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Conversations with a Dom - E4: Tips for Beginner Dominants

E4: Tips for Beginner Dominants

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10/21/21 • 24 min

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Conversations with a Dom

Chief discusses tips for those who are new to D/s and want to become the best Dominant they can be. This episode discusses consent, your Dom personality, where to find a submissive to date, and a whole lots more about the world of Dom/sub dynamics.

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Sensational Scenes. Learn how to heighten arousal, induce subspace, and have mind-blowing sexual experiences. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book).
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Chief discusses tips for those who are new to D/s and want to become the best Dominant they can be. This episode discusses consent, your Dom personality, where to find a submissive to date, and a whole lots more about the world of Dom/sub dynamics.

Support the show

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Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away!
The BDSM Bundle: Get my two best selling digital courses, plus my ebook as a bonus (https://courses.kinkyevents.co.uk/bundles/bdsm-bundle).
Sensational Scenes. Learn how to heighten arousal, induce subspace, and have mind-blowing sexual experiences. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book).
The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos).
Sinful Shibari: Learn rope bondage for couples with our online video course (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari).
Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content ...

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undefined - E2: Ask a Dom Anything (Reader Questions Answered)

E2: Ask a Dom Anything (Reader Questions Answered)

In this episode of Conversations with a Dom I answer questions submitted by readers on my website KinkyEvents.co.uk, including:

  • Do Doms really care about/love their subs?
  • What would be a good punishment for talking back or attitude?
  • Do you take enjoyment in punishments?
  • What is one thing that turns on a Dom?
  • Would you hurt your sub?

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Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away!
The BDSM Bundle: Get my two best selling digital courses, plus my ebook as a bonus (https://courses.kinkyevents.co.uk/bundles/bdsm-bundle).
Sensational Scenes. Learn how to heighten arousal, induce subspace, and have mind-blowing sexual experiences. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book).
The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos).
Sinful Shibari: Learn rope bondage for couples with our online video course (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari).
Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content ...

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undefined - E5: How to Introduce Kink and D/s Into Your Relationship

E5: How to Introduce Kink and D/s Into Your Relationship

In this episode of Conversations with a Dom, Chief and Moineau from KinkyEvents.co.uk discuss how to introduce kink and Dom/sub power play into your relationship for beginners. We discuss: common challenges faced when bringing up kink with your partner; techniques to overcome nervousness, shame, and improve communication in D/s, including using sex menus, sharing porn, and establishing judgement-free zones; 3 important questions to ask your partner; and common issues beginner Doms and subs encounter when starting a dynamic.
Contents

  • Introduction [00:00:42]
  • Common challenges when discussing kink with your partner [00:01:40]
  • Techniques to overcome nervousness, shame, and improve communication in D/s dynamics [00:07:33]
  • Using sex menus [00:08:03]
  • Sharing porn and erotic fiction [00:12:10]
  • Establishing a judgment-free zone [00:15:15]
  • Making compromises [00:18:12]
  • 3 questions to asks your partner [00:20:29]
  • Getting rid of expectations and setting time limits [00:22:13]
  • Tips specifically for Dom/sub dynamics [00:24:17]
  • Common issues beginner Doms and subs encounter when starting out [00:29:38]
  • Wrapping up [00:31:48]

Support the show

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Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away!
The BDSM Bundle: Get my two best selling digital courses, plus my ebook as a bonus (https://courses.kinkyevents.co.uk/bundles/bdsm-bundle).
Sensational Scenes. Learn how to heighten arousal, induce subspace, and have mind-blowing sexual experiences. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book).
The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos).
Sinful Shibari: Learn rope bondage for couples with our online video course (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari).
Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content ...

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