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2.06 - F is for Fetish
An A to Z of Sex with Men
03/28/22 • 107 min
This week we're delving into the fabulous and fascinating topic of Fetish. We couldn't do it alone though, so this week we are joined, for the SECOND time, by A to Z favourite, bisexual burlesque beastie, Bambi Bang Bang!
Together we discuss the difference between between fetish and kink, explore some common and less common fetishes, and muse about what our own fetishes might be (if indeed we have any, it seems some of us can wank to anything)!
We also watch the iconic kink film, Secretary and debate how successful it is at portraying fetish in a relationship. We had a lot to say and a lot to unpack! While we all agreed that more communication and after care would have been great, we'd still take Edward Grey over Christian Grey any day.
TW: Self Harm (47:01 - 48:46) (1:31:50 - 1:42:57), Rape and Sexual Assault (54:34 - 55:48)
Follow Bambi Bang Bang at:
Instagram: @bambibangbanguk
For Bambi's artwork and commissions follow:
Instagram: @doeeyeddoodles
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#atozwithmen #fisforfetish #ponyplay #bopit #nippletown #burfordbrowns #morewood #kink #fetish #tentacleporn #prepareyourareas #secretary #pissoffsandra #dontbeafraid #imhorny #ohmaggie #softdom #whosthat #iwannamakelove #ilikedullwork #eedwardgrey #christiangrey #anatozofsexwithmen
03/28/22 • 107 min
2.05 - E is for Ejaculation
An A to Z of Sex with Men
03/20/22 • 73 min
This week E is for Ejaculation!
An exhilarating release and the perfect accompaniment to an orgasm, but ohhhh the mess...
Join Raphael and Jacinta as they discuss existentialism, ejaculation etiquette, the science of ejaculation, and get personal about their own ejaculations past and present.
Today's Ejaculation related film is Shortbus and they LOVED it! There is much vocal ejaculating at the film's sex positive perfection. They highly recommend you go watch it immediately!
There are no trigger warnings this week!
Sources and recommendations:
Wikipedia article on ejaculation (with explicit explanatory media) - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ejaculation
Beverly Whipple - article on female ejaculation - https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1002/9781118896877.wbiehs125
#atozwithmen #eisforejaculation #ejaculation #kinseyreport #mastersandjohnson #11mph #cumplay #squirting #utiprone #femaleejaculation #weakejaculation #nutritiousanddelicious #messy #release #squirtycumexperience #shortbus #preorgasmic #existentialism #weallgetitintheend
03/20/22 • 73 min
2.04 - D is for Drama
An A to Z of Sex with Men
03/11/22 • 67 min
Stressful, scary or scintillating, Drama is a prevalent part of many sexual and romantic relationships (not to mention friendships and work relationships)!
Whether it's the drama of first love or fifty-first love; breakup sex or makeup sex; whirlwind romances or relationships that have passed their sell-by-date, Drama is everywhere. What creates drama in a relationship? Is it avoidable? Can it ever be a positive thing? Raphael and Jacinta discuss all this and more, as well as reminiscing over some particularly dramatic relationships in their turbulent sexual pasts.
The film up for discussion this week is Blue Valentine. It sparked some animated discussion and left them both extremely tense!
TW: domestic abuse (51:51 - 52:43) (54:18 - 57:43), rape and sexual assault (54:18 - 57:43)
Sources and recommendations:
9 Types of Relationship Drama You're Too Old For
https://www.bustle.com/p/9-types-of-drama-youre-too-old-to-be-dealing-with-in-a-relationship-27741
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#atozwithmen #disfordrama #drama #relationshipdrama #conqueringyourdaunts #dramallama #playinggames #treatemmeankeepemkeen #bridesmaids #nochill #mostnaked #dramaaddict #bluevalentine #thrustthrustthrust #anatozofsexwithmen
03/11/22 • 67 min
2.03 - C is for Communication
An A to Z of Sex with Men
03/11/22 • 78 min
Communication is essential for any relationship, be it sexual, romantic or platonic, but it's so hard to do!
This week Jacinta and Raphael explore just why that might be, as well as discussing some tips and tricks to make it that little bit easier.
This week's film is Duke of Burgundy, which we have a lot of good things to say about!
There are no trigger warnings this week.
Sources and recommendations:
‘Communication That Truly Connects’
https://www.tonyrobbins.com/stories/date-with-destiny/communication-truly-connects/
‘10 Communication Patterns That Hurt Relationships’
https://goop.com/gb-en/wellness/relationships/communication-mistakes-in-relationships/
Buy Marshall Rosenberg’s book, Nonviolent Communication, here:
https://biblio.co.uk/book/nonviolent-communication-language-life-life-changing/d/906090346?aid=frg&gclid=CjwKCAiAvaGRBhBlEiwAiY-yMFU0lX1qqOhSJxRSMFGGDBJO_wPpbkRcz_SbzpjPDSo8JQqYN90mzBoCFFIQAvD_BwE?dcx=906090346
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#atozwithmen #communication #communicationskills #cisforcommunication #kinseyreport #frustratedactor #orthopterist #sixhumanneeds #livingisgiving #softeyesaha #DukeofBurgundy #anatozofsexwithmen
03/11/22 • 78 min
2.02 - B is for Breakups
An A to Z of Sex with Men
02/25/22 • 92 min
Most of us will have gone through at least one break up (some of us considerably more), whether it was from your childhood crush, your first proper romantic partner, your kid's other parent, or any of the relationships in between. They all seem to happen for different reasons (falling out of love, sleeping with someone else, annoying habits getting that bit *too* annoying, lives simply following different paths) but they are all HARD. To help them explore the variety and similarities within breakups, Raphael and Jacinta have enlisted the help of special guest, the wonderful Flavia Fraser-Cannon. It turns out breakups tend to involve a fair amount of guttural sobbing, numbness, and film-watching. Speaking of which, their film up for discussion this week was Ingmar Bergman's Scenes from a Marriage, which they had some *very* differing views on!
TW: Domestic Assault (1:06:28 - 1:06:44) (1:16:22 - 1:17:04)
Follow Flavia at:
Instagram: @flaviafrascan
And for Flavia's photography and graphic design:
Instagram: @flaviafcphotography
Website: www.frasercannon.com/
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#atozwithmen #bubblyblowjob #mutualdrift #youredumped #breakupcontract #scenesfromamarriage #ingmarbergman #anatozofsexwithmen
02/25/22 • 92 min
2.01 - A is for Arousal
An A to Z of Sex with Men
02/18/22 • 62 min
An A to Z with Men is BACK!
And today is all about aphrodisiacs and erogenous zones, because this week, A... is for Arousal. In a new, Season 2 format, Raphael and Jacinta will be discussing words of the week; answering questions from the audience; doing the usual 'extensive research'; sharing their personal stories, and watching a topic related film. This week it's 90s classic, Cruel Intentions... Listen now to hear just how successful they think it was at exploring the topic of Arousal! Spoiler: Not very...
TW: homophobic language (43:47 - 45:16)
Sources and recommendations:
Tips and remedies for getting 'Turned On' - https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/how-to-get-turned-on
The Science of Sexual Arousal - https://www.apa.org/monitor/apr03/arousal
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Facebook: facebook.com/atozwithmen
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#atozwithmen #aisforarousal #arousal #doesthehandjob #moistylane #erogenouszones #friendsreference #toolanalogy #screwingthings #prizingthingsopen #stimulated #tisnobiggy #exciting #mastersandjohnson #cruelintentions #so90s #90scringe #dampsquib #justsuckonit #terriblewriting #anatozofsexwithmen
02/18/22 • 62 min
1.26 - Z is for Zipless Fucks
An A to Z of Sex with Men
10/01/21 • 80 min
It’s been a wild ride and now here we are at our final destination, Z is for Zipless Fucks!
Jacinta and Raphael had no idea what a zipless fuck was so they drafted in some expert help in the form of SPECIAL GUEST, writer and comedian, Michael Cumes. Together they academically analyse the zipless fuck (a term coined by Erica Jong in the novel Fear of Flying by the way) in an attempt to define something so elusive that it’s almost undefinable. Drawing on more ‘personal experience’ and ‘extensive research’ than ever before, they wend their way through magical memories of steamy nights, delve into some second wave Feminist history, and share plenty of juicy details.
So strap in (or possibly on) for this week’s final installment of Season 1!
TW: None!
Follow Michael Cumes on Instagram here - @michaelcumes
Sources and recommendations:
Fear of Flying Turns 40: Has the "Zipless Fuck" Become Quaint?
https://www.vogue.com/article/fear-of-flying-turns-40-has-the-zipless-fuck-become-quaint/amp
#atozwithmen #zisforziplessfucks #nextnextbigthing #ziplessfuck #ziplessfucks #ericajong #fearofflying #isadorawing #thatslove #nowthatslove #velveetacheese #blandasvelveetacheese #bittersweet #thedroop #isthisavocadoripe #thepornpath #intimacyissues #ruuun #beforesunset #sauna #demystify #itwasme #selfflagellating #spankbank #ziplessmindfuck #justalittlecrush #pureinfatuation #daddyissues #anatozofsexwithmen
10/01/21 • 80 min
1.25b - B is for Bonus - Love in the Bedroom
An A to Z of Sex with Men
09/24/21 • 7 min
While we're waiting for episode Z to zoom it's way to you (read: we're still editing it), we thought we'd tide you over with a mini bonus episode, in which we chat love... in the bedroom. Dinners, blowjobs and bondage are all in the mix, but how do you think love can be expressed during the act of sex/fucking/love making etc? We would super love to know!
09/24/21 • 7 min
1.25 - Y is for Yes
An A to Z of Sex with Men
09/18/21 • 73 min
No means no, but does yes always mean yes? This week it’s time to look at the big Y.E.S. and what it means when we say it. There’s the tentative yes, the spontaneous yes, the considered yes and the all important enthusiastic yes! There’s yes to sex, yes to cuddles, yes to relationships and yes to marriage. What do all these yeses entail? Can yes be said without being spoken? And what’s the difference between ‘yes’, and ‘yeah’? Join Raphael and Jacinta this week as they yak and yarn about all things YES.
TW: There are some brief allusions to sexual assault but no specific triggering stories this week.
HUGE thank you to our sound technician Flavio Buonerba of TripleFSound! Get in touch with him here for all your sound related needs: https://www.triplefsound.com/
Sources and recommendations:
How to say 'yes!' to sex (and not just 'OK, only if you shut up about it')
DO YOU ALWAYS HAVE TO SAY YES TO SEX WITH YOUR PARTNER?
https://www.avert.org/young-voices-africa/do-you-always-have-say-yes-sex-your-partner
Does yes always mean yes?
https://www.independent.co.uk/voices/sexual-consent-not-simple-saying-yes-a7052811.html
#atozwithmen #DICKtionary #penispuns #cumtent #alphablocks #yoreyesteryearandoldentimes #notosexyestoyou #yes #yeah #exposethoseangles #battlestargalactica #enthusiasticyes #cummunication #freesinglereadytomingle #meloveme #youloveyou #neverisnotawordinlove #anatozofsexwithmen
09/18/21 • 73 min
2.07 - G is for Genitals
An A to Z of Sex with Men
04/02/22 • 73 min
This week we are getting technical and discussing the all important genitals!
We all have them, we all use them (for peeing if not for sexing), but do we really know them? A bit of research suggests that, no, we don't. Vas deferens anyone? Or what about a mons pubis? In this episode we try to clarify a bit of genital biology, as well as exploring our relationship with our own genitals. Turns out it can be complicated, but ultimately, every genital is different and, more importantly, every genital is gorgeous!
At the end of the episode we treat ourselves to genital filled movie, Wetlands, based on the novel of the same name by Charlotte Roche. It's visceral, gross, sweet, sexy, and excellent. We can heartily recommend!
There are no trigger warnings this week!
Sources and recommendations:
'Female Internal Genital Organs' - https://www.msdmanuals.com/en-gb/home/women-s-health-issues/biology-of-the-female-reproductive-system/female-internal-genital-organs
Intersex information - https://medlineplus.gov/ency/article/001669.htm
Genitalia sketches - https://dirtycode.io/
Books we mentioned were:
- How to be a Woman by Caitlin Moran
Cunt by Inga Muscio
Follow us at:
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Facebook: facebook.com/atozwithmen
Email: [email protected]
#atozwithmen #gisforgenitals #genitals #genitalia #groping #publicgroping #donaldtrumpreference #gag #wetlands #charlotteroche #nudity #sexeducation #vulvacupcakes #penisscrotumballs #everygenitalisgorgeous #visceral #balls #ballplay #greatbritishfuckoff #bigmouth #onlyconnect #hellocervix #pussyhygiene #healthypussyflora #penis #vulva #anatozofsexwithmen
04/02/22 • 73 min
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An A to Z of Sex with Men currently has 53 episodes available.
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The podcast is about Society & Culture, Podcasts and Relationships.
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The episode title '2.06 - F is for Fetish' is the most popular.
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The average episode length on An A to Z of Sex with Men is 66 minutes.
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