Barnyard Language

In this episode of Barnyard Language, hosts Caite and Arlene welcome Olivia, a seasoned cattle farmer and now a full-time travel vlogger. Olivia and her husband have transitioned from owning and operating a farm in Indiana to living life on the road in a 44-foot fifth-wheel RV, traveling to farms all across the United States. This episode dives into their decision to sell their farm, the logistics of RV living with small children and a large dog, and the incredible stories they have gathered from farmers nationwide.

Olivia shares her captivating journey from conventional farming to embracing new, regenerative agricultural practices. The episode is packed with insights into the challenges and rewards of nomadic life, including the importance of breaking free from traditional farming stigmas and being open to change. Listeners will learn about unique farming techniques, the importance of soil health, and how the family manages travel logistics with young children. Olivia's experiences aim to inspire and educate about the diverse approaches within American agriculture.

Follow Olivia Online

• https://www.instagram.com/breaking_new_roots/
• https://www.facebook.com/BreakingNewRoots
• https://www.youtube.com/@BreakingNewRoots

We're glad you're joining us for another episode of Barnyard Language. If you enjoy the show, please tell a friend (or two) and be sure to rate and review us wherever you're listening! If you want to help us keep buying coffee and paying our editor, you can make a monthly pledge on Patreon to help us stay on the air.

You can find us on Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok as BarnyardLanguage, and if you'd like to connect with other farming families, you can join our private Barnyard Language Facebook group. We're always in search of future guests for the podcast. If you or someone you know would like to chat with us, get in touch.

If you have a something you'd like to Cuss & Discuss, you can submit it here: speakpipe.com/barnyardlanguage or email us at [email protected].

Key Takeaways:

• Adaptability in Agriculture: Olivia discusses the significance of being open to new methods in farming, highlighting how farmers can maintain their mental and physical well-being by adopting flexible practices.
• Family Dynamics on the Road: The episode explores how Olivia and her husband manage living and traveling in an RV with their young children, emphasizing the benefits and challenges of a fluid, unstructured lifestyle.
• Regenerative Practices: Insights into unique agricultural techniques, such as using tile lines to manage water resources and the concept of daily rotational grazing, are discussed.
• Staying Present: Olivia talks about the importance of being present and adapting to immediate needs, whether that be stopping frequently on travel days or fostering independence in children.
• Balancing Homesteading and Traveling: The episode illustrates how Olivia's family manages to balance their farming roots with the desire to explore and learn from different farming communities.

Jennifer Way, a farmer from Pennsylvania, shares her experience of growing cut flowers and raising cattle on her farm. She also discusses her background in school counseling and her plans to incorporate therapy for children utilizing the farm and flowers. Jennifer talks about the challenges of balancing off-farm jobs, farm life, and parenting, as well as the benefits of having kids on the farm. She provides insights on how to find therapy for children and emphasizes the importance of starting with the school counselor. Jennifer also highlights the unique opportunities for therapy and learning that the farm environment provides. Jennifer discusses the future of the farm and the possibility of her children not continuing the farming tradition. She reflects on the changes that have occurred in the last 10 years and the expectations of multi-generational farmers to have a successor. Jennifer expresses her belief that the farm will eventually be passed on to someone else who will find joy in it. She also talks about the challenges of maintaining a farm and the need to be closer to her children in the future.

We're glad you're joining us for another episode of Barnyard Language. If you enjoy the show, please tell a friend (or two) and be sure to rate and review us wherever you're listening! If you want to help us keep buying coffee and paying our editor, you can make a monthly pledge on Patreon to help us stay on the air.

You can find us on Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok as BarnyardLanguage, and if you'd like to connect with other farming families, you can join our private Barnyard Language Facebook group. We're always in search of future guests for the podcast. If you or someone you know would like to chat with us, get in touch.

If you have a something you'd like to Cuss & Discuss, you can submit it here: speakpipe.com/barnyardlanguage or email us at [email protected].

Takeaways

• Jennifer Way grows cut flowers and raises cattle on her farm in Pennsylvania.
• She plans to incorporate therapy for children utilizing the farm and flowers.
• Balancing off-farm jobs, farm life, and parenting can be challenging.
• The farm environment provides unique opportunities for therapy and learning.
• Parents can start by reaching out to the school counselor to find therapy for their children. The future of the farm is uncertain as Jennifer's children are not interested in continuing the farming tradition.
• Multi-generational farmers often feel an obligation to have a successor, but Jennifer does not have the same expectation as a first-generation farmer.
• The farm may be passed on to someone else who will find joy in it, preserving the farming tradition.
• Maintaining a farm is challenging and requires a lot of work and dedication.
• Jennifer wants to be closer to her children in the future, regardless of whether the farm continues in the family.

Chapters

• 00:00 Introduction and Farming Background
• 02:58 Growing Cut Flowers and Raising Cattle
• 09:51 Incorporating Therapy for Children on the Farm
• 29:04 Finding Therapy for Children: Start with the School Counselor
• 44:08 Parenting on the Farm and Future Plans
• 48:52 The Uncertain Future of the Farm
• 50:04 The Expectations of Multi-Generational Farmers
• 51:36 Passing on the Farm to Someone Who Will Find Joy
• 52:36 The Challenges of Maintaining a Farm
• 53:54 Being Closer to Family in the Future

This is a republished episode from earlier in the season.

This week we're talking to NY Times bestselling author, TED Talks presenter, podcaster, and professional sex educator Emily Nagoski. Emily is the author of 'Come As You Are' and the forthcoming 'Come Together' and co-authored the book 'Burnout' with her twin sister Amelia. Emily has her PhD in Health Behavior and was the Director of Wellness Education at Smith College before focusing on speaking and writing full time.

This episode contains frank discussion of sexual and anatomical topics, as well as self-care, dealing with rage, how to not hate your long-term partner, what consent really means, and a lot more. As usual, headphones might be a wise choice!

You can find all of Emily's work at EmilyNagoski.com and you can follow her on Instagram . Her new book is currently available for pre-order at your local indie book shop, and they can get you her current books as well.

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You can find us on Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok as BarnyardLanguage, and on Twitter we are BarnyardPod. If you'd like to connect with other farming families, you can join our private Barnyard Language Facebook group. We're always in search of future guests for the podcast. If you or someone you know would like to chat with us, get in touch.

In this special episode, hosts Arlene and Caite, are chatting with, Kirsten Diprose, host of the Ducks on the Pond Podcast, to discuss their experiences with farming and parenting in rural settings. They share personal stories, highlighting the cultural and logistical differences between rural and city life, and emphasize issues like mental health, childcare accessibility, and community importance. The discussion explores the genuine nature of rural interactions, the significance of allowing children to choose their own paths, and the strong ties among rural women. Additionally, the hosts reflect on farming legacies, family priorities, and humorous parenting moments, providing a comprehensive look at the joys and challenges of rural living across three different countries.

Connect with Kirsten

• https://instagram.com/theimpossiblefarmher/?hl=en
• https://www.ducksonthepond.com.au/
• https://www.ruralpodcastingco.com/

We're glad you're joining us for another episode of Barnyard Language. If you enjoy the show, please tell a friend (or two) and be sure to rate and review us wherever you're listening! If you want to help us keep buying coffee and paying our editor, you can make a monthly pledge on Patreon to help us stay on the air.

You can find us on Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok as BarnyardLanguage, and if you'd like to connect with other farming families, you can join our private Barnyard Language Facebook group. We're always in search of future guests for the podcast. If you or someone you know would like to chat with us, get in touch.

If you have a something you'd like to Cuss & Discuss, you can submit it here: speakpipe.com/barnyardlanguage or email us at [email protected].

Chapters

• 00:00 Introduction and Host Introductions
• 01:19 What Are You Growing?
• 01:45 Farming in Australia
• 03:57 Farming in Iowa
• 05:24 Farming in Ontario
• 07:31 Agricultural Diversity and Challenges
• 16:05 Parenting on the Farm
• 19:16 Podcast Themes and Guest Highlights
• 44:45 Unprepared for Parenthood
• 44:53 Debunking Baby Myths
• 45:42 Sleep and Parenting
• 46:40 Toilet Training Challenges
• 47:51 The Toddler Phase
• 49:28 Close Age Siblings
• 57:40 Raising Kids in Rural Areas
• 01:13:05 Farming and Family Legacy
• 01:18:44 Conclusion and Reflections

Katja Williams, a farmer from Dubbo, New South Wales, shares her experience of managing a family farming operation and raising kids. She discusses the challenges of moving to a family farm and the importance of setting boundaries and effective communication with in-laws. Katja also talks about her podcast, The Rural Mum, where she shares stories and provides tips and advice for women who have married into farming families. The conversation in this part focuses on the rebranding of Katja's show to 'The Ultimate Farmwife' and the challenges and adjustments she faced as a farmwife and mother. It also touches on the importance of setting boundaries, managing expectations, and adjusting to the farming dynamic. The discussion explores the transition to parenthood, the impact on relationships, and the need for support in the farming community. The concept of the 'ultimate farmwife' is introduced as someone who is adaptable, problem-solving, and constantly adjusting to the demands of farm life. Katja Williams, a farmer and mother, shares her experience of managing farm work and parenting. She discusses the challenges of balancing domestic tasks, farm work, and childcare. Katja emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries and creating a structured schedule to maintain productivity and ensure the well-being of both herself and her children. She also highlights the need for support and understanding from the farming community when it comes to addressing concerns and seeking help. Katja's love for the space and freedom that raising children on the farm provides shines through, despite the struggles she faces.

Connect with Katja Online

• https://www.instagram.com/theultimatefarmwife/
• https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCXgTtnzV7IE-bIeafXc3Nww
• https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-ultimate-farm-wife/id1688912540?app=podcast

We're glad you're joining us for another episode of Barnyard Language. If you enjoy the show, please tell a friend (or two) and be sure to rate and review us wherever you're listening! If you want to help us keep buying coffee and paying our editor, you can make a monthly pledge on Patreon to help us stay on the air.

You can find us on Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok as BarnyardLanguage, and if you'd like to connect with other farming families, you can join our private Barnyard Language Facebook group. We're always in search of future guests for the podcast. If you or someone you know would like to chat with us, get in touch.

If you have a something you'd like to Cuss & Discuss, you can submit it here: speakpipe.com/barnyardlanguage or email us at [email protected].

Takeaways

• Moving to a family farming operation requires learning new skills and managing different dynamics.
• Setting boundaries and effective communication are crucial for maintaining healthy relationships with in-laws.
• Podcasts like The Rural Mum provide a platform for women to share stories and offer tips and advice for navigating life on a farm.
• Being part of a farming family involves wearing many hats and juggling various responsibilities.
• Preserving family heirlooms and managing expectations around them can be a challenge.
• Recognition and praise from family members can be a significant validation for newcomers to the farm. The rebranding of Katja's show to 'The Ultimate Farmwife' reflects her focus on providing practical advice and solutions for farmwives.
• Setting boundaries and managing expectations are crucial for maintaining a healthy work-life balance as a farmwife.
• The transition to parenthood can be challenging, especially in the context of farm life, but it also provides opportunities for growth and adaptation.
• Support from the farming community is essential in navigating the unique challenges of being a farmwife and mother.
• The 'ultimate farmwife' is someone who is adaptable, problem-solving, ...