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Dad the Man

Dad the Man

Brendan Wall

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Do you have the skills you need to love and lead your family from the front? My name is Brendan Wall. I am a father of four and married to my best friend. I started this podcast not because I have all the answers, but because I am in search of them. We have one opportunity to be the best men, husbands, and fathers that we can be, and I plan to seize it. At DAD THE MAN we interview guys we all know and admire professionally, but more importantly, are setting the tone for what a great man, husband, and father looks like. Guys who seize the opportunity before them to love and lead their families from the front, from a place of opportunity not obligation. This is Dad the Man. This is who we all aspire to become. Every single week, you can expect to hear from household names like JORDAN SPIETH, TIM KENNEDY, ERIC DECKER, SEAN LOWE, STIPE MIOCIC, DAVID MELTZER, DR MICHAEL GERVAIS, STAN EFFERDING, MARK BELL, DREW MANNING, DR JOSH AXE, DR JOHN DELONY, ROBB WOLF, JASON KHALIPA, TODD ABRAMS, LEW CARALLA, BERT SORIN, JOHN ELDREDGE, HEATH EVANS, DANIEL CARLSON, YOGI ROTH, PETER BURNS, CARLOS REYES, and many more represent what DAD THE MAN stands for. As men, husbands, and fathers, we experience and struggle with so many of the same things, and it's time we recognize that we are all in this together. If you are looking for more purpose, passion, connection, success, and camaraderie in your life, then you are in the right place. Welcome to DAD THE MAN
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A MASTERCLASS in POSITIVE FAMILY LEADERSHIP w/ JON GORDON

As men we are called to lead - lead ourselves, lead our businesses, and most importantly, lead our families. Doing so in a positive, uplifting manner in which your wife and kids are nurtured, inspired, and driven to become all that God created them to be.. now that is no small tall task. Jon Gordon is today’s guest, and he’s going to tell us exactly how to do this. This is a MASTERCLASS in POSITIVE FAMILY LEADERSHIP.

Jon Gordon is a husband, father, and author. His best-selling books and talks have inspired millions of readers and audiences around the world. He is the author of The timeless classic The Energy Bus, The Carpenter, Training Camp, The Power of Positive Leadership, The Power of a Positive Team, and his latest The One Truth. When he’s not running through airports or speaking to businesses, hospitals or schools, you can find him playing pickleball and taking long walks which are when he gets most of his ideas. Jon believes in keeping his bio short because his past accomplishments are meaningless. What matters most is that he says something today that will inspire you to take action tomorrow.

DISCUSSION TOPICS

  • Why leadership is so important for dads
  • What do you want your kids to say about you?
  • How to actually be a great dad
  • Jon lost his job and was given an ultimatum by his wife
  • Gratitude walks - you can’t be stressed and thankful at the same time
  • Daily success journal
  • The most important thing Jon has ever done with his family - family meetings
  • Family culture
  • AMAZING TIP for dads who feel guilty leaving their family to go to work
  • Focus on the root not the fruit
  • What it looks like to SERVE YOUR FAMILY
  • “The more I love my wife the more I love my wife”
  • Earning your wife’s trust back
  • “I don’t want to be a household name I want to be a big name in my household”
  • Selflessness - overriding our selfish nature
  • Choosing a word of the year
  • Delayed gratification in parenting
  • The power of positive parenting
  • OUTSTANDING advice from Trent Dilfer - "Dad Hat" or "Coach Hat"
  • A masterclass for parents in youth sports
  • “I don’t want my kids to be who I want them to be. I want them to be everything that God created them to be”
  • Call them up to greatness don’t call them out
  • How to find out what your kids actually want and need
  • God doesn’t have grandkids
  • THE ONE TRUTH

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SPECIAL THANK YOU TO OUR SHOW SPONSOR - FULLER! (Use code "dadtheman" at checkout for an additional 10% off your purchase!"

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What If I Told You Everything Was Going to be Okay, Dad?

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Scott is a Crossfit games veteran who has competed in every year since 2012 and finished within the Top 10 all but twice and also finished in 4th, three different years. In the world of Crossfit Scott is a machine. A testament to the word consistency, he's a truly seasoned veteran who poured his all into the sport of fitness before retiring after the 2021 Crossfit Games. Panchik was awarded the Spirit of the Games award in 2021, which is awarded to one athlete each year who embody CrossFit's values during the most difficult of competitions those who exhibit the character, commitment, and camaraderie the sport seeks to cultivate in its training and competitions. Even though he's retired, he continues to pour his heart and soul into Crossfit and runs his affiliate gym called Crossfit Mentality. Towards the end of our conversation, Scott tells the story of how he came to faith, how he overcame his insecurities and intimidation of not knowing the Bible like he thought he should. It was such a vulnerable expression that I certainly can relate to. Hearing his testimony certainly helped me, and I hope it helps you as well. Scott is full of energy and known for wearing an ear to ear smile most of the time. He is such a fun dude, and I really enjoyed our conversation. He's an incredible man, husband, and father and it was an honor to host him on the show.

DISCUSSION POINTS

  • Scott reflects on his childhood
  • He wasn't supposed to make it as a baby - he was very premature
  • The journey as a walk on college football player
  • Scott tells the story about how he met his wife
  • From reconstructive knee surgeries to teaching high school to the Crossfit games
  • Quitting his job as a teacher/coach to open his Crossfit gym
  • Passion - finding what fulfills you
  • The price of pursuing your dreams
  • How to make significant, long-term growth in your life
  • Scott reflects on his baby daughter
  • Best parenting advice from Scott
  • Scott's testimony in coming to faith
  • Scott's last ride at the Crossfit Games with a new perspective

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  • IG: @scottpanchik

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Dr. Michael Gervais is a high performance psychologist working in the trenches of high-stakes environments with some of the best in the world, training the mindset skills and practices essential to pursuing and revealing one’s potential. He played a pivotal role in the Seattle Seahawks 2014 Super Bowl victory. His clients include world record holders, Olympians, internationally acclaimed artists and musicians, MVPs from every major sport, and Fortune 100 CEOs. A published, peer-reviewed author and recognized speaker on optimal human performance, Dr. Gervais has been featured by NBC, ABC, FOX, CNN, ESPN, NFL Network, Red Bull TV, The Wall Street Journal, New York Times, Outside Magazine, WIRED, ESPN Magazine, and many others. He is the host of the Finding Mastery podcast, which is a staple show for me personally. Every once in a while you meet somebody who is just different. They vibrate at a higher level, and you know it right away right when you meet them, that they have a special gift. Michael is one of those guys. After digging into Michael's work I was so excited for this conversation, and I was blown away in speaking to him. He is the real deal. He is as advertised. He's brilliant and thoughtful with an amazing gift of deducing his life's work into simple, actionable steps for anyone to understand and implement. Above it all, He's an incredible man, husband, and father, and it was an honor to host him on the show. So here is my conversation with THE Michael Gervais.

DISCUSSION POINTS

  • Michael reflects on his childhood
  • The product of LAZZAI FAIRE parenting
  • The impact of your drinking on your kids
  • Natural consequences
  • Where is the line between risk and danger in a natural learning environment?
  • Formal instruction vs guided discovery
  • Helping timid children take risks
  • Breathing technique for kids
  • Don’t push them to far in this way..
  • Emotions support memory
  • Does your child get nervous playing sports? You need to do this
  • How and whyMichael got into performance psychology
  • When Michael decided that performance psychology was a real career path
  • “I want to make a lot of money”
  • Chase your purpose, not your passion
  • Leadership lessons from Microsoft’s executive leadership team

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https://findingmastery.net/about-michael-gervais/

@michaelgervais

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Carlos is primarily known today for his success as an entrepreneur in the real estate space, his massive output of positive and practical content on social media, and his coaching business, All In Nation, which he started to help other entrepreneurs find financial freedom through real estate in the same way that he did. Carlos came to the United States illegally as a little boy, led by his mother who worked two minimum wage jobs to support her young kids in their new life in the States. In our conversation, Carlos tells the story of making his way into the US. It's a crazy, inspiring, and humbling story to hear told. In 2014, Carlos decided to quit a 14 year corporate job to pursue the dream of building his own real estate investment company. To put it simply, this bet on himself paid off, as his company has scaled like crazy since then and has become a powerhouse in the real estate world And on top of his primary real estate business, Carlos also runs 31 other businesses, with 10 of those 31 gross over 7 figures per year. When you listen to Carlos speak you can feel the depth of his gratitude for the opportunity his mother gave him and the life he has built for his family. Carlos and his family are an amazing example of the American dream. But above it all, Carlos is an incredible man, husband, and father, and it was truly an honor to host him on the show.

*** Get a free copy of Carlos's book at www.bestreibook.com ***

DISCUSSION POINTS

  • Carlos’s story on getting into the US (twice)
  • Healing childhood trauma
  • Discussing childhood trauma with his mom
  • The courage to face trauma
  • Importance of effective communication
  • Taking ownership in disagreements
  • Taking ownership of the outcome you want
  • What life are you working towards?
  • Offsetting as the method for work life balance
  • Being the dad you wish you had
  • Your habits create your life
  • Amazing Bruce Lee quote
  • Book recommendation - “Secrets of the Millionaire Mind”
  • What Carlos is the most proud of

LINKS

www.officialcarlosreyes.com

www.allinnation.com

IG: @carlosreyes

Free copy of Carlos's Book: www.bestreibook.com

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Dad the Man - 026 ERIC DECKER - former NFL Wide Receiver
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02/15/22 • 53 min

Eric is a former standout NFL wide receiver who played 8 seasons in the league with the Denver Broncos, Tennessee Titans, and New York Jets, he was part of the historic record setting 2013 Broncos offense lead by quarterback Peyton Manning, and later ended his career with a short stint, as he calls it, his "cup of coffee in New England" for a few weeks of training with Tom Brady and Bill Belichick before ultimately making the decision to retire from the game and step headfirst into the next chapter of his life as a focused and present father. Eric now lives in Nashville TN with wife Jessie James Decker, who you probably know as famous country music star and founder of the exploding Kittenish apparel company. Eric serves as the president of Kittenish. Today he talks about how he's been able to find both competition and camaraderie in the world of business which he mentions has been huge for him in his transition away from football. One thing I really respect about Eric, and I didn't even know this our conversation, is that a big part of the reason he retired from football was so that he could show up as the husband and father that his young family needed at the time. I have so much respect for a guy who in the midst of an NFL career on the line was able to keep his top priorities in order and make a difficult decision with confidence. Eric a humble, down to earth dude, and a guy I always enjoyed rooting for in the league, partly because he was on my fantasy team a lot of the time. But above it all, he's an incredible man, husband, and father, and I'm extremely grateful for the opportunity to connect with him.

DISCUSSION POINTS

  • Eric talks about his childhood
  • Growing up in a small town
  • Playing two sports in college at Minnesota
  • Why Eric chose football over baseball
  • How Eric met Jesse
  • What attracted Eric to Jesse
  • life changing perspective from having kids
  • Impact of having kids on NFL career
  • Why Eric ultimately retired from the NFL
  • Transition from NFL to full time dad/husband
  • Finding camaraderie amongst men after football
  • Forging friendships through fitness
  • Running Kittenish
  • Leadership lessons from Peyton Manning
  • Letting your kids fail
  • Do you want to be good or great?
  • Leadership lessons from Tom Brady
  • The role Jesse plays for their family
  • Date night
  • Best marriage advice
  • How do you balance everything that you have going on?
  • What Eric struggles with
  • What Eric is the most proud of
  • What Eric wants his legacy to be with his kids

LINKS

  • IG: @ERICDECKER
  • www.kittenish.com

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Dad the Man - 015 Thoughts of a Dying Man (solo)
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11/30/21 • 20 min

Before passing away at the beginning of 2021, Tim Tinsley immortalized his final thoughts in a blog series called Thoughts of a Dying Man. In today's episode, Brendan reads Tim's last entry and unpacks the lessons contained inside, particularly, how the ambition to die a good death can inspire us to live a great life.

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Heath Evans is former NFL fullback. After a 3 year career at Auburn University, he was drafted by the Seattle Seahawks as the first fullback off the board. He spent several years in New England under head coach Bill Belichick and QB Tom Brady before heading down to New Orleans where he became a Super Bowl champion alongside Head Coach Sean Payton and QB Drew Brees. After his playing days, Heath transition from the field to the booth, where he worked as an analyst with NFL Network until 2017. Heath now spends a large portion of his time growing and pouring into the guys in his Built Ready community. which is a community of men fighting for more, spiritually & physically, by tackling the challenges of mastering manhood through Biblical truth, challenging workouts, and the pursuit of the peace, power, and purpose that God's Word promises His men. You'll hear me mention this throughout the interview but the thing I appreciate the most about Heath is his willingness and ability to seek, hear, and speak the truth. It takes an incredible level of courage and humility to tell the truth's of his past and his vulnerabilities as a man of faith the way that he does, which is something I greatly respect. But above it all, Heath is an incredible man, husband, and father who is ferocious and passionate in his faith. I am so blessed to have had the opportunity to chat with him.

DISCUSSION POINTS

  • Heath's willingness and ability to seek, hear, and tell the truth with compassion, grace, and strength
  • Heath talks about his childhood
  • How God let Heath find out who he was before saving him
  • Heath tells his story of salvation
  • Ephesians 2:1-10 - "But God"
  • Heath reflects on his time playing football at Auburn
  • Heath talks about a time when he was bitter with God
  • Will of man vs the sovereignty of God
  • What is Built Ready?
  • Heath tells the story of meeting his wife
  • Best marriage advice
  • Heath talks about both of his daughters
  • What Heath wants his daughters to remember about him
  • What Heath is the most proud of

LINKS

www.builtready.com

@heathevans44

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Trey Hardee is a decorated track and field athlete NCAA Champion, Olympic Silver Medalist, and 4 Time World's Top Athlete in the Decathlon and these are just a few of the trophies he's earned. Known for determination, perseverance, and dedication to his craft, he faced and overcame many challenges in his athletic career. Today I had the opportunity to chat with him not just about his career but also his transition into "retirement, "the ups and downs of parenthood, and balancing work, athletics, and family. Trey is a great dude. Even though we had never spoken beforehand, this conversation felt like catching up with an old friend. I couldn't have enjoyed it more.

DISCUSSION POINTS

  • Growing up in a competitive environment
  • Proving others wrong vs proving yourself right
  • The appeal of objectivity
  • How to handle your child facing setback
  • Parenting through a temper tantrum
  • Book Rec - Growing Up Again
  • The golden rule - applied to parenting
  • Saying “calm down” won’t work any better on your wife than it will on your kids
  • The balance in pushing your kids to be great and helping them find joy
  • Parenting a perfectionist
  • Teaching children delayed gratification
  • Innate differences between boys and girls
  • Transitioning from athlete to parent
  • Navigating work life balance
  • What Trey is the most proud of
  • What Trey wants his legacy to be with his kids

LINKS

  • Twitter & Instagram - @treyhardee

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How many episodes does Dad the Man have?

Dad the Man currently has 144 episodes available.

What topics does Dad the Man cover?

The podcast is about Society & Culture, Parenting, Kids & Family, Podcasts and Relationships.

What is the most popular episode on Dad the Man?

The episode title '052 ROB ABASOLO - Bigger Pockets Podcast & Robuilt' is the most popular.

What is the average episode length on Dad the Man?

The average episode length on Dad the Man is 35 minutes.

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Episodes of Dad the Man are typically released every 7 days.

When was the first episode of Dad the Man?

The first episode of Dad the Man was released on Aug 7, 2021.

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