And Then...

.Jason Hietbrink, founder of Amplify Coaching, shares two struggles which shook him to his core causing him to question his identity, his worth and to be angry with God. Jason shares how each of those, which on the surface seemed terrible, actually were gifts of God's grace in his life. He is living proof of how even unwanted change can bring us to the next best chapter!

Have you ever been in a place where you asked yourself or said to yourself – Who Am I? Or I don’t even know who I am? Especially in seasons of change, when your children go to college, when you’ve experienced great loss like a death, divorce, or death of a friendship. Or how about if you’ve changed career paths by choice or by force? So many labels tend to make up our identity that we begin to believe what we do, what roles we play are who we are. Those are just descriptors, evidence of who we are, but they are not the essence of who we are.
Additional Resources:
https://www.amazon.com/Winning-War-Your-Mind-Thinking/dp/B08FRND9CR/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2SQIU5IOQ6YMT&keywords=winning+the+war+in+your+mind+groeschel&qid=1671125022&sprefix=winning+the+war%2Caps%2C137&sr=8-1
Affirmations of who you in in Christ: https://finds.life.church/pastor-craig-groeschels-list-of-positive-affirmations-to-renew-your-mind/#:~:text=It's%20who%20I%20am.,every%20day%20of%20my%20life.
https://www.amazon.com/Good-Boundaries-Goodbyes-Loving-Without/dp/B09XJ7LBMW/ref=sr_1_1?crid=23MOSP4B96RQW&keywords=good+boundaries+and+goodbyes+lysa+terkeurst&qid=1671125155&s=audible&sprefix=goodbyes+%2Caudible%2C122&sr=1-1

Tucked away in the heart of Ocean Beach, San Diego at the corner of Sunset Cliffs Blvd and Santa Monica Ave is a church with a sign that boldly invites the imperfect. It reads “A church or imperfect people.” If you have an opportunity to visit, you will go inside and see surfers with hair still wet, you will see students, you will see elderly, you will see homeless and you will see young couples. It is a beautiful experience. It is a judgement free zone that invites you to experience one thing – the love of Christ. In today’s episode I had the privilege of interviewing one of the co-pastors Julian Malotti. Originally from Brazil, Julian grew up feeling very much alone and isolated, had trust and forgiveness issues, and was asking the question – is this all there is to life? You just pay bills, exist and live in a world without community? God met him in that place and he shares his story with us today and will encourage you to give yourself the gift of forgiveness.

In this episode I give a glimpse of what it was like to grow up in my 1980’s CODA world. As an advocate and protector of my parents, I had to find my voice, advocate for myself and learn who I was outside of being a helper. If you are a CODA, a caregiver, or a parent, this episode will help you realize it is okay to have needs. You are heard and known. You matter.

Episode Four: Moving Through Grief

An Interview with Emily Speed

On March 1st 2016 Emily Speed received the call no one wants to hear. At age 36, her husband, best friend, and love of her life for nine years was gone. A young mother of a seven and one year old found herself in a place she never expected to be in. Emily walks us through her grief struggle, how God used the grief and her marriage to impact others. Finally, Emily shares with us the other side of her grief. Today she shares her life with her second love of her life Jeff. Together Emily and Jeff have a beautiful blended family of four and live through a lens of appreciation and gratitude that can only be found because of their joint grief struggle.