All U Gotta Do Is Listen

This episode is titled Women Aren't The Only Ones that Can Hurt, the reason I titled this episode this and what prompted me to speak on such a topic is that when I look around in todays society and I see how society doesn't really give men a safe space to express themselves and how they feel in relationships. The only narrative you see driven and pushed is that men hurt women and that it seems impossible that a woman can actually hurt a man. This toxic narrative has planted seeds of abuse and mental depression in men all over the world. There are men all over that feel as though they have no safe haven or space to speak on the hurt and trauma that women have actually caused them. People aren't as sensitive when the shoe is on the other foot and it's the man that is actually hurting. I speak from my own experience and I try to tie it all in for my listeners to see that men hurt just as much as women do. That they mask their pain well and they are looked to be strong for both parties in the relationship. I hope this episode will enlighten women and also bring peace to some men that feel that they are alone in this. At the end of the day all u gotta do is listen.

As society has advanced in technology we have gotten more disconnected with each other & ourselves. As people our values are in the gutter and we don't take the time to really get in tuned with ourselves anymore. We let society deem what is good and bad for us, we jump from relationship to relationship not really spending time learning ourselves. I created this episode because I value spending time alone and really pouring into & learning myself. A lot of people simply don't know how to be alone and for me I've been alone most of my life, even when i was with someone i have never met anyone that has measured up or met me even close to how i am with myself. So when i talk about self love i just speak from a place of understanding the value of loving thyself and really the value of treating your self how you would want others to treat you. I often get called cocky/or full of myself because i love myself , but i take it as, If i don't love me & treat myself the best way i can, then how will i expect anybody else to ? Don T ALWAYS comes with logic that is clear cut and unadulterated/unfiltered but knowledgeable for all to take away a message. All U Gotta Do Is Listen- Don T

A lot of us men struggle with retention when it comes to women, a lot of you guys don't know when to put your foot down and let a female go. Anytime a man discusses his worth or how he feels , he get's told to stay out of his feelings. Keep that same energy then, when a situation is over let it be done. Don't let a female use you as a revolving door , don't let her pour her insecurities & immaturity on you and make you the one at fault. Keep in mind that there are many women on earth, and that you can't impress or force anyone to fwu. When things go south or if it ends, let that stuff be over, don't give life to a dead situation. All you gotta do is listen. -Don T

As a people we don't talk about mental issues or mental help. We think because if we have things that consume our mind or things mentally that bother us that we have a problem and that couldn't be far from the truth. As a man i have dated my fair share of women, and i have noticed that a-lot of them did not have strong father figures in their lives or not have a father at all. I found that the common denominator that these women shared was that they were promiscuous that they felt that any type of introduction to structure or a new way of dating was a form of control, they were unappreciative/ ungrateful and honestly just didn't know a good man if it was staring in front of their face. These women did not know how to treat men or reciprocate any of what they had so called required in men, but i don't blame them, i blame the fact that they didn't have anyone to show them along the way. In 2019 the values that were once in place for men and women are dying off and being replaced by social media and modern standards or lack there of. I just chose to speak on what i feel is a real epidemic predominately in women but can effect men as well. Daddy Issues. All You Gotta Do Is Listen.

As a society were are trained to deem wife material with the outer appearance, but to me, that isn't what makes a woman wife material. To me wife material is a woman who is loyal, intelligent, willing to stick with you at your lowest, someone who pours into you and drives you to be a better man when nobody else is willing to see the good in you. Many more characteristics come to mind when i think of a wife, but i'm older now and i don't equate a woman's worth to what she looks like on the outside. Don T is always killing the game with realism, lol check me out on this podcast as i drop keys as usual. All You Gotta Do Is Listen.