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10/10/21 • 47 min

Annnnnnnnddd we're back.
After a brief (re: long) hiatus, we are back for season 4! We catch y'all up on what has been going on in our lives, our recent therapy sessions, and our goals for season 4.
If you are listening to this episode, we thank you for your continued support and for sticking with us! While we don't know what life holds, we're looking forward to reconnecting.
Are you looking to collaborate, connect, or just need some advice? We are here for you! Please feel free to reach out to us here:
[email protected].
Don't forget to check out our social media:

IG - @blkflngspodcast
Facebook - @blkflngspodcast
YouTube- @blkflngspodcast

IG - @blkflngspodcast
Facebook - @blkflngspodcast
YouTube- @blkflngspodcast

Previous Episode

Hindsight is 20/20

Happy New Year!
On the season finale of Blk Flng Podcast, we catch up on our latest therapy session(s), and reflect on the year that was 2020! Ilia discusses birthday blues turning 30 during the pandemic and Monica shares her hope for our society turning a new leaf after the attempted coup on the Capitol. We discuss what we hope this new year will bring, and talk about the future of Blk Flngs Podcast and plans for our break!
Thank you so much for your continued support and sticking around for this ride! We will be back very soon with new episodes and content for you!
In the meantime, if you are looking to collaborate, connect or you just need some advice? We are here for you! Please feel free to reach out to us here:
[email protected].
Don't forget to check out our social media:

IG - @blkflngspodcast
Facebook - @blkflngspodcast
YouTube- @blkflngspodcast

Next Episode

Never Deny a Good Cry

Welcome back! This episode, Ilia and Monica discuss taking the time to reflect on their accomplishments rather than always pushing forward, and rekindle the conversation on setting boundaries when it comes to caring for family and friends. As well, they share a tip from Mel Robbins on why it is necessary to "High 5" yourself to help release positive hormones during a very sensory-deprived pandemic. The girls also share a moment when they reflect on the people they've lost in the past couple years, and put action to their words when it comes to showing support and strength for one another.
Check out Mel Robbins' interview with The Breakfast Club here:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-breakfast-club/id1232428553?i=1000539202932
If you are listening to this episode, we thank you for your continued support and for sticking with us! While we don't know what life holds, we're looking forward to reconnecting.
Are you looking to collaborate, connect, or just need some advice? We are here for you! Please feel free to reach out to us here:
[email protected].
Don't forget to check out our social media:

IG - @blkflngspodcast
Facebook - @blkflngspodcast