
096-Do not take anything „personally" - Buddhism in daily life
07/07/22 • 6 min
Do not take anything „personally“
How to stop taking things so personally - and
and live a better life that way!
Why is this happening to me? I'm just unlucky! Everything is conspiring against me! I'm such a poor sheep!
Is that so?
NO
That's exactly not how it is, no human being is just unlucky (or lucky), there are also no conspiracies against us, who or what should be conspiring, please, and why should it even be the case?
Although we as Buddhists "know" that everything is already written, it can help if we "do not take everything so personally", but calmly and calmly accept fate.
To "know" something does not necessarily mean to act correctly, there is still a lot of "room for improvement" in every human being.
To take everything "personally", for this there are all kinds of causes for some fellow men. The gods have conspired, a weak self-confidence, strong emotions, the environment, health, we are quick with excuses at hand.
However, it is important to understand that the origin of "taking it personally" is within ourselves, not coming from the outside. It is just a feeling that makes us take everything personally.
Because negative things also happen to other people in life. But not everyone relates the occurrence of negative circumstances to themselves right away.
The question is, how we deal with these incidents, process them further. Whether we take them "personally". It is exclusively our own decision whether we take something "personally" or not!
"Nobody can hurt me without my permission", said the great Mahatma Gandhi.
There is no conspiracy of the gods, only we ourselves conspire against ourselves, if we take something personally, it is our own fault.
Everything that happens to us in life, according to Buddha, only represents our destiny.
Everything comes as it must, so why take anything "personally"?
Instead of worrying about a conspiracy against yourself, you can look into the concept of "enlightenment", what is "awakening", what did Buddha mean when he said "life is only a dream"?
PERSONALLY I AM ALWAYS WILLING TO LEARN, ALTHOUGH I DON'T ALWAYS WANT TO BE TAUGHT
WINSTON CHURCHILL - BRITISH STATESMAN - 1874 TO 1965
Copyright: https://shaolin-rainer.de
(Please also download my app "Buddha-Blog English" from the Apple and Android stores)
Do not take anything „personally“
How to stop taking things so personally - and
and live a better life that way!
Why is this happening to me? I'm just unlucky! Everything is conspiring against me! I'm such a poor sheep!
Is that so?
NO
That's exactly not how it is, no human being is just unlucky (or lucky), there are also no conspiracies against us, who or what should be conspiring, please, and why should it even be the case?
Although we as Buddhists "know" that everything is already written, it can help if we "do not take everything so personally", but calmly and calmly accept fate.
To "know" something does not necessarily mean to act correctly, there is still a lot of "room for improvement" in every human being.
To take everything "personally", for this there are all kinds of causes for some fellow men. The gods have conspired, a weak self-confidence, strong emotions, the environment, health, we are quick with excuses at hand.
However, it is important to understand that the origin of "taking it personally" is within ourselves, not coming from the outside. It is just a feeling that makes us take everything personally.
Because negative things also happen to other people in life. But not everyone relates the occurrence of negative circumstances to themselves right away.
The question is, how we deal with these incidents, process them further. Whether we take them "personally". It is exclusively our own decision whether we take something "personally" or not!
"Nobody can hurt me without my permission", said the great Mahatma Gandhi.
There is no conspiracy of the gods, only we ourselves conspire against ourselves, if we take something personally, it is our own fault.
Everything that happens to us in life, according to Buddha, only represents our destiny.
Everything comes as it must, so why take anything "personally"?
Instead of worrying about a conspiracy against yourself, you can look into the concept of "enlightenment", what is "awakening", what did Buddha mean when he said "life is only a dream"?
PERSONALLY I AM ALWAYS WILLING TO LEARN, ALTHOUGH I DON'T ALWAYS WANT TO BE TAUGHT
WINSTON CHURCHILL - BRITISH STATESMAN - 1874 TO 1965
Copyright: https://shaolin-rainer.de
(Please also download my app "Buddha-Blog English" from the Apple and Android stores)
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095-Birds - Buddhism in daily life
Birds
A pair of blackbirds has been breeding on my balcony, yesterday the little ones hatched. Five mini birds in my flowerpot, beaks constantly open, some dried grass as a base, mom almost always sits on it, keeps her children warm, dad is looking for worms in the garden, brings almost endless supply.
At first we (my girlfriend and I) thought that birds had been looking for food in the flowerpot, perhaps scattering the soil on the balcony, making a mess. At first we almost overlooked the nest, then we did not notice anything as such, until we noticed the constant coming and going on the terrace, then we looked more closely. A bird's nest, first with one egg, the next day there were then two, always a new egg per day, until there were then five pieces. The mother is constantly brooding, not two meters away from my desk chair, the birds seemed to have no fear of us. Strangely, they trust us completely, I whistle, they respond, quickly we have become the foster parents for their offspring.
We put water, bought bird food, we give them rice and bread, we watch the pair of birds intensively.
Now the interest awoke, we researched on the Internet, little was found about a friendship between people and blackbirds, but it has become a togetherness, similar to a pet there is a kind of common understanding.
Watching how the animals touchingly care for their children, how the couple also works together and sticks together, it's magical, much like a married couple also raising their children.
The pair of birds made us think more deeply about the different living beings, and how much obviously also animals have emotions and feelings, the interaction of the pair of birds speaks for itself. And if even small birds have such emotions, then larger animals even more so.
And we humans think to have the right to rule over all other living beings, to make them usable for us, which is why we also speak of farm animals, which we can use, kill and eat, throw away or torture, just as we like.
Now if we were the poor pigs in the enclosure, had found a partner in "captivity" (another poor pig), and then another living being (a human being) comes and takes our (beloved) partner to slaughter and eat him, how would our feelings be there? And that animals have such emotions is clear (at least for us) by the example of the bird pair, only one makes even otherwise no thoughts about the animals, apart from the so much "loved" pets once.
We now eat almost exclusively vegetables.
Looking at the birds is (as I said) magical, the journey is the destination!
Who sees appearance as appearance and the being as being, penetrates up to the core of the truth, has read the right track
Buddha - "The Enlightened One
Copyright: https://shaolin-rainer.de
(Please also download my app "Buddha-Blog English" from the Apple and Android stores)
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097-Gifts to my self part 3 - Buddhism in daily life
Gifts to my self part 3
Have you already read the first parts of my series "Gifts to my ego" click. Click here to continue:
10. meditation
A special gift to my own self is meditation, which I practice daily. Here breathing, mindfulness, health, peace, happiness and extreme well-being unite to a spiritual unity. Every day is then a good day, because with such a gift it is possible to be pleasant, the I is cared for, the body is strengthened, the soul is calmed. Buddha in his calm meditation pose has become a symbol of Buddhist teachings for many people, his figures are in almost every house, we see from his example that for a happy life we only need our resolution "to be happy", nothing more.
11. recognize yourself in your totality
Only the one who knows himself is really wise, the one who learns to recognize himself in all facets with the teachings of Buddha, gets power over the ego, which makes man a suffering being in the first place, which should urgently be put in its place. What makes you as a person, what are your most important qualities? Can you determine what makes you special as a person, sets you apart from others around you? Can you write down 5 points that best represent you as a whole?
12. diary
Your life is special and particular, which is why it is worth recording the important steps. I keep a kind of calendar where I note all the events that are important to me. And believe me, every day is different, in the today, here and now, that's where the music plays. What did you experience, what did you eat, who did you meet, what were you happy about, what were you not happy about, did you meditate, or do sports, what was going through your mind? This is not about writing an essay, or a large amount, no, keywords are enough (at the beginning), your life is worth it.
13. focus as a filter
What is your goal, what is in your focus? We need to keep asking ourselves where we are turning our head, where the focus is, on what, and also why. Getting the focus right will bring you incredible power and energy, be a wonderful gift to your own self. Those who set the focus correctly (and honestly) will no longer waste their energy senselessly, seek and find fewer distractions, focus on goals, realize dreams.
According to the great teacher, none of this really matters, but for the group of "feel-good Buddhists" it does.
The path is always the goal!
Continue reading in the next few days on the topic of "Gifts to my self".
If a seeker has ten qualities, he is worthy of the gifts
Buddha - "The Enlightened One" - honorary name of Siddharta Gautama - 560 to 480
Copyright: https://shaolin-rainer.de
(Please also download my app "Buddha-Blog English" from the Apple and Android stores)
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