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Balls Deep co-hosts Rachel Wainz and Arielle Kaplan are joined weekly by comedians & sexuality experts to chat about dating and relationships- and to answer all of your most embarrassing Google searches.

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HAPPY THANKSGIVING, BLUE BALLERS! This week, the girls get Balls Deep in two of their favorite topics, SEX and FOOD, in this ultra-satisfying special episode. The girls wonder why there are no good Thanksgiving movies but tons of excellent TV episodes (#neverforget the pie from Gossip Girl), schmooze about holiday-themed step sibling porn, and share their best hometown hookup tips.

And for the main course: Why is food so sexy? Listen up for the breakdown. Arielle gives food play tips and rattles off a list of aphrodisiacs and Rachel explains the psychology behind what makes food so fuckin sexy. The hosts top off the episode with a dive deep into two of the most popular food fetishes — feederism and splashing — and explore how these fetishes can sometimes be disguised as viral content.

No advice this week, but send your questions, tips, and fantail to 8555-OKAYSO

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11/26/21 • 67 min

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Happy Balls Deep Day! This week, Arielle shares an exxxtremely juicy story and Rachel gives a TEDx Talk on Swift v. Gyllenhaal. The girls schmooze about horny laxative ads and shitting your brains out at fat camp, and tell you all about the former bishop who left Jesus to jack off pigs (really). In news, the hosts get Balls Deep in two studies that prove people are fucking less than they used to — and that ain’t necessarily a bad thing!

Y’all are gonna wanna pay attention to this interview. Syd and Soph (the co-hosts of Straight Candid) join the pod to talk TOXIC FRIENDS! Breaking up with a good friend can be awkward but sometimes, you just gotta do it. Tune in for a raw convo about real issues... and when you’re done listening to this ep, head over to their pod to hear Rachel and Arielle give the dirt on toxic dicks.

Okay, so.... a Blue Baller sends us fan mail and another caller is taken aback by the way her ex ended the relationship. Got a question? Call 8555-OKAYSO

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11/19/21 • 90 min

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Happy Friday, Blue Ballers! This week on Balls Deep, Rachel gets her titties painted, Arielle has a tipsy meet-cute at a vintage store, and together they roast No Nut November and praise Netflix’s Big Mouth. The girls schmooze about censorship and OnlyFans’ newest creator: a museum in Vienna. Tune in to learn about the world’s first unisex condom, why we self-sabotage relationships, and the importance of establishing a “shared reality” with your partner.

Can the spiritual be sexual? Jewish-Mexican witch and sex magick expert Gabriela Herstik says YES! The author of Embody Your Magick teaches the girls how to harness the power of their orgasms and opens up about finding community in kink. Devoted to the Goddess of Love, Gaby shares how to step up your glamour game and how infusing magick into her beauty routine is her way of honoring her Holocaust survivor grandmother.

Okay, so... a Blue Baller made a sex tape and has questions about female ejaculate, and another BB wants advice on orgasming during sex without a vibrator. Got a question? Call 8555-OKAYSO

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11/12/21 • 89 min

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Happy No Nut November, BBs! This week on Balls Deep, the girls are TIRED and UNSOCIABLE! Rachel rewatches How I Met Your Mother and applauds it for giving couples the representation they deserve and Arielle shares her experience with Golden Penis Syndrome. The girls slam the person who created women’s fitted t-shirts and wonder if unisex clothing and names are really just masculine trends masking as gender neutral. In news, the hosts get Balls Deep in why couples who watch porn together stay together and a surprising new study that suggests dating app marriages are doomed to end in divorce.

This week’s honorary guest is comedian Liza Treyger, aka GLITTERCHEESE! Popularly known for co-hosting That’s Messed Up: An SVU Podcast, Liza bemoans her weed addiction with Arielle, vents about baby pushers with Rachel, and the gaggle of giggling gals dissect Liza’s dating life and bond over bisexuality.

Okay, so... a Blue Baller calls in with a question on sexual assault (trigger warning) and another listener is scared to have sex in her apartment lest her roommates hear, and the sexual tension is FESTERING! Got a question? Call 8555-OKAYSO

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11/05/21 • 77 min

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It’s a Balls Deep Spooktacular! No tricks this week, only TREATS for our Blue Ballers! This week, Rachel and Arielle dive into the sexy history of Halloween to explore how a former Gaelic festival evolved into the one time of year when a girl can dress like a total slut and no other girls can say anything about it. The girls wonder if Halloween costumes are sexist, explain why men should show more skin, and give the listeners tips on how to put together a last-minute look.

Did you know that horror is the only genre where women have more screen time and lines than men? Well, now you do. A spooktacular simply isn’t complete without an analysis of horror’s two favorite movie tropes: The Final Girl and Death by Sex.

For the main event we get Balls Deep into spectrophilia (AKA ghost sex). From Patrick Swayze’s Ghost to American Horror Story, pop culture is filled with ghost sex scenes—and according to a handful of celebrities, it’s a real thing. Arielle rattles off all the celebs who’ve gotten down and dirty with spirits, and Rachel tells the dramatic tale of Amethyst Realm, the woman who’s had sex with more than 20 ghosts.

Next week we’ll be back to our regularly scheduled programming. If you’ve got a sex/relationship question call the hotline: 855-OKAYSO.

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10/29/21 • 71 min

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Happy Friday BOOs! This week on Balls Deep, Arielle is busy being alone, Rachel has flashbacks to Catholic school, and the girls debate what makes a vampire fuckable. In schmooze, the hosts chat about poo-phoria, why Sex and the City wasn’t feminist, and Hollywood’s hottest couples. For the listeners, the girls explain why watching porn ISN’T cheating and reveal some of the Blue Baller’s sex horror stories. Later on, Rachel shares some stats on rising dating show viewership and falling marriage rates and Arielle talks about three shitty Spanish men who posed as a female author. Guh-ross!

Hold onto your broomsticks y’all, shit’s about to get spooky! Hollywood Psychic Medium Patti Negri joins the girls to spill all the saucy stories in her cauldron—from conducting a seance at age eight to conjuring the spirit of Marilyn Monroe. She tells us about the different ways people have sex with ghosts and why she thinks Ouija boards shouldn’t be sold in toy stores. Listen up, and don’t forget to suspend your disbelief!

Okay, so... a Blue Baller gained weight during Covid (relatable) and is afraid of catfishing her dating app suitors, and another listener wants to test the submissive waters but has no idea where to start. Got a question? Call 8555-OKAYSO

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10/22/21 • 87 min

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HAPPY FRIDAY, BLUE BALLERS! This week on Balls Deep, Rachel tries cycle syncing her period to her productivity, Arielle finally bonds with her kitten, and the girls schmooze about bisexual Superman, Salmon Rice Bowl Girl’s engagement, and why Saturday has always been for the girls. The girls give their verdict on whether you can turn a fuckboy into a boyfriend and get Balls Deep in new safety standards for sex toys and how dangerous dating apps can be.

Intersectional sex and relationship writer Gabrielle Smith joins the girls for an in-depth conversation about polyamory. The honorable guest of the week reveals her non-monogamous journey, chats about queer imposter syndrome, and walks us through the polyamory lexicon. If you’ve thought about dipping your toes into polyamory, or just wanna know what all the buzz is about, tune the eff in!

Okay, so... a Blue Baller wants to know if it’s normal to be invited to a bachelorette party even though she’s not a bridesmaid, and another listener needs help turning off her sex toy. Got a question? Call 8555-OKAYSO.

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10/15/21 • 92 min

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Happy Friday, Blue Ballers! This week, Rachel takes a necessary break from work (and celebrates her birthday in solitude), Arielle needs new pants to fit her fat ass, and the girls chat about Tom Brady’s grossness and Lizzo’s TED Talk on twerking. In more schmooze, the girls teach men how to properly cover their infidelity, explain why some men botch their house chores, and Arielle recommends watching Professor Marsten and the Wonder Women on HBO. Fresh off the press, the cohosts get Balls Deep in how the pandemic showed us consent isn’t just about sex and the correlation between appearance dissatisfaction and sexual problems.

New friend of the pod Kenzie Brenna chats with the girls about healing your inner child and why she pivoted from being a weight loss influencer to a self-love influencer. The girls get into the double standard placed on women’s bodies and how Disney totally fucked them all up. Tune in for an incredibly raw conversation on navigating a thin-focused society in a fat body.

Okay, so... a Blue Baller calls in with the ultimate dilemma: How can she explore her bisexuality while in a monogamous heterosexual relationship? Got a question? Call 8555-OKAYSO or email [email protected]

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10/08/21 • 93 min

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Happy Friday, Blue Ballers! This week, Arielle masturbates to Jersey Shore, Rachel goes through hell week, and the girls schmooze about hickey hacks, Kardashian queerbaiting, and Netflix’s obsession with celibacy. The girls also discuss why maybe James Bond shouldn’t be a woman and the questionable “sex loopholes” Mormon teens use to preserve their virginity. Hot off the press, the hosts share a study that proves your grandparents are better at using dating apps than you and talk about how having safe sex can save the animals (yes, really).

This week’s esteemed guest is Stanzi Potenza, an award-winning actor, writer, and creator. You probably know them from their viral TikToks, where they create comedy series like Satan and God, Civil War Gays, and Call Out News. Stanzi gives the girls a behind-the-scenes look at how they create content and gets Balls Deep in gender identity, bisexuality, and how they finally found their style in quarantine.

Okay, so... a Blue Baller is self-conscious about her inverted nipples and another caller seeks advice on being more open on social media. Got a question? Call 8555-OKAYSO

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10/01/21 • 93 min

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HAPPY FRIDAY, BLUE BALLERS! This week, we have a very bittersweet announcement — Balls Deep has reached its end. It’s been a hell of a 49 episodes with y’all and we enjoyed every minute of schmooze, news, interview(s), Qs, and BOOZE! Don’t fret, we’re not going anywhere!! Our DMs are open :)

Phew, now that we ripped off the bandaid... let’s get to the schmooze! Rachel’s analysis of Pete Davidson and Kim Kardashian’s budding relationship shows that all roads lead back to Kris Jenner, and Arielle shares the tale of Judith, the Hanukkah heroine who seduced the enemy with her feminine wiles. Spooky season is debatably over but we’ve got another wild ghost story on the agenda from Arielle and a lesson on the female and male gaze from Rachel. In news, listen to a deep dive on Plan B’s effectiveness (or lack of effectiveness) on larger bodies.

Our honorary final guest is none other than Brandon Kyle Goodman (!!) An actor, activist, writer, and self-proclaimed “Messy Mom,” Brandon takes us into the Big Mouth writer’s room and how he’s finally making the representation he needed as a child. Host of the Black Folx podcast, Brandon is an outspoken queer, Black person whose signature blowjob is SO mind-blowing that it made it to Urban Dictionary.

Okay, so... no real questions this week, but a Blue Baller calls in just to share some compliments <3

IT’S NOT GOODBYE, IT’S SEE YOU LATER... Blue Ballers for life, baby!!

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12/03/21 • 88 min

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