Big Hormone Enneagram
John Luckovich, Emeka Okorafor, David Gray, Alexandra Arroyo-Acevedo
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BHE 118 - [LIVE POD] Q&A/AMA
Big Hormone Enneagram
07/20/22 • 63 min
We haven’t deserted y’all. Coming live to you from Brooklyn, NY answering your AMA questions. And we’ve got a small live audience with us. Link to the live video on Youtube: https://youtu.be/plnJ9a1pFUA
— (8:30) We’re all mistyped
— (9:55) Yes, you’re the toxic one if your 9 has checked out
— (11:58) Self-pres 9s carrying the weight of the world
— (15:44) 9s being mean and dramatic but nice in different contexts
— (19:16) Hexad types with attachment fixes and vice versa
— (29:13) Josh and the What It’s Like To Be You pod / what it's like to interview attachment vs hexad types
— (37:28) Emeka talks to himself when he’s talking to you
— (41:06) Gray’s assertive attachment approach to get bonding and connection
— (47:12) How Emeka experiences chemistry when he’s not sexually attracted
— (50:44) How Alexandra experiences chemistry as a sx-blind
— (55:52) John’s a 2 and why people don’t understand heart types
If you haven’t already, go buy John’s book on amazon or barnesandnoble:
https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
DAA — Because anything less than accurate is intolerable.
Watch recent typing classes on Derren Brown, Robert Greene, and get typed at enneagrammer.com
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:
https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Call the Loveline with your comments and thoughts about the show at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email [email protected] or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
BHE 148 - 1.STOLEN YOUTH
Big Hormone Enneagram
04/02/23 • 53 min
Watch Stolen Youth on Hulu and get into this.
— (5:13) Larry is an 8w9 862 Wouldn’t Hurt a Fly
— (9:18) What’s so compelling about a type like Larry?
— (13:00) The government and military as social hooks used to manipulate victims
— (24:43) Setting an attachment landscape and opening the door for alternative realities with ‘taking responsibility’
— (29:53) 8’s leveraging victimhood and why Larry is sp/so
— (44:29) Shaping reality with relentless alternative memories / attachment as a survival strategy
— (48:39) The seductive pull of a being given a scapegoat for why your life sucks / rejection creating parental dynamics
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Check out John and Josh’s new formal enneagram school. And sign up for their now 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group:
https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group
DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types more clearly. Watch recent classes on the White Lotus, the Bermuda trifix, the DJ trifix. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com/
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:
https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email [email protected] or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
BHE 186 - FUZZCITYROAD
Big Hormone Enneagram
05/28/24 • 60 min
Got your head on a swivel.
— (1:27) How major the Bermuda Overlays are
— (4:23) No Diddy and creepy 3w2s
— (8:16) Why do people hate Teal Swan so much? / BHE Suicide Hotline
— (16:46) DG’s metallurgy analogy for how a wing transforms a fix
— (23:22) Are the attachment wings harder to see?
— (25:47) What if 9w8 is the most common 9?
— (29:36) Gut is king / 8 chaos vs 1 order
— (43:52) Bermuda hiddenness and discovering their particular specificities
— (52:32) The sensitivity of the human nervous system is the starting point
— (55:01) Bermudas ‘going fuzzy’ is a wide cast net as a platform to show up in
Finally figure out what type of toxic you are with Enneagrammer. Watch recent typing videos on the Drake vs Kendrick beef, Baby Reindeer, and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:
https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:
https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Donate to support the show here:
venmo - @bighormone
https://paypal.me/bighormone
Call the nota4 hotline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email [email protected] or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
BHE 067 - COUNTERTYPE IS DUMB [Part 1]
Big Hormone Enneagram
04/08/21 • 54 min
This week we’re unpacking Countertype, a deplorable concept plaguing the enneagram.
— (1:26) The origin of subtype
— (5:43) What is Countertype?
— (11:23) Social 9 Countertype - “Participation”
— (16:37) Instinct is the basis of the personality
— (18:15) Social 8 Countertype - “Solidarity”
— (26:56) Emeka hates everything about the sexual 8 quote
— (30:51) Sexual 1 Countertype - “Zeal”
— (39:10) Self-pres 3 Countertype - “Security”
— (46:44) Self-pres 2 Countertype - “Privilege”
Don’t forget to leave a voicemail for the Loveline with your type specific kinks and sexual fantasies. The number is (323) 696-0647. Or you can email a voice note to [email protected].
BHE 068 - COUNTERTYPE IS DUMB [Part 2]
Big Hormone Enneagram
04/16/21 • 56 min
We’re picking up where we left off unpacking how terrible and misleading Countertype is.
— (4:11) How Countertypes create the wrong implications about the types
— (10:57) Self-pres 4 Countertype - “Tenacity”
— (19:41) The horrendous sexual 4 description
— (25:30) Sexual 6 Countertype - “Strength/Beauty”
— (31:50) Sexual 5 Countertype - “Confidence”
— (39:10) Social 7 Countertype - “Sacrifice”
— (46:59) Why are we criticizing this material?
Don’t forget to leave a voicemail for the Loveline with your type specific kinks and sexual fantasies. The number is (323) 696-0647. Or you can email a voice note to [email protected].
BHE 151 - INSTINCT RELIGION <=> LOVE LANGUAGES
Big Hormone Enneagram
04/23/23 • 58 min
Dearly beloved / we’re gathered here today / to love through this thing called instinct
— (2:59) We make our dominant instinct a religion / how we manipulate what love is through our dominant instinct
— (5:47) Integrating the social instinct’s verbal-contextual expressions of love / Alexandra’s ‘love cup’ religion propaganda
— (15:03) Zooming out and talking about the relationship meets non-negotiable needs of love / sp/sx wants a smaller and smaller intimacy cave
— (21:09) Overcoming the fear of the blindspot instinct / the analogy of social as light / ’socially slutty’
— (30:47) Social is seeing yourself as a three dimensional human. Personality and character traits, not just your utility.
— (35:53) Alexandra’s war on the sexual instinct and the soc-blinds
— (42:12) The toxicity of sexual instinct attraction
— (48:32) We could develop something like a instinct composite/synastry chart / let’s flesh out love languages for instincts
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Check out John and Josh’s new formal enneagram school. And sign up for their now 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group:
https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group
DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types more clearly. Watch recent classes on the 359 Flat line trifix , Margot Robbie, Jim Morrison. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com/
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:
https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email [email protected] or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
BHE 145 - SCRATCH MY SOUL::Intercourse
Big Hormone Enneagram
03/12/23 • 65 min
We’re talking about love, relationships, and sex again.
— (4:34) Friendship jealousy and what causes it
— (13:38) The tension between expecting too much from a romantic partner and not expecting much at all
— (17:05) Western isolation puts more pressure on romantic relationships
— (20:25) The need to be seen in a relationship and what it means
— (24:26) All About Love by bell hooks defines love as an action to prioritize the other’s well-being
— (32:06) We can only love or see an other to the degree that we can see and care for our own well-being
— (38:44) Putting yourself aside for an other vs not being a doormat or codependent simp
— (44:38) Self-love and knowing how to set boundaries is an important aspect of loving an other
— (49:30) Learning to date and talk to the potential sex partners
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Check out John and Josh’s new formal enneagram school. And sign up for their first class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group:
https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group
DAA — Becoming more fluent in the language of the enneagram to see types more clearly. Watch recent classes on 3 vs 6, 3 vs 9, the DJ trifix special. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:
https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email [email protected] or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
BHE 126 - THE COURTNEY REJECTION EPISODE [PART I]
Big Hormone Enneagram
09/17/22 • 50 min
Courtney is with us this week to work her magic on rejection.
— (4:43) Courtney is here to bring the pain and hear rejection types suffer / What’s been opening up for Emeka?
— (8:49) How rejection types set the dynamic up so it doesn’t work — a pre-rejection frame
— (13:10) Courtney gives a recap/overview of object relations and why it matters
— (15:02) Our O.R. is a blueprint for how relationships need to be setup in order for us to feel like a person
— (16:24) What separates rejection from attachment & frustration is the cutting off from awareness of the original wound and preemptively shutting down the possibility of being touched there again
— (22:44) You reject something by over-affirming and leaning into its opposite
— (31:19) 8s seek out vulnerability and heartfulness in others not because it activates their heart, but because the dynamic reinforces what the 8 structure is already reinforcing
— (36:29) Emeka realizing that as long as attraction is framed within the experience he’s activating then rejection can’t happen on the basis of heart to heart connection
— (40:02) The rejection types are aware that their definition of personhood is a fraction of whole and therefore feel separate and unable to meet others fully
— (42:22) Why do rejection types seek out relationships?
— (47:36) Aloneness as a baseline for rejection types
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:
https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
DAA — Become fluent in the dark arts of enneagram typing.
Watch recent typing classes on 9 and 6 wings, Kurt Cobain, Courtney Love. And get typed at enneagrammer.com
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:
https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Call the Loveline with your comments and thoughts about the show at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email [email protected] or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
BHE 129 - KALI IN THE HOUSE [PART I] - Julie Harris
Big Hormone Enneagram
10/11/22 • 70 min
Julie of Riverbend Coaching is here with us to explore the archetypal feminine.
— (6:48) Why and how Julie connected the archetypal feminine and the enneagram’s 3 centers
— (9:04) The feminine in the body center — sacred form / the fertile matrix
— (14:45) The feminine in nature is an uncontrollable force that gives life
— (15:24) Could the goddesses be connected to the types?
— (19:59) The patriarchy compartmentalizes and the goddesses can both be sexual and nurturing
— (21:21) Developing the feminine: Being more in your senses and open to the experience / welcome the shadow / don’t seek certainty or stasis
— (25:42) The patriarchy perpetuates a lack of being in touch with oneself and the natural cycles of the feminine
— (33:19) The feminine invites you into the beauty of life in all the senses and the creation of new things
— (36:52) How a linear directional point of view is applied to inner work vs the unfolding nature of allowing inner work to envelope your consciousness
— (41:41) A short guided breath practice to experience the masculine and feminine
— (49:41) Abundant heart — to be able to be fully with whatever’s happening and the threshold of what’s next
— (54:30) There’s no growth in an unwounded life / the feminine welcomes the vulnerability of being wounded
— (1:03:24) When we allow ourselves to experience grief it moves and ends up connecting us to what we love
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:
https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
DAA — Learn how to see with the eyes of the enneagram. Watch recent typing classes on 9 and 6 wings, dark 7s, rejection fixes. And get typed at enneagrammer.com
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:
https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Call the Loveline with your comments and thoughts about the show at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email [email protected] or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
BHE 167 - THE RAGE
Big Hormone Enneagram
10/02/23 • 56 min
The fuming and stewing gut types.
— (4:03) Alexandra wants to be led when she’s in the mood
— (9:05) David is very angry at the sun
— (16:49) And the plague of bread people
— (20:35) Alexandra finally admits she has a rage problem
— (30:30) Emeka’s rage is the fuel that keeps the car running people over
— (34:25) 8 vs 1 fix anger and boundaries / the games begin once the 8 lets you in
— (42:41) 4s and 8s are drama queen inversions of each other
— (45:59) The cutting denigrating rage of 1s
— (50:02) 1s think they know the one best way to do everything
To sign up for John’s 2024 Egypt Trip visit:
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DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Snobby vs Peopley, Reactive types, and 7w6 vs 6w7. Join to watch typing classes: https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:
https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:
https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
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Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email [email protected] or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
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How many episodes does Big Hormone Enneagram have?
Big Hormone Enneagram currently has 194 episodes available.
What topics does Big Hormone Enneagram cover?
The podcast is about Podcasts, Spirituality, Self-Improvement, Religion & Spirituality and Education.
What is the most popular episode on Big Hormone Enneagram?
The episode title 'BHE 033 - TRI-FIXATION HOW-TO GUIDE [Part 2]' is the most popular.
What is the average episode length on Big Hormone Enneagram?
The average episode length on Big Hormone Enneagram is 67 minutes.
How often are episodes of Big Hormone Enneagram released?
Episodes of Big Hormone Enneagram are typically released every 7 days, 13 hours.
When was the first episode of Big Hormone Enneagram?
The first episode of Big Hormone Enneagram was released on Jan 6, 2020.
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