Any Way You Want It

Cailin McDuff

Any Way You Want It is an exploration into new and uncharted territories in sex, relationships, and life. Through conversations with everyday people, teachers, experts, and self-proclaimed weirdos, Cailin opens new doors to intimacy and love. It’s like having a cozy intimate dinner party where you get to consider different relationship models, perspectives, and paradigms so that you can have your own personal buffet of options to choose from. So pull up a chair, pour yourself a glass of wine, and prepare to get in touch with your desire.

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Ep 73: My Mom is Waking up Her Sex! With Alice Taylor

Any Way You Want It

04/19/22 • 80 min

This is the most special episode I’ve ever recorded. Today we are sitting down with my almost 70-year-old mom to hear about how her feminine path has been slowly opening and revealing itself. Over the last few years, she has been brave enough to be in regular conversations with me about her desire, sexuality, healing, and being in relationship. This is after about seventeen years of shutting all of that down! And now, she’s baring it all on this show in hopes that she can touch even one woman to speak up for her desire.

We are both clear that together, we are doing the healing work for generations and generations of women in our family.

In this episode, she shares about what it was like to attend her first sacred sexuality retreat (wow wow wow is all I have to say.) But perhaps even more importantly, we talk about the journey to saying YES to herself and all of the work she did with her desire and her healing leading up to that.

We can all learn something from my mom.

Listen in to hear about:

Getting in touch with childhood trauma and following the thread of those patterns to heal
The healing process starts when you say yes to yourself
Sharing vulnerably with your partner and what that opens up
The process of forgiving yourself
Getting in touch with all of the sensations of your body
Shin orgasms – what is that?!
Letting yourself fully feel it to heal it
Following and honoring your own energy

Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want':

https://cailin.online/

Check out my Instagram here:

https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/

Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website:

www.cailinmcduff.com

Join Cocoon, my 6 month fully embodied femenine experience:

https://www.cailinmcduff.com/cocoon

https://calendly.com/cailin/desire

Ep 66: The Divinity of an Unexpected Sisterhood with Ilanit Maghen

Any Way You Want It

02/22/22 • 74 min

When it comes to relationships with women, we are not taught out in the world how to create true sisterhood. We see examples of gossip, bringing other women down, not telling the full truth, caretaking each other, and focusing on comparing appearances. Just to name a few things.

As many of you know, I am out to transform that through creating conscious sisterhood relationships.

In today’s episode, I want to share one of the most powerful sisterhood journeys I have ever had. It’s the sisterhood I have with my dear friend Ilanit Maghen. It was not predictable that Ilanit and I would become sisters. I originally had a brief healing sexual connection with her partner, Segev. And as much as Segev told both Ilanit and me that he thought the two of us would connect, neither of us could really imagine that actually happening.

Until...a series of very serendipitous events brought Ilanit and I together! That is when the game started. We got to meet all of our demons, our fears, and our tenderness. In the face of all of that, we decided to lean in, meet each other, and really see each other. That is where the magic unfolded...

Listen as we share:

The wild way that Ilanit and I began our sisterhood (hint: I had a brief sexual connection with her man before I met her!)
What it took to fully open our hearts to each other
What we both learned about fully being seen by another woman
The healing that is available the you lean into places where you are triggered
How it’s possible to create a win/win/win where everyone gets nourished and fed
Trusting the divine to guide us through experiences that are for us and our healing
How Segev and Ilanit supported me to fully open and manifest my partner, Angel

Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want':

https://cailin.online/

Check out my Instagram here:

https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/

Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website:

www.cailinmcduff.com

Ilianit’s Website: http://ilanitmaghen.com

Ilanit’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/msilanit/

Ilianit’s Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ilanit.maghen/

Ep 54: Surrendering into the Creation of a Million Dollar Desire with Sharon Lee Thony

Any Way You Want It

11/23/21 • 71 min

When I first started coaching 6 years ago, I was a “Life and Business Success Coach.” And while that title is far from the desire-based work that I am committed to now, I love reflecting on the woman that I was at that time and the powerful relationships that I had with my clients. One of those clients was Sharon Lee Thony. We worked together for close to 3 years, and she saw me and felt me as I went deep on the feminine path. And in that time, Sharon created a completely new reality for herself and her family, including fulfilling a desire to have a million dollar + year.

Sharon Lee Thony is a brand and marketing executive, with nearly two decades of experience creating award-winning marketing campaigns for travel, beauty and luxury lifestyle brands. She is founder and currently CEO of SLT Consulting, a boutique digital marketing collective. She is also a co-host on Podcast Modern Minorities and a Distinguished Faculty member at General Assembly, having led the creation of their Digital Marketing course curriculum and has taught over 100+ classes and workshops in digital marketing.

Join us as we discuss:

Making the choice to invest in yourself
The crystallization of your desires
Working through the fear of money scarcity
Our hidden superpowers
Creation as a surrender practice
Challenging gender roles in marriage and creating a new paradigm

Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want':

https://cailin.online/

Check out my Instagram here:

https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/

Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website:

www.cailinmcduff.co

Sharon’s Website: modmypod.com

Sharon’s Instagram: @sharon_thony

Ep 86: Sexting, Porn, and The Magic of Curiosity with Nolan Elsbecker

Any Way You Want It

10/18/22 • 67 min

Today’s guest is Nolan Elsbecker! They are a Queer New York Artist, Certified Yoga Instructor, Professional Dancer, Self Taught Fashion Designer, and a Porn Star! They make art through video, photo, and dance.

Join us as we discuss:

Taking the first steps to exploring sexual curiosity
Healing deep religious trauma
Exploring sexuality through texting
Creating safety, expressing desires, and setting boundaries
Becoming a better communicator
Opening up sexuality through movement and lots of lovers
Creating inspiration and freedom through porn

Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want':

https://cailin.online/

Check out my Instagram here:

https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/

Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website:

www.cailinmcduff.com

Join Cocoon, my 6 month fully embodied femenine experience:

https://www.cailinmcduff.com/cocoon

https://calendly.com/cailin/desire

Nolas’s Website: Onlyfans.com/Theworstnoel

Nolas’s Instagram: @nolanelsbecker

Ep 87: Finding the Beauty in Breakup with Tal Yardeni

Any Way You Want It

11/28/22 • 50 min

Today’s guest is Tal Yardeni, a certified Breakup Recovery Coach and creator of The Breakup To Badass Formula who is Helping women heal from a breakup with my group coaching program.

Join us as we discuss:

Fully accepting where we are in life
The experience of chasing the next thing and the next thing
Getting curious about the patterns of accepting less than you’re worth
Allowing your inner voice to quiet
Forgiving yourself for choosing to not see reality
Learning how to self-regulate

Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want':

https://cailin.online/

Check out my Instagram here:

https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/

Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website:

www.cailinmcduff.com

Join Cocoon, my 6 month fully embodied femenine experience:

https://www.cailinmcduff.com/cocoon

https://calendly.com/cailin/desire

Tal’s Freebie: https://talyardeni.click/guide-1

Tal’s Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/breakuprecoverysupportgroup

Tal’s Instagram: @thetalyardeni

Ep 88: The Evolution of Our Tantric Relationship with Angel De La Paz

Any Way You Want It

12/13/22 • 67 min

For this Episode I have a very special guest: My partner Angel! We’ve decided to go all out with all the nitty gritty details and give you a peek at our relationship and how we’ve grown together as a couple.

Join us as we discuss:

The unique healing that happens inside of relationship
The way our souls orchestrate experiences for us
Learning to set boundaries that serve our nervous systems as well as our growth path
Alchemizing emotions for our healing
Moving energy inside of relationship towards your shared desire
The juicy details of an experience we had this summer with another woman and what we learned!
Holding ourselves inside of triggered spots

Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want':

https://cailin.online/

Check out my Instagram here:

https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/

Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website:

www.cailinmcduff.com

Join Cocoon, my 6 month fully embodied femenine experience:

https://www.cailinmcduff.com/cocoon

https://calendly.com/cailin/desire

Ep 89: Owning your Journey with Owen Renert

Any Way You Want It

12/27/22 • 50 min

Today’s Guest is Owen Renert, They are a Non-Binary Therapist Trainee, Alternative Intimacy Educator and Leader, Local Game Show Host, and Blues Dancer with a very interesting International upbringing!

Join us as we discuss:

Exploring “alternative intimacy” that feels good for both partners
Surrounding yourself with people who are willing to go deep and try new things
The nonbinary trans-masculine journey and experience
Stop hiding your shit!
Creating limit lists to capture your kink desires and boundaries
Feeling the mix of anxiety and excitement as a sign to do the thing

Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want':

https://cailin.online/

Check out my Instagram here:

https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/

Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website:

www.cailinmcduff.com

Join Cocoon, my 6 month fully embodied femenine experience:

https://www.cailinmcduff.com/cocoon

https://calendly.com/cailin/desire

Owen’s Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/758476680899688

Owens’s Instagram: @Owen_Renert

EP 92: Holding the Desire to Find a Dom with Rinsha Ballani

Any Way You Want It

02/07/23 • 62 min

My friend Rinsha has a desire to find a dominant man. This just happens to be a topic that I love talking about, and so we decided to record a conversation where I tell her everything I know and feel in relation to the dominant/submissive space. She is holding her desire so beautifully! And, she asks all of the questions that you have probably wanted to know if this is something that you desire to explore. Mainly - “How do I find a dom!?!:

Join in as we discuss:

Holding the desire to find a dominant man
What I have gotten from my path practicing submission and what Rinsha sees for herself
Getting specific around the qualities you are looking for and the kind of partnership.
Platforms for seeking this kind of a connection
Questions to ask to vet potential partners
Red flags to watch out for
How to bring fun, play, and be in the energy of your desire

Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want':

https://cailin.online/

Check out my Instagram here:

https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/

Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website:

www.cailinmcduff.com

https://calendly.com/cailin/desire

Rinsha’s Facebook: Rinsha Ballani

Rinsha’s Instagram: @rinshaballani

Ep. 90: Creative Exchange with Talia Shipman-Englander

Any Way You Want It

01/10/23 • 64 min

In Today’s EP we have the amazing Talia Shipman- Englander, She’s a visual artist, designer, photographer, and creative innovator, she’s also the founder of The Social Hummus.

Join in as we discuss:

Trades: Why I think they don’t usually work
How to setup an exchange that is truly based in service, not scarcity
Creating a win-win relationship
Setting up boundaries in an exchange relationship
Allowing and supporting growth inside of partnership
Checking in to see the next true thing
Celebrating each other’s growth and expansion!

Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want':

https://cailin.online/

Check out my Instagram here:

https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/

Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website:

www.cailinmcduff.com

https://calendly.com/cailin/desire

Talia’s Website: www.eatsocialhummus.com

Talia’s Instagram: @taliashipman and @social_hummus

Ep. 75: The Bravery of Three Love Adventures

Any Way You Want It

05/06/22 • 63 min

This week, we are releasing a special, urgent episode! Because I say so. <3

We are sitting down with three really brave women who have said yes to “Your Love Adventure.” The adventure that have embarked upon is to find a partner...but in a completely different way than we are used to in a traditional sense. These three women have spent the last six weeks uncovering their relationship patterns and creating an intentional vision for what they desire in relationship. And now, they are inviting men to apply to join each of them on a special trip that they have each designed. The intention is to find love – and it’s so much more than that. It’s fun, play, and learning how to receive support.

Join in on this episode to hear:

What it takes to break up your relationship patterns
The sneaky pattern of calling in unavailable men
Vulnerability as a requirement to connection
What it’s like to ask for more support than you have ever received from friends and family
Bravery and courage are HOT
The felt and embodied experience of surrender
Each woman’s desire for what she is calling in
Their messages for their future partners – this one is a tearjerker!

If you are a man who wants to apply or know a man who should apply, check it out at:

www.yourloveadventure.com

Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want':

https://cailin.online/

Check out my Instagram here:

https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/

Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website:

www.cailinmcduff.com

Join Cocoon, my 6 month fully embodied femenine experience:

https://www.cailinmcduff.com/cocoon

https://calendly.com/cailin/desire

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