Season 2 Episode 56: Why do I feel invisible after 50?

02/26/24 • 32 min

Have you ever walked into a room and felt as if you've faded into the wallpaper, your presence barely registering a blip on anyone's radar? On today's episode of "Blonde Brunette and a Mic," we're peeling back the layers of this midlife cloak of invisibility. From the physical rollercoaster of menopause to the emotional upheaval when kids fly the coop, we're sharing our personal stories and tackling why women around 52 often feel unseen. We'll also discuss how a shift in your stride and a dash of confidence can turn heads and shatter this intangible barrier.
As we age, our roles evolve, but do we give ourselves permission to do the same? Today's conversation winds through the intricate dance of nurturing others and the importance of stepping back to nurture ourselves. We confess to the guilt that shadows self-care and examine how our past self-investments can fortify our presence in later years. And yes, we get candid about the internal tug-of-war when seeking new purposes. Join us as we traverse the path to rediscovery, celebrating the vitality that comes from embracing change and cultivating new interests, affirming that age is no barrier to a life brimming with relevance.
This episode isn't just about the challenges; it's a rallying cry for embracing every facet of ourselves with gusto. We'll be your cheerleaders, encouraging you to own your space with the way you present yourself—from the sway of your posture to the courage in your gaze. And we don't stop there; we dive into the ways "Blonde Brunette and a Mic" strives to uplift the voices of our generation, urging you to become a part of the chorus that helps us all remain visible, vibrant, and vocal. So, perk up your ears, lean in closer, and revitalize your spirit with us—because together, we're turning up the volume on midlife and beyond.

Previous Episode

Season 2 Episode 55: Selling Your Home: Strategies for Being Market-Ready

Ever wondered how to transform your humble abode into a buyer's paradise? Tune in as your hosts, Michele and Julee, share insights on making your house market-ready, with a sprinkle of personal stories and professional advice that will leave you feeling prepared. We're not just talking about a quick tidy-up; we dive deep into the essence of decluttering, the magic of staging, and the allure of curb appeal. Imagine walking through your front door and feeling that immediate sense of 'home'—that's the reaction we're aiming for from potential buyers, and we'll tell you just how to achieve it.
As we venture through the journey of selling your home, we touch upon the emotional rollercoaster it can be. From the daunting task of depersonalizing your space to the strategic game of organizing closets and garages, we guide you through the process with empathy and expertise. Julee underscores the significance of a clean, neutral backdrop that allows buyers to picture their future in your space. We also shine a light on the often overlooked resources available to help our elderly and disabled community members prepare their homes for sale.
Wrapping things up, we recap the essential steps to elevate your home from lived-in to must-have. Whether it's buffing up the curb appeal or ensuring your inspection reports are squeaky clean, we've covered all bases to help you navigate the current real estate landscape. This episode is more than just a talk; it's a toolbox brimming with strategies for selling success. So go ahead, download this gem, share it with your home-selling comrades, and join our community as we guide you to a successful sale. Until our paths cross again in the next weekly episode, keep thriving and waving goodbye to your old home with confidence.

Next Episode

Season 2 Episode 57: Finding True Compatibility Amidst the Swipe Culture

Ever found yourself pondering if there's a secret recipe to lasting love in our swipe-right world? Kira Saban, a seasoned relationship coach, joins us to spill the beans on how to navigate the murky waters of modern dating and cultivate relationships that go the distance. Through our heartfelt discussion, Kira unravels her journey from the joys of singlehood to the nuances of marital bliss, emphasizing that the right mindset, sprinkled with practical tools, can indeed pave the way to partnership success. We get real about the online dating scene—its conveniences and its confusions, especially when it comes to the tango of gender roles.
Our candid chat doesn't stop at the surface; instead, we plunge into the depths of attachment styles and how these emotional blueprints shape our love lives. Personal tales emerge as we confront our own battles with anxious and avoidant tendencies, tracing their roots back to childhood and how they influence our adult relationships. This episode isn't about pointing fingers; it's about peeling back layers, advocating for our needs, and challenging the outdated scripts that have long directed the dance of dating. There's a powerful call to self-discovery and the quest to build stronger, more secure connections.
As we wrap up, the conversation shifts to the strategic plays vital in the pursuit of a love that lasts. We explore the emotional intelligence required to navigate the stages of relationships, especially in a world that often prizes fleeting connections over enduring ones. Kira leaves us with actionable dating strategies, urging listeners to choose with wisdom and engage in experiences that reveal true compatibility. Whether you’re a hopeless romantic or a determined pragmatist, this episode is laden with insights for anyone ready to embark on the intricate journey of love with eyes wide open and hearts poised for adventure.

A Blonde A Brunette and a Mic - Season 2 Episode 56: Why do I feel invisible after 50?

Transcript

Speaker 100:00:00.240

Hey everybody . This is Michelle

Speaker 100:00:03.341

and this is Julie . Welcome to a Blonde , a Brunette and a Mike podcast . What is our podcast all about you ?

Speaker 200:00:10.987

ask

Speaker 200:00:12.140

Well , we're a 250-something woman with life experience and old bloody to say , which is exactly w

If you like this episode you’ll love

The Women's Eye with Stacey Gualandi | Women Leaders, Entrepreneurs, Authors and Global Changemakers

Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel

The Shrink Next Door

The Interesting Narrative of the Life of Olaudah Equiano, Or Gustavus Vassa, The African by Olaudah Equiano

How It Is

Episode Comments

Generate a badge

Get a badge for your website that links back to this episode

Select type & size

Copy