Becoming/Unstuck
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Becoming/Unstuck tells the stories of internal paradigm shifts. Unsticking from old paradigms is the work of Becoming, or setting ourselves free. The process of Becoming Unstuck is individual, but universal. Everyone has their own story to tell, and this show is the table around which we gather together to share and listen. Here we illuminate that Becoming Unstuck is both journey and destination, process and result, the way Home and Home itself. These stories help us understand that the process of Becoming Unstuck isn't formulaic. It isn't neat and clean. You can't learn it from a book. You have to be willing to get dirty. This kind of education is embodied. It is dynamic and vibrant and messy. This show isn't one in which we cover up that mess because that mess is life, and what we are here to do is learn to live it.
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04/05/24 • 13 min
This piece is dedicated to the memory of a client of mine who passed a few weeks back. She was a bright light, aiming to be a beacon on the path for other pilgrims. I will dearly miss our work together and our connection.
The Hole in the Whole
Becoming/Unstuck
03/18/24 • 9 min
Without you inhabiting every cell of your unique human offering, there is a hole in the whole and it hurts us all. In order to become who we really are, we have to surface and break the secret agreements we have been handed down about how the world works. This is the way we save ourselves, and each other.
You can find a hard copy of this essay here on my website.
It is Grace That Will Lead Me Home
Becoming/Unstuck
08/24/23 • 7 min
Sometimes Life moves very slowly, and sometimes it moves far too fast. It forces evolution and transformation when we're not ready. There is an antidote to the resistance. Want to know what it is?
Mistaking Tourists for Locals in Psychedelic Country
Becoming/Unstuck
08/04/23 • 7 min
When we let tourists set the cultural imagery for psychedelic medicine, it creates fantastical scenarios -- both dreamy and nightmarish -- that get in the way of our ability to tune into our own experience. You can find a hard copy of this essay on my website here.
The Ego Rebound, or, Psyche's Hangover
Becoming/Unstuck
09/16/23 • 7 min
If we don't understand the rebound phase of growth, we can get a little pummeled by it. This essay explains more about the rebound, so that you can notice it, name it, and get yourself to the other side more quickly and smoothly. You can find a written version of this essay on my website, here.
Healing is as Contagious as Trauma
Becoming/Unstuck
10/16/23 • 11 min
Trauma is not the only thing we pass on to each other. Without each other, we would never be able to heal because we cannot see our chains alone. It only together that we can break free from what binds us.
It's Not About Not Being Disregulated
Becoming/Unstuck
11/19/23 • 14 min
We have a culture-wide myth that we can "fix" disregulation and that we will know that we are doing a good job at healing when we stop being disregulated. Healing is not about not being disregulated. Healing starts with disregulation, and if we want to keep healing, then we need to learn to love disregulation. You can find a written version of this essay here on my website.
Old Paradigms & New Beginnings
Becoming/Unstuck
12/22/23 • 8 min
When we make the mistake of believing we live in a static, black-and-white universe we will hit up against a self-imposed glass ceiling. We will not be able to make vertical, second-order change that is called transformation. This kind of change is real, possible, and how the system is built to work, when we take up the charge of getting out of our own way.
This essay was written in January 2022 and you can find a static copy here on my website.
Unschooling & Letting Go of Obedience with Kris Harmelink
Becoming/Unstuck
06/16/22 • 54 min
Kris Harmelink, I think you'll find, is disarming in the sweetest way with her steady openness and transparency. She has been so committed to thinning the façade between her and the world that at this point, it's almost nonexistent. When you ask Kris a question, she will give you as honest an answer as is possible for her at that moment. I find this a true gift to the world. A lot of problems arise from the dissonance between what we say is true versus what is actually true. We are notoriously terrible self-reporters... this is why everyone's dating app profile is whack.
This episode is the very opposite of that.
I have admired Kris, and the way she interacts with the world, since the very day we met. The way she shares her values with the world - whether through facilitating group process for adults, or fostering children in the pursuit of trusting themselves - is such a gift. In this episode she takes us on a journey from "not mattering" as a child, to hating herself as a young adult, to fostering secure attachment in her 20s. In this episode, hear her talk about the unschooling has happened for her, as well as the unschooling adventure on which she about to take off.
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FAQ
How many episodes does Becoming/Unstuck have?
Becoming/Unstuck currently has 26 episodes available.
What topics does Becoming/Unstuck cover?
The podcast is about Society & Culture and Podcasts.
What is the most popular episode on Becoming/Unstuck?
The episode title 'Feeling Things & Gaining Perspective with Cooper N' is the most popular.
What is the average episode length on Becoming/Unstuck?
The average episode length on Becoming/Unstuck is 30 minutes.
How often are episodes of Becoming/Unstuck released?
Episodes of Becoming/Unstuck are typically released every 8 days, 4 hours.
When was the first episode of Becoming/Unstuck?
The first episode of Becoming/Unstuck was released on Apr 8, 2022.
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