Ep 10: Swinger Paradigm Shift

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12/31/20 • 80 min

We spent 5 days at the "largest open-relationship lifestyle event" in the US in 2018; five days that changed our entire concept of what our life as swingers would look like. We met amazing people, ate fantastic food, had lots of sexy & hot play time, and learned even more about ourselves.

Listen in as we talk about what happened and began to discover what type of swingers we wanted to be and what being in a non-monogamous marriage was going to look like for us.

Part 3 of this 3 part series:

Myrina spends the last night of Naughty in N'awlins creating some steamy, hot and sexy times with Tristan and two of their new friends. More importantly, Myrina and Tristan spend time together to decompress and talk about their adventures and the lessons they learned.

They begin to understand that swinging, for them, is going to open them up to even more experiences and that this journey has become more than about having sex with other people. Myrina and Tristan realize that they are, in fact, rediscovering and redefining themselves and their sexuality.

Show notes and resources can be found on our Website: https://accidentalswingers.com/

Connect with us on Instagram @AccidentalSwingers Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/accidentalswingers/

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Listen in as we talk about what happened and began to discover what type of swingers we wanted to be and what being in a non-monogamous marriage was going to look like for us.

Part 3 of this 3 part series:

Show notes and resources can be found on our Website: https://accidentalswingers.com/

Connect with us on Instagram @AccidentalSwingers Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/accidentalswingers/

Find us on Reddit: u/myrina_fl or u/Accidental_Swingers

Previous Episode

Ep 9: Being Naughty Was Oh, So Nice!

The adventures continue when these two new swingers attend the "largest open-relationship lifestyle event" in the US. Each day held new surprises, new experiences, new screw-ups and new friends! We credit this experience as a defining moment in creating and shaping our entire lifestyle journey.

Part 2 of this 3 part series:

The sparks fly when we meet the most amazing couple! Wonderful conversation and wonderful food lead to wonderful sex. But, in true Accidental Swinger style, we go with the flow but end up breaking some of our "rules".

Myrina has a life-changing experience, literally. She also describes in detail her night with a man who pushes all the right buttons. Tristan realizes how much he loves to watch Myrina and begins to understand much more about his compersive nature. This 2018 trip began to shape conversations and realizations about the things we wanted to experience our journey into the lifestyle.

Show Notes and Resources mentioned in this episode can be found on the Accidental Swingers website.

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Find us on Reddit: Myrina's Profile or Accidental Swingers Profile

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Ep 11: Playmates, Playdates, Pressure and Performance

Our first four-way!!! Podcast, that is!

Meet Phoenix Phyre and Crimson Dragonfly - our playmates and quarantine couple - in our round table discussion about playdates, pressure and performance. Together, the four of us share stories and laughs as we discuss the different times we've all felt the pressure to perform for our play partners.

The guys talk about the common reasons they experience performance anxiety and what they do when they can't perform for their partners. The ladies talk about how they experience pressure and performance anxiety too and how they've handled these experiences in the past.

We take a deep dive into the head games and the stories we tell ourselves when things seem to not be going as planned. Then the four of us discuss ways that men and women in the lifestyle can let our play partners know that things aren't going well for us or that our time with that person is over - a tough conversation to have!

And be sure to stay tuned to the outtake at the very, very end ... it's a good one!

Read our most recent blog post here: Tristan's Blog on Performance Anxiety in the Lifestyle Show Notes and Resources can be found on the Accidental Swingers website Connect with us on Instagram @AccidentalSwingers Find us on Reddit: Myrina's Profile or Accidental Swingers Profile We're also on Twitter