WINE am I like this?!

On todays episode we are talking about Martha’s problem! We typically talk about my issues, but today I came over and I asked Martha what is something that’s weighing heavy on her shoulders? She has a constant need to be perfect at everything. Which we all know is impossible. I’ve given Martha a challenge to log every single minute she spends working so we can see how much time she gives to her life and we’re both here for the challenge!

This need to be perfect is so unobtainable because you go around trying to please everyone which will not please see other person so it’s a vicious never ending circle. A big problem we’ve noticed is there’s not enough people saying they’re proud of you for doing simple tasks. Like “ I’m proud of you for getting out of bed today” or I’m proud of you for eating today”. The world could be a lot nicer if we could all be here and be present a little more with the people in our lives so they know they matter.

Martha feels like her need to be perfect stems a lot from being an immigrant. She came into this country at a very young age and this change everything for her and her family. Working hard was a way of life not a choice.

We’ve come to the conclusion that this whole perfection mess takes up so much energy and a lot of it does come back to work so I’m really excited to see where this work challenge leads her and this summer she doesn’t work! So we’re here for it!

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Our intro music was created by @oswaldex on instagram, if you have any music you want created he is very easy to work with!

On todays episode we unfortunately had to record separately. Martha has a bad cold. We believe it’s due to her pretending to be 21 again and not 31. Too much travel and drinking. She has decided to do a total reset starting Monday and we love that.

This week is short and sweet while we talk about our fundates and our general well being. Martha talks about her friends bachelorette party she attended and how she changed someone’s life by becoming a drunken psychic once again. Which we love.

Margaret talks about how she is finally finding happiness at home and how much piece that is bringing her. She had a meeting with a very intuitive friend who told her she was simply glowing! Which we also love.

Let us know if you have any episode suggestions for us by emailing us at [email protected] or you can dm us @wineamilikethis on instagram.

Our intro music was created by @oswaldex on instagram, if you have any music you want created he is very easy to work with!

On todays episode We’re talking about the 75 soft challenge vs. the 75 hard challenge. The soft challenge consists of eating well, working out 6 days with 1 active rest day whatever that looks like for you, drinking 3 liters of water, reading or journaling everyday, only drinking on social occasions.

Martha has already started the challenge and Margaret plans on beginning Monday. We both are taking a hard much needed break from alcohol.

With taking the soft challenge it allows you to change gradually where as with the hard challenge you’re doing a lot of restricting making it much harder to continue with the lifestyle change after the challenge.

We’re hoping this challenge will make some big changes in our lives towards our happiness and we urge you to join us!

We also mention a supplement Margaret is going to start taking called feel free. The creator used it to get off alcohol and it’s completely plant based product and you can find out more about this product by listening to this episode: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-skinny-confidential-him-her-podcast/id1093028505?i=1000551748559

Let us know if you have any episode suggestions for us by emailing us at [email protected] or you can dm us @wineamilikethis on instagram.

Our intro music was created by @oswaldex on instagram, if you have any music you want created he is very easy to work with!

On todays episode we’re talking the most recent terrible things that are going on in this country with abortion. We begin by giving a brief description of Roe Wade and Planned Parenthood V Casey. If you don’t know there has been a recent leak in the Supreme Court where they may overturn Roe v wade. This is a very scary slippery slope for human rights in America.

We’ve seen time and time again around the world where abortion was banned and it doesn’t work. Abortions will happen whether they are legal or not. If they are illegal they will become extremely unsafe. It’s not about the unborn child, it’s about controlling women. You cannot be pro life without thinking of the life of the mother that could die from having her child. You cannot be pro life without caring about the rape victim. You cannot be pro life without caring about both lives.

If you do not have a uterus you have no right to make these decisions. Someone else’s body is not your business.

This episode will be a two parter because we have so much more to say on this topic.

Let us know if you have any episode suggestions for us by emailing us at [email protected] or you can dm us @wineamilikethis on instagram.

Our intro music was created by @oswaldex on instagram, if you have any music you want created he is very easy to work with!

On todays episode we’re talking about airport etiquette! We recently were trapped in the Austin airport for 6 hours due to bad weather, so we thought why not talk about all of our bad airport experiences. Martha has been trapped in the airport multiple times for hours while Margaret has had better luck. Maybe Martha has bad plane energy?

We also talk about treating the airport staff with respect. Remember, they have zero control over plane cancellations and flight delays and they’re only doing the best they can. If you treat them with kindness you often end up getting more anyways. Be kind to your flight attendants and customer service agents when you fly!

Let us know if you have any episode suggestions for us by emailing us at [email protected] or you can dm us @wineamilikethis on instagram.

Our intro music was created by @oswaldex on instagram, if you have any music you want created he is very easy to work with!