your True Match Partner (without chasing, settling, or wasting time with non-committal men)
Click Here to Sign Up
The Core Values Dating Blueprint Helps you:
DISCOVER YOUR CORE VALUES
❤️ Take the core values test and discover your core values
❤️ Explore the parts of your mission, life story, beliefs and lifestyle that are most important to your relationship
❤️ Create a relationship vision that clearly aligns with your core values so that you know the type of partner that would be right for you
❤️ Identify the critical attributes of your partner that will make him a fit for your values and relationship vision
❤️ Easily weed out the men aren't a fit and recognize the man who is
CREATE YOUR CORE VALUES BLUEPRINT
❤️ Get the exact framework for crafting your core values dating blueprint that shows you what to say and how to date to meet the partner who’s right for you
❤️ Learn the 5 steps to translating your core values into a written blueprint that guides your dating decisions
PUT YOUR BEST SELF OUT THERE AT EVERY STAGE OF DATING
❤️ Learn exactly how to apply your core values to every part of dating - Add it to your dating profile so that it is as unique and compelling as you are
❤️ Use core values in text messages to tell great stories and inspire interesting conversations
❤️ Use core values to ask questions that qualify if a man is right for you
❤️ Use core values at social events and in person interactions to effortlessly attract people in the room who match you
❤️ Learn how to express your core values with confidence and clarity at every stage of the dating process
Get Your Core Values Dating Blueprint Now

150. Understanding Chemistry and Attraction
Dating After Divorce
12/07/22 • 16 min
“And our brains always feel like things that are out of reach are valuable or more valuable."
“Attraction is not a one and done. It’s a journey. It's a learning process.”
“The elements of attraction work both to create attraction with the right person. And they can also create attraction with the wrong person. And so when you are thinking that you don't feel the spark, that's not enough to make a decision.”
What sparks attraction for you? Have you ever sat down to think about it? Today I deal with the topic of chemistry and attraction. I address the multidimensional nature of attraction to help you understand what you are truly attracted to.
Discover Your "Core Values Dating Blueprint" And How You Can Use It On:
- Dating Apps
- Text Messages
- and Social Events To Meet & Attract Eligible Men Who Match You
Dating with your Core Values helps you Easily Connect With Your True Match Partner (without chasing, settling, or wasting time with non-committal men)
Click Here to Sign Up
The Core Values Dating Blueprint Helps you:
DISCOVER YOUR CORE VALUES
❤️ Take the core values test and discover your core values
❤️ Explore the parts of your mission, life story, beliefs and lifestyle that are most important to your relationship
❤️ Create a relationship vision that clearly aligns with your core values so that you know the type of partner that would be right for you
❤️ Identify the critical attributes of your partner that will make him a fit for your values and relationship vision
❤️ Easily weed out the men aren't a fit and recognize the man who is
CREATE YOUR CORE VALUES BLUEPRINT
❤️ Get the exact framework for crafting your core values dating blueprint that shows you what to say and how to date to meet the partner who’s right for you
❤️ Learn the 5 steps to translating your core values into a written blueprint that guides your dating decisions
PUT YOUR BEST SELF OUT THERE AT EVERY STAGE OF DATING
❤️ Learn exactly how to apply your core values to every part of dating - Add it to your dating profile so that it is as unique and compelling as you are
❤️ Use core values in text messages to tell great stories and inspire interesting conversations
❤️ Use core values to ask questions that qualify if a man is right for you
❤️ Use core values at social events and in person interactions to effortlessly attract people in the room who match you
❤️ Learn how to express your core values with confidence and clarity at every stage of the dating process
Get Your Core Values Dating Blueprint Now

149. Heal Old Relationship Patterns So You Can Fall in Love Again
Dating After Divorce
12/05/22 • 71 min
“When a woman over functions in relationships, typically it looks like doing everything for the guy...you set up all the dates, you move the relationship forward, you have all the conversations, you text him in, you give him money, he's always needing something, and you're always there to give it to him.”
“Most men are just normal humans like you. And they're not going to look like a movie.”
“When you believe that other people know better, and your thinking is not to be trusted, you'll be easily manipulated”
“Another thing that can really hamper awareness is if you deny that the pattern is harming you”
Today’s episode is the webinar session that I held on the 2nd of December. The webinar was on how to heal your old relationship patterns, so you can fall in love again. It was an amazing session that I’m sure you’ll find very insightful.
Discover Your "Core Values Dating Blueprint" And How You Can Use It On:
- Dating Apps
- Text Messages
- and Social Events To Meet & Attract Eligible Men Who Match You
Dating with your Core Values helps you Easily Connect With Your True Match Partner (without chasing, settling, or wasting time with non-committal men)
Click Here to Sign Up
The Core Values Dating Blueprint Helps you:
DISCOVER YOUR CORE VALUES
❤️ Take the core values test and discover your core values
❤️ Explore the parts of your mission, life story, beliefs and lifestyle that are most important to your relationship
❤️ Create a relationship vision that clearly aligns with your core values so that you know the type of partner that would be right for you
❤️ Identify the critical attributes of your partner that will make him a fit for your values and relationship vision
❤️ Easily weed out the men aren't a fit and recognize the man who is
CREATE YOUR CORE VALUES BLUEPRINT
❤️ Get the exact framework for crafting your core values dating blueprint that shows you what to say and how to date to meet the partner who’s right for you
❤️ Learn the 5 steps to translating your core values into a written blueprint that guides your dating decisions
PUT YOUR BEST SELF OUT THERE AT EVERY STAGE OF DATING
❤️ Learn exactly how to apply your core values to every part of dating - Add it to your dating profile so that it is as unique and compelling as you are
❤️ Use core values in text messages to tell great stories and inspire interesting conversations
❤️ Use core values to ask questions that qualify if a man is right for you
❤️ Use core values at social events and in person interactions to effortlessly attract people in the room who match you
❤️ Learn how to express your core values with confidence and clarity at every stage of the dating process
Get Your Core Values Dating Blueprint Now

148. Empowering Yourself to Create Love
Dating After Divorce
12/02/22 • 14 min
“When you think it's not going to work, you feel sad, you feel bad...that creates apathy, and a loss of motivation.”
“You can learn how to shift your thinking because your brain is just a self fulfilling prophecy machine.”
“You could choose to believe that you deserve an amazing love.”
“Discouragement is just a lie that your brain is telling you to trick you into staying in the comfort zone to trick you into not doing anything unfamiliar, anything scary, anything risky.”
“Empowerment is also available, you could redirect your brain to choose thoughts that empower you, that get you on board with actively creating the result of an amazing, extraordinary, nourishing, loving, new relationship after your divorce.”
In this episode, I share a small snippet from a coaching session that I had with a client this week that really encapsulated what I see many people go through when they're dating. And that’s when you are recycling thoughts that create discouragement and disappointment when you're dating.
Join me as I talk about how you can empower yourself to create love.
Discover Your "Core Values Dating Blueprint" And How You Can Use It On:
- Dating Apps
- Text Messages
- and Social Events To Meet & Attract Eligible Men Who Match You
Dating with your Core Values helps you Easily Connect With Your True Match Partner (without chasing, settling, or wasting time with non-committal men)
Click Here to Sign Up
The Core Values Dating Blueprint Helps you:
DISCOVER YOUR CORE VALUES
❤️ Take the core values test and discover your core values
❤️ Explore the parts of your mission, life story, beliefs and lifestyle that are most important to your relationship
❤️ Create a relationship vision that clearly aligns with your core values so that you know the type of partner that would be right for you
❤️ Identify the critical attributes of your partner that will make him a fit for your values and relationship vision
❤️ Easily weed out the men aren't a fit and recognize the man who is
CREATE YOUR CORE VALUES BLUEPRINT
❤️ Get the exact framework for crafting your core values dating blueprint that shows you what to say and how to date to meet the partner who’s right for you
❤️ Learn the 5 steps to translating your core values into a written blueprint that guides your dating decisions
PUT YOUR BEST SELF OUT THERE AT EVERY STAGE OF DATING
❤️ Learn exactly how to apply your core values to every part of dating - Add it to your dating profile so that it is as unique and compelling as you are
❤️ Use core values in text messages to tell great stories and inspire interesting conversations
❤️ Use core values to ask questions that qualify if a man is right for you
❤️ Use core values at social events and in person interactions to effortlessly attract people in the room who match you
❤️ Learn how to express your core values with confidence and clarity at every stage of the dating process
Get Your Core Values Dating Blueprint Now

147. Your Dating Mindset Is Critical
Dating After Divorce
11/30/22 • 17 min
“You can read all the books and you can have the step by step and you can know exactly what to do, but if your mindset is working against you like there's really nothing that's going to happen, the journey will be painful and you'll probably give up along the way.”
“ And if you let the things that happen along the way determine what you believe is possible for you, you're going to create that.”
“What you never want to do is interpret any situation when you are dating as meaning that you are less than worthy, that you are less than capable, that there's something wrong with you.”
“You want to create love from a place of loving the path to love.”
Today, I talk about how critical it is for you to be very aware of your dating mindset, understanding the role that your mindset plays in your dating journey.
Discover Your "Core Values Dating Blueprint" And How You Can Use It On:
- Dating Apps
- Text Messages
- and Social Events To Meet & Attract Eligible Men Who Match You
Dating with your Core Values helps you Easily Connect With Your True Match Partner (without chasing, settling, or wasting time with non-committal men)
Click Here to Sign Up
The Core Values Dating Blueprint Helps you:
DISCOVER YOUR CORE VALUES
❤️ Take the core values test and discover your core values
❤️ Explore the parts of your mission, life story, beliefs and lifestyle that are most important to your relationship
❤️ Create a relationship vision that clearly aligns with your core values so that you know the type of partner that would be right for you
❤️ Identify the critical attributes of your partner that will make him a fit for your values and relationship vision
❤️ Easily weed out the men aren't a fit and recognize the man who is
CREATE YOUR CORE VALUES BLUEPRINT
❤️ Get the exact framework for crafting your core values dating blueprint that shows you what to say and how to date to meet the partner who’s right for you
❤️ Learn the 5 steps to translating your core values into a written blueprint that guides your dating decisions
PUT YOUR BEST SELF OUT THERE AT EVERY STAGE OF DATING
❤️ Learn exactly how to apply your core values to every part of dating - Add it to your dating profile so that it is as unique and compelling as you are
❤️ Use core values in text messages to tell great stories and inspire interesting conversations
❤️ Use core values to ask questions that qualify if a man is right for you
❤️ Use core values at social events and in person interactions to effortlessly attract people in the room who match you
❤️ Learn how to express your core values with confidence and clarity at every stage of the dating process
Get Your Core Values Dating Blueprint Now

144. Why Dating Feels Terrible and What You Can Do About It
Dating After Divorce
11/21/22 • 69 min
“Romantic love is still tainted by internalized sexist narratives and biases, and they continue to be expressed in society and continue to be reinforced.”
“I think it's almost safe to say that all of us in some way, have internalized these sexist biases, because they're just in the air that we breathe.”
“The historical narrative is that a woman's value lies in her usefulness to other people.”
“Now, the internal bias that we start to internalize is that when we're single, that means there's something wrong with us.”
“Today, women continue to be portrayed as sexual objects in movies and music and entertainment, in the cultural language.”
Today, I have a special pre-recorded episode for you. It is my final project presentation for my advanced coaching certification in feminist coaching. I took the certification program so that I could understand deeper if there were cultural factors that were impacting my clients and yes, there were. In this presentation, I identified eight thinking patterns that are culturally accepted, but that can create a lot of pain in the dating journey. I titled this presentation, “Why Dating Feels Terrible and What You Can Do About It.”
Discover Your "Core Values Dating Blueprint" And How You Can Use It On:
- Dating Apps
- Text Messages
- and Social Events To Meet & Attract Eligible Men Who Match You
Dating with your Core Values helps you Easily Connect With Your True Match Partner (without chasing, settling, or wasting time with non-committal men)
Click Here to Sign Up
The Core Values Dating Blueprint Helps you:
DISCOVER YOUR CORE VALUES
❤️ Take the core values test and discover your core values
❤️ Explore the parts of your mission, life story, beliefs and lifestyle that are most important to your relationship
❤️ Create a relationship vision that clearly aligns with your core values so that you know the type of partner that would be right for you
❤️ Identify the critical attributes of your partner that will make him a fit for your values and relationship vision
❤️ Easily weed out the men aren't a fit and recognize the man who is
CREATE YOUR CORE VALUES BLUEPRINT
❤️ Get the exact framework for crafting your core values dating blueprint that shows you what to say and how to date to meet the partner who’s right for you
❤️ Learn the 5 steps to translating your core values into a written blueprint that guides your dating decisions
PUT YOUR BEST SELF OUT THERE AT EVERY STAGE OF DATING
❤️ Learn exactly how to apply your core values to every part of dating - Add it to your dating profile so that it is as unique and compelling as you are
❤️ Use core values in text messages to tell great stories and inspire interesting conversations
❤️ Use core values to ask questions that qualify if a man is right for you
❤️ Use core values at social events and in person interactions to effortlessly attract people in the room who match you
❤️ Learn how to express your core values with confidence and clarity at every stage of the dating process
Get Your Core Values Dating Blueprint Now

140. Healing Relationship Trauma with Sarah Yost
Dating After Divorce
10/19/22 • 52 min
“I knew that my thoughts were creating my reality, I knew that my thoughts were creating my feelings.”
“When somebody withdraws and you have a lack of regulation or oxytocin, then they give it back to you and you feel a flooding...The big feelings you have after they took it from you. That's not love. That's not attraction. And that's not passion. That's addiction.”
“The thing that I found with my current partner is we're incredibly well suited to each other. And what that means is, we don't have to work very hard to be in a relationship with each other, which is really nice.“
Featured on the Show: Sarah Yost.
Sarah Yost is a Master Certified Life Coach specializing in anxiety freedom. She developed a technique called Emotional Reprocessing to rewire your experience of stressful events, both today and from your past. She is especially interested in the healing of feeling trapped and abandonment. Both of these core fears will stop you from enjoying dating and being able to create a true partnership.
She is happily divorced, the survivor of an emotionally abusive relationship, and a mother of 3. She is currently in an amazing but unconventional partnership of 4 years. She believes your desires are bright compasses to your destiny. If you desire it, you have what it takes to create it, no matter how weird or unreasonable it is.
Discover Your "Core Values Dating Blueprint" And How You Can Use It On:
- Dating Apps
- Text Messages
- and Social Events To Meet & Attract Eligible Men Who Match You
Dating with your Core Values helps you Easily Connect With Your True Match Partner (without chasing, settling, or wasting time with non-committal men)
Click Here to Sign Up
The Core Values Dating Blueprint Helps you:
DISCOVER YOUR CORE VALUES
❤️ Take the core values test and discover your core values
❤️ Explore the parts of your mission, life story, beliefs and lifestyle that are most important to your relationship
❤️ Create a relationship vision that clearly aligns with your core values so that you know the type of partner that would be right for you
❤️ Identify the critical attributes of your partner that will make him a fit for your values and relationship vision
❤️ Easily weed out the men aren't a fit and recognize the man who is
CREATE YOUR CORE VALUES BLUEPRINT
❤️ Get the exact framework for crafting your core values dating blueprint that shows you what to say and how to date to meet the partner who’s right for you
❤️ Learn the 5 steps to translating your core values into a written blueprint that guides your dating decisions
PUT YOUR BEST SELF OUT THERE AT EVERY STAGE OF DATING
❤️ Learn exactly how to apply your core values to every part of dating - Add it to your dating profile so that it is as unique and compelling as you are
❤️ Use core values in text messages to tell great stories and inspire interesting conversations
❤️ Use core values to ask questions that qualify if a man is right for you
Get Your Core Values Dating Blueprint Now

138. Dating after Divorce with Michelle Vasquez
Dating After Divorce
10/05/22 • 45 min
“I became such a full time mom and homemaker that I had forgotten my favorite food or color."
"When women don't realize how much they lose themselves, when they start putting their marriage, their kids, their home first...they really let go of their identity.”
“I think the biggest mistake that I made and that I see a lot of women that come to me make, is they think that once we clear this up, that's it, you know, and we're done. And I think if we can be more loving and compassionate with ourselves we’ll realize that this is a daily work.”
“You know, if we can encourage women to stop judging themselves, stop taking the blame. You could have been the most horrible wife. But guess what? Amazing wives also get divorce.”
Featured on the Show: Michelle Vasquez.
Michelle Vasquez is a Goal & Life Coach for divorced women. She works with her clients to set goals & the clear path to overcome obstacles and ensure that they achieve their goals.
When her marriage of 11 years ended, and she had three boys under the ages of eight to raise, she felt like her whole life crumbled right in front of her and she couldn't do anything to keep it together, change it, or go back to how things were. Fast forward 11 years, she got remarried to a wonderful man and has been remarried for seven years.
From all the struggles and victories, Michelle believes that the fact that she and her ex-husband have always been able to have a great co-parenting relationship has been the biggest victory.
Discover Your "Core Values Dating Blueprint" And How You Can Use It On:
- Dating Apps
- Text Messages
- and Social Events To Meet & Attract Eligible Men Who Match You
Dating with your Core Values helps you Easily Connect With Your True Match Partner (without chasing, settling, or wasting time with non-committal men)
Click Here to Sign Up
The Core Values Dating Blueprint Helps you:
DISCOVER YOUR CORE VALUES
❤️ Take the core values test and discover your core values
❤️ Explore the parts of your mission, life story, beliefs and lifestyle that are most important to your relationship
❤️ Create a relationship vision that clearly aligns with your core values so that you know the type of partner that would be right for you
CREATE YOUR CORE VALUES BLUEPRINT
❤️ Get the exact framework for crafting your core values dating blueprint that shows you what to say and how to date to meet the partner who’s right for you
❤️ Learn the 5 steps to translating your core values into a written blueprint that guides your dating decisions
PUT YOUR BEST SELF OUT THERE AT EVERY STAGE OF DATING
❤️ Learn exactly how to apply your core values to every part of dating - Add it to your dating profile so that it is as unique and compelling as you are
❤️ Use core values in text messages to tell great stories and inspire interesting conversations
❤️ Use core values to ask questions that qualify if a man is right for you
Get Your Core Values Dating Blueprint Now

39. On Being Pursued
Dating After Divorce
11/03/21 • 16 min
Have you ever worried about "being pursued" enough? Or whether or not you're breaking the "dating rules?"
In this episode, Sade discusses how the rules keep you from having the clarity required to properly see the person in front of you and how that hurts your dating journey.
Discover Your "Core Values Dating Blueprint" And How You Can Use It On:
- Dating Apps
- Text Messages
- and Social Events To Meet & Attract Eligible Men Who Match You
Dating with your Core Values helps you Easily Connect With Your True Match Partner (without chasing, settling, or wasting time with non-committal men)
Click Here to Sign Up
The Core Values Dating Blueprint Helps you:
DISCOVER YOUR CORE VALUES
❤️ Take the core values test and discover your core values
❤️ Explore the parts of your mission, life story, beliefs and lifestyle that are most important to your relationship
❤️ Create a relationship vision that clearly aligns with your core values so that you know the type of partner that would be right for you
❤️ Identify the critical attributes of your partner that will make him a fit for your values and relationship vision
❤️ Easily weed out the men aren't a fit and recognize the man who is
CREATE YOUR CORE VALUES BLUEPRINT
❤️ Get the exact framework for crafting your core values dating blueprint that shows you what to say and how to date to meet the partner who’s right for you
❤️ Learn the 5 steps to translating your core values into a written blueprint that guides your dating decisions
PUT YOUR BEST SELF OUT THERE AT EVERY STAGE OF DATING
❤️ Learn exactly how to apply your core values to every part of dating - Add it to your dating profile so that it is as unique and compelling as you are
❤️ Use core values in text messages to tell great stories and inspire interesting conversations
❤️ Use core values to ask questions that qualify if a man is right for you
❤️ Use core values at social events and in person interactions to effortlessly attract people in the room who match you
❤️ Learn how to express your core values with confidence and clarity at every stage of the dating process
Get Your Core Values Dating Blueprint Now
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How many episodes does Dating After Divorce have?
Dating After Divorce currently has 182 episodes available.
What topics does Dating After Divorce cover?
The podcast is about Society & Culture, Dating, Divorce, Podcasts, Marriage, Codependency, Self-Improvement, Education and Relationships.
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The episode title '152. From Messy to Married with Kimberly Jarman' is the most popular.
What is the average episode length on Dating After Divorce?
The average episode length on Dating After Divorce is 39 minutes.
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Episodes of Dating After Divorce are typically released every 7 days.
When was the first episode of Dating After Divorce?
The first episode of Dating After Divorce was released on Jan 13, 2021.
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