
Should We Pull Out Of Preschool?
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01/30/25 • 55 min
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On this episode: Elizabeth, Lucy and Zak help a listener whose son is putting up a fight about preschool. This four-year-old has never loved school, and now he has a new baby sibling to love... so he really doesn’t want to leave home. And it’s getting to the point of peeing on things out of spite. So: what now?
And after that discussion, we’ll of course circle up for a round of triumphs and fails.
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We're aware of some playback issues on this episode - if you hear something weird, delete and re-download.
On this episode: Elizabeth, Lucy and Zak help a listener whose son is putting up a fight about preschool. This four-year-old has never loved school, and now he has a new baby sibling to love... so he really doesn’t want to leave home. And it’s getting to the point of peeing on things out of spite. So: what now?
And after that discussion, we’ll of course circle up for a round of triumphs and fails.
Join us on Facebook and email us at [email protected] to ask us new questions, tell us what you thought of today’s show, and give us ideas about what we should talk about in future episodes. You can also call our phone line: (646) 357-9318.
If you enjoy this show, please consider signing up for Slate Plus. Slate Plus members get to hang out with us on the Plus Playground every week for a whole additional grab-bag of content — and you’ll get an ad-free experience across the network. And you’ll also be supporting the work we do here on Care and Feeding. Sign up now at slate.com/careplus – or try it out on Apple Podcasts.
Podcast produced by Maura Currie.
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Should We Fight In Front Of the Kids?
On this episode: Zak, Elizabeth and Jamilah talk about what to do when you’re arguing with your partner... but you have to do it in front of the kids. We’ll talk about how to model healthy disagreement — and when it’s time to hit pause.
We’ll also check in on where the hosts are this week – and then, if you’re coming to hang out on the Slate Plus Playground, the hosts are listening back to their 2024 resolutions and deciding if it truly was the year of “meh.”
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Jamilah’s check-in: everyone’s fine!
Elizabeth’s check-in: hot mess express!
Zak’s check-in: improv!
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Come Join the Internal Rage Club
On this episode: Zak, Elizabeth and Lucy crack open the C&F mailbag for some extended conversation on the internal rage club, parental favoritism, and Lucy’s special tea.
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Lucy’s check-in: Avery has the flu, feels like Spiderman
Elizabeth’s check-in: the rights of the child
Zak’s check-in: around the world in one classroom
Join us on Facebook and email us at [email protected] to ask us new questions, tell us what you thought of today’s show, and give us ideas about what we should talk about in future episodes. You can also call our phone line: (646) 357-9318.
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