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✨ True Wealth with Betty ✨

✨ True Wealth with Betty ✨

Betty Cottam Bertels

Join Mindset Coach & Long-Term Student of the Mind, Betty Cottam Bertels for meandering and juicy conversations with friends, spiritual teachers and colleagues...
As she gets to grips with what it might mean to be 'truly wealthy' in this modern, technocratic age, in which social and familial division, fear, & isolation run rife.
Expect thoughtful, provoking conversation around the topic of whole-hearted responsibility & service, healing, belonging, creativity, the mind, and all things personal growth...
...with plenty of joy & laughter, too.

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Louisa Shorney is an artist, writer & healer. She is a student in the Aro gTer Buddhist lineage, and she also sings with Betty in the Savage Cabbage Blues Band. In the first half of 2024 she was a participant in Betty’s signature group program Ignite Your Power.

In this conversation:

  • Louisa speaks about her energy & spirit work, animism, and the objects in her room
  • Louisa on her intuitive childhood experiences
  • The power of story & Louisa’s fiction book The Sacred Forest
  • Psychic / intuitive powers in the family
  • Witchcraft & magic and how it’s not been safe to speak of these things
  • Betty on witchcraft in Wales
  • Louisa on resonance & how she can physically experience what another person is experiencing
  • How Louisa navigates her healing sessions; getting the person to discover the issue for themselves
  • Soul retrieval, parts work & other healing modalities
  • What we work on is not the thread they’ve picked, but the whole knot
  • The Medicine wheel and how it can be applied to areas of our lives
  • The Great Smoking Mirror of our delusions & illusions
  • What is a shamanic healer? Where the term comes from, and what is meant by it
  • Charlatans in the healing, coaching & therapeutic world; the dangers & how to spot one
  • Using your intuition, and watching for knee-jerk responses
  • Louisa’s experience of Ignite Your Power
  • The phrase that 3-yr old Louisa heard from adults that impacted her lifelong financial wellbeing
  • Betty & Louisa discuss the power of hypnotic recordings
  • The joy of finding people who can support you & circles
  • How you can work with Louisa online & in person
  • The crafts that Louisa practices

You can find out more about Louisa & her work at https://louisa-shorney.com/

From Betty:
Calling all ethically-driven entrepreneurs & change-makers! Do you know WHAT to do to grow your business... but feel 'blocked' when it comes to actually doing it?

If so... you don't need yet another business or marketing course.

What you need is... to figure out what is blocking you at a subconscious level...

And rewire it - to get your subconscious mind working for you instead of against you.

Book your gift session here:

https://calendly.com/betty-cottam/dreamhatcher

FB: Betty Cottam Bertels
IG: Betty_Cottam
www.truewealthwithbetty.com
Music by Ahmad Mousavipour from Pixabay

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  • Tad on The Artist & The Entrepreneur in business
  • The first two columns: Collapse vs Posture
  • The Third Column: Composure and the marriage of The Artist & Entrepreneur
  • Collapsing & posturing are both strategies; both manipulative
  • When it’s good to collapse/ What happens when a society collapses
  • Collapse & Posture; as a response to hurt
  • Children are inherently manipulative & reactive
  • Viktor Frankl and the space between stimulus & response
  • The importance of initiation & rights of passage in growing into adults
  • People pleasing & the hurt child in business
  • Why we need to be healed as business owners & entrepreneurs & what happens if we don’t
  • How to know where we fit in all of this as individuals
  • The hidden agendas behind collapsing/posturing
  • Betty asks Tad about posturing specifically with women in the coaching industry
  • The importance of getting to the truth over getting what you want; asking ‘Is this a fit?’ with potential clients
  • Betty recalls the desperation of feeling a strong sense of lack
  • Tad; You can’t be ethical when you’re desperate, and what to do if you are
  • Procrastinating and putting off your marketing as a sign that healing is required
  • What happens if you don’t attend to this healing
  • Coercion & some red (and green) flags in the coaching industry
  • Being an adult is about feeding, not being fed
  • How to know when it’s your conscience, and when it’s a wound that’s stopping you
  • Tad reads a poem to conclude; “Letter to the person who carved their initials into the oldest living longleaf pine in North America”

https://marketingforhippies.com/

https://poetry.lib.uidaho.edu/poems/letter-to-the-person-who-carved-his-initials-into-the-oldest-living-longleaf-pine-in-north-america/

NEW MODEL: Collapsing & Posturing Meets Artist & Entrepreneur

From Betty:
Calling all ethically-driven entrepreneurs & change-makers! Do you know WHAT to do to grow your business... but feel 'blocked' when it comes to actually doing it?

If so... you don't need yet another business or marketing course.

What you need is... to figure out what is blocking you at a subconscious level...

And rewire it - to get your subconscious mind working for you instead of against you.

Book your gift session here:

https://calendly.com/betty-cottam/dreamhatcher

FB: Betty Cottam Bertels
IG: Betty_Cottam
www.truewealthwithbetty.com
Music by Ahmad Mousavipour from Pixabay

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✨ True Wealth with Betty ✨ - When Everything Falls Apart; Traver Boehm on The Lost Art of Initiation
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02/22/24 • 68 min

Traver Boehm is the founder of the fastest growing men's movement in the world. He has given two TedTalks, and written two books (with another one on the way).
But most of all, he is such a joy. I am sure you will love listening to his story.
Greeting and how Betty & Traver met in London last year

Traver on how it all fell apart for him

Coming to view the falling apart as Initiation

Everything you want is on the other side of the falling apart

Therapies Traver tried; EMDR & Jungian Analysis

Sleepwalking through life

What do you really want?

The role of elders and other men

Rejecting ‘normal’; deciding to complete a dark retreat

Traver speak of his ‘Year to Live’ (inspired by the book by Stephen Levine)

Traver speaks of his experience of the dark retreat

How pain gets passed down from generation to generation

Unexpressed pain

Beyond competition: the magic of same-sex groups: men’s work & women’s work

Betty thanks Traver for the work he is doing in the world

Traver Boehm’s Website; Man Uncivilized: https://www.manuncivilized.com/meet-traver-boehm

The Uncivilized Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/49-days-in-the-pitch-dark/id1448906480?i=1000643347125

Traver’s Event in London on Saturday June 8th: https://www.manuncivilized.com/offers/bEJqsot9/checkout

From Betty:
Calling all ethically-driven entrepreneurs & change-makers! Do you know WHAT to do to grow your business... but feel 'blocked' when it comes to actually doing it?

If so... you don't need yet another business or marketing course.

What you need is... to figure out what is blocking you at a subconscious level...

And rewire it - to get your subconscious mind working for you instead of against you.

Book your gift session here:

https://calendly.com/betty-cottam/dreamhatcher

FB: Betty Cottam Bertels
IG: Betty_Cottam
www.truewealthwithbetty.com
Music by Ahmad Mousavipour from Pixabay

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✨ True Wealth with Betty ✨ - Ngak'chang Rinpoche on 'Authentic Appreciation'
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04/26/23 • 71 min

"Appreciation and creativity are inseparable – they also give rise to each other. When that happens, thankfulness and cheer arise as a natural understanding that sparkles through your existence."
I have been fortunate to have been an apprentice in the Aro gTer Tibetan Buddhist lineage for the past ten years, with Ngak'chang Rinpoche and his wife Khandro Déchen, as my root teachers, and my greatest inspiration. ✨
In this episode, Rinpoche discusses 'Wealth' as the ability to perceive, and appreciate, via the sense fields.

02.03: Betty introduces Ngak'chang Rinpoche
06.42: Ngak'chang Rinpoche; Your wealth is what you appreciate.
11.10: Why people aren't open to appreciation
13:20: Tibetan Refugees in India; money or lack of it doesn't equate to wealth
16.48: Wanting to prove we are 'real', & the need to have opinions
21.16: Why do we need to prove we are real? The fear of death.
26.58: Rinpoche's shirt; fashion & sartorialism
32.18: Rinpoche's working class background, never feeling poor
42.16: Authentic appreciation lasts a lifetime; 1960s fashion & the William Morris jacket
01.02.45: On doubt and failure
About Ngak'chang Rinpoche:

Ngak'chang Rinpoche is the lineage holder of the 'Aro gTer'; a cycle of teachings within the Nyingma school of Tibetan Buddhism.
He has written twelve books, and there are more on the way.
(Buddhist titles are written under the name Ngakpa Chögyam and non-Buddhist titles under the name Doc Togden. Some books are co-written with his wife Khandro Déchen).
As well as writing books and poetry, Rinpoche is an artist, craftsperson, sartorialist, musician, and parent.
You can find him on Facebook.
From www.arobuddhism.org:
"The sea and sky are our shrine room. The natural elements are our meditation."

"The Aro gTér is a Tibetan Vajrayana Buddhist lineage whose unusual characteristics make it singularly appropriate for many Westerners. The Aro gTér Tradition is principally concerned with transforming our experience of everyday being, rather than achieving an esoteric or spiritualised mode of existence.
Our aim is to engender cheerful courage, perceptive consideration, sincere determination, natural gallantry, graciousness, creativity, and spaciousness."

From Betty:
Calling all ethically-driven entrepreneurs & change-makers! Do you know WHAT to do to grow your business... but feel 'blocked' when it comes to actually doing it?

If so... you don't need yet another business or marketing course.

What you need is... to figure out what is blocking you at a subconscious level...

And rewire it - to get your subconscious mind working for you instead of against you.

Book your gift session here:

https://calendly.com/betty-cottam/dreamhatcher

FB: Betty Cottam Bertels
IG: Betty_Cottam
www.truewealthwithbetty.com
Music by Ahmad Mousavipour from Pixabay

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Sarah McCrum is the author of the groundbreaking book Love Money, Money Loves You.
In this interview Sarah explains the somewhat surprising story of how the book came into being; and tells us what we need to do in order to experience more money in our lives and businesses.
02:37 Betty introduces Sarah
07:43 Betty welcomes Sarah; story of how the book came about
11.52 Sarah on what it was like to channel the energy of money & her background in energy training with Chinese masters.
21:00 Betty asks about ego, Sarah's URL 'Liberate Humanity' & stating such a big desire
27:00 Money is energy; getting triggered by the book
31:54 What to do when you have no money; relaxing; and simply asking for it
39.37 Why Sarah doesn't like goal-setting; the stupidity of reducing people into numbers or 'leads'
49:00 Regenerative Farming & an economy based on wellbeing & life instead of death
55:37 The shift towards money flowing to those who are contributing; sweet energy
57:00 Sarah's advice for those who are feeling so angry & depressed at the state of the world
01:02:35 What if it's up to ME to bring about this new era? Being willing to do our bit.
01:08:38 How to download the chapters & where to find out more
Sarah's website: https://sarahmccrum.com/
Get the first four chapters of the book here: https://lovemoneyebook.com/

From Betty:
Calling all ethically-driven entrepreneurs & change-makers! Do you know WHAT to do to grow your business... but feel 'blocked' when it comes to actually doing it?

If so... you don't need yet another business or marketing course.

What you need is... to figure out what is blocking you at a subconscious level...

And rewire it - to get your subconscious mind working for you instead of against you.

Book your gift session here:

https://calendly.com/betty-cottam/dreamhatcher

FB: Betty Cottam Bertels
IG: Betty_Cottam
www.truewealthwithbetty.com
Music by Ahmad Mousavipour from Pixabay

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✨ True Wealth with Betty ✨ - Lessons in Structure, Focus & Consistency - with Caroline Leon
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09/05/24 • 80 min

Caroline Leon is a business coach for conscious entrepreneurs wishing to build & grow successful online businesses, ethically.
In our conversation we covered:

  • Caroline’s journey into business coaching
  • Betty & Caroline share stories; how motherhood helped to clarify their paths
  • Caroline on starting her blog; leaving Britain to go travelling; Brene Brown & ‘The Art of Non-Conformity’
  • How Caroline grew her life-coaching business through gift sessions
  • Caroline on launching a new business as a new mother and how that made her more productive.
  • “Structure protects my life & freedom” - Caroline on how having children enforces business boundaries
  • Betty on resisting structure, and the necessary marriage between The Artist & The Entrepreneur
  • Caroline on hiring a VA to achieve consistency
  • Caroline on how she enhanced her focus & impulse control
  • Betty on the need for accountability
  • Caroline on the necessity & power in making decisions
  • Falling off the horse, and getting back on again - taking the pressure off
  • How to manage school holidays as a business mum
  • Betty asks Caroline how she discovered the ethical / conscious business world
  • Caroline on high-ticket pricing & how she consciously lowered her prices
  • The difference between ‘if my business works’, and ‘when my business works’
  • Why most people aren’t suited to being a business owner
  • Caroline on filtering out the people who won’t do the work

Find out more about her & sign up for Caroline's mailing list here: https://www.carolineleon.com/

From Betty:
Calling all ethically-driven entrepreneurs & change-makers! Do you know WHAT to do to grow your business... but feel 'blocked' when it comes to actually doing it?

If so... you don't need yet another business or marketing course.

What you need is... to figure out what is blocking you at a subconscious level...

And rewire it - to get your subconscious mind working for you instead of against you.

Book your gift session here:

https://calendly.com/betty-cottam/dreamhatcher

FB: Betty Cottam Bertels
IG: Betty_Cottam
www.truewealthwithbetty.com
Music by Ahmad Mousavipour from Pixabay

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Kate Valentine is the founder of the highly acclaimed non-profit Singing Mamas. She knows the transformative, healing power of singing together.
After tragic events and living through heart-breaking adversity, she had a vision, and she WENT FOR IT. (And the culture of our country is changing as a result of that. IF SHE CAN DO THIS SO CAN YOU - trust your vision!)Her story is one of utter alchemy, and I adored every second of it. I hope you will too.

  • How a teacher's harsh words put Kate off singing as a child
  • How Kate losing her brother as a child led her to become an intensive care nurse
  • Realising during the pandemic that she was going close to others’ trauma because she hadn’t resolved her own
  • The idea “You’re either a singer or you’re not” and the damage that does
  • How the burning of the witches has given women a fear of using our voices & shining
  • How Kate’s friend ‘set her up’ and Singing Mamas was born
  • Being a single mum to three sons, on benefits, working agency night shifts
  • The mental health crisis new mothers face
  • The moment in the ICU when Kate decided to make Singing Mamas a reality
  • Betty reflects on the need to knit communities back together
  • Kate tells stories of some of the mothers’ experiences
  • Overcoming competition; and the power of women coming together
  • Kate sings Cry Heart, But Do Not Break
  • How Kate encourages the singing mamas leaders to collaborate instead of compete
  • Where Singing Mamas is at now; being prescribed by the NHS
  • The research behind Singing Mamas that is raising the credibility even more & helping get funding
  • Kate on piloting a neonatal intensive care outreach program
  • Being a singer, without needing to be a ‘performance singer’
  • Performance & the false dichotomy between being an artist or being a consumer of art
  • Kate on reclaiming the identity of ‘singer’
  • Betty asks Kate about the science behind singing together as a means of lifting mood and decreasing stress & anxiety – as well as enhancing the connection between mother & baby
  • Kate on the magical explanation of what she thinks is happening when we sing together
  • Where to find your local singing mamas group, or if you don’t have one, how you can set one up
  • Betty thanks Kate for her contribution in the world

From Betty:
Calling all ethically-driven entrepreneurs & change-makers! Do you know WHAT to do to grow your business... but feel 'blocked' when it comes to actually doing it?

If so... you don't need yet another business or marketing course.

What you need is... to figure out what is blocking you at a subconscious level...

And rewire it - to get your subconscious mind working for you instead of against you.

Book your gift session here:

https://calendly.com/betty-cottam/dreamhatcher

FB: Betty Cottam Bertels
IG: Betty_Cottam
www.truewealthwithbetty.com
Music by Ahmad Mousavipour from Pixabay

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Discover the power of pleasure-first dressing with Feminine Adornment Coach -- Joy Asibey Gabriel, A.K.A. Black Lady of Leisure.
Topics covered:

  • What is a feminine adornment coach, and how Joy became one
  • Transitioning into Motherhood
  • The Transformative Power of Pleasure & the ways we resist it
  • Mamagena & The School of Womanly Arts
  • Joy's 'PEACOCK' method of pleasure-dressing
  • Betty tells Joy about the Vajrayana Buddhist teachings on Sartorialism as Buddhist practice, as taught by Ngak'chang Rinpoche
  • Joy speaks of Giving Makeovers on Canada's TV show 'Cityline'
  • How to find out more about Joy & book a discovery call

Joy's website: https://blackladyofleisure.com/
IG: https://www.instagram.com/blackladyofleisure/

From Betty:
Calling all ethically-driven entrepreneurs & change-makers! Do you know WHAT to do to grow your business... but feel 'blocked' when it comes to actually doing it?

If so... you don't need yet another business or marketing course.

What you need is... to figure out what is blocking you at a subconscious level...

And rewire it - to get your subconscious mind working for you instead of against you.

Book your gift session here:

https://calendly.com/betty-cottam/dreamhatcher

FB: Betty Cottam Bertels
IG: Betty_Cottam
www.truewealthwithbetty.com
Music by Ahmad Mousavipour from Pixabay

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✨ True Wealth with Betty ✨ - The Poverty & Power of Belief

The Poverty & Power of Belief

✨ True Wealth with Betty ✨

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10/18/23 • 61 min

What we believe will make or break us.

But what even are beliefs? How are they formed?

And, what can we do to CHANGE them?
Join Betty as she ponders one of her favourite topics of all: Our beliefs and how they shape our reality.

From Betty:
Calling all ethically-driven entrepreneurs & change-makers! Do you know WHAT to do to grow your business... but feel 'blocked' when it comes to actually doing it?

If so... you don't need yet another business or marketing course.

What you need is... to figure out what is blocking you at a subconscious level...

And rewire it - to get your subconscious mind working for you instead of against you.

Book your gift session here:

https://calendly.com/betty-cottam/dreamhatcher

FB: Betty Cottam Bertels
IG: Betty_Cottam
www.truewealthwithbetty.com
Music by Ahmad Mousavipour from Pixabay

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"Money is the Instrument that displays our Limiting Beliefs"
In the lunch queue at school, Fanny swore she would make a million. She worked hard and achieved her goal, only to find ~nothing changed~
"The 'hole' was within ME", she explains. . .
In this episode she discusses:
- Her money story
- How she made a million, and how it actually felt
- Her journey into money coaching
- What are Money Archetypes; and how understanding this concept can empower you
- The interplay of Money Archetypes for couples
- How to feel more financially empowered
- Some tips on managing/saving money
You can find out more about Fanny, and take her Money Archetypes quiz at:
https://fannysnaith.com/

From Betty:
Calling all ethically-driven entrepreneurs & change-makers! Do you know WHAT to do to grow your business... but feel 'blocked' when it comes to actually doing it?

If so... you don't need yet another business or marketing course.

What you need is... to figure out what is blocking you at a subconscious level...

And rewire it - to get your subconscious mind working for you instead of against you.

Book your gift session here:

https://calendly.com/betty-cottam/dreamhatcher

FB: Betty Cottam Bertels
IG: Betty_Cottam
www.truewealthwithbetty.com
Music by Ahmad Mousavipour from Pixabay

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How many episodes does ✨ True Wealth with Betty ✨ have?

✨ True Wealth with Betty ✨ currently has 20 episodes available.

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The podcast is about Society & Culture, Buddhism, Religion & Spirituality and Podcasts.

What is the most popular episode on ✨ True Wealth with Betty ✨?

The episode title 'When Everything Falls Apart; Traver Boehm on The Lost Art of Initiation' is the most popular.

What is the average episode length on ✨ True Wealth with Betty ✨?

The average episode length on ✨ True Wealth with Betty ✨ is 72 minutes.

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Episodes of ✨ True Wealth with Betty ✨ are typically released every 28 days, 1 hour.

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The first episode of ✨ True Wealth with Betty ✨ was released on Apr 26, 2023.

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