
Inspiring Women to Choose Life with Emily Berning
02/07/23 • 42 min
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Summary - What Will it Take For Women to Choose Life with Emily Berning
What would it look like for us to take seriously the reasons women give for getting abortions? Some of the loudest prolifers believe that considering reasons why women get abortions will somehow give credence to the pro-choice cause, and thus the legality of abortion. Some of the loudest prochoicers believe women aren’t exercising their agency if they aren’t choosing abortion.
There are numerous unintended consequences for this, not the least of which is the overwhelming sense that the abortion debate is entirely intractable. But what if we decided to listen? What if women seeking abortion were behaving rationally?
What if they don’t see abortion as an exercise of free choice, but of no other choice? What if political pundits and fringe extremists do not speak for women with unplanned pregnancies?
What if by listening we Let Them Live?
Join me, Kerry Baldwin with Emily Berning, as we Dare to Think about what it will take for women to choose life.
https://mereliberty.com/about/kerry-baldwin/
https://mereliberty.com/podcasts/
Main Points of Discussion
00:00 Introduction
01:25 About Emily Berning
07:07 How does the mission of Let Them Live help women to choose life?
09:07 What is the cost of motherhood?
11:17 Do women want to choose abortion? How the economy is negatively impacting the decision to choose life
13:34 How does the overturn of Roe v Wade impact how we help women with unplanned pregnancies? https://mereliberty.com/philosophy/life-vs-personhood/
17:15 How does politics get in the way of helping women?
20:43 The negative stigma associate with single motherhood
21:54 Pushback from Christian apologists who believe financial help is tantamount to bribery
24:22 Why is Let Them Live something both sides can support?
26:52 How is Let Them Live different from other pro-life organizations?
30:08 What is the process Let Them Live actually uses to support women in need?
33:33 Responding to requests for help on social media
34:55 What are the monthly financial goal and how do donors keep track of use of donations
38:37 Closing remarks
Resources Mentioned
Let Them Live https://letthemlive.org/ Mere Liberty Monthly Membership https://mereliberty.com/membership/monthly/ Kerry Baldwin's work on abortion https://mereliberty.com/abortion
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Summary - What Will it Take For Women to Choose Life with Emily Berning
What would it look like for us to take seriously the reasons women give for getting abortions? Some of the loudest prolifers believe that considering reasons why women get abortions will somehow give credence to the pro-choice cause, and thus the legality of abortion. Some of the loudest prochoicers believe women aren’t exercising their agency if they aren’t choosing abortion.
There are numerous unintended consequences for this, not the least of which is the overwhelming sense that the abortion debate is entirely intractable. But what if we decided to listen? What if women seeking abortion were behaving rationally?
What if they don’t see abortion as an exercise of free choice, but of no other choice? What if political pundits and fringe extremists do not speak for women with unplanned pregnancies?
What if by listening we Let Them Live?
Join me, Kerry Baldwin with Emily Berning, as we Dare to Think about what it will take for women to choose life.
https://mereliberty.com/about/kerry-baldwin/
https://mereliberty.com/podcasts/
Main Points of Discussion
00:00 Introduction
01:25 About Emily Berning
07:07 How does the mission of Let Them Live help women to choose life?
09:07 What is the cost of motherhood?
11:17 Do women want to choose abortion? How the economy is negatively impacting the decision to choose life
13:34 How does the overturn of Roe v Wade impact how we help women with unplanned pregnancies? https://mereliberty.com/philosophy/life-vs-personhood/
17:15 How does politics get in the way of helping women?
20:43 The negative stigma associate with single motherhood
21:54 Pushback from Christian apologists who believe financial help is tantamount to bribery
24:22 Why is Let Them Live something both sides can support?
26:52 How is Let Them Live different from other pro-life organizations?
30:08 What is the process Let Them Live actually uses to support women in need?
33:33 Responding to requests for help on social media
34:55 What are the monthly financial goal and how do donors keep track of use of donations
38:37 Closing remarks
Resources Mentioned
Let Them Live https://letthemlive.org/ Mere Liberty Monthly Membership https://mereliberty.com/membership/monthly/ Kerry Baldwin's work on abortion https://mereliberty.com/abortion
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Decriminalizing Sex: Where Prostitution Meets Purity Culture
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Summary - Decriminalizing Sex: Where Prostitution Meets Purity CultureAn odd twist in my research on a libertarian theory of reproductive rights (and abortion), I've had to dive into how the criminal justice system treats the crime of rape. In doing so, I've been led to what might appear to be very strange. The parallels between the culture surrounding illicit sex work and evangelical purity culture. I cannot say where any causal relations lay between the two, only that they appear to be, strikingly, correlated. And correlated in such a way that Christians in particular must pay attention and take heed.
In this episode, I seek to break down the legal concerns regarding sex work and prostitution, and the connections to human trafficking. The connection to human trafficking is difficult given the prevalence and nature of trauma. I wrote a review of Dr. Gabor Mate's work on trauma in a documentary called, The Wisdom of Trauma. One aspect he addresses are the reasons why women will prostitute themselves and it seems to stem exclusively from trauma. But, when it comes to dealing with traumatized people, there is a principled disagreement about how to deal with sex workers with trauma: use the legal violence of the state to rescue women, penalize women, or only in response to violence done against them.
But there might be another way to deal with trauma, trafficking, and voluntarily choosing to prostitute oneself. And that lays in education concerning sex and intimate relationships. I've found a strong correlation between the views of men and women by "Johns" and "primps" and the view of men and women in evangelical purity culture. Have evangelicals unwittingly set the stage for sex trafficking and prostitution? I think there's good reason to believe that American evangelicalism contributed to the problems some evangelicals are trying to now fix, regarding sexual violence.
The popular view by Christian anti-human trafficking organizations is to embrace the Nordic model - make the men behave! Use the threat of legal violence to make bad men behave better. But does this work? I also explain why the nature of economics will not allow for legal violence to "deter" bad behavior. And why this necessitates decriminalizing sex work if we're going to improve societal and legal views concerning women and sex.
DISCLAIMER: While this episode is aimed at supporting decriminalizing sex work, it is not an endorsement of sex work as morally legitimate. I hold and maintain a Christian sexual ethic (sex is designed by God only for heterosexual marriage relationships), though I believe evangelical "purity culture" is an unbiblical, anti-Christian view.
Main Points of Discussion00:00 Introduction
Ep. 292: Decriminalizing Prostitution: Can Christians Support it?
01:45 Definitions: 'sex work', 'prohibition', 'prostitution', trafficking'
04:04 Why is it important to understand these distinctions
05:46 Difference between 'decriminalization' and 'legalization'
07:58 Explanation of legalization; Nevada vs Rhode Island
09:08 The feminist argument against decriminalization (Nordic model)
09:55 Clip from Julie Bindell's opening statement at the Soho Forum
13:43 "The bleakest view of masculinity"
14:50 Do we know how many sex workers are trafficking vs voluntarily participating?
16:24 Clip from "Sold in America" - a "John's" view of women in purchasing sex
17:41 Evangelical Purity Culture Detour
18:09 Does 'rape culture' exist?
19:28 Nancy Pearcy: how "nominal" evangelical men skew divorce and domestic violence data in the church
23:01 What does evangelical purity culture have to do with decriminalizing prostitution?
27:08 What the so-called "experts" told evangelical women about how to have a good Christian marriage
27:33 Quotes cited by Shelia Wray Gregorie's, The Great Sex Rescue
31:55 Ontological distinctions between men and women don't require a predator/prey relationship
33:39 Connecting the stigma of sex in purity culture to the stigma found in legal prohibition of prostitution
34:21 Legal denial of basic human rights - No Humans Involved
36:22 The unjust handling of sexual violence by our criminal justice system
40% of police officers perpetrate domestic violence in their own homes.
37:41 Are victims of rape stigmatized because of prostitution, or is prostitution stigmatized because of certain views about women, already discussed? (Connection to spiritual manipulation of religious values)
41:57 The perpetual victim status of women - propagated by feminists and patriarchalists
43:17 How do we change society to value women and children, abhor the ev...
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Exploring Foster Adoption with Doc Dixon
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Summary – Exploring Foster Adoption with Dox Dixon
There are many avenues of adoption and are mostly associated with adopting unwanted unborn babies. But what about foster adoption of already born children? What is the process of foster adoption like, what considerations should prospective adoptive parents consider? And what are some myths about it?
Join me, Kerry Baldwin with Doc Dixon, as we Dare to Think about what it will take for women to choose life.
Featured Guest Bio | Doc Dixon
Doc Dixon. I’m a magician, comedian & speaker. From corporate events, trade shows, to resorts in Cancun & private events — even 2 shows at The White House, appearing on The Late Late Show with James Corden and FOOLING magic legends Penn & Teller on Penn & Teller:Fool Us — I bring a special mix of amazement and hilarity that makes events successful. I’m humbled to say, that’s not just my opinion, but the opinion of my clients for the past 30 years from here in my home near Atlanta, Georgia to across the country.
Main Points of Discussion
00:00 Introduction
01:24 About Doc Dixon and how he became a Reformed libertarian
07:09 The experience and process of being an adoptive family
16:58 The struggles of foster adoption
24:42 Why adoptive parents shouldn’t be viewed as heroes
32:55 Closing thoughts
Resources Mentioned
https://docdixon.com/ Doc Dixon on Mike Huckabee https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kv_uhEI1V8I
Doc Dixon on Penn and Teller: Fool Us https://youtu.be/YaDnY5q_mxg
Mere Liberty Monthly Membership https://mereliberty.com/membership/monthly/
Kerry Baldwin’s work on abortion https://mereliberty.com/abortion
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