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Caring for Your Aging Parents

Caring for Your Aging Parents

Lynn Smargis

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Are you worried about your aging parents? Do you feel they will need either in-home care, driving assistance, or possibly move into assisted living or a memory care facility? Join me as I discuss your concerns around caring for your senior parents with changes they may experience as they age, the different types of care for your parents, and how to avoid caregiver burnout. It’s hard enough taking care of your family in today’s world. Then, when you add in nursing care, physical rehabilitation, and looking for a personal assistant or a new housing situation to better suit your parents’ needs as they age, you can find yourself frustrated, confused, and unsure of where to start when sorting through the myriad of options available to you and other Gen Xers who are on a journey to seek out long term care. How can I find assisted living facilities near me? Does long-term care insurance cover assisted living facilities? Is memory care covered by long-term care insurance? How can I get a reverse mortgage on my home if I’m a senior or elderly individual who needs to move into an assisted living facility? What do I need to know when caring for a person with dementia? Is memory care tax deductible? What benefits are offered for aging Veterans? What do I need to know if one or both of my parents need Medicaid? Make sure to follow Caring for Your Aging Parents on your favorite podcast player, along with our YouTube channel, to get the answers you need to your questions about caring for your geriatric parents, helping them to find memory care, or the best assisted living facility to meet their changing needs.
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Caring for Your Aging Parents - Effective Strategies for Introducing Assisted Living to Aging Parents
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01/23/24 • 24 min

Caring for Your Aging Parents

Season 01 Episode 17

Effective Strategies for Introducing Assisted Living to Aging Parents

Ever found yourself at a loss for words when discussing the topic of assisted living with your aging parents? I'm here to guide you through these complex conversations. Together, we'll navigate the often challenging path of discussing elder care, all wrapped up in my personal insights from my own journey of caring for my terminally ill parents.

Key Components to Discuss Assisted Living Transitions for Your Senior Parents

Empathy, patience, and open communication are key in these discussions, and we'll delve into how to make your loved ones feel empowered in their decision-making process. We'll discuss the transition from home to assisted living or independent living communities, not as a way of shirking responsibilities, but as a means to ensure the safety and well-being of your loved ones. Furthermore, we'll explore effective communication within caregiving, namely the importance of using "I" statements and asking open-ended questions to express genuine concern. I'll share invaluable advice on how to introduce your parents to the idea of assisted living, from touring communities to engaging them in activities with potential future neighbors.

The Importance of Understanding Your Elderly Parents Concerns

This episode is the beginning of a journey that we'll take together, demystifying the world of elder care and providing you with the tools you need to support your loved ones. Navigating these conversations can be challenging. That's why we devote time to discussing the importance of empathy, patience, and involving all family members in these decisions.

I encourage you to understand your elderly loved one's fears and concerns so you can incorporate those feelings into your discussions about the future. Get tips on how to include trusted friends or family members in these conversations, and learn how to foster open communication that empowers your loved ones in their decision-making process.

(00:01) Aging Parents' Care Tech Solutions

(00:01) Talking to Aging Parents in Assisted Living

(06:34) Having the Conversation About Assisted Living

(10:37) Fostering Independence and Discussing Senior Care

(18:01) Effective Communication in Caregiving

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Give me a call to locate a senior placement specialist in your area 503.830.1812

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Caring for Your Aging Parents - How to Know It's Time for Senior Care

How to Know It's Time for Senior Care

Caring for Your Aging Parents

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02/04/25 • 26 min

How to Know It's Time for Senior Care

Podcast Episode Script

Introduction (2-3 minutes)

"Welcome to Caring for Your Aging Parents, I'm Lynn Smargis, and today we're tackling one of the most common questions I get from adult children: How do you know when it's time for senior care?

This is such a crucial topic because timing is everything. Wait too long, and you might be facing a crisis. Move too early, and you might face resistance. So today, I'm going to share some real stories and practical guidance to help you navigate this challenge.

**The Geographic Challenge (3-4 minutes)**

Many of us live far from our parents now

The world has changed - families are spread out

Distance makes it harder to spot decline

Why daily phone calls aren't enough

Story time: Let me tell you about a client who lived just 10 minutes away...

**The Reality Check (4-5 minutes)**

Living nearby isn't always enough protection

Share the story of the client's mother who fell

24 hours before she was found

The devastating impact of delayed care

Sepsis and long recovery time

The emotional toll on both parent and family

**Common Misconceptions (3-4 minutes)**

"My parents take care of each other"

Why this can be dangerous

Story about the couple who both fell

The domino effect of delayed care

What happens when one parent tries to help the other

**The Stroke Story (3-4 minutes)**

Share the St. Petersburg story

Eight-hour delay in care

Permanent consequences

How this could have been prevented

The five-minute response time in assisted living

**Warning Signs to Watch For (5-6 minutes)**

Physical decline

Mobility issues

Balance problems

Recent falls

Cognitive changes

Memory issues

Confusion with daily tasks

Getting lost in familiar places

Personal care decline

Hygiene issues

Household maintenance

Medication management

Emotional changes

Depression

Isolation

Mood swings

**The Holiday Wake-Up Call (3-4 minutes)**

What you might notice during visits

Why phone calls can be deceiving

The "I'm fine" syndrome

What to look for when you visit

How to assess the situation objectively

**Modern Senior Living (3-4 minutes)**

Not your grandmother's nursing home

The cruise ship analogy

Activities and social life

Medical support available

Quality of life improvements

**Action Steps for Listeners (2-3 minutes)**

Start looking at options before crisis hits

Research communities in advance

Understand wait times can be 6+ months

Get on waiting lists if needed

Have the conversation early

Closing (2-3 minutes)

"Before we wrap up today, I want to emphasize that seeking senior care isn't giving up – it's often giving your parents a better quality of life with more social interaction and immediate access to help when needed. If you're seeing any of the warning signs we discussed today, don't wait for a crisis. Start exploring your options now.

If you need help assessing your situation or finding senior care options in your area, you can reach me at 503-830-1812 or visit my website at [website]. And don't forget to subscribe to this podcast for more tips and guidance on caring for your aging parents.

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Caring for Your Aging Parents - Anticipating and Preparing For Evolving Health Conditions
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04/01/25 • 18 min

Let’s dive into the art of proactive caregiving, equipping families with the knowledge and tools needed to confidently support their aging loved ones. Drawing from my book, "Sensible Senior Solutions," I discuss the importance of recognizing early signs of aging and strategically planning for potential health challenges.

We'll explore how to choose the right in-home care agency, focusing on personalized care plans and emotional support that align with your loved one's medical and cultural needs. I also highlight the financial aspects of in-home care, providing insights into various payment methods, particularly for seniors with dementia.

As caregivers, it's crucial to balance compassion with strategy, ensuring the well-being of both your loved ones and yourself. I'll share tips on maintaining your own health and sanity while managing the demands of caregiving. Don't wait for a crisis—empower yourself with informed decisions that ensure seamless transitions and continuity of care.

Stay connected for expert advice that transforms how you care for your aging parents. Remember, caregiving is a journey best navigated with wisdom and heart. Tune in and let's walk this path together.

(00:09) - Preparing for Health Condition Changes

(08:40) - Choosing Quality in-Home Care Agencies

(16:27) - Supporting Aging Parents With Care

Podcast Resources

Caring For Your Aging Parents on YouTube

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Caring for Your Aging Parents is brought to you by Pacific Northwest Seniorcare

Connect with seniors on the Helperly website

Podcast disclaimer

The information in the Pacific Northwest Seniorcare podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. The content shared by the host, guests, and any affiliates is not intended to substitute for professional medical, legal, or financial advice or any professional advice specific to your situation. Always seek the advice of a qualified professional with any questions you may have regarding these matters.

The host is not a medical or legal expert, and the opinions expressed on the show by the host or guests are those of the individuals and do not necessarily reflect the views of Pacific Northwest Seniorcare. Pacific Northwest Seniorcare, the host, guests, and affiliates are not responsible or liable for any care, medical, or legal decisions made by listeners or actions taken hereto based on the information discussed in this podcast. By listening to this podcast, you acknowledge and agree to release Pacific Northwest Seniorcare, the host, affiliates, and guests from any liability.

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Caring for Your Aging Parents - Mastering the Move to Retirement Living with Personal Items and Pets
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11/19/24 • 11 min

Caring for Your Aging Parents

Season 02 Episode 08

Mastering the Move to Retirement Living with Personal Items and Pets

Unlock the secrets to a seamless move into retirement living with Pacific Northwest Senior Care. You'll walk away with practical strategies for organizing the transition, from crafting a precise floor plan to determining which treasured belongings should make the move.

Learn how to optimize your new space, deal with excess items through sales or donations, and understand the decoration policies of your retirement community. Plus, discover tips on working with professional home organizers to make your new residence truly feel like home.

But that's not all—pets are family too, and Lynn dives deep into the specifics of bringing your furry companions along. Understand the varying pet policies across different types of senior living communities, including independent living, assisted living, memory care, and adult foster homes. Get insights on weight and behavior requirements, the logistics of pet care, and any associated costs.

Lynn also highlights the importance of communicating pet ownership to senior advisors to ensure a perfect match for you and your pet. To cap it all off, we emphasize the importance of caregiver self-care during this significant life transition. Tune in for essential tips to make retirement living a fulfilling and comfortable experience for both you and your pets!

(00:04) Bringing Personal Items Into Retirement Living

(06:47) Senior Living Communities and Pets

Podcast Resources

Caring For Your Aging Parents on YouTube

Visit us to find out more on Caring for Your Aging Parents

Caring for Your Aging Parents is brought to you by Pacific Northwest Seniorcare

Podcast disclaimer

The information in the Pacific Northwest Seniorcare podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. The content shared by the host, guests, and any affiliates is not intended to substitute for professional medical, legal, or financial advice or any professional advice specific to your situation. Always seek the advice of a qualified professional with any questions you may have regarding these matters.

The host is not a medical or legal expert, and the opinions expressed on the show by the host or guests are those of the individuals and do not necessarily reflect the views of Pacific Northwest Seniorcare. Pacific Northwest Seniorcare, the host, guests, and affiliates are not responsible or liable for any care, medical, or legal decisions made by listeners or actions taken hereto based on the information discussed in this podcast. By listening to this podcast, you acknowledge and agree to release Pacific Northwest Seniorcare, the host, affiliates, and guests from any liability.

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Caring for Your Aging Parents - Welcome to the Caring for Your Aging Parents Podcast!
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09/05/23 • 6 min

Caring for Your Aging Parents

Season 01 Episode 01 Trailer

Talking about Caring for Your Aging Parents

Welcome to Caring For Your Aging Parents, where I, a certified senior care advisor, assist elderly and their caretakers by providing education on how to take care of your aging parents. There will be new episodes every week where you’ll receive valuable information on how to make confident, informed decisions for your parents or whomever you’re caring for.

We all spend so much of our lives depending on our parents; now, many of you may be adjusting to or preparing for a time where they depend on you, instead. It’s important to know what options you have for your parents and their unique situation, and this is the place to get it.

What To Expect from this Podcast

In this podcast, I’ll go over the many components that go into caring for your aging parents, such as: private pay, Medicare and Medicaid, the different types of living facilities, and much more. In the subjects where I’m not an expert, I’ll be bringing in elder care-specific experts who can share their best practices and advice so that you have every tool at your disposal.

How you provide care for your parents depends on many things, such as their own preferences, disabilities, and of course affordability and access. The best choice for your parents may not be the same choice your neighbor or cousin makes, but by preparing well and educating yourself, you can provide care with confidence.

Learning to Be a Caregiver

Transitioning into a caregiving role can be confusing and scary no matter what your situation is. I understand the journey personally, and next week I’ll be sharing my story of how I took care of my parents while also balancing my family and education. I hope to give you the strength, ability, and information necessary so that you can make the best choice for your own situation.

Podcast Resources

Caring For Your Aging Parents on YouTube

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Give me a call to locate a senior placement specialist in your area 503.830.1812

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Season 01 Episode 06

Navigating the Path of In-Home Nursing and Senior Care with Helen Anderson of HelloCare

How do we ensure our aging loved ones are receiving the best care possible? From choosing the right caregivers to navigating the complex world of in-home nursing, we grapple with these pivotal decisions in our latest conversation with Helen Anderson, owner of HelloCare.

How to Hire an In-Home Care Agency

Helen equips us with the necessary knowledge to tackle this often-overwhelming task. She enlightens us on the advantages of hiring an agency, such as the crucial oversight provided by an RN on staff. The necessity of asking agencies about their hospital care capabilities is also emphasized, as it can play an integral role in offering your parents optimal care.

We dive deep into the intricate layers of senior care, focusing on the different levels of care and licensing available for in-home aid, particularly for parents with diabetes or dementia. Helen shares her insights on planning both short-term and long-term care needs, the potential risks of administering insulin, and the role of nutrition in blood sugar management.

Dementia Care Management

Our discussion also sheds light on dementia care, stressing the importance of understanding an individual's needs and triggers for a peaceful environment. We share strategies on how to introduce caregivers in non-disruptive ways and manage anxiety triggers to ensure a comfortable experience for your loved ones.

(0:00:03) - In-Home Nursing and Senior Care

(0:08:42) - Senior Licensing and Care Levels

(0:18:44) - Dementia Care and Home Care

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Caring For Your Aging Parents on YouTube

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Give me a call to locate a senior placement specialist in your area 503.830.1812

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Season 02 Episode 13

Embracing the GEMS Model: Transformative Strategies for Compassionate Dementia Care with Teepa Snow

In this insightful conversation, Teepa offers practical strategies for navigating the complexities of dementia care. She highlights the importance of adapting caregiver expectations, fostering compassionate relationships, and addressing challenging behaviors with empathy and understanding.

Teepa has worked with those living with a wide variety of neurodivergent conditions. Her philosophy of care is reflective of her education, work experience, medical research, academic instruction, and first-hand caregiving experiences.

She has been an advocate in dementia care and has developed the GEMS® State Model for understanding the progression of brain change along with the Positive Approach to Care® training strategies, which are effective techniques for anyone seeking to optimize care and support for those living with neurocognitive degeneration.

Positive Approach to Care (PAC) improves care for those living with neurodivergent conditions. PAC provides services, training, and products to organizations, professionals, family members, the lay public, and people living with brain change.

Listeners will gain valuable insights into recognizing the communication needs and physical limitations of those with dementia. Teepa’s strategies, such as using visual cues and gentle guidance, offer a roadmap for more effective caregiving. Additionally, the episode introduces the Gems Workbook, a resource to aid caregivers on their journey.

Teepa’s wisdom and the GEMS model provide essential tools for crafting connections and maintaining dignity and respect for individuals with dementia. Tune in for an episode filled with transformative strategies for compassionate dementia care.

(03:36) - The Gems Model of Dementia Care

(09:14) - Exploring Dementia Through Gemstone States

(16:00) - Understanding and Navigating Dementia Care

(25:32) - Understanding Dementia Through Gemstone States

(30:41) - Caregiving for Dementia and Parenting

Podcast Resources

Caring For Your Aging Parents on YouTube

Visit us to find out more on Caring for Your Aging Parents

Caring for Your Aging Parents is brought to you by Pacific Northwest Seniorcare

Plan your senior loved one’s care with my new book Sensible Senior Solutions

Purchase the The GEMS Model Workbook which comes with a bonus video series!

Dementia care resources for family and friends

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Caring for Your Aging Parents - What to Look For When Touring Retirement Communities
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02/18/25 • 24 min

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Season 02 Episode 19

What to Look For When Touring Retirement Communities

Check out this episode to unlock the secrets to finding the ideal senior living community for your loved ones. I’m Lynn Smargis, a certified senior advisor, here to guide you through this often overwhelming journey with insights from my book, "Sensible Senior Solutions."

In this episode, I delve into the complexities of senior care options, offering professional advice that can transform your search from daunting to manageable. Discover why seeking guidance from a senior advisor is as crucial as hiring an attorney or realtor, and learn how their expertise can help you avoid common pitfalls, such as choosing a community based on proximity or personal ties.

I share a compelling story of a family who transitioned from a confusing DIY search to successfully settling in a suitable senior living community within weeks. We discuss the importance of considering factors like medical needs, staff ratios, and pet policies when evaluating communities. Whether you're planning early or feeling overwhelmed, I emphasize the value of connecting with certified senior advisors who offer their services at no cost to families.

Remember, caregivers: it’s important to prioritize self-care, a vital theme throughout our caregiving journey. Join us as we explore the art of making informed decisions for your aging parents, ensuring their well-being and happiness. Don’t forget to follow the podcast for more insights on senior care. Let's navigate this journey together with confidence and clarity.

Podcast Resources

Caring For Your Aging Parents on YouTube

Visit us to find out more on Caring for Your Aging Parents

Caring for Your Aging Parents is brought to you by Pacific Northwest Seniorcare

Podcast disclaimer

The information in the Pacific Northwest Seniorcare podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. The content shared by the host, guests, and any affiliates is not intended to substitute for professional medical, legal, or financial advice or any professional advice specific to your situation. Always seek the advice of a qualified professional with any questions you may have regarding these matters.

The host is not a medical or legal expert, and the opinions expressed on the show by the host or guests are those of the individuals and do not necessarily reflect the views of Pacific Northwest Seniorcare. Pacific Northwest Seniorcare, the host, guests, and affiliates are not responsible or liable for any care, medical, or legal decisions made by listeners or actions taken hereto based on the information discussed in this podcast. By listening to this podcast, you acknowledge and agree to release Pacific Northwest Seniorcare, the host, affiliates, and guests from any liability.

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Caring for Your Aging Parents - The Benefits of Using a Senior Advisor

The Benefits of Using a Senior Advisor

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11/26/24 • 14 min

Caring for Your Aging Parents

Season 02 Episode 09

The Benefits of Using a Senior Advisor

Discover the invaluable role of senior advisors as Lynn walks you through the critical stages, from understanding your loved one's medical needs and lifestyle preferences to the intricacies of facility availability and care types. Learn how a senior advisor ensures that every aspect—from pet accommodations to desired amenities—aligns perfectly with your parent's unique requirements, whether they need independent living, assisted living, or memory care.

Join us for an insightful journey into the myriad benefits of partnering with a senior advisor. Lynn shares her expertise on everything from scheduling and attending tours to navigating contracts and ensuring a smooth transition post-move-in. You'll also gain insider tips on why timing your tours is crucial and how these professional services are typically covered by the retirement communities themselves.

Tune in to learn about the extra value offered by certified senior advisors, especially those with specialized certifications in dementia care, and make the best-informed decisions for your aging loved ones.

(00:21) Finding a Senior Advisor for Retirement

(06:16) Benefits of Using a Senior Advisor

Podcast Resources

Caring For Your Aging Parents on YouTube

Visit us to find out more on Caring for Your Aging Parents

Caring for Your Aging Parents is brought to you by Pacific Northwest Seniorcare

Podcast disclaimer

The information in the Pacific Northwest Seniorcare podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. The content shared by the host, guests, and any affiliates is not intended to substitute for professional medical, legal, or financial advice or any professional advice specific to your situation. Always seek the advice of a qualified professional with any questions you may have regarding these matters.

The host is not a medical or legal expert, and the opinions expressed on the show by the host or guests are those of the individuals and do not necessarily reflect the views of Pacific Northwest Seniorcare. Pacific Northwest Seniorcare, the host, guests, and affiliates are not responsible or liable for any care, medical, or legal decisions made by listeners or actions taken hereto based on the information discussed in this podcast. By listening to this podcast, you acknowledge and agree to release Pacific Northwest Seniorcare, the host, affiliates, and guests from any liability.

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Caring for Your Aging Parents - Charting Your Course through the Medicare Maze with Niki Feret
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11/23/23 • 26 min

Caring for Your Aging Parents

Season 01 Episode 11

Charting Your Course through the Medicare Maze with Niki Feret

In this fascinating chat with Niki Feret of the Brickhouse Agency, a certified Independent Medicare Insurance Broker, we unravel the complexities of Medicare and lay down the basics of this significant benefit that you've been investing in throughout your working life. Our conversation also shines a light on the importance of creating a Medicare account online and how to go about it. Listen in as we explore the various types of Medicare plans and their costs, equipping you with knowledge to make informed decisions.

What is Medicare?

Medicare is a federal health insurance program in the United States that provides coverage to individuals aged 65 and older and certain younger individuals with disabilities or specific medical conditions. Medicare is designed to help individuals access essential medical services and reduce the financial burden of healthcare costs. The program consists of different parts that cover various aspects of healthcare services. Medicare was established in 1965 under the Social Security Act and is administered by the Centers for Medicare & Medicaid Services (CMS), a U.S. Department of Health and Human Services division.

Medicare Options for the Upcoming Enrollment Period

Nikki expertly guides us through the details of Medicare Parts A, B, and D, including yearly premiums, deductibles, and coinsurances. Our discussion underscores the necessity of planning ahead and ensuring you have the coverage you need. We then examine the two options available for Medicare recipients who need drug coverage. Nikki highlights the differences between the standalone prescription drug plan and the Medicare Advantage plan, as well as the implications of late enrollment.

How to Navigate Medicare

Lastly, Nikki shares her invaluable expertise on how to navigate the nuances of Medicare to find the best plan for individual needs. We discuss the advantages of working with an experienced insurance agent and ask the right questions to ensure you aren't overpaying. The importance of enrolling in Medicare before the December 7th deadline and the process of doing so are also discussed. With this enlightening conversation, you will be better prepared to navigate the Medicare maze. Make sure to join her on Facebook to get involved in the Medicare discussion on her page.

Podcast Resources

Caring For Your Aging Parents on YouTube

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Give me a call to locate a senior placement specialist in your area 503.830.1812

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Caring for Your Aging Parents currently has 38 episodes available.

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The episode title 'Caring for My Terminally Ill Parents' is the most popular.

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The average episode length on Caring for Your Aging Parents is 23 minutes.

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