ReTHiNK: How to teach your children to love God. September 3, 2017 1. Use the measuring stick. Ephesians 6:1, Ephesians 4:17-32, 5:1-4 2. Whatever you permit outside will get inside. Matthew 5:48, Ephesians 5:4-11, 3. God must be first or you won’t last. Ephesians 5:12-20 ReTHiNK: How to teach your children to love God. Ephesians 6:1 Children, obey your parents because you belong to the Lord, for this is the right thing to do. 2 “Honor your father and mother.” This is the first commandment with a promise: 3 If you honor your father and mother, “things will go well for you, and you will have a long life on the earth.” 4 Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger by the way you treat them. Rather, bring them up with the discipline and instruction that comes from the Lord. Parents what are your kids or grandkids obeying? The implication is that there is instruction and commands. In order to have obedient children you must be obedient. How? #.1 Use the Measuring Stick Create a line and a Standard of Life. Hold yourself and them to that standard. In our family we don’t do that. God has said the same thing to us. You are a part of my family. Here how our family lives. Ephesians 4:17-32 Living as Children of Light 17 With the Lord’s authority I say this: Live no longer as the Gentiles (Pagans, The Godless) do, for they are hopelessly confused. 18 Their minds are full of darkness; they wander far from the life God gives because they have closed their minds and hardened their hearts against him. What we are to avoid and what we help our kids to avoid. (LIVE DISCIPLINED LIVES) “Discipline is consistency of character no matter where you are or who you are with.” 19 They have no sense of shame. They live for lustful pleasure and eagerly practice every kind of impurity. (SIN) In a church in San Leandro, California. The following announcement, was in the bulletin. The announcement was all right except for the lack of one single g: “Choir rehearsal this after noon at 3:30. Everyone who wishes to sin in the choir must come to practice.” SIN Calvin Coolidge attended church alone because of the indisposition of Mrs. Coolidge. When he arrived back home he went up to his wife’s room to see how she was feeling. She promptly reassured him, and asked him if he had enjoyed the sermon. He replied in a weak affirmative. “What was it about?” she continued. “Sin.” “What did the minister say?” “He was against it.” 20 But that isn’t what you learned about Christ. 21 Since you have heard about Jesus and have learned the truth that comes from him, 22 throw off your old sinful nature and your former way of life, which is corrupted by lust and deception. 23 Instead, let the Spirit renew your thoughts and attitudes. 24 Put on your new nature, created to be like God—truly righteous and holy. 25 So stop telling lies. Let us tell our neighbors the truth, for we are all parts of the same body. 26 And “don’t sin by letting anger control you.” Don’t let the sun go down while you are still angry, 27 for anger gives a foothold to the devil. 28 If you are a thief, quit stealing. Instead, use your hands for good hard work, and then give generously to others in need. A passenger on board a plane bound from Zurich to Beirut cried out that he was suffocating. The plane landed at Athens and Joseph Pasatour was taken to a hospital where he died. Undressing him, hospital attendants discovered that he was a smuggler and had on a corset with 1,500 valuable Swiss watches. Closer examination revealed that the contraband merchandise had restricted his breathing and caused his death 29Don’t use foul or abusive language. Let everything you say be good and helpful, so that your words will be an encouragement to those who hear them. 30 And do not bring sorrow to God’s Holy Spirit by the way you live. Remember, he has identified you as his own, guaranteeing that you will be saved on the day of redemption. 31 Get rid of all bitterness, rage, anger, harsh words, and slander, as well as all types of evil behavior. 32 Instead, be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you. Ephesians 5:1-4 Imitate God, therefore, in everything you do, because you are his dear children. 2 Live a life filled with love, following the example of Christ. He loved us and offered himself as a sacrifice for us, a pleasing aroma to God. 3 Let there be no sexual immorality, impurity, or greed among you. Such sins have no place among God’s people.4 Obscene stories, foolish talk, and coarse jokes—these are not for you. Well Ben, I want you to know that I don’t swear...out loud and I don’t listen or tell dirty jokes. That’s great! What kind of movies do you watch? What music do you listen to? What type of videos do you watch on your phone or computer? #2. Whatever you permit outside will get inside! The Cat... Some of you have pets. I have neighbors that have pets. I think that’s great because my kids get to pet the dogs and I don’t h...