Big Hormone Enneagram
John Luckovich, Emeka Okorafor, David Gray, Alexandra Arroyo-Acevedo
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BHE 118 - [LIVE POD] Q&A/AMA
Big Hormone Enneagram
07/20/22 • 63 min
We haven’t deserted y’all. Coming live to you from Brooklyn, NY answering your AMA questions. And we’ve got a small live audience with us. Link to the live video on Youtube: https://youtu.be/plnJ9a1pFUA
— (8:30) We’re all mistyped
— (9:55) Yes, you’re the toxic one if your 9 has checked out
— (11:58) Self-pres 9s carrying the weight of the world
— (15:44) 9s being mean and dramatic but nice in different contexts
— (19:16) Hexad types with attachment fixes and vice versa
— (29:13) Josh and the What It’s Like To Be You pod / what it's like to interview attachment vs hexad types
— (37:28) Emeka talks to himself when he’s talking to you
— (41:06) Gray’s assertive attachment approach to get bonding and connection
— (47:12) How Emeka experiences chemistry when he’s not sexually attracted
— (50:44) How Alexandra experiences chemistry as a sx-blind
— (55:52) John’s a 2 and why people don’t understand heart types
If you haven’t already, go buy John’s book on amazon or barnesandnoble:
https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
DAA — Because anything less than accurate is intolerable.
Watch recent typing classes on Derren Brown, Robert Greene, and get typed at enneagrammer.com
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:
https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Call the Loveline with your comments and thoughts about the show at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email [email protected] or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
BHE 148 - 1.STOLEN YOUTH
Big Hormone Enneagram
04/02/23 • 53 min
Watch Stolen Youth on Hulu and get into this.
— (5:13) Larry is an 8w9 862 Wouldn’t Hurt a Fly
— (9:18) What’s so compelling about a type like Larry?
— (13:00) The government and military as social hooks used to manipulate victims
— (24:43) Setting an attachment landscape and opening the door for alternative realities with ‘taking responsibility’
— (29:53) 8’s leveraging victimhood and why Larry is sp/so
— (44:29) Shaping reality with relentless alternative memories / attachment as a survival strategy
— (48:39) The seductive pull of a being given a scapegoat for why your life sucks / rejection creating parental dynamics
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Check out John and Josh’s new formal enneagram school. And sign up for their now 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group:
https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group
DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types more clearly. Watch recent classes on the White Lotus, the Bermuda trifix, the DJ trifix. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com/
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:
https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email [email protected] or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
BHE 197 - WE GIVE YOU 4-WINGS
Big Hormone Enneagram
12/28/24 • 92 min
After an unfathomable delay we’ve returned to the wings series.
**send in your questions and comments for episode #200 bonanza**
—(1:27) Alexandra gaslighting us about why she gave up on the wing series
—(12:25) 4-wings intro
—(17:53) 9 vs 4 differences / 4’s off-putting emotional aggression
—(23:17) The ambient emotional friction of 4 / frustrated reactivity as a self-protecting boundary
—(29:05) 4w3’s formed self-identity vs 4w5’s formless god particle
—(34:14) 4w5 being in the dark about itself
—(38:33) 4w3 representing something beyond the map
—(42:29) 4w3 refining personal subjective taste into a unique ‘thing’
—(49:09) 4w3 vs 4w5 in interviews / the self-contained rejection offering of 4w5
—(53:39) 4w3’s aloof sommelier identity
—(58:37) 4w3 operatic stylization vs 4w5 bottomless mystery
—(1:06:35) The decaying dark matter anti-style of 4w5 / https://www.instagram.com/the__ljilja/
—(1:10:47) How we feel talking about our heart center type
—(1:13:21) What 4w5s are like in the wild
—(1:24:20) Luigi Luigi
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Get typed by us and subscribe to watch typing classes on Luigi Mangione, Martha Stewart, and Travis Hunter 9w19w88w99w81w99w89w16w76w79w19w86w59w89w19w86w76w79w8
https://www.enneagrammer.com/
Donate to support the show:
https://paypal.me/bighormone
venmo - @bighormone
Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and trash tv gossip: https://www.saturnruled9.com
Buy John’s instinct book for christmas: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
You’re a bread person if you only have one copy of DG’s Trifix Booklet: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Call the BHE hotline with your questions at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email [email protected] or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
BHE 193 - CONTRASYNS
Big Hormone Enneagram
10/17/24 • 38 min
— (1:27) The Big Hormone Self-Pres podcast
— (3:37) Psychedelics as anti-depressants (correction: serotonin is a neurotransmitter not a hormone)
— (11:26) COVID stories and launching the pod
— (16:31) The great disillusionment
— (19:51) Trump and elon dork
— (21:52) Synflow vs contraflow in autonomy conflicts
— (33:30) Getting back into the wing series / 3w2vs3w4
Donate to support the show:
https://paypal.me/bighormone
venmo - @bighormone
The Pain of the Blindspot seminar with John & Alexandra
https://www.theenneagramschool.com/painoftheblindspot
Find out what flavor of toxic you are 9w19w88w99w81w99w89w16w76w79w19w86w59w89w19w86w76w79w8
https://www.enneagrammer.com/
Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and trash tv gossip: https://www.saturnruled9.com
Josh and John’s 6-part class on the centers of intelligence and object relations: https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers
Only morons still don’t have John’s instinct book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
You’re a bread person if you only have one copy of DG’s Trifix Booklet once: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Call the nota4 hotline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email [email protected] or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
BHE 186 - FUZZCITYROAD
Big Hormone Enneagram
05/28/24 • 60 min
Got your head on a swivel.
— (1:27) How major the Bermuda Overlays are
— (4:23) No Diddy and creepy 3w2s
— (8:16) Why do people hate Teal Swan so much? / BHE Suicide Hotline
— (16:46) DG’s metallurgy analogy for how a wing transforms a fix
— (23:22) Are the attachment wings harder to see?
— (25:47) What if 9w8 is the most common 9?
— (29:36) Gut is king / 8 chaos vs 1 order
— (43:52) Bermuda hiddenness and discovering their particular specificities
— (52:32) The sensitivity of the human nervous system is the starting point
— (55:01) Bermudas ‘going fuzzy’ is a wide cast net as a platform to show up in
Finally figure out what type of toxic you are with Enneagrammer. Watch recent typing videos on the Drake vs Kendrick beef, Baby Reindeer, and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:
https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:
https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Donate to support the show here:
venmo - @bighormone
https://paypal.me/bighormone
Call the nota4 hotline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email [email protected] or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
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BHE 067 - COUNTERTYPE IS DUMB [Part 1]
Big Hormone Enneagram
04/08/21 • 54 min
This week we’re unpacking Countertype, a deplorable concept plaguing the enneagram.
— (1:26) The origin of subtype
— (5:43) What is Countertype?
— (11:23) Social 9 Countertype - “Participation”
— (16:37) Instinct is the basis of the personality
— (18:15) Social 8 Countertype - “Solidarity”
— (26:56) Emeka hates everything about the sexual 8 quote
— (30:51) Sexual 1 Countertype - “Zeal”
— (39:10) Self-pres 3 Countertype - “Security”
— (46:44) Self-pres 2 Countertype - “Privilege”
Don’t forget to leave a voicemail for the Loveline with your type specific kinks and sexual fantasies. The number is (323) 696-0647. Or you can email a voice note to [email protected].
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BHE 068 - COUNTERTYPE IS DUMB [Part 2]
Big Hormone Enneagram
04/16/21 • 56 min
We’re picking up where we left off unpacking how terrible and misleading Countertype is.
— (4:11) How Countertypes create the wrong implications about the types
— (10:57) Self-pres 4 Countertype - “Tenacity”
— (19:41) The horrendous sexual 4 description
— (25:30) Sexual 6 Countertype - “Strength/Beauty”
— (31:50) Sexual 5 Countertype - “Confidence”
— (39:10) Social 7 Countertype - “Sacrifice”
— (46:59) Why are we criticizing this material?
Don’t forget to leave a voicemail for the Loveline with your type specific kinks and sexual fantasies. The number is (323) 696-0647. Or you can email a voice note to [email protected].
BHE 151 - INSTINCT RELIGION ＜=＞ LOVE LANGUAGES
Big Hormone Enneagram
04/23/23 • 58 min
Dearly beloved / we’re gathered here today / to love through this thing called instinct
— (2:59) We make our dominant instinct a religion / how we manipulate what love is through our dominant instinct
— (5:47) Integrating the social instinct’s verbal-contextual expressions of love / Alexandra’s ‘love cup’ religion propaganda
— (15:03) Zooming out and talking about the relationship meets non-negotiable needs of love / sp/sx wants a smaller and smaller intimacy cave
— (21:09) Overcoming the fear of the blindspot instinct / the analogy of social as light / ’socially slutty’
— (30:47) Social is seeing yourself as a three dimensional human. Personality and character traits, not just your utility.
— (35:53) Alexandra’s war on the sexual instinct and the soc-blinds
— (42:12) The toxicity of sexual instinct attraction
— (48:32) We could develop something like a instinct composite/synastry chart / let’s flesh out love languages for instincts
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Check out John and Josh’s new formal enneagram school. And sign up for their now 6-part class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group:
https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group
DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types more clearly. Watch recent classes on the 359 Flat line trifix , Margot Robbie, Jim Morrison. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com/
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:
https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email [email protected] or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
BHE 145 - SCRATCH MY SOUL::Intercourse
Big Hormone Enneagram
03/12/23 • 65 min
We’re talking about love, relationships, and sex again.
— (4:34) Friendship jealousy and what causes it
— (13:38) The tension between expecting too much from a romantic partner and not expecting much at all
— (17:05) Western isolation puts more pressure on romantic relationships
— (20:25) The need to be seen in a relationship and what it means
— (24:26) All About Love by bell hooks defines love as an action to prioritize the other’s well-being
— (32:06) We can only love or see an other to the degree that we can see and care for our own well-being
— (38:44) Putting yourself aside for an other vs not being a doormat or codependent simp
— (44:38) Self-love and knowing how to set boundaries is an important aspect of loving an other
— (49:30) Learning to date and talk to the potential sex partners
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Check out John and Josh’s new formal enneagram school. And sign up for their first class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group:
https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group
DAA — Becoming more fluent in the language of the enneagram to see types more clearly. Watch recent classes on 3 vs 6, 3 vs 9, the DJ trifix special. And get typed at https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:
https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email [email protected] or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
BHE 167 - THE RAGE
Big Hormone Enneagram
10/02/23 • 56 min
The fuming and stewing gut types.
— (4:03) Alexandra wants to be led when she’s in the mood
— (9:05) David is very angry at the sun
— (16:49) And the plague of bread people
— (20:35) Alexandra finally admits she has a rage problem
— (30:30) Emeka’s rage is the fuel that keeps the car running people over
— (34:25) 8 vs 1 fix anger and boundaries / the games begin once the 8 lets you in
— (42:41) 4s and 8s are drama queen inversions of each other
— (45:59) The cutting denigrating rage of 1s
— (50:02) 1s think they know the one best way to do everything
To sign up for John’s 2024 Egypt Trip visit:
https://www.egyptretreats.com/
DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Snobby vs Peopley, Reactive types, and 7w6 vs 6w7. Join to watch typing classes: https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa
Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com
Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers
Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:
https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T
Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:
https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray
Help us buy new equipment here:
venmo - @bighormone
https://paypal.me/bighormone
Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email [email protected] or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message
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FAQ
How many episodes does Big Hormone Enneagram have?
Big Hormone Enneagram currently has 202 episodes available.
What topics does Big Hormone Enneagram cover?
The podcast is about Spirituality, Religion & Spirituality, Podcasts, Self-Improvement and Education.
What is the most popular episode on Big Hormone Enneagram?
The episode title 'BHE 033 - TRI-FIXATION HOW-TO GUIDE [Part 2]' is the most popular.
What is the average episode length on Big Hormone Enneagram?
The average episode length on Big Hormone Enneagram is 67 minutes.
How often are episodes of Big Hormone Enneagram released?
Episodes of Big Hormone Enneagram are typically released every 7 days, 15 hours.
When was the first episode of Big Hormone Enneagram?
The first episode of Big Hormone Enneagram was released on Jan 6, 2020.
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