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ADHDifference

Julie Legg & Jel Legg

ADHDifference is brought to you by Julie Legg and Jel Legg, who were both diagnosed with adult ADHD in their fifties. Throughout the podcast series they discuss a range of ADHD related topics, and their experiences and insights, having both lived decades with undiagnosed ADHD.

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Julie speaks with Dani Donovan, CEO/founder of The Anti-Boring Project. Dani is known worldwide for her ADHD comic illustrations. She's a graphic designer, content creator, public speaker and now author of 'The Anti-Planner: How to get sh*t done when you don't feel like it' that deals with procrastination and all the emotions that hinder us from doing those projects and chores that don't excite us.

Topics covered in this episode:

  • Being diagnosed with ADHD in freshman year in the United States.
  • The role ADHD plays in the way that we communicate.
  • Dani Donovan’s backstory that led her to creating ADHD comics and info-graphics and how her Storytelling comic reached 100 million views.
  • Public speaking about a variety of ADHD related challenges including, the social penetration theory, accommodating executive dysfunction, ADHD in the workplace.
  • Over-compensations we make for our ADHD when undiagnosed, and after diagnosis.
  • The Anti-Planner: ways to over-come executive dysfunction and ADHD ‘road blocks’ in order to complete chores or tasks.

Key takeaways:

  • There is a need to bridge the gap between the clinical knowledge and the lived experienced with ADHD.
  • Having ADHD can be compared to being a sprinter rather than a marathon runner.
  • Taking ADHD medication will help, but you need still need drive and determination to complete tasks (they don't do them on their own).
  • Strategies may look good on paper, but unless one overcomes the challenges/emotions such as procrastination, they won’t be put into practice.
  • ·Bosses who understand ADHD are going to have a lasting impact on the daily life of employees with ADHD.

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Do you have a story to share? We'd love to hear from you if you have inspiring ADHD experience/journey you'd like to share. This may include strategies, uplifting stories, overcoming adversity, or celebrating success.

Did you find this podcast helpful? Please subscribe if you'd like to hear more, or share with friends/family if you think there's a topic that may provide some insight. Our mission is to keep the ADHD conversation flowing and support each other.

Thanks for listening. Visit ADHDifference.nz to find video links or to say hello.

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ADHDifference - ADHDifference - CONFLICT
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07/23/24 • 28 min

Julie Legg and Jel Legg discuss ADHD, conflict and confrontation - why, when and how we are likely to react in certain situations.
They chat about the common fight or flight scenario, how dopamine may be at the heart of our likely responses, and the ramifications of both fighting and flighting.
Topics discussed in this episode:

  • Adrenaline and dopamine.
  • Fighting vs Flighting.
  • Debating vs Conflict and when one is likely to over-spill into the other.
  • How we can be the instigator of conflict, not just the recipient of conflict.
  • Acting as a mediator for others.
  • Addressing conflict in an ADHD marriage.
  • Rebels with a cause.

Key takeaways:

  • The fight or flight scenario is common for ADHD brains when faced with conflict and confrontation.
  • Both adrenaline and dopamine share the same dopa molecule, one that we are naturally deficient of, and triggers our gut instinct for survival.
  • Fighting a confrontation can lead to spill over of anger, impulsivity and emotional dysregulation as ADHD brains are often challenged to regulate these emotions.
  • Flighting from a confrontation may lead to the ADHDer feeling misunderstood, unheard, or at times bullied.
  • Good communication over time may deflect a conflict situation, especially with someone you have a relationship with - whether friendship, intimate or work colleague.
  • At times, a 'cooling off' period may be the best method for conflict in a relationship - time to gather thoughts, speak calmly and kindly, rather than impulsively and with big emotions.

Links:

Julie is the author of THE MISSING PIECE: A Woman's Guide to Understanding, Diagnosing and Living with ADHD (Harper Collins, 2024)
Do you have a story to share? We'd love to hear from you if you have inspiring ADHD experience/journey you'd like to share. We are looking for strategies that work for you, uplifting stories of overcoming adversity, or celebrating success.
Did you find this podcast helpful? Please subscribe if you'd like to hear more, or share with friends/family if you think there's a topic that may provide some insight. Our mission is to keep the ADHD conversation flowing and support each other.

Thanks for listening. Visit ADHDifference.nz to find video links or to say hello.

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ADHDifference - ADHDifference - DIAGNOSIS
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05/28/24 • 31 min

Julie Legg and Jel Legg discuss the adult ADHD diagnosis process in New Zealand – what lead them to seek a diagnosis in their 50s, the assessment procedure, and their personal journey.

They chat about the reasons they chose to be assessed and what it was like to be assessed online rather than in person. They candidly chat about all things ADHD relating to their adult ADHD experience.

Topics discussed in this episode:

  • Making the choice between a clinical psychologist and a psychiatrist for the ADHD assessment.
  • Assessment via Health New Zealand (formerly DHBs) vs going private, and how assessments may differ.
  • Personal reasons for seeking an ADHD assessment.
  • Choosing to treat ADHD unmedicated.
  • Suggestions of homework to do before your assessment to gather helpful information.

Key takeaways:

  • Many qualified people can assess ADHD but for an adult diagnosis, it needs to be done through a clinical psychologist or a psychiatrist.
  • Only a psychiatrist (medically trained) can prescribe ADHD medication.
  • Psychologists and psychiatrists assess ‘the all of you’ – be prepared for a diagnosis that you had not necessarily anticipated, including comorbidities (several disorders).
  • If you have ADHD you would have the disorder/difference as a child too. Looking back to your younger years (12 years of age) is required to establish that traits have existed throughout your lifetime.
  • The assessment is the process that you go through and the diagnosis is literally the result at the end of it, whether it's ADHD, whether it's ADHD plus something else, or whether it's none of the above.

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Julie is the author of THE MISSING PIECE: A Woman's Guide to Understanding, Diagnosing and Living with ADHD (Harper Collins, 2024).

Do you have a story to share? We'd love to hear from you if you have inspiring ADHD experience/journey you'd like to share. We are looking for strategies that work for you, uplifting stories of overcoming adversity, or celebrating success.

Did you find this podcast helpful? Please subscribe if you'd like to hear more, or share with friends/family if you think there's a topic that may provide some insight. Our mission is to keep the ADHD conversation flowing and support each other.

Thanks for listening. Visit ADHDifference.nz to find video links or to say hello.

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ADHDifference - ADHDifference - IMPOSTER SYNDROME
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05/18/24 • 29 min

Julie Legg and Jel Legg discuss Imposter Syndrome – what it’s all about and how it can play out in the lives of those with ADHD.
What triggers their Imposter Syndrome and feeling like a phony? They candidly chat about how doubt, inner strength and belief, and the complexities of managing Imposter Syndrome with ADHD.

Topics discussed in this episode:

  • The definition of ‘Imposter Phenomenon’ aka imposter syndrome, and how it relates to ADHD brains.
  • Imposter syndrome experienced during/after the ADHD assessment and diagnosis process.
  • The juxtaposition of the co-existence of self-belief and self-doubt.
  • Self-taught and high achieving individuals without tertiary qualifications.
  • Is imposter syndrome self-imposed, or do others play a part in triggering this doubt?
  • Correlation between imposter syndrome, self-criticism and self-identity.

Key takeaways:

  • While initially the original 1978 study focused on high achieving women, anyone can experience imposter syndrome.
  • Even those awaiting an ADHD assessment, or those recently diagnosed may feel like an ‘ADHD fraud’, that maybe they’re just lazy after all, when comparing themselves to others with more severe ADHD symptoms.
  • Self-doubt, despite being successful achievers, can have crippling effects when it comes to careers, promotions or even taking a compliment.
  • The generational differences of ‘learning on the job’ vs ‘university qualified’ can result in a disjointed view on capability and talent, lending some to doubt their abilities regardless of experience.

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Julie is the author of THE MISSING PIECE: A Woman's Guide to Understanding, Diagnosing and Living with ADHD (Harper Collins, 2024).

Do you have a story to share? We'd love to hear from you if you have inspiring ADHD experience/journey you'd like to share. We are looking for strategies that work for you, uplifting stories of overcoming adversity, or celebrating success.

Did you find this podcast helpful? Please subscribe if you'd like to hear more, or share with friends/family if you think there's a topic that may provide some insight. Our mission is to keep the ADHD conversation flowing and support each other.

Thanks for listening. Visit ADHDifference.nz to find video links or to say hello.

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ADHDifference - ADHDifference - OVERTHINKING
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08/13/24 • 34 min

Julie Legg and Jel Legg discuss ADHD and overthinking – the loops of thoughts that continuously consume the minds of many with ADHD.
They chat about those situations when overthinking has its place, and when overthinking has negative implications such as depression, anxiety, and stress. They discuss how as a couple they combat overthinking using diversion techniques, and personal tips they use as individuals.
Topics discussed in this episode:

  • Time wasting and procrastination.
  • Is overthinking an issue, or just a normal process of finding resolution for an ADHD brain?
  • Overthinking and underthinking.
  • Rejection sensitive dysphoria, ghosting and defence mechanisms.
  • Diversion therapy.

Key takeaways:

  • Overthinking is normal, everyone does it from time to time. It is more likely to be a frequent occurrence for those with ADHD and can have negative implications that impact time management, decision making, stress, depression, and anxiety.
  • Finding resolution to an unsolvable problem or puzzle can be futile. Diversion therapy or distractions can help shift obsessive thinking to another task or area of interest.
  • You can only control what is within your control.
  • Turning your attention to something that you can solve or achieve, even if challenging, will provide a dopamine hit reward.
  • At times overthinking is necessary to be able to process information. It is not a weakness by default for those with ADHD, it’s just part of our ADHD difference.

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Julie is the author of THE MISSING PIECE: A Woman's Guide to Understanding, Diagnosing and Living with ADHD (Harper Collins, 2024)
Do you have a story to share? We'd love to hear from you if you have inspiring ADHD experience/journey you'd like to share. We are looking for strategies that work for you, uplifting stories of overcoming adversity, or celebrating success.
Did you find this podcast helpful? Please subscribe if you'd like to hear more, or share with friends/family if you think there's a topic that may provide some insight. Our mission is to keep the ADHD conversation flowing and support each other.

Thanks for listening. Visit ADHDifference.nz to find video links or to say hello.

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Julie Legg chats with Ashley Cairns, CEO and director of A Change for Better. They discuss the ACFB Fund – the charitable side of the organisation, mental health services, subsidised ADHD online assessments, and how the organisation is expanding to provide a wrap-around service.
They chat about how ACFB have worked to create comprehensive ADHD assessment model that can be delivered within very low wait times, reaching those households struggling financially, and rural New Zealanders, to seek assessment with a psychologist.

Topics discussed in this episode:

  • The ACFB team and how the organisation came to be.
  • Funding criteria for assessment subsidisation and other ADHD-friendly payment options available.
  • Their ADHD online assessment process and questionnaire model.
  • Wait times of approx. 6-8 weeks (currently).
  • Offering psychologist services (not psychiatrist services, therefore no direct access to ADHD medication).
  • Difference between educational, general, and clinical psychologists.
  • Future plans for counselling services and wrap-around services for clients.

Key takeaways:

  • The ACFB Fund’s ADHD assessment model is 100% online through a series of comprehensive questionnaires and one-on-one online assessment with a psychologist (via the likes of Meet or Zoom).
  • The ACFB Fund’s subsidy is available for those individuals who meet specific criteria (such as household income) throughout New Zealand. A 50% fee is payable before commencing the assessment and there is a range of flexible payment options available.
  • In 2025 the ACDB Fund hopes to offer a range of mental health services including counselling and neurodiversity coaching.
  • A psychologist is not able to prescribe ADHD medication directly which is important to remember when seeking an assessment. Canterbury is unique however (at the time of writing), as the pathway to acquiring a Special Authority Number to access ADHD medication differs to the rest of New Zealand.

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Julie is the author of THE MISSING PIECE: A Woman's Guide to Understanding, Diagnosing and Living with ADHD (Harper Collins, 2024)
A Change for Better Organisation

A Change for Better Fund

Do you have a story to share? We'd love to hear from you if you have inspiring ADHD experience/journey you'd like to share. We are looking for strategies that work for you, uplifting stories of overcoming adversity, or celebrating success.
Did you find this podcast helpful? Please subscribe if you'd like to hear more, or share with friends/family if you think there's a topic that may provide some insight. Our mission is to keep the ADHD conversation flowing and s

Thanks for listening. Visit ADHDifference.nz to find video links or to say hello.

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ADHDifference - ADHDifference - HYPERSENSITIVITY
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06/25/24 • 42 min

Julie Legg and Jel Legg discuss the link between ADHD and hypersensitivity – not necessarily a trait, but a common attribute for people with ADHD.
They chat about each of their senses, the weird and wonderful extremes they experience. From datum lines to aesthetics, bass drums and distant conversations, scratchy clothing labels to repetitive touch, Christmas shopping to confrontation. They ponder criticism, expected outcomes, adverse reactions to not feeling in control of self, empathy, negative people and energy levels – to name a few.

Topics discussed in this episode:

  • HSP, a highly sensitive person.
  • Line of focus, peripheral vision, and datum lines.
  • Acutely sensitive to a range of noise frequencies and pitches, and unexpected loud noises
  • Taste, smell and memory links.
  • Sensory overload to texture - difficulty swallowing medication, clothing labels, certain fabrics ... or being repetitively touched by another person.
  • Being highly sensitive to criticism or confrontation (actual or perceived), body language, and others’ energy.

Key takeaways:

  • While we all have a given set of ears, eyes and nervous system that reacts the same, it is how ADHD brains process those sensory signals that makes us more hypersensitive in many instances.
  • Hypersensitivity is not a clinical ADHD trait in accordance with the DSM, however it is a common attribute that is experienced by many people with ADHD.
  • Some ADHD brain reactions to ‘seemingly normal’ everyday sights, sounds, tastes, textures and smells may appear very irrational to neurotypicals: “Oh they get so upset over the littlest of things."
  • Every individual is different, as with every ADHD brain in so far as some may, or may not, experience these hypersensitive occurrences.

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Julie is the author of THE MISSING PIECE: A Woman's Guide to Understanding, Diagnosing and Living with ADHD (Harper Collins, 2024).

Do you have a story to share? We'd love to hear from you if you have inspiring ADHD experience/journey you'd like to share. We are looking for strategies that work for you, uplifting stories of overcoming adversity, or celebrating success.

Did you find this podcast helpful? Please subscribe if you'd like to hear more, or share with friends/family if you think there's a topic that may provide some insight. Our mission is to keep the ADHD conversation flowing and support each other.

Thanks for listening. Visit ADHDifference.nz to find video links or to say hello.

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ADHDifference - ADHDifference - CREATIVITY
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06/18/24 • 33 min

Julie Legg and Jel Legg discuss the link between ADHD and creativity – a mighty strength for many individuals with ADHD. They ponder what creativity is - from the arts, to communication, storytelling, and non-linear thinking.
From hobbies, to careers, to household chores, creative thinking can be applied in every waking hour - even mowing the lawns! They chat about the links between creativity and dopamine, imposter syndrome, burnout and brilliance. They dissect their childhood and reflect on their present where creativity is very much alive and well.
Topics discussed in this episode:

  • Delving into what it means to be creative.
  • How dopamine plays a part in boosting our joy in creative fields.
  • Creativity, self-criticism, and imposter syndrome when comparing ourselves to others.
  • Looking back at our younger selves to find where creative traits were very evident.
  • Music, art, dance, crafts, DIY, photography, systems and processes, cooking, gardening, alternative thinking.

Key takeaways:

  • Creativity is more than just ‘the creative arts’. It includes creative thinking and problem solving too which can be applied to pretty much every, every minute of the day.
  • Even mundane tasks can become quite interesting by applying a creative approach.
  • Hyperfocusing on a creative hobby or project, while fun, can also lead to burnout or self-combustion, without life balance.
  • Perfectionism towards our creative endeavours can lead to dismissing our unique talents – be aware: creativity need not be a competition.
  • Creativity is a personal expression, much like storytelling.

Links:

Julie is the author of THE MISSING PIECE: A Woman's Guide to Understanding, Diagnosing and Living with ADHD (Harper Collins, 2024).

Do you have a story to share? We'd love to hear from you if you have inspiring ADHD experience/journey you'd like to share. We are looking for strategies that work for you, uplifting stories of overcoming adversity, or celebrating success.

Did you find this podcast helpful? Please subscribe if you'd like to hear more, or share with friends/family if you think there's a topic that may provide some insight. Our mission is to keep the ADHD conversation flowing and support each other.

Thanks for listening. Visit ADHDifference.nz to find video links or to say hello.

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In this episode Julie Legg interviews guest Leonie-Ruth Acland (aged 68, NSW) who identifies with ADHD but is not formally diagnosed. They chat about how this came about, feelings of ‘deficit’ as a child, and the inspirational women she has met on her ADHD journey.

Ruth shares personal stories of her time in Java and Tanzania as a young mother, her association with the UN, her strength, emotional intelligence, and helping others to flourish. Ruth talks about self-compassion, the daily routines that keeps her grounded as an older adult with ADHD, ageism, her love of nature, and the importance of one’s personal growth.

Topics discussed in this episode:

  • Decision-making regarding seeking a formal diagnosis vs identifying with ADHD and being content with an informal diagnosis.
  • Considerations around ADHD medication for older adults.
  • Growing up as a child feeling a sense of deficit, undiagnosed.
  • ADHD being genetically linked.
  • Parenting and living overseas, undiagnosed – Java and Tanzania.
  • Experience working in association with the United Nations.
  • Ageism.
  • Personal growth.

Key takeaways:

  • If you identify with ADHD traits, and it makes a positive difference to your life with regards to self-compassion, understanding without the need to seek medication, a formal diagnosis may not be considered essential for some.
  • If ADHD stimulant medication is not available for health reasons, other treatments, such as strategies and management tools may help.
  • Taking time for self-care, daily routines and personal growth helps the ADHD brain feel grounded.
  • Our personal strength, empathy and our drive can help ourselves and others flourish.
  • The more we can understand and know ourselves, the more real we show up in the world.

Links:

ADHD Women Explore The Neuroverse Podcast

Flourishing Education Podcast

Ruth Acland, Tanglewood

Julie is the author of THE MISSING PIECE: A Woman's Guide to Understanding, Diagnosing and Living with ADHD (Harper Collins, 2024).

Do you have a story to share? We'd love to hear from you if you have inspiring ADHD experience/journey you'd like to share. We are looking for strategies that work for you, uplifting stories of overcoming adversity, or celebrating success.

Did you find this podcast helpful? Please subscribe if you'd like to hear more, or share with friends/family if you think there's a topic that may provide some insight. Our mission is to keep the ADHD conversation flowing and support each other.

Thanks for listening. Visit ADHDifference.nz to find video links or to say hello.

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ADHDifference - ADHDifference - ADHD AWARENESS MONTH 2024
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09/30/24 • 26 min

Julie Legg and Jel Legg chat about ADHD Awareness Month – a worldwide campaign throughout October, and in its 20th year, driving home this year’s theme is ‘Awareness is Key’.
They discuss common misconceptions, acknowledging the differences between ADHD individuals, raising awareness directly and indirectly through conversation.

Topics discussed in this episode:

  • 20th anniversary of ADHD Awareness Month.
  • Misconceptions and complexities of ADHD.
  • Sharing, or not sharing, an ADHD diagnosis with friends, family and work colleagues.
  • Labels, advocacy, ableists, and normalising ADHD.

Key takeaways:

  • While ADHD may be in the news, or frequently in social media posts, ADHD is a complex disorder and there is more to understand that merely a list of common traits or a 10-second sound bite. Raising awareness is key to understanding and supporting loved ones, and helping them live their best lives.
  • Sharing the news of an ADHD diagnosis is a very personal thing. While it can be helpful to gain a better understanding from others, however sadly it can have negative consequences too.
  • Individuals with ADHD may share common traits however their personal experiences and how each trait may manifest may be very different. There is no such thing as a one-size-fits-all ADHD, nor how the disorder may ‘show up’ in their lives.

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Do you have a story to share? We'd love to hear from you if you have inspiring ADHD experience/journey you'd like to share. We are looking for strategies that work for you, uplifting stories of overcoming adversity, or celebrating success.
Did you find this podcast helpful? Please subscribe if you'd like to hear more, or share with friends/family if you think there's a topic that may provide some insight. Our mission is to keep the ADHD conversation flowing and support each other.

Thanks for listening. Visit ADHDifference.nz to find video links or to say hello.

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ADHDifference currently has 24 episodes available.

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The podcast is about Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Podcasts, Adhd, Self-Improvement and Education.

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The average episode length on ADHDifference is 30 minutes.

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