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Does your husband seem too busy for you?

Do you feel like you’re carrying the emotional weight of the marriage alone?

You’re not alone, and today, I’m going to show you the secret to being a joyful wife—even when your husband’s focus is elsewhere.

In this episode of Build Your Happier Marriage, we’ll tackle:
✔️ Why joy feels out of reach when your husband is constantly busy
✔️ The powerful shift that will help you reclaim peace and fulfillment
✔️ One simple step to start changing your marriage dynamic today

If you’ve tried talking about it, shutting down, or even waiting for things to change—but nothing seems to work—this episode is for you!

🎧 Tune in now and discover how to maintain your joy and connection, no matter how packed your husband’s schedule is.

Scripture References:

📖 Proverbs 14:1 – “A wise woman builds her home, but a foolish woman tears it down with her own hands.”
📖 Galatians 6:9 – “Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.”
📖 Psalm 127:1 – “Unless the Lord builds the house, the builders labor in vain.”

Resources & Next Steps:

✅ Download A Christian Wife’s Guide to a Happier Marriage – Your roadmap to joy, connection, and intimacy.
✅ Join the Happier Marriage by Design Bootcamp Waitlist – Discover the 5 pillars that will transform your marriage from distant to deeply connected. www.buildyourhappiermarriage.com/waitlist

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💡 Remember: You are one connection skill away from a happier, more peaceful, and stronger marriage!

May the Lord bless you and give you His peace now and always. Take care, and I’ll see you on the flipside!

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n this episode of Build Your Happier Marriage, we’re diving into a powerful lesson that could save you from deep marriage regret.

Too many wives fall into a painful trap, thinking they’re doing the right thing—only to realize later that it cost them dearly.

Today, we’ll uncover this one critical mistake, why it happens, and most importantly, how to avoid it.

You’ll hear a shocking real-life story that perfectly illustrates this mistake and how one woman’s good intentions led to a devastating outcome. More importantly, we’ll break down the biblical wisdom and practical steps you can take to protect yourself and your marriage.

🔹 In this episode, we’ll cover:
1️⃣ The #1 mistake that leads to marriage regret and how to recognize it before it’s too late.
2️⃣ The hidden dangers of unchecked compassion and why it’s not the same as wisdom.
3️⃣ How to make marriage decisions with clarity, faith, and discernment—so you never look back with regret.

📖 Key Bible Verse: Proverbs 4:23 – “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.”

🔥 Key Takeaways:
✅ Love should never replace wisdom—learn how to balance the two.
✅ Trust is built over time, not assumed based on feelings alone.
✅ The difference between being a supportive wife and being taken advantage of.

🎉 Want more?
This episode barely scratches the surface! Inside the Happier Marriage by Design Bootcamp, we go deeper into how to make wise marriage decisions, avoid common pitfalls, and build a stronger, more fulfilling relationship.

This is just one of the five pillars I teach—imagine what your marriage could look like with all five!

📩 Get on the waitlist for the Bootcamp Today: [www.buildyourhappiermarriage.com/waitlist]

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Now, let’s dive in—your happier marriage starts here! 🎧❤️

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A long lasting marriage is rare these days. So in response to the question on giving advice for long lasting marriage, here's what this couple had to say:
“It feels good. It feels like almost no time at all. It's both forever ago and just a blink of an eye ago” ~ Josh and Jenny Elledge
Have you felt the same about your marriage as this couple did 28 years later? Would you be able to say the same about your marriage?
If you were to encounter Josh and/or Jenny or a couple who have been in a long lasting marriage, you might ask, "What's the secret to your enduring bond?" Right?
Well, in this episode, you'll have the opportunity to listen to an interview with this couple who embarked on their journey together after just 21 days of knowing each other and are still going strong 28 years later.

However, as you'll soon discover, their story carries a valuable cautionary tale, one that they will share directly in their own words in response to a question I posed to them
Who is Josh and Jenny Elledge:

Josh Elledge is indeed the founder and CEO of "Up My Influence," as well as the Chief Executive of "SavingsAngel.com." He also has experience as a syndicated TV host, Podcast Expert, and newspaper columnist.
Jenny Elledge is a licensed marriage and family therapist, and she is currently in the process of pursuing additional qualifications to become a sex therapist.
www.JennyElledge.com
Remember to take the Happier Marriage Assessment at www.happiermarriagesecrets.com/quiz. Plus, join our friendly Facebook group at www.facebook.com/connectstrong.
Let's work together to make marriages happier again!

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Welcome to another episode of Build Your Happier Marriage! In today’s episode, we’re tackling a critical issue that affects so many marriages: resentment.
If you’ve ever felt like the weight of unmet expectations, unresolved conflicts, or constant misunderstandings is driving a wedge between you and your spouse, this episode is for you.

We’ll explore why resentment often creeps into marriages, how it damages emotional intimacy, and—most importantly—how you can overcome it before it takes over your relationship.
This is a conversation every wife needs to hear, especially if you’re feeling like you’ve been carrying the emotional load alone.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode

• The Root of Resentment: Understand how resentment forms in marriage and why it can feel like an emotional wall between you and your husband.
• The Cost of Holding On: Learn how unresolved resentment doesn’t just hurt your relationship but also your emotional and spiritual well-being.
• Practical, Christ-Centered Solutions: Discover actionable steps to release resentment and rebuild intimacy, all rooted in Biblical principles and faith-based guidance.

Key Bible Verses Referenced

• Proverbs 14:1: “A wise woman builds her home, but a foolish woman tears it down with her own hands.”
• Galatians 6:9: “Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.”

Your Action Step

You’ll walk away with one simple, practical step you can take today to begin releasing resentment and restoring connection in your marriage. This step will help you set a new, healthier pattern for your relationship while also breaking free from unhealthy habits.

Resources Mentioned in the Episode

• Free Resource: Download A Christian Wife’s Guide to a Happier Marriage at www.buildyourhappiermarriage.com/guide.

Final Encouragement

Overcoming resentment isn’t easy, but it’s possible.
You don’t have to do this alone—God is with you, and He has equipped you with wisdom and grace to build the marriage you’ve always wanted.
As we dive into this topic, remember Galatians 6:9: “At the proper time, you will reap a harvest if you do not give up.”

Don’t miss this episode—it could be the breakthrough you’ve been praying for!

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Next Week’s Episode
Join me next week as we discuss: The Secret to Communicating Your Needs Without Conflict.

May the Lord bless you and fill your home with His peace and love. See you on the flipside!

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“Actions speak louder than words” ~ Abraham Lincoln.
This quote amplifies the fact that words by itself is not enough. It's words combined with actions that make the difference and in some cases, believable.
This is one of the ways to test true love ... look at the actions.
One of the most memorable bible verses is John 3:16 which says, "For God so loved the world that he GAVE (emphasis added) his only begotten son ..."
God showed his love through action; the act of giving.
One of the ways that your spouse gauges your love for them is through your actions, especially during tough times.
If you've been in a relationship for any extended period of time, you'll go through tough times,
These are times your partner needs reassurance of your love and support for them. They need to hear and see your love for them.
We need to reassure our partners with words like these: “I’m here for you, I will not leave you, I love you, and I am your shoulder to cry on”.
And Remember, every spouse needs something different that reassures them of your love.
In this episode, you will discover 5 ways to effectively support your spouse and let them feel that you care for them and that you love them through tough times.
As you listen pay attention to the one(s) that speaks to your situation and make a decision as to what you will do about it.
Again, if you have questions as you listen to this episode, remember, we're always here and ready to help!
Send us an email at [email protected] - our team will be glad to provide assistance and/or DM Kingsley on social media.
And remember to follow us on all our social media platforms for even more tips and resources to help make your marriage happier!
Now, let's MAKE MARRIAGES HAPPIER AGAIN!

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