Developing Better Communication with Jane Copier

01/24/23 • 47 min

The center of most relationship problems is an inability to communicate what you want so that your partner can actually hear what you say.

If you want to do something fun with your spouse on Valentine's Day but haven't done anything since 2010, and you're bitter about it, then you need a plan to get what you want.

If you want more help with the household chores but you've been doing them all yourself for years, and you're full of resentment, then you'll need a plan to get what you want.

If you want to spend more time getting to know your spouse but have made other things a priority, and you feel silly bringing the topic up, then you need a plan to get what you want.

Developing Great Communication with your spouse is a skill you can learn, and it's the topic of discussion this week with Jane Copier; listen to our conversation and start implementing new communication techniques today!
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The center of most relationship problems is an inability to communicate what you want so that your partner can actually hear what you say.

If you want to do something fun with your spouse on Valentine's Day but haven't done anything since 2010, and you're bitter about it, then you need a plan to get what you want.

If you want more help with the household chores but you've been doing them all yourself for years, and you're full of resentment, then you'll need a plan to get what you want.

If you want to spend more time getting to know your spouse but have made other things a priority, and you feel silly bringing the topic up, then you need a plan to get what you want.

CBS News Interview: 6 Tips For A Healthy & Loving Relationship
Unlock deeper connection in your marriage with my free guide, Daily Prompts for Deeper Connection with Your Spouse—get it now!

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One Crucial Element To Good Marital Communication

Try explaining something you don't understand; you can't do it without laughing or wanting to cry.

Let me explain.

You're in a funk, but you're not sure why; I mean, life is going really well right now; you should be partying like it's 1999!

You can't explain it to your spouse, so you withdraw, which could be understood through their lenses as you're mad at them for doing something wrong.

Nothing gets resolved, and you continue to distance yourselves to avoid feeling awful.

This is not good communication, but it's what happens in the lives of many couples.

What do you do about this problem? Learning to communicate well is a start, but you need to start practicing something else before communicating well.

First, I want to tell you to relax. This is going to feel so much better than trying to explain the unexplainable to your spouse!

This crucial step starts with you, like most things we do here in AwakenYou in your marriage, so tune into this week's episode, which is all about the One Crucial Element To Good Marital Communication.Show webpage: www.christinebongiovanni.com/101

CBS News Interview: 6 Tips For A Healthy & Loving Relationship
Unlock deeper connection in your marriage with my free guide, Daily Prompts for Deeper Connection with Your Spouse—get it now!

Next Episode

6 Tips To Reignite Your Marriage

Does a trip to the tropics in the middle of a long cold winter help warm up your soul enough to make the season manageable?

What would it be like if that could work the same in your marriage when it seems things need a slight thawing?

I think it works the same in relationships as it does with seasons.

Imagine Minnesota winters ALL YEAR LONG 🥶.

A short trip to Florida won't do much to thaw you out.

Now, apply that same concept to your marriage.

BUT, what if you could bring some of the heat of the tropics into your marriage for more than a few days?

Now that's worth investing in!

This week I dive into 6 EASY things you can start doing TODAY to bring some heat and connection back into your marriage, no matter how long it's been since you've seen the heat of summer.
Show webpage: www.christinebongiovanni.com/103

CBS News Interview: 6 Tips For A Healthy & Loving Relationship
Unlock deeper connection in your marriage with my free guide, Daily Prompts for Deeper Connection with Your Spouse—get it now!

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