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Dear Shandy

Dear Shandy

Sharleen Joynt & Andy Levine

Dear Shandy is a dating advice podcast where Sharleen Joynt and her husband Andy Levine answer your burning relationship questions from the perspective of a happily married couple. Sharleen and Andy are two fiercely independent people who are skeptical of love stories and don’t believe in fate, soulmates, or The One. So how did they wind up so happily married? They learned the dating lessons by living them. Get no-holds-barred, honest advice from two people who actually have what you want: a fun, blissful partnership. But there's more! As an iconic former Bachelor contestant, Sharleen invites Bachelor Nation couples on for intimate double dates called Love Fests. Last, but certainly not least, Sharleen brings her insider knowledge and Andy delivers hilarious comic relief to combine for what are hands down the best Bachelor recaps in the business. New episodes drop every Thursday, and during Bachelor seasons, recaps drop on Tuesdays!

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Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 28 recaps! Today we're breaking down this week's back-to-back episodes, episodes 4 & 5!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

1:15 - Episode 4 Kick Off

3:29 - Lexi’s 1-On-1

17:12 - Evening

8:58 - Group Date

11:27 - Evening

16:04 - The Next Day/2-On-1 Date

26:07 - Evening

29:46 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party

36:15 - Episode 5 Kick Off

37:03 - Rose Ceremony

39:58 - Kelsey A’s 1-On-1

41:36 - Evening

43:56 - Group Date

49:10 - Evening

51:16 - Rachel’s 1-On-1

52:10 - Evening

53:36 - The Next Day

53:45 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party

1:02:23 - Rose Ceremony

1:02:56 - Andy’s A-Game

1:03:51 - Shandy Word Watch

1:06:20 - Shandy’s Predictions

If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected]

Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy

More Dear Shandy

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More Sharleen

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt

Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com

More Andy

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine

Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Does it make you the A-hole to crush on someone you know is unavailable? When your guy is a winner but his kissing is terrible, can you teach an old dog new tricks? And in a romantic relationship, where's the line between the "no eggshells" rule and shared humor? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Q1: Am I The A-Hole For Crushing On An Unavailable Co-Worker?

6:24 - Q2: My Wonderful Husband Is A Terrible Kisser—Are My Hot Make Out Days Over?

15:33 - Q3: I Have Fallen For My Best Friend—Help!

34:06 - Q4: In A Relationship, How Does The “No Eggshells” Rule Apply To Humor?

47:18 - Q5: A Guy At My Gym Makes Me Uncomfortable—Shandy’s Take?

1:01:32 - Q6: My In-Laws Make Comments About My Hot Dad—Help!

If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected]

Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy

Follow us!

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Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt

Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine

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Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down the grand FINALE!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

1:05 - Finale Kick Off

1:32 - Theresa Meets Gerry’s Family

2:34 - Evening

3:35 - Leslie Meets Gerry’s Family

10:35 - Evening

25:40 - Live: Leslie

33:05 - Back In Costa Rica

36:06 - Proposal

37:34 - Shandy’s Bet

40:16 - After The Final Rose

42:05 - Joey

44:32 - Special Announcement

47:50 - Overall Thoughts

50:23 - Shandy Word Watch

52:08 - Reviewing Night One Predictions

If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected]

Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy

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More Sharleen

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt

Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com

More Andy

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is it acceptable for your best friend to give her boyfriend a key to your shared apartment? For guys wanting to approach women outside the apps, but don't know where to start, Andy gives his 101 tips. Are we all addicted to our phones, and what's an otherwise happily married couple to do when screen time routinely becomes fight time? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

3:34 - Q1: My Roommate Gave Her Boyfriend A Key To Our Shared Apartment—Am I The Asshole For Being Upset?

11:05 - Q2: My Partner Goes Out Partying Late Every Weekend—Am I Being Disrespected?

24:25 - Q3: Shandy’s Advice To Men On How To Approach Women IRL

42:39 - Q4: Our Marriage Is Good But Our Phone Addiction Isn’t—Any Advice?

If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected]

Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy

Follow us!

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Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt

Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine

Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind, Season 6! Today we're breaking down the second Netflix release, episodes 7-9!

Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

0:32 - Amy & Johnny

6:56 - Brittany & Kenneth

22:28 - AD & Clay

35:55 - Chelsea & Jimmy

48:59 - Jessica

51:59 - Chelsea & Jimmy, Cont’d

54:08 - Laura & Jeramey

1:05:48 - Who We Would Go For

If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected]

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Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy

More Sharleen

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt

Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com

More Andy

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine

Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion

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Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 28 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 9, aka Fantasy Suites!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

1:58 - Episode 9 Kick Off

2:31 - Rachel

8:38 - Kelsey

15:13 - Daisy

23:56 - Cliffhanger

30:39 - Andy’s A-Game

32:00 - Shandy Word Watch

35:20 - Shandy’s Predictions

If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected]

Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy

More Dear Shandy

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy

Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy

More Sharleen

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt

Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com

More Andy

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine

Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion

Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations

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Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 28 recaps! Today we're breaking down the Finale and After The Final Rose!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

1:39 - Finale Kick Off

3:07 - Joey’s Family

10:31 - Daisy’s Final Date

17:52 - Kelsey’s Final Date

22:15 - Proposal Day

24:51 - Daisy & Kelsey

28:18 - The Breakup

35:27 - The Proposal

37:14 - After The Final Rose

42:07 - Bachelorette

51:10 - Andy’s A-Game

52:12 - Shandy Word Watch

53:32 - Night One Predictions

54:58 - Special Introduction

If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected]

Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy

More Dear Shandy

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy

Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy

More Sharleen

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt

Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com

More Andy

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine

Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion

Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Are we ALL pre-date sleuthing one another online, and should you mention what you found to your date? If you're dating someone "perfect", what does it mean when you keep thinking about your ex? And if someone who routinely got in car accidents asked to borrow your new car, what would you say? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Q1: My Pre-Date Googling Revealed Something About My Date—Should I Bring It Up With Him?

12:33 - Q2: My Grandmother Has Passed But Wanted Me To Have Her Wedding Ring—How Do I Bring This Up With Family?

24:23 - Q3: My Boyfriend Is Perfect But I Keep Thinking About My Ex—Help!

39:50 - Q4: We’ve Gone From Friends To Dating To Friends Again—Shandy’s Take?

56:30 - Q5: My Boyfriend Sucks At Driving And Wants To Borrow My New Car

1:06:55 - Announcements

If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected]

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Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine

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Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down the grand finale!

Thanks to our sponsors!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

1:45 - Finale Kick Off

5:17 - Kat & John Henry’s Date

11:40 - Back On The Beach

12:57 - Eliza & Aaron B’s Date

14:45 - Back On The Bach

26:24 - The Next Day

28:35 - Kenny & Mari

29:24 - Wedding

32:28 - Rave Wedding Reception

41:16 - The Next Day

41:29 - “Take Time & Think”

43:19 - The Couples Make Or Break

50:21 - Overnights

55:04 - Proposal Day

59:35 - Where Are They Now Montage

1:03:02 - Credits

1:05:00 - Andy’s A-Game

1:06:02 - Who We Would Go For

If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected]

Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy

More Dear Shandy

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Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy

More Sharleen

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt

Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com

More Andy

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine

Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion

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Happy 2024, Shandies!!! We're back from our vacation and so excited to be reunited with you! In keeping with tradition, we're kicking off this new year with something special. That's right... today is our 3rd installment of UPDATES! When listening to our caller episodes and Q&As, if you find yourself wondering "where are they now?", today is all about filling in those blanks!

We called out for updates from our question-asking Shandies and many were kind enough to provide their subsequent chapters, the good and the bad! Come join us in the living room where we're on the edge of our seats!

Thanks to our sponsors!

Time Stamps:

0:00 - Introduction

1:07 - Episode 42: Caller Maya - https://youtu.be/gwJyzdS8NgM?si=pS0LVXjKgqE091IT

7:40 - Episode 154: Q6, from S - https://youtu.be/qyYKy-XiJ1A?si=NFZjCWlELmF_TU5u

12:00 - Episode 170: Q5, from Scared of Falling: https://youtu.be/7kVFN__wbAU?si=-uthJ85Sod6YgX64

14:41 - Episode 183: Caller Rosemary - https://youtu.be/pJdsPIfB3es?si=miKOsexlois7Oet4

20:28 - Episode 193: Caller 2, Siobhan - https://youtu.be/4DPlS4HCDLc?si=Qfgi7lzIZCdDeq-7

25:23 - Episode 197: Q3, from Pickle - https://youtu.be/dtHws_MFWho?si=rwsAq2x_UwIWh6zX

35:47 - Episode 218: Q7 from C - https://youtu.be/W0GWXzZwU0c?si=uZ0NTC7aXui3vNmU

39:55 - Episode 239: Q2 from K - https://youtu.be/YvOMD4zBo7A?si=gr2yXkFZ_GKgfuqb

43:47 - Episode 239: Q4 from A - https://youtu.be/YvOMD4zBo7A?si=gr2yXkFZ_GKgfuqb

46:57 - Episode 239: Q5 from A - https://youtu.be/YvOMD4zBo7A?si=gr2yXkFZ_GKgfuqb

51:56 - Episode 263: Q3 from N - https://youtu.be/Ofw1rNoMDiw?si=EjX_gcIlbYVpLaWo

55:15 - Episode 270: Q4 from Anonymous - https://youtu.be/ga4wgRlzIjE?si=WatAdVjOraPqTWaO

1:02:20 - Not An Update But A Shandy Letter

The referenced article written by the Shandy from the final letter:

https://www.today.com/life/essay-life/sign-universe-right-guy-rcna43973https://www.today.com/life/essay-life/sign-universe-right-guy-rcna43973

If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected]

Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations

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Follow us!

Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy

Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt

Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine

Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations

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Dear Shandy currently has 400 episodes available.

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The podcast is about Society & Culture, Podcasts, Relationships, After Shows and Tv & Film.

What is the most popular episode on Dear Shandy?

The episode title 'UPDATES To Shandies' Questions, Volume 3! - Ep 276' is the most popular.

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The average episode length on Dear Shandy is 70 minutes.

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Episodes of Dear Shandy are typically released every 5 days.

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The first episode of Dear Shandy was released on Aug 13, 2020.

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