Big Dating Energy

Ely Kreimendahl is a writer, comedian, and therapist. She’s also the host of the Shame Spiral podcast and just an absolute delight. She joins Jeff for a conversation on shame, why it’s so painful to experience, why we’re afraid to talk about it, and why confronting our shame can be so empowering.

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If you’re near Brooklyn, check out Ely’s monthly queer comedy show, Gay Shame.

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DISCLAIMER: The insights shared in this podcast are for educational purposes only, and should not be seen as a substitute for professional therapy. The guidance is general in nature, and does not equate to the personalized care provided by a licensed therapist. The callers are not therapy clients.

Taylor Lorenz is a brilliant journalist who has been at the forefront of covering internet culture since the early days of Tumblr. Her book Extremely Online: The Untold Story of Fame, Influence, and Power on the Internet delves into the world of influencers, online communities, and the ways in which the internet shapes our behaviors and worldview. She joins Jeff this week to talk about hacking the algorithm, getting stuck in Tinder’s “Ugly Jail,” and why some people are trying to move away from finding love on dating apps. The two discuss the complicated nature of living an online life, offering nuanced discussions on topics that are often refused that treatment, like the controversy around those leaked Jonah Hill texts and the saga of “West Elm Caleb.” And honestly? So much more. This episode is packed full of fun, insightful discussions you won’t want to miss.

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Keep up with Taylor Lorenz: https://www.instagram.com/taylorlorenz/

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Is there a sell-by date on nude pics? We find out on this week's Big Dating Energy when Jeff invites comedian Catherine Cohen to share her hilariously honest and insightful opinions on your relationship questions. Including the subject of sending old nudes, competing with babes, and the age old question of asking how many people your partner has slept with.

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Love Cat Cohen? You can find her here www.catherine-cohen.com

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In this episode of Big Dating Energy, Jeff is joined by the incredible Katie Thurston for a candid discussion about her journey in the world of reality TV and the intricacies of her dating life. From exploring the highs and lows of being in the public eye to reflecting on the unique challenges of finding love on camera, Katie shares valuable lessons learned during her time on The Bachelor, Bachelorette and FBoy Island. Jeff and Katie delve into the behind-the-scenes dynamics, discuss the influence of producers, and examine the ever-relevant question: Can genuine love truly blossom on the stage of a reality dating show?

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Keep up with Katie at @thekatiethurston

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Jennie Young is a writer, rhetorician, and English professor at University of Wisconsin, Green Bay. She is also the creator of the Burned Haystack Dating Method which aims to right the wrongs of the current digital dating landscape. Dr. Young joins Jeff to share her ten dating app rules, break down how the words we use affect our dating lives, and to help us better understand how we can use our language with intention to hopefully have a less miserable dating app experience.

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Listen to Jeff's podcast Problem Solved here: https://wavepodcastnetwork.com/

Learn more about Jennie Young and her Burned Haystack Dating Method

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DISCLAIMER: The insights shared in this podcast are for educational purposes only, and should not be seen as a substitute for professional therapy. The guidance is general in nature, and does not equate to the personalized care provided by a licensed therapist. The callers are not therapy clients.