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Are you comfortable being seen? Now that it is a new year, it’s a great time to push yourself to be more visible so that you can attract great things. The image you project to others is a direct reflection of who you are and how others perceive you. So, you won't be surprised to learn that image is the first key to your ability to find love. This week, Kim interviews Debbi Dachinger. She's a media visibility expert, keynote speaker and author of three international bestselling books. She has been interviewed on over 1,000 media outlets and hosts the syndicated, award-winning Dare to Dream podcast. Kim jumps in by sharing a personal story that demonstrates what happens when you hide in your clothes and play small. These two dish it out better than anyone about the magic that happens in your personal and professional life when you seek to be seen, heard, and served. Debbi divulges her rules for creating a visibility factor that work on TV, on dates, and more! Kim and Debbi discuss the importance of recognizing and respecting how you feel and how to allow those feelings to surface authentically. The trick is, expressing that in an honest, genuine way that builds connection. This episode proves that when your outer image reflects the authentic person you are inside, incredible results will follow. Stick around until the end to hear Debbi's rendition of a love song about one of her crushes! If you are struggling to feel visible, open and connected, you’ll definitely want to listen to this uplifting and fun episode to learn how to be a celebrity in your own love life. And to kick off the new year right with new energy and goals, sign up for a free breakthrough call with Kim right here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Connect with Kim to talk through what comes up for you when you think about your image and some concrete steps you can take to show up as your best self in 2020.

Kicking off 2020 with an inspiring success story, Kim's back with another episode of Where Are They Now? You'll hear from Cathy, a client of Kim's who, after coaching with Kim, has made some amazing strides. Her confidence has soared! Her ability to take action in alignment with what she wants has built positive momentum in all areas of her life. When Cathy first got in touch with Kim, she was struggling with overthinking and overanalyzing which was causing some major anxiety and stumbling blocks with dating. If you've ever experienced that, you know how hard it can be to stay out of your head and allow yourself to be present and connect in the moment. Cathy and Kim talk through how they were able to work together and create a structure that helped Cathy get clearer on what she wanted. They discuss that by learning new skills and rooting out the origins of her anxiety, Cathy is now meeting guys left and right! Your ability to flirt and be comfortable getting attention and being seen are all connected. Listen in to hear Kim's #1 tip around how to find joy when you're dating without attachment. It's a new year! This is a moment to look at your life with a fresh perspective and get inspired by the successes of others so you can create success on your terms! All it takes is one call. Sign up for your breakthrough call with Kim right here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough You could even be featured on a future episode of Where Are They Now with your success story! If you're ready to work through your anxiety around dating, or you're having trouble expressing yourself through all the thoughts swirling around in your head, get in touch with Kim. Start 2020 off right!

This holiday season, Kim asks the hard question: Are you naughty or nice? What if this holiday season was about receiving more than giving? On this week's show, Kim reveals to 5 Ways You Can Be Naughty Instead of Nice in your love life. Listen in, some of her tips might surprise you! When it comes to dating, you can achieve a healthy balance by being a little naughty! This doesn't mean being over the top but instead learning how to set more boundaries for yourself and let go of the tendency to always be polite. Sometimes naughtiness can go too far, but sometimes it's OK to be a little selfish! This show is all about how to strike the right balance for you and bring some variety into your love life to help you let go, take risks and find love. It's about breaking out of the hamster wheel, expressing yourself and not taking yourself too seriously so that you create opportunity to find real love...not love that is fabricated based on what others want for you. If you're feeling like you are giving more than receiving, it might be time to find your voice, speak up and choose to be naughtier than you usually are! And, if you've noticed you've started to feel resentment and overwhelmed about putting other people's happiness before your own, here's something you can do to end 2019 on a high note! Sign up for a breakthrough call with Kim, right here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough: and allow yourself to put YOU first!

So how many times do you cover your ears or put on a fake smile in fear of being yourself? How much energy do you expend worrying about being normal, proper or polite in order to be accepted? This week, we're getting *real*. Really freaking real by learning how to be your authentic self to attract love. Kim interviews Lisa Cherney, host of the ground-breaking Get F**king Real Podcast and founder of the GFR Squad. Lisa works with entrepreneurs and business owners to strip the masks and get real into order to help people fulfill their mission. This conversation cuts to the core fast - you might be surprised how Lisa's tips usually reserved for marketers and entrepreneurs are completely applicable in the dating world. Here's the truth, when you hide your authentic and vulnerable side, you actually attract lopsided relationships and you're much more likely to feel resentment. Kim and Lisa discuss how if you find yourself "tolerating" people, situations or environments around you, it sucks up both negative energy and physical space in your life. You'll hear some juicy, incredible tips from both experts about how to let go of the things in your life that don't feel good and how that will allow the universe to attract positivity. Listen as Lisa shares her unique GFR commandments and how those can help you in relationships and love. And, stick around to hear a great trick you can use to help you figure out the source of your self-doubt so you can learn how to overcome it. If you're sick and tired of not being honest with yourself and with others and you're dying to feel the energy, passion, and spark in your life again, you’ll love this episode! If you want to understand the tools to give yourself permission to get real and find your authentic self, you've got to sign up for a FREE breakthrough call with Kim by clicking right here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough It's almost the end of the decade, it's not worth spending another moment not living as the REAL you.

How well do you know yourself? Do you know what your purpose is and how true to yourself are you being when you put yourself out there into the dating universe? This week, Kim has a special returning guest who breaks down exactly what the most successful people out there do to find their purpose and passion (and how you can do it too). Corey Poirier is a multiple-time TEDx and sought-after keynote speaker and host of the top-rated Conversations with Passion Radio Show. He’s interviewed more than 5,000 of the world’s top leaders to uncover the underlying purpose and passion that makes them unstoppable. Now, you can get his new book that explains it all, The Book of WHY (and HOW) for just 99 cents until Feb 23rd! Check it out right here: http://www.thebookofwhy.com/ Kim and Corey talk through how Corey discovered his passion and the journey he went on to reveal his purpose. In this episode, you’ll go through some major lessons and tips you need to know that will help you shift in ways to think about your purpose and how to achieve the goals that excite you to attract someone great in your life. If you’re struggling to find your purpose and passion or you are having trouble attracting the caliber of person you want as a partner, reach out to Kim here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough The path to shifting your mindset and connecting with high quality people is possible for you! It’s time to make the choice to create space in your life for what (and who!) you really want.