By the Bi
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By the Bi is a podcast for curious minds and open hearts—whether you’re bi, non-monogamous, kinky, or just wondering what it’s like to step outside the hetero-norm. Hosted by a bisexual expat couple, Bradford and Angela, based in Sydney, we dive into real conversations about bisexuality, swinging, open relationships, BDSM, and the messy, beautiful realities of non-traditional love and sex.
Every episode blends personal stories with thoughtful discussions, listener questions, interviews with guests from around the globe, and the occasional cocktail-fuelled confession. We don’t have all the answers—but we’re not afraid to ask the questions your vanilla friends won’t touch. Whether you’re exploring your own sexuality, seeking practical advice, or just want to feel seen, By the Bi offers a welcoming, inclusive space for everyone across the spectrum. So pull up a seat, pour yourself something tasty, and let’s talk about the things no one else will. Oh, and by the bi... we’re damn glad you’re here.
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142 - 50 Shades of Crap
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01/22/19 • 70 min
Welcome back dear listener. Since we've started podcasting, we have had so so many people ask us what our thoughts are about the Fifty Shades of Grey movie. Recently, we FINALLY sat down with our notebooks to watch this movie. Oh wow... why did we agree to do this?
If you HAVE seen the movie (firstly I'm so sorry) you will listen to us rant, rail, and mock it incessantly. If you haven't, but want to, seriously its been out for 4 years... spoiler alert.
So go grab a drink, sit back, and enjoy our suffering.
Proudly part of the Swingset.fm team!
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124 - A Deep Dive into Bisexuality
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09/25/18 • 54 min
This week we start a multi-part deep dive series dissecting Bisexuality. A few months ago we had a listener send us a series of research papers regarding bisexual peoples. We dug through those papers and are attempting to give you an overview on all of the amazing scientific information inside.
This week, in part one, we define Bi-Erasure and Bi-Invisibility. We review the health risks that bisexuals face, we discuss overall life satisfaction, and we address minorities within minorities.
This one is a bit heavy and not our normal jovial conversation, but it is no less important.
So go grab a drink! Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!
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270 - Origins & Coming to Australia
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07/28/21 • 65 min
Another podcast for our Discord folks! This is one that we released in April 2018, but we added some new news to the end about how we made it to Australia!
As you know, we've told the "How We Started Swinging" story many a time but we've never let you into our "How We Met" story... UNTIL NOW!
This week we talk about our own origin story and just like Bruce Banner and Tony Stark, it's kinda sordid. The Hulk and Ironman have nothing on our origin story! You'll hear about how we met, our first date, our first hookup, when we finally decided to become an item, and when we got engaged.
This one is all about the history and it's as sexy as it is silly.
Special thanks to all of our Discord users! Become one by supporting us on Patreon.
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134 - Desire Resort Comparison
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11/27/18 • 89 min
Having had the luxury of spending back to back weeks at Desire Riviera Maya and Desire Pearl in Mexico we thought we would do a direct side by side comparison of the two resorts. We try as best as our brains can to remember every up and down of both locations. Note, that this is a direct comparison of the resorts not any of the sexy swingers staying there. We talk food, pools, hot tubs, beach fronts, discos, and playrooms to try and give you a full understanding of the big picture.
So go grab a drink! Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!
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402 - Double Header Weekend
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04/03/24 • 72 min
This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford dive into the exhilarating world of the classic swingers’ double header weekend, sharing their steamy tales from back-to-back nights at the swingers club, Our Secret Spot. From the electric atmosphere of Friday’s Newbie night to the heightened anticipation and wild abandon of Saturday’s 10th Birthday Party, they’ll give you an all-access pass to the thrills, spills, and intimate connections that define such an adventurous weekend.
But the escapades don’t end there! Bradford takes us on a detour to recount a spicy Grindr hookup while traveling, offering a candid glimpse into the dynamics of casual connections and the surprises they can bring..
Tune in to Episode #402 for an unmissable journey into the heart of swinging and beyond. Don’t forget to subscribe to By the Bi for your biweekly dose of stories that celebrate sexual freedom and exploration. Join us as we embrace the wild, the wonderful, and everything in between!
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242 - The (R)Evolutionary Man
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01/12/21 • 56 min
This week we start with a deep dive into Viagra, Cialis, and Levitra, all drugs for helping with erectile dysfunction.
After, we are lucky enough to interview Nic Tovey, author of The (R)Evolutionary Man. This amazing new book teaches all of us about what it means to be a man.
"Become your own unique version of an awesome man, free from the old bullshit ideas of what that means.
“Man up”, “be a man”, “grow a pair” we’ve heard it all a million times, and we’ve probably said it too, but what does it mean? What is it to “be a man”? This is a question men have been pondering for eons, and in the process, have been setting up some imaginary, barely achievable bar that we’ve been measuring ourselves up against, and failing.
What it means to be a man today is a very different thing than it was for our fathers, and especially for their fathers. We are living in a monumental chapter in the human evolutionary story, where the realms of gender, sexuality, and relationships are in a state of massive reinvention. Many of us are waking up to a new way of being, sensing that there's more to life as a man, free from the old and outdated cage of manhood. But there are few examples of how to do what the world today is calling for and we are left trying to work it out for ourselves.
This has been a question that Nic Tovey has been deeply pondering since boyhood, chasing the elusive “manhood” in all the obvious places; sports, gangs, and the military, and coming up short. Until after a life-threatening assault and subsequent battle with PTSD and depression, when the man he thought he was fell apart. Nic was faced with a choice; die or rebuild himself from the ground up. This book is an expedition through Nic’s story and the discoveries he made on his journey of reinvention to becoming the man he is today.
Nic went on to become a psychotherapist and coach helping other men become their own versions of great men. With powerful and practical wisdom, this book guides you through Nic’s vision of modern manhood - The (R)Evolutionary Man." ~Summary from Amazon.com
Find out more here.
As always, thank you for listening.
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01/29/20 • 52 min
This week we read a listener email... FROM ALABAMA!!! We discuss who the true olympians will be in Tokyo. And we talk to fellow X Award winner and all around amazing human, Daliah Amor.
All of the awesome stuffs that we discuss in the podcast are here!
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Sit back, relax, and as always, thanks for listening!!!
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01/23/20 • 62 min
Due to technical difficulties, we are a bit late this week - this is what happens when a computer dies. #SadFace
This week we review a beautiful email that was sent to us by a listener. Then we discuss yoga... yeah I know. But look I mock people who do yoga... not actually yoga. (And we are persons who do yoga.)
Lastly, we dive into the meat of the podcast... understanding the desires for social sex and, ultimately, sex education in the USA. It's bleak. Very bleak.
Sit back, relax, and as always, thanks for listening!!!
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01/14/20 • 64 min
HELLLLLLOOOOOO!!!!! This week we sit down with The Gentleman and FINALLY discuss and review our experiences at The Swingset Takes Desire 2019. We discuss Theme Nights, sexy times, wonderful people, relaxation, and why you should never leave your sexy accent at home! EVERYTHING involved with a take over at Desire Riviera Maya.
Sit back, relax, and as always, thanks for listening!!!
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377 - Bonding Project Part 1
By the Bi
09/06/23 • 46 min
Journey with us as we delve into “The Bonding Project,” an initiative designed to explore, strengthen, and celebrate the myriad ways we connect with one another. This episode promises to offer listeners a profound insight into the layers of human connection, whether it be romantic, platonic, or something entirely undefined.
The Bonding Project is more than just a concept; it’s a movement that challenges us to think about our relationships in new and transformative ways. What does it mean to truly bond with another? How do past experiences, shared moments, and mutual growth play into these bonds?
Listen as Bradford and Angela share their personal experiences and revelations from engaging with the project. Their candid discussions, interspersed with stories, anecdotes, and perhaps a few surprises, will invite you to reflect on your own relationships and the ways in which you bond with those around you.
Whether you’re in a long-term relationship, seeking new connections, or simply curious about the multifaceted nature of human bonds, this episode provides a thoughtful and inspiring perspective on what it means to truly connect.
Dive into this exploration of human connection on By the Bi.
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FAQ
How many episodes does By the Bi have?
By the Bi currently has 435 episodes available.
What topics does By the Bi cover?
The podcast is about Lgbt, Bisexual, Health & Fitness, Swinger, Society & Culture, Polyamory, Podcasts, Relationships, Health, Sexual and Sexuality.
What is the most popular episode on By the Bi?
The episode title '234 - Flirting Revisited' is the most popular.
What is the average episode length on By the Bi?
The average episode length on By the Bi is 61 minutes.
How often are episodes of By the Bi released?
Episodes of By the Bi are typically released every 7 days.
When was the first episode of By the Bi?
The first episode of By the Bi was released on Dec 29, 2015.
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