E4: Tips for Beginner Dominants

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10/21/21 • 24 min

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Chief discusses tips for those who are new to D/s and want to become the best Dominant they can be. This episode discusses consent, your Dom personality, where to find a submissive to date, and a whole lots more about the world of Dom/sub dynamics.

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E5: How to Introduce Kink and D/s Into Your Relationship

In this episode of Conversations with a Dom, Chief and Moineau from KinkyEvents.co.uk discuss how to introduce kink and Dom/sub power play into your relationship for beginners. We discuss: common challenges faced when bringing up kink with your partner; techniques to overcome nervousness, shame, and improve communication in D/s, including using sex menus, sharing porn, and establishing judgement-free zones; 3 important questions to ask your partner; and common issues beginner Doms and subs encounter when starting a dynamic.
Contents

Introduction [00:00:42]
Common challenges when discussing kink with your partner [00:01:40]
Techniques to overcome nervousness, shame, and improve communication in D/s dynamics [00:07:33]
Using sex menus [00:08:03]
Sharing porn and erotic fiction [00:12:10]
Establishing a judgment-free zone [00:15:15]
Making compromises [00:18:12]
3 questions to asks your partner [00:20:29]
Getting rid of expectations and setting time limits [00:22:13]
Tips specifically for Dom/sub dynamics [00:24:17]
Common issues beginner Doms and subs encounter when starting out [00:29:38]
Wrapping up [00:31:48]

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