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Big Sexy Talk

Big Sexy Talk

Informing Choices NI

Highly commended in the Irish Podcast Awards 2023 – Best Sex & Relationships podcast
Do you remember all the family gatherings spent discussing the joys of sex around the dinner table? Or the classes in school where your RE teacher showed you how to put a condom on a demonstrator? No? REALLY! If, like us, you didn’t have those cosy conversations about sex growing up, then this is the podcast for you! Big Sexy Talk is brought to you by Informing Choices NI. It is produced in mini-series format, with each collection of episodes focusing on a different area of sexual and reproductive health. We conduct in-depth interviews with key influencers, and provide information on sexual and reproductive health services. Join us on a journey as we create a culture of openness about sexual and reproductive health and empower people with the information they need to make informed choices. After all this is a sexual health podcast, so it is.

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Big Sexy Talk - 1.02: (Audrey Simpson) - What about the women?
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02/21/23 • 49 min

This episode contains an in-depth interview with Audrey Simpson. Audrey joined the Family Planning Association (FPA) in Northern Ireland as their Director in 1988 and maintained this role until her retirement in 2015. She led the first ever legal challenge into the provision of abortion services in Northern Ireland and was awarded an OBE for promoting women’s healthcare.
Audrey discusses her experiences of sex education in post primary schools; the firebombing and subsequent closure of the Ulster Pregnancy Advisory Association; the establishment of FPA’s pregnancy counselling service; FPA’s judicial review to seek guidelines for healthcare professionals on the provision of abortion services; the failed attempt at Westminster to extend the Abortion Act 1967 to Northern Ireland in 2008; the first all-Ireland conference on Abortion and Clinical Care in 2010; engagement with the United Nations Committee on the Elimination of Discrimination against Women; and her aspirations for sexual health going forward. After the interview the host and co-host discuss some of the key issues raised.
If you would like support around a sexual health issue you can call the Sexual Health Helpline on 028 9031 6100.
Useful links
https://informingchoicesni.org/pregnancy-choices-counselling
https://www.nidirect.gov.uk/articles/abortion-services
Resources
News article from 1999 regarding the closure of the Ulster Pregnancy Advisory Association
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/uk/413184.stm
News article from 2008 regarding the failed attempt to at Westminster to extend the Abortion Act 1967 to Northern Ireland https://www.theguardian.com/society/2008/oct/21/health-health1

News article from 2010 regarding the all-island conference on Abortion and Clinical Care
https://www.belfasttelegraph.co.uk/news/northern-ireland/abortion-law-changes-urged-as-conference-defies-protests/28564074.html
News articles from 2001 to 2016 regarding the judicial review taken by FPA to provide guidance for healthcare professionals on the provision of abortion services in Northern Ireland
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/northern_ireland/1319624.stm
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/northern_ireland/3726494.stm
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/northern_ireland/7954077.stm
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-northern-ireland-35904497

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02/02/23 • 1 min

Introducing Big Sexy Talk.

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This episode features an in-depth interview with Nick Mathison MLA. Nick is an Alliance Party MLA representing the Strangford constituency, and the Chair of the Education Committee in the Northern Ireland Assembly.
During the interview Nick reflects on the messages he received around relationships and sexuality growing up; his views on positive and negative depictions of masculinity; his experiences of working in England; his journey into politics; conversations on sexual health in the workplace; his role on a Board of Governors at a local Primary School; discussions with constituents regarding Relationships and Sexuality Education (RSE); the Education Committee’s inquiry into RSE; the role of parents in the teaching of this subject; meaningful engagement with young people; and forming relationships with MLAs from different political parties.
Useful links
Informing Choices NI
Education Committee - RSE Inquiry
NI Assembly - RSE Motion
Legislation
The Relationships and Sexuality Education (Northern Ireland) (Amendment) Regulations 2023

Research
NIACT Review 2024
A thematic evaluation of the preventative curriculum in schools and EOTAS centres
Relationships and Sexuality Education in Post Primary Schools in Northern Ireland: A Compelling Case for Reform
Any use? report
SSUNI Let Us Learn report

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This episode contains an in-depth interview with Dawn Purvis. Dawn is a former MLA, representing the East Belfast constituency from 2007 to 2011. Following a period in politics she was appointed Programme Director for Marie Stopes International and led the first integrated sexual and reproductive health clinic offering early medical abortion care in Belfast. She now works in the social housing sector and is chair of Positive Life NI.
Dawn talks about her memories of abortion being discussed during childhood; her decision to join the Progressive Unionist Party; the negotiations that led to the Good Friday Agreement; her thoughts on the current political situation; her experience as an MLA; opening the Marie Stopes clinic in Belfast; shifting political attitudes towards abortion; her interactions with anti-choice protestors; and her aspirations for sexual and reproductive health going forward. After the interview the host and co-host discuss some of the key issues raised.
If you would like support around a sexual health issue you can call the Sexual Health Helpline on 028 9031 6100.
Useful links
https://informingchoicesni.org/pregnancy-choices-counselling
https://www.nidirect.gov.uk/articles/abortion-services
News articles
News article from 2012 regarding the opening of the Marie Stopes clinic in Belfast
News article from 2015 regarding the volunteer escorts working at the Marie Stopes clinic in Belfast
News article from 2015 regarding a harassment case taken by Dawn Purvis against an anti-choice protestor
News article from 2015 regarding the conviction of an anti-choice campaigner for assaulting an FPA employee
News article from 2017 regarding the closure of the Marie Stopes clinic in Belfast
Resources
Health Committee evidence session from FPA NI regarding guidance on the termination of pregnancy
Justice Committee evidence session from Marie Stopes International on compliance with the criminal law on abortion
Health Committee evidence session from Amnesty International UK and Informing Choices NI regarding the Severe Fetal Impairment Abortion (Amendment) Bill

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This episode contains an in-depth interview with Georgie McCormick. Georgie joined the Family Planning Association (FPA) in Northern Ireland in 1986 and is an experienced trainer and facilitator in all areas of sexuality.
Georgie discusses delivering sexual health workshops in community settings in the 1980s and 90s; the impact of the conflict in Northern Ireland on reaching out to groups; working with men on sexual health issues; the advancements in pregnancy testing; the formation of FPA's pregnancy counselling service; the barriers facing women accessing abortion services; the importance of non-directive information and support when discussing pregnancy options; interactions with healthcare professionals; and her aspirations for sexual health going forward. After the interview the host and co-host discuss some of the key issues raised.
If you would like support around a sexual health issue you can call the Sexual Health Helpline on 028 9031 6100.
Useful links
https://informingchoicesni.org/pregnancy-choices-counselling
https://www.nidirect.gov.uk/articles/abortion-services
Resources
Directions from Northern Ireland to an abortion clinic in the Netherlands - FPA NI information sheet which was provided to women travelling from Northern Ireland to the Netherlands to access abortion care.

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This episode contains an in-depth interview with Ellen Taylor. Ellen is the Vice President and Community Relations Officer of the Secondary Students’ Union of Northern Ireland and chair of the Newry, Mourne and Down Youth Council. She is starring in season 2 of the CBBC sci-fi adventure series Silverpoint, and is currently studying her A-Levels.
During the interview Ellen reflects on school life during Covid-19; her involvement with the Secondary Students' Union of Northern Ireland; establishing a Feminist Society; producing a report into sexism and sexual harassment in schools; counselling services in schools; her experience of RSE and preferences on how it should be taught; the provision of information on sexual health services; social media and the influence of Andrew Tate; and her aspirations for sexual health, rights and education going forward.
Useful links
https://informingchoicesni.org/
https://ssuni.org/
Resources
SSUNI Sexual Harassment and Sexism Survey
News
DUP's Jim Wells criticised for response to teenager who used 'The North' in email
Period poverty: No free tampons in school 'adds stress to families'
Students tell of anger at cuts to NI education services
The Good Friday Agreement changed everything for Northern Ireland's young people - so teach them about it

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This episode contains an in-depth interview with Professor Dirk Schubotz. Dirk is a professor in the School of Social Sciences, Education and Social Work at Queen’s University Belfast and has conducted vast amounts of research in the areas of sexuality, sexual health, and gender. He is a member of ARK, Northern Ireland's Social Policy Hub, and has directed the annual Young Life and Times survey of 16-year-olds since 2003. He is also a Trustee of Common Youth.
Dirk reflects on growing up in East Berlin before the fall of the Berlin Wall; his background in youth work; attending the first Pride parade to take place in Belfast; producing the first large scale study into the sexual attitudes and experiences of young people in Northern Ireland; interacting with schools on conducting a survey regarding young people's views on homosexuality and abortion; young people's experiences of relationships and sexuality education (RSE); findings from the Young Life and Times Survey; working with the Belfast Youth Forum to produce their 'Any Use?' report on RSE; and his aspirations around sexual health in Northern Ireland going forward.
If you would like support around a sexual health issue you can call the Sexual Health Helpline on 028 9031 6100.
Useful links
https://informingchoicesni.org/
https://www.ark.ac.uk/ARK/yltResources
Any Use? report: Young people’s opinions on Relationships and Sexuality Education (RSE) in Belfast
Sticks and Stones? Violence experiences of 16-year olds in Northern Ireland
Sexual risks and capacities: Developing a peer-led educational resource to address sexual risks among young people
Relationships and Sexuality Education and Homophobic and Transphobic Name Calling

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The opening episode of series two contains an in-depth interview with Mary Crawford. Mary was the CEO of the Brook Advisory Clinic in Northern Ireland for 25 years, and oversaw the organisations transition to Common Youth before retiring in 2018. She is a veteran pro-choice campaigner, and a Trustee of Informing Choices NI.
Mary reflects on the sex education she received growing up; being involved in abortion rights campaigns as a student in the 1970s; running personal development courses at Youth Action; the opening of the Brook Advisory Clinic in Belfast in 1992; the impact of protests and being targeted within her local area; meeting with former Northern Ireland Secretary of State Mo Mowlam MP; delivering relationships and sexuality education (RSE) programmes in community settings; providing sexual health services to young men; the decline in teenage pregnancy rates; and what constitutes good RSE.
If you would like support around a sexual health issue you can call the Sexual Health Helpline on 028 9031 6100.
Useful links
https://informingchoicesni.org/
https://commonyouth.com/Resources
An Early Day Motion from 1991 regarding the proposed establishment of a Brook Advisory Centre in BelfastNews articles
A BBC News article regarding the firebombing of the Ulster Pregnancy Advisory Association which references the letters sent to Mary Crawford's neighbours
A Belfast Telegraph article regarding the provision of young men's sexual health clinics by Brook NI
A Guardian article regarding relationships and sexuality education in Northern Ireland
A platform piece by Mary Crawford in the agendaNi publication regarding sexual health in the 21st century

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The final episode of the first series contains an in-depth interview with Dr Laura McLaughlin. Dr McLaughlin is co-chair of Doctors for Choice NI, and a member of the Northern Ireland Abortion and Contraception Taskgroup. Following the decriminalisation of abortion Dr McLaughlin worked alongside healthcare professionals and Informing Choices to establish local early medical abortion services, and currently provides abortion care in Northern Ireland.

Dr McLaughlin reflects on her experiences of working in the health service in Northern Ireland, Scotland and Canada; how the previous abortion law in Northern Ireland impacted upon medical professionals and the care provided to women; the formation of Doctors for Choice NI; the impact of Covid-19 and the establishment of early medical abortion services in Northern Ireland; conversations with medical colleagues around the provision of abortion; how abortion is viewed by women and society in Northern Ireland; and her aspirations for sexual and reproductive health going forward.
If you would like support around a sexual health issue you can call the Sexual Health Helpline on 028 9031 6100.
Useful links
https://informingchoicesni.org/pregnancy-choices-counselling
https://www.nidirect.gov.uk/articles/abortion-services
Resources
Report from the Northern Ireland Abortion and Contraception Taskgroup published in March 2021 on Sexual and Reproductive Health in Northern Ireland
Report published by Informing Choices NI in June 2021 entitled Beyond Decriminalisation: pregnancy choices and abortion care in Northern Ireland
News articles
An Irish News article from April 2020 on the launch of the central access point into early medical abortion care
An article from June 2020 on abortion provision in Northern Ireland written by Dr Laura McLaughlin
An Irish Times article from October 2022 on the uncertainty of abortion provision in Northern Ireland featuring Dr Laura McLaughlin
A Belfast Telegraph article from December 2022 on the commissioning of abortion services in Northern Ireland featuring Dr Laura McLaughlinVideo
A video created by Doctors for Choice UK called 'Kind to women: how the 1967 Abortion Act changed our lives'

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This episode contains an in-depth interview with Gráinne Teggart. Gráinne joined Amnesty International in 2009 and is the Deputy Director of the human rights organisation in Northern Ireland. She has lead Amnesty’s campaigning and strategic litigation on abortion law reform and worked on a multitude of issues including human trafficking and legacy issues relating to the conflict in Northern Ireland. Gráinne is a Trustee of the Integrated Education Fund as well as Informing Choices NI.

Gráinne reflects on the Good Friday Agreement 25 years on; her time at school and views on integrated education; the positive and negative impact of social media; working alongside women who had been directly affected by Northern Ireland’s near total abortion ban; campaigning for abortion reform when she was pregnant; Repeal of the 8th amendment; the decriminalisation of abortion in Northern Ireland; and her aspirations for sexual and reproductive health going forward.
If you would like support around a sexual health issue you can call the Sexual Health Helpline on 028 9031 6100.
Useful links
https://informingchoicesni.org/pregnancy-choices-counselling
https://www.nidirect.gov.uk/articles/abortion-services
Resources
UK Supreme Court judgment in the matter of an application by the Northern Ireland Human Rights Commission
High Court judgment in the matter of an application by Sarah Jane EwartNews articles
A Belfast Telegraph article regarding a visit to Northern Ireland from a Labour Party delegation hosted by Amnesty International UK and FPA NI
An Irish News article regarding a visit to Northern Ireland from a Conservative Party delegation hosted by Amnesty International UK and FPA NI
A Guardian article regarding the passage of a Motion by Belfast City Council in support of the decriminalisation of abortion
A BBC News article regarding the decriminalisation of abortion featuring Denise Phelan
A BBC News article regarding the outcome of a judicial review taken by Sarah Ewart
Video
A video produced by Amnesty International UK regarding the decriminalisation of abortion in Northern Ireland

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FAQ

How many episodes does Big Sexy Talk have?

Big Sexy Talk currently has 13 episodes available.

What topics does Big Sexy Talk cover?

The podcast is about Health & Fitness, Society & Culture, Abortion, Mental Health, Pregnancy, Podcasts, Relationships, Masculinity and Sexuality.

What is the most popular episode on Big Sexy Talk?

The episode title '2.03: (Ellen Taylor) - How do you get rid of a stigma?' is the most popular.

What is the average episode length on Big Sexy Talk?

The average episode length on Big Sexy Talk is 52 minutes.

How often are episodes of Big Sexy Talk released?

Episodes of Big Sexy Talk are typically released every 7 days, 1 hour.

When was the first episode of Big Sexy Talk?

The first episode of Big Sexy Talk was released on Feb 2, 2023.

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