
Heather Claus' Lessons on Love: The Power of Personal Boundaries
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10/25/23 • 32 min
Have you ever felt trapped in your relationships, yearning for change but unsure of how to achieve it? Meet Heather Claus, also known as Nookie, the author of 'Take No Shit,' who transformed her life by taking control and setting powerful boundaries. Heather's journey, from an abusive relationship to self-discovery and empowerment, hinges on her understanding of the undeniable power of personal boundaries. In this episode, she unravels her enlightening experiences, including her remarkable 127 first dates, and her quest to find the relationship she truly deserved.
We tackle the topic of setting boundaries in relationships with Heather, exploring her five-step guide to creating better boundaries. This enlightening exploration will help you understand how to prioritize yourself, maintain a healthy relationship, and manage your commitments. Heather's wisdom on creating firm yet compassionate boundaries, redirecting and reframing conversations, and managing consequences in relationships will serve as an invaluable resource. She even shares the transformation of her own relationship after implementing her boundaries, providing you with actionable insights to apply in your own life. Get ready for an empowering conversation about relationships, boundaries, and the journey of self-discovery.
Make sure to check out Heather's website http://my.curiouser.life/ AND get her new book "Take No Sh*t" here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CGSZ78NL
WANT A GRADUATE DEGREE IN LOVE?
Are you looking for some guidance or direction on taking your relationship to the next level? From love, sex, intimacy, and self-love, Beth can help!
Be sure to go order your copy of Beth's new book "The 5 Kinds of Intimacy: How to Keep Your Love Alive"!
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Have you ever felt trapped in your relationships, yearning for change but unsure of how to achieve it? Meet Heather Claus, also known as Nookie, the author of 'Take No Shit,' who transformed her life by taking control and setting powerful boundaries. Heather's journey, from an abusive relationship to self-discovery and empowerment, hinges on her understanding of the undeniable power of personal boundaries. In this episode, she unravels her enlightening experiences, including her remarkable 127 first dates, and her quest to find the relationship she truly deserved.
We tackle the topic of setting boundaries in relationships with Heather, exploring her five-step guide to creating better boundaries. This enlightening exploration will help you understand how to prioritize yourself, maintain a healthy relationship, and manage your commitments. Heather's wisdom on creating firm yet compassionate boundaries, redirecting and reframing conversations, and managing consequences in relationships will serve as an invaluable resource. She even shares the transformation of her own relationship after implementing her boundaries, providing you with actionable insights to apply in your own life. Get ready for an empowering conversation about relationships, boundaries, and the journey of self-discovery.
Make sure to check out Heather's website http://my.curiouser.life/ AND get her new book "Take No Sh*t" here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CGSZ78NL
WANT A GRADUATE DEGREE IN LOVE?
Are you looking for some guidance or direction on taking your relationship to the next level? From love, sex, intimacy, and self-love, Beth can help!
Be sure to go order your copy of Beth's new book "The 5 Kinds of Intimacy: How to Keep Your Love Alive"!
Love, Sex and Relationship Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com
L I N K S & S O C I A L M E D I A - Follow us on social media for updates, Come With Us podcast episodes, Sexy Ed School & more!!
Website: https://bethdarling.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comewithuspodcast
Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/comewithuspodcast
Contact Come With Us: [email protected]
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From Carnivals to Entrepreneurship: A Dive into Heather Claus' Colourful and Inspiring Journey
We're thrilled to welcome the extraordinary Heather Klaus, aka Nookie, who has an array of life experiences that are as colorful as they are inspiring. Hitchhiking across the country, joining the carnival, becoming a successful author and entrepreneur, her journey is a testament to resilience, self-love, and the power of the human spirit. Together, we peel back the layers of her story, from her time as a carney to her unexpected experiences with ADHD.
Heather shares her challenges and triumphs, dropping bombshells about her life as a carney, her neurodivergent identity, and the story behind her failed app, 'Nookie Notes.' Yet, Heather proves that setbacks are merely stepping stones to fresh opportunities, as she candidly shares how she transformed her obstacles into victories. We also discuss her book, 'Take No Shit,' her website, 'datingkinky,' and the importance of setting boundaries - all incredibly enlightening insights into her life and philosophy.
Our chat takes an unexpected turn as we delve into Heather's experiences with ADHD. Heather reveals how she managed her ADHD with lists before turning 30, and the surprising ways her brain changed after undergoing surgeries. We also discuss the impact of the lack of estrogen on her brain, affecting her ability to focus, and the need for kindness towards neurodivergent individuals. Every moment with Heather is a treasure trove of wisdom and inspiration. If you're ready to be motivated and moved, join us for this unforgettable episode with Heather Klaus.
Make sure to check out Heather's website http://my.curiouser.life/ AND get her new book "Take No Sh*t" here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CGSZ78NL
WANT A GRADUATE DEGREE IN LOVE?
Are you looking for some guidance or direction on taking your relationship to the next level? From love, sex, intimacy, and self-love, Beth can help!
Be sure to go order your copy of Beth's new book "The 5 Kinds of Intimacy: How to Keep Your Love Alive"!
Love, Sex and Relationship Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com
L I N K S & S O C I A L M E D I A - Follow us on social media for updates, Come With Us podcast episodes, Sexy Ed School & more!!
Website: https://bethdarling.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comewithuspodcast
Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/comewithuspodcast
Contact Come With Us: [email protected]
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WANT A GRADUATE DEGREE IN LOVE?
Are you looking for some guidance or direction on taking your relationship to the next level? From love, sex, intimacy, and self-love, Beth can help!
Be sure to go order your copy of Beth's new book "The 5 Kinds of Intimacy: How to Keep Your Love Alive"!
Love, Sex and Relationship Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com
L I N K S & S O C I A L M E D I A - Follow us on social media for updates, Come With Us podcast episodes, Sexy Ed School & more!!
Website: https://bethdarling.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comewithuspodcast
Coaching: https://sexyedschool.com
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Are you saying you faked with me ? Yeah ,
Speaker 1I just can't say oh , oh , oh .
Speaker 1Oh , I'm not wrong Now you're single .
Speaker 3What do you know about sexual relations ? Is it true that if you don't use it , you use it ?
Speaker 2If you like this episode you’ll love
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