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Eve Rodsky
CALLING HOME with Whitney Goodman, LMFT
09/20/23 • 41 min
Whitney talks with Eve Rodsky, creator of a system designed to balance the domestic workload in homes.
Eve's system, Fair Play, is based on the idea of treating homes as important organizations, with clearly defined expectations and roles for each member. The system is built on three key principles: boundaries, systems, and communication.
Eve emphasizes the importance of each person owning their tasks, from conception to execution, to ensure efficiency and accountability. She also highlights the need for women to value their time as much as men do, and for men to be active participants in domestic life. She believes that for women to fully step into their power outside the home, men must be invited into their full power within the home.
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Holly Whitaker
CALLING HOME with Whitney Goodman, LMFT
11/07/23 • 44 min
Whitney is talking with Holly Whitaker, author and founder of Tempest, about the impact of alcohol on family dynamics.
Holly believes that society's positive messaging around drinking often overlooks the negative impact it can have on relationships. She believes that the question should not be whether one is an alcoholic, but rather if alcohol negatively impacts one's life and if steps should be taken to address the relationship with it. She also discusses the lack of informed consent around alcohol consumption, as many people are not fully aware of the potential consequences. She suggests that if alcohol feels uncomfortable or difficult, it's an invitation to interrogate one's relationship with it.
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Accountability, Boundaries, and That Person You Don't Want To See
CALLING HOME with Whitney Goodman, LMFT
09/19/23 • 23 min
Whitney talks about accountability in parent-child relationships:
- children should not be held accountable for their actions in the same way as adults
- there is a power differential between parents and children which continues into adulthood
- parents need to to consider how their actions would have felt to their child at the time
And Whitney's first questions from her voicemail (866-CALL HOME):
- dealing with anxiety over running into estranged family members
- supporting a spouse who is hesitant to reconcile with their parents
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Navigating Emotionally Immature Parents
CALLING HOME with Whitney Goodman, LMFT
11/14/23 • 31 min
Whitney talks about the impact of emotionally immature parents on their children. She explains that emotionally immature parents often lack empathy, struggle to apologize or admit fault, and are often well-liked in their communities due to their ability to maintain surface-level relationships. They also tend to provide for their children in practical ways, but fail to meet their emotional needs.
We also have Calling Home listener questions about this same topic, including coping with 'the silent treatment' and the fear of becoming like them.
Awareness of one's own trauma can prevent the repetition of harmful patterns.
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My Parents Hit Me And I Turned Out Fine with Gabriel Hannan
CALLING HOME with Whitney Goodman, LMFT
10/22/24 • 46 min
In this conversation, Whitney Goodman interviews Gabriel, also known as The Indomitable Black Man, about his journey to becoming a content creator who promotes respectful or gentle parenting. They discuss the challenges of being a black man in the gentle parenting space and the misconceptions surrounding discipline and abuse. Gabriel emphasizes teaching and guiding children through discipline rather than resorting to physical punishment. They also explore the long-term effects of abusive parenting on adults, including anxiety, depression, and difficulties with self-regulation. The conversation explores the impact of spanking and abuse, the importance of striving for more than 'fine' in parenting, the power imbalance between adults and children, the denial and accountability of parents, the cycle of bare minimum fatherhood, and breaking generational patterns.
Takeaways
- Spanking and abuse can have long-term negative effects on children, leading to physical and mental health issues.
- Parents should strive for more than just 'fine' in their parenting, aiming to provide the best for their children and create a positive legacy.
- The power imbalance between adults and children should be recognized, and physical discipline should be replaced with effective communication and guidance.
- Parents need to acknowledge and take accountability for the trauma they may have caused their children, rather than denying or minimizing it.
- Fatherhood should go beyond the bare minimum of providing for children's basic needs, and fathers should actively lead, guide, and support their children.
- Breaking generational patterns and cycles of trauma is essential for creating healthier and more positive family dynamics.
Have a question for Whitney? Call Home at 866-225-5466.
Join Whitney’s Family Cycle Breakers Club for further support and discussion on family dynamics at CallingHome.co.
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WHERE CULTURE AND PARENTING MEET with Leslie Priscilla
CALLING HOME with Whitney Goodman, LMFT
12/12/23 • 45 min
Whitney is joined by Leslie Priscilla, founder of Latinx Parenting, about the intersection of culture, parenting, and childhood.
They discuss the harmful parenting behaviors that are often excused as part of culture, the impact of colonization on parenting styles, and the importance of treating children with respect. They also talk about the challenges faced by Latinx families, such as the expectation to take care of parents in old age and the normalization of violence against children.
Leslie emphasizes the importance of breaking generational cycles, being gentle with oneself, and finding a supportive community.
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Q&A: My Mom Didn't Protect Me From My Dad
CALLING HOME with Whitney Goodman, LMFT
11/14/24 • 43 min
In this episode, Whitney speaks with two callers. She explores the complexities of parent-child relationships, emotional neglect, parentification, and the challenges of navigating relationships with disabled parents. She discusses the emotional struggles faced by children of abusive parents, the responsibilities of parents to protect their children, and the nuanced perspectives of both victims and perpetrators within family systems. Additionally, Whitney addresses the impact of family businesses on emotional connections and the anxiety that can arise from financial responsibilities placed on children.
You can join the Family Cyclebreakers Club at Calling Home here.
To learn more about Whitney and her work, visit her website.
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Q&A: My Parents Are Politicians
CALLING HOME with Whitney Goodman, LMFT
11/21/24 • 34 min
In this episode, Whitney answers two caller questions. Caller 1 is dealing with cultural pressures to care for her gaining parents. Caller 2 has parents who are politicians with beliefs that differ from her own.
You can join the Family Cyclebreakers Club at Calling Home here.
To learn more about Whitney and her work, visit her website.
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How To Balance The Needs Of Your In-Laws, Your Parents, and Your Own Family
CALLING HOME with Whitney Goodman, LMFT
11/19/24 • 20 min
Balancing the needs of in-laws, parents, and your new family can be challenging, especially when merging families with different backgrounds and expectations. In this episode, Whitney discusses why open communication, clear boundaries, and empathy are key to maintaining balance. I
Takeaways
- Balancing the needs of in-laws, parents, and your new family requires open communication and clear boundaries.
- Prioritize your immediate family while considering the needs of your extended family.
- Compromise and individual relationships with in-laws and parents can help navigate conflicts.
- Consider setting boundaries or distancing yourself in cases of abuse or harm
Timeline
03:58: Negotiating Contrasting Dynamics and Tensions
06:18: Standing Up to Traditions and Family Norms
08:20: The Importance of Open Communication and Clear Boundaries
11:04: Deciding the Role of Your Extended Family
16:26: Seeking Professional Support and Setting Boundaries
Connect
You can join the Family Cyclebreakers Club at Calling Home here.
To learn more about Whitney and her work, visit her website.
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Q&A: Empathy, Boundaries, and Healing
CALLING HOME with Whitney Goodman, LMFT
09/12/24 • 18 min
Balancing boundaries and empathy in family relationships means understanding and validating your family's feelings and experiences while also protecting your own emotional and mental well-being. Empathy allows you to connect with your loved ones on a deeper level, but without boundaries, it can lead to neglecting your own needs and compromising your personal space. Setting boundaries doesn't mean you care any less. Instead, it enables you to nurture healthy, respectful, and sustainable relationships without sacrificing your well-being.
In this Q&A episode, Whitney answers real caller questions on issues they are having with their family. Listen and get valuable insights on how to set and maintain healthy boundaries, practice empathy, and heal past wounds within family dynamics.
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What You Will Learn:
- [00:01] Intro and what in for you in today’s show
- [00:29] How to practice empathy for your parent without breaking your boundaries
- [07:22] How to navigate parent-sibling dynamics and adult healing
- [13:00] Parent-sibling relationship healing and resources
- [13:54] Wrap up and end of the show
Standout Quotes:
- “You can have empathy and understanding for your parents without totally letting it derail and destroy any boundaries or personal space that you have in your life.” [07:08]
- “You have to start working on resolving and healing feelings around how you were treated in comparison to your siblings when you were younger so that it doesn't impact your life in a negative way.” [13:01]
Let’s Connect
Have a question for Whitney? Call Home at 866-225-5466.
Join Whitney’s Family Cycle Breakers Club for further support and discussion on family dynamics at CallingHome.co. Follow the Calling Home community on Instagram.
Click here to get “Toxic Positivity” on paperback.
Follow Whitney Goodman on Instagram or TikTok.
The Calling Home podcast is not engaged in providing therapy services, mental health advice, or other medical advice or services, is not a substitute for advice from a qualified healthcare provider, and does not create any therapist-patient or other treatment relationship between you and Calling Home or Whitney Goodman. For more information on this, please see Calling Home’s Terms of Service.
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FAQ
How many episodes does CALLING HOME with Whitney Goodman, LMFT have?
CALLING HOME with Whitney Goodman, LMFT currently has 84 episodes available.
What topics does CALLING HOME with Whitney Goodman, LMFT cover?
The podcast is about Society & Culture, Podcasts, Self-Improvement, Education and Relationships.
What is the most popular episode on CALLING HOME with Whitney Goodman, LMFT?
The episode title 'Holly Whitaker' is the most popular.
What is the average episode length on CALLING HOME with Whitney Goodman, LMFT?
The average episode length on CALLING HOME with Whitney Goodman, LMFT is 31 minutes.
How often are episodes of CALLING HOME with Whitney Goodman, LMFT released?
Episodes of CALLING HOME with Whitney Goodman, LMFT are typically released every 5 days.
When was the first episode of CALLING HOME with Whitney Goodman, LMFT?
The first episode of CALLING HOME with Whitney Goodman, LMFT was released on Sep 18, 2023.
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