Beyond Your Number

Ever been caught in a heated argument and wished you had an escape hatch to peace? Or maybe you've left a disagreement feeling drained and misunderstood? Welcome to our latest episode of Enneagram U, where we, Damon and Kelly, use the language of the Enneagram to reshape how you handle conflict. Let us guide you through the maze of tension and disagreements, providing you with the tools to not only survive conflict but to thrive within it.
Conflict is an unavoidable part of life, and each of us, depending on our Enneagram number, handles it differently. Picture this episode as your personal compass, pointing you towards understanding not only your own reactions but also the reactions of others around you. We'll be discussing how rest is critical during conflict, the role of closure and emotions, and how attachment issues can influence the conflict. We also share tailored advice for each Enneagram type, like for type twos' need to acknowledge their role in conflict, and type threes' focus on positive outcomes.
This episode doesn't stop at individual conflicts, we also explore conflict within team settings. We discuss the importance of constructive conflict and the concept of radical candor. Remember, conflict can strengthen teams. It's not about 'winning' the argument but understanding different perspectives. So, come along with us on this journey of understanding and navigating conflict, and emerge stronger, more empathetic, and more insightful than ever before.

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Ever puzzled over your Enneagram number, or just have an itch to delve into the captivating realm of personality studies? Here's your golden ticket! Kelly and I open the Pandora's box of Enneagram mistypes, shining the spotlight particularly on the nuanced distinctions between numbers seven, eight, and nine. A seven, often misunderstood as a three, is a free spirit, radiating joy and fun, as spontaneous and carefree as the monkey that symbolizes it. In contrast, the more calculated three, represented by a peacock, craves validation and tends to think before they speak.
As we navigate further down this rabbit hole, we scrutinize the intriguing dynamics of Enneagram numbers two, four, and five, each with its unique motivations and behavior patterns. From the dependency-driven twos, assertive eights, to the introspective fours and serene nines, we demystify their complex personalities. We also touch upon the fascinating similarities between pairs like two and eight, and five and nine, that often lead to mistyping. This episode is a veritable treasure trove, unearthing the mysteries of human personality. So buckle up and join us on this thrilling journey of discovery!

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Ones, Threes, and Eights. How does the pursuit of perfection drive each type differently? Is your strive for perfection about making the world better or feeling accomplished in the eyes of others? Let's explore the motivations and unique traits that set each type apart and delve into the realities of mis-typing on the Enneagram.
But, that's not all. We also dive deep into the similarities and differences between Enneagram types Two, Six, and Eight. Their motivations, emotional nature, and power dynamics are all on the table. What's common between their dominating personalities and passionate care for others? How does overindulgence impact their lives?

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Part 1: Ever wondered how your favorite Ted Lasso characters could be dissected through the lens of the Enneagram?
The second part of our discussion takes you on an insightful journey into the world of Enneagram 8 type, known for its powerful and protective nature. We dissect how this type influences our leadership styles, personal relationships, and even our passions. Diving into the dynamic intensity 8s bring to their dialogues, we also shed light on the unique relationship between 8s and 9s. Learn how this intensity can be channeled positively to enrich those around us, and the significance of setting boundaries when necessary. Join us in this enlightening discourse and discover how the Enneagram can be a transformative tool in your personal and professional growth.
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What if you could tap into the secrets of the Enneagram Three personality type? How would you like to understand the dynamics of these achievers who bring great motivation and effectiveness to our world? In today's episode, we offer an enlightening exploration of the Enneagram Three, sharing insights into their relentless drive for success, and their tenacity in achieving results. However, the journey doesn't stop there - we also touch upon the challenges these individuals face, such as their struggle to connect with their emotions and the difficulty in recognizing and trusting their feelings.
But there's a twist to the narrative. We journey into the darker side of the Enneagram Three's ambition, discussing their susceptibility to deception in their quest for success. Unmask the unique subtypes of the Enneagram Three and their common yearnings for external validation. We also underscore the impact of failure and downtime on this personality type, often perceived as devaluation. With a focus on rest and replenishment, we offer tips to help these achievers slow down, avoid burnout, and stay at the top of their game. So tune in for a captivating exploration of the world of the Enneagram Three.

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