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Bachelor to Boyfriend

Bachelor to Boyfriend

Erika Davian

Bachelor to Boyfriend is the podcast for men who want a loving relationship with a woman, but struggle with anxiety, self-doubt, and a fear of rejection. Erika Davian reveals strategies to help you be more confident, turn down the volume on rejection, and date with ease. Whether you are healing from a past relationship or never had a girlfriend before, discover how you can approach dating, sex, and love in a whole new way.

Hosted by a dating and intimacy coach with years of experience helping men just like you, this podcast is dedicated to helping you break free from your old patterns and beliefs, and create the fulfilling relationship you deserve. Each episode is packed with practical tips, insights, and expert information to help you transform your love life.

From developing confidence and self-esteem, to learning to be vulnerable and express emotions, to overcoming fear of rejection and past experiences with women, this podcast covers all the essential topics you need to know to develop healthy relationships with women. Plus, you'll learn the latest research on dating and relationships, and hear from experts in the field who will share their insights and advice.

So if you're ready to finally create the love life you've always wanted, then tune in to Bachelor to Boyfriend and join our community of men who are on the same journey as you. Hit subscribe and get ready to change your life.

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Bachelor to Boyfriend - 24. Top 5 dating mistakes made by less experienced men
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12/11/23 • 25 min

Ever wondered why dating can sometimes feel a bit tricky?

Well, in today's episode, I'm breaking down the top 5 dating mistakes I see inexperienced men make. It's like getting a secret map to make dating way better!

Hit play now – your dating life's about to get a serious upgrade!

WHAT YOU WILL LEARN:

  • Why being clear about what you want is super important!
  • How to tell someone what you really, really want (without being scared!)
  • The secret power of asking questions (and why it's totally okay!)
  • What to do when things don't go the way you hoped (spoiler: it's not about you!)

Want to take your investment in your confidence and well being to the next level? Check out Bachelor to Boyfriend, my 12-week program where I can give you one-on-one coaching that fits your exact situation.

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Bachelor to Boyfriend - 14. Dominic's Story

14. Dominic's Story

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06/26/23 • 27 min

I am beyond thrilled to share with you this episode of a conversation between me and one of my former clients. Dominic is in his 30s, on the autism spectrum, and prior to completing the Bachelor to Boyfriend program, had never had a girlfriend before. He recently wrote me to tell me he is now officially in a relationship with his first girlfriend ever. Tune in to learn how he made this happen.

WHAT YOU WILL LEARN:

  • Some of the obstacles to finding a girlfriend that he faced
  • How his approach changed as a result of working together
  • How coaching has helped him in other areas of his life
  • His advice if you are not sure what action to take

Want to take your investment in your confidence and well being to the next level? Check out Bachelor to Boyfriend, my 12-week program where I can give you one-on-one coaching that fits your exact situation.

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Bachelor to Boyfriend - 7. Erections And The Mind

7. Erections And The Mind

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05/08/23 • 22 min

While an erection is something that you experience in your body, it is largely a product of your mind. This episode breaks down the phrase “it’s all in your head” to help you understand the relationship between your body and brain and why it is so important to change what is in your head if you want different results in bed.

What you will learn:

  • How the parasympathetic nervous system regulates erections.
  • Why your arousal level how your body performs don’t always match up
  • When not creating an erection is part of the body’s good design
  • What tarantulas and erections have to do with each other

Want to take your investment in your confidence and well being to the next level? Check out Bachelor to Boyfriend, my 12-week program where I can give you one-on-one coaching that fits your exact situation.

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Bachelor to Boyfriend - 2. Hoping vs. Planning

2. Hoping vs. Planning

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04/10/23 • 17 min

We say we’re planning to go on vacation, quit our job, or buy a house... why don’t we say we are planning for love? This week explores why having a mindset of planning vs. hoping helps radically change how we approach dating and creating a relationship.

Things you will learn:

  • The difference between planning and hoping for something to happen (and why it matters)
  • How your energy and intention shifts when you are planning to do something versus when you are simply hoping that it will happen
  • If you really value something, then you plan for it to happen
  • You can plan for love

Want to take your investment in your confidence and well being to the next level? Check out Bachelor to Boyfriend, my 12-week program where I can give you one-on-one coaching that fits your exact situation.

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Bachelor to Boyfriend - 8. Your Thoughts About Sex

8. Your Thoughts About Sex

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05/15/23 • 21 min

This week, we're delving into the powerful connection between your mind and your quality of sexual experiences. Regardless of your experience level, this episode is packed with valuable insights for you.

We'll address common unhelpful thoughts that can trigger negative emotions and hinder your ability to enjoy sex. By reshaping your thoughts now, you'll be better equipped for incredible moments in the future.

Join me as we explore the power of your mind in creating great sexual experiences. Let's transform the way you approach sex for the better!
What you will learn:

  • The feeling state that helps the body tap into the parasympathetic nervous system and experience pleasure fully.
  • How to identify unhelpful thoughts that are keeping you from being in this state.
  • Which thoughts will help support you in creating a great sexual experience with someone.

Want to take your investment in your confidence and well being to the next level? Check out Bachelor to Boyfriend, my 12-week program where I can give you one-on-one coaching that fits your exact situation.

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Bachelor to Boyfriend - 6. Boundaries in dating

6. Boundaries in dating

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05/01/23 • 20 min

If you notice yourself holding back because you're afraid of getting yourself into relationship that you don't really want to be in, then this episode is for you. Whether you're new to the concept or consider yourself a pro, dating and intimacy coach for men Erika Davian breaks down how to create super simple, healthy boundaries that will lead to deeper connections and make sure you never get stuck in a relationship in a relationship that doesn’t work for you.
Here’s what you’ll learn:

  • What most people have it all wrong when it comes to boundaries
  • 4 things to consider before making a boundary
  • How to make a boundary that works 100% of the time and with very little drama
  • A super simple formula that you can use on the spot the next time you need it

Want to take your investment in your confidence and well being to the next level? Check out Bachelor to Boyfriend, my 12-week program where I can give you one-on-one coaching that fits your exact situation.

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Bachelor to Boyfriend - 12. The Problem With Positive Thinking
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06/12/23 • 17 min

This week we’re fixing a common misconception: the idea that we should all want to be happy 100% of the time. Even if this were possible, I would never want this for you. Tune in to hear what I think is even better than being happy in order to create the results you want.
WHAT YOU WILL LEARN:

  • Why I would never want you to be happy 100% of the time, even if it were possible.
  • Why an effective mindset is more important than a positive mindset (and how to tell the difference)
  • How you can choose the right emotions to fuel your actions.

Want to take your investment in your confidence and well being to the next level? Check out Bachelor to Boyfriend, my 12-week program where I can give you one-on-one coaching that fits your exact situation.

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Bachelor to Boyfriend - 10. Disappointment In Dating

10. Disappointment In Dating

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05/29/23 • 21 min

Disappointment is inevitable. It is going to come up at some point in dating and sex, so let’s talk about how to work with it! Whether you've experienced heartbreak, rejection, or unmet expectations in the dating world, understanding how to deal with disappointment is crucial for cultivating resilience and moving forward.

What you will learn:

  • How intensity of our feeling is determined by what is happening in our minds.
  • Why avoiding disappointment ends up creating more disappointment.
  • Two options for when disappointment comes up.
  • Why building a tolerance is important for creating the relationship you want.

Want to take your investment in your confidence and well being to the next level? Check out Bachelor to Boyfriend, my 12-week program where I can give you one-on-one coaching that fits your exact situation.

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Bachelor to Boyfriend - 9. The Right Decision

9. The Right Decision

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05/22/23 • 19 min

Our love lives are created by the countless decisions we make in dating and relationships. In this episode, men’s dating and intimacy coach Erika Davian shares personal stories and experiences to show the importance of managing your mind in decision making, so you can make decisions quickly and confidently, without looking back.
WHAT YOU WILL LEARN:
- What makes something a "right" or "wrong" decision
- Why managing your mind is so important to living a life without regret
- What it means to find evidence for a decision

Want to take your investment in your confidence and well being to the next level? Check out Bachelor to Boyfriend, my 12-week program where I can give you one-on-one coaching that fits your exact situation.

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Bachelor to Boyfriend - 25. Men's Sexual Health with Dr. Susie Gronski
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02/28/24 • 24 min

Ever felt the struggle with pelvic issues that no one seems to understand? I hear you. In this episode, Dr. Susie Gronski and I unravel the secrets to free you from the grip of pelvic challenges.

It's more than physical. Tune in to find out why your emotions matter in the world of pelvic health.

WHAT YOU WILL LEARN:

  • how stress impacts your intimate life and discover the keys to achieving mind-body harmony.
  • the profound connection between emotions and pelvic health
  • practical tips for a healthier and happier intimate life regardless.
  • insights on building confidence in discussing men's health topics.
  • how to redefine body image, and embrace self-compassion for a fulfilling sexual journey.

Want to take your investment in your confidence and well being to the next level? Check out Bachelor to Boyfriend, my 12-week program where I can give you one-on-one coaching that fits your exact situation.

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FAQ

How many episodes does Bachelor to Boyfriend have?

Bachelor to Boyfriend currently has 26 episodes available.

What topics does Bachelor to Boyfriend cover?

The podcast is about Health & Fitness, Sex, Dating, Podcasts, Relationships, Sexuality and Confidence.

What is the most popular episode on Bachelor to Boyfriend?

The episode title '25. Men's Sexual Health with Dr. Susie Gronski' is the most popular.

What is the average episode length on Bachelor to Boyfriend?

The average episode length on Bachelor to Boyfriend is 21 minutes.

How often are episodes of Bachelor to Boyfriend released?

Episodes of Bachelor to Boyfriend are typically released every 7 days.

When was the first episode of Bachelor to Boyfriend?

The first episode of Bachelor to Boyfriend was released on Apr 10, 2023.

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