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Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick | Dating & Relationship Podcast hosts

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Is monogamy dead? Are we expecting too much of Tinder? Do we even want to find love anymore? Get all the answers and more with Dateable, your insider’s look into modern dating that the HuffPost and the New York Times calls one of the ‘Top 10 podcasts about love and sex’. Listen in as Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick dig into why we date the way we do as they talk with real daters and experts about everything from sex parties to sex droughts, date fails to diaper fetishes, and first moves to first loves. Whether you’re looking to DTR or DTF, you’ll have moments of “OMG-that-also-happened-to-me” to “I-never-thought-of-it-that-way-before.”

Tune in every Wednesday to challenge the way you date in this crazy Dateable world.

Follow us @dateablepodcast on IG and join the private 'Love in the time of Corona' Facebook groupCheck out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise.

Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts

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S14E11: Performance Anxiety (In the Bedroom)

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05/04/22 • 61 min

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Sex can be so enjoyable yet so stressful at the same time....especially when you're dating someone new. We're chatting with Dean about recovering from erectile dysfunction and what that meant for his sex life. We discuss our societies views on sex and the expectations of men, why not being able to get it up rarely has to do with the partner, and how to get through sexual dysfunctions with your partners.

Want to learn more about how Dean navigated ED through therapy and other mental/psychological approaches? Feel free to reach out to him at deantalksaboutED@gmail.com

Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard

Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphoto

Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts


Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations
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BONUS: Julie Interviews Yue

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01/19/22 • 56 min

We're doing something fun! Julie's interviewing Yue to hear how's she's navigated her love life from the time she was dating to now being 3 years into a committed relationship. We talk about it all: turning 40, her love/hate relationship with dating coaching, dating as Asian American woman, dealing with the societal pressure to get married, co-habitating between 2 cities, and playing the long game by dating her partner after knowing him for 7 years before.

Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard

Thank you to our partners for this episode:

The Happy Brain Podcast: Go check out this podcast all about mental health with Heather Parady wherever you get your podcasts

BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month of online therapy at betterhelp.com/dateable with the code DATEABLE

Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphoto

Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts


Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations
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BONUS: Your 2022 Dating Predictions

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01/12/22 • 40 min

From hesidating to comvaxability, we're talking about what to look out for in 2022 as we date in the time of Omicron. We're digging into our top predictions as we discuss everything from filters on dating apps, the speed to DTR, and how pandemic life continues to impact couple milestones.

Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard

Thank you to our partners for this episode:

The Happy Brain Podcast: Go check out this podcast all about mental health with Heather Parady wherever you get your podcasts

Prose: Take your FREE in-depth hair consultation and get 15% off your first order at prose.com/dateable

Kensington Books: Kensington’s newest title THE SPANISH DAUGHTER by Lorena Hughes. You can find THE SPANISH DAUGHTER wherever books are sold or visit kensingtonbooks.com

Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphoto

Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts


Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations
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Season 10 Episode 19: What's your [personality] type?

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06/17/20 • 62 min

Whether you're an ISFJ, ENFP, INTP, or whatever it may be, we're here with Frank James to share how your personality type impacts the way you date. We discuss the blind spots that each type has while dating, how we can better understand each other to resolve conflicts/ misunderstandings in relationships, and if any two types are most compatible (or incompatible).

Check out Frank'sYoutube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxc0c4cOfFmSUnzX9uY7Jww

Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise.

Thank you to our partner for this episode:

This episode is brought to you by Kensington’s newest title from Alexandra Ivy, INTENDED VICTIM. You can find INTENDED VICTIM wherever books are sold. Find out more at kensingtonbooks.com

Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphoto

Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts


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Season 10 Episode 16: Relationship. Are you sure you want one?

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05/27/20 • 70 min

Of course you want a relationship...but do you..do you? We unpack if we really need relationships with Simone and Brendon, who created their own great relationship, only to un-create it 8-years later. We discuss why relationships are a choice, how to live a full-life whether you're in a relationship or not, and what's really important if you do choose to be with someone.

Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise.

Thank you to our partner for this episode:

Best Fiends Puzzle Game: Be the HERO of the story with this 5-star rated FREE puzzle adventure. Download for free on the app store or google play

BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month of online therapy at betterhelp.com/dateable with the code DATEABLE.

Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphoto

Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts


Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations
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Season 10 Episode 15: He said YES!

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05/20/20 • 67 min

Why are we still waiting for the man to propose in 2020? Join us as we chat with Lauren about how she proposed to her now fiancé and took control of her love life. We discuss decoupling what traditions matter to you, how to continue to break down gender barriers, and the future of weddings with COVID-19

Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise.

Thank you to our partner for this episode:

BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month of online therapy at betterhelp.com/dateable with the code DATEABLE.

Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphoto

Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts


Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations
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Season 10 Episode 17: Racism in Dating

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06/03/20 • 70 min

With the death of George Floyd and the nation-wide protests for black lives matter this week, it's time we really pay attention to how racism plays into everyday life – including dating. We compiled a few of our past episodes about the struggles of dating as black men and women in modern times. Really listen as we talk with Yelitsa, Sofaya, and Chris about how they navigate racist comments on dating apps, the extra hardships that come with dating as a person of color, and how best to openly discuss sexual racism to help put an end to this behavior.

For the full episodes:

S7E7: Dating as a Black Woman: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/season-7-episode-7-dating-as-a-black-woman/id1084105171?i=1000418697968

S8E13: Sexual Racism: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/season-8-episode-13-sexual-racism/id1084105171?i=1000438130527

Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise.

A big thanks to Do the Bay for these resources to help during this time:

Consider donating to the following impactful causes:

Black Lives Matter

Minnesota Freedom Fund

Nationwide Bail Fund

American Civil Liberties Union (ACLU)

The Marshall Project - nonprofit criminal justice journal

Center For Racial Justice

Campaign Zero - policy solutions to end police violence

Protesting? Here’s a guide to staying safe.

Not comfortable protesting? Here are other impactful ways to help.

Here are some excellent resources for further education:

What is Systematic Racism? - an easy-to-understand video series

History of Racist US Laws and their effects throughout American history

The Case for Reparations

The Road Not Taken - Housing and Criminal Justice 50 Years After the Kerner Commission Report

Social Exclusion: The Decisions and Dynamics that Drive Racism

Lynching in America: Confronting the Legacy of Racial Terror

How To Stop Police Violence - excellent Twitter thread

Educational Resources via Bla...

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Season 10 Episode 13: Zumping

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05/06/20 • 59 min

You guessed it: there’s a new quarantine dating term. Listen in as we talk to Julia, who put zumping on the map through her viral tweet after being dumped via zoom. We discuss how zumping is way better than being ghosted, if this trend could continue post-quarantine, and why the term sounds so negative despite being a respectful option right now.

Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise.

Thank you to our partner for this episode:

BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month of online therapy at betterhelp.com/dateable with the code DATEABLE.

Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphoto

Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts


Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations
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Season 10 Episode 12: Love is not enough w/ Mark Manson

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04/29/20 • 63 min

Love is all you need...or is it? This week we talk to best-selling author and blogger Mark Manson about why love is not enough to make relationships work. We discuss the reasons we settle for less than situations, why it's time to ditch the fantasy, and how we can take more ownership over our love lives. Warning: F-bombs are gonna be dropped!

Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise.

Follow Mark @markmanson and get his new Audible original 'Love is not Enough' . Learn more at https://markmanson.net/

Best Fiends Puzzle Game: Be the HERO of the story with this 5-star rated FREE puzzle adventure. Download for free on the app store or google play

Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphoto

Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts


Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations
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Season 10 Episode 14: The Art of Virtual Sex

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05/13/20 • 66 min

From sex parties to steamy video chats, it's getting hot in here this quarantine! Listen as we chat with Mischa Byruck about the art of phone sex and what goes down at a virtual sex party. We discuss honing in on your sensual voice, why virtual methods can be so erotic, and how to ease into virtual sex.

Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise.

Check out Mischa Byruck at https://www.evolve.men/

Thank you to our partners for this episode:

Best Fiends Puzzle Game: Be the HERO of the story with this 5-star rated FREE puzzle adventure. Download for free on the app store or google play

Generation Tux: Get 10% off the entire groom’s party at generationtux.com/dateable with the code DATEABLE

Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphoto

Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts


Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations
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Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating currently has 399 episodes available.

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The podcast is about Society & Culture, Podcasts, Social Sciences, Science and Relationships.

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The episode title 'S14E11: Performance Anxiety (In the Bedroom)' is the most popular.

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The average episode length on Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating is 51 minutes.

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Episodes of Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating are typically released every 7 days.

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The first episode of Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating was released on Feb 4, 2016.

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