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The Sexual Alchemy Podcast - 089 When Your Partner Doesn't Want Sex Anymore

089 When Your Partner Doesn't Want Sex Anymore

The Sexual Alchemy Podcast

10/31/22 • 17 min

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Today's episode is about something I hear a lot working with cisgender heterosexual couples - what should men do when their spouse shuts down to sex? I share multiple options to explore as a couple and come back into intimacy together. You'll also learn alternatives for couples who want to try new things separately, how men should approach this issue from a compassionate, non-judgmental approach, and more.

What You Will Learn In This Episode:

How a compassionate, loving, and empathetic approach can help you get back into intimacy with your spouse

What it means for you as a man and your sexual energy that your partner is shut down to sex

Why introspection might be a helpful tool to find out the root cause of the shutdown of sex

What options you have if the answer is to solve it in separate ways

A short story of a couple who went through this issue and how they solved it

Why you shouldn't be judgmental with your partner about it

As hard as it might be to hear that your spouse has decided to close herself to sex, you must know it is as hard for her to acknowledge it first, and perhaps even harder to verbalise it. Regardless of the frustration, shame or guilt you might feel when hearing it, you must remember to be patient and curious, and get into the conversation with a loving, caring, and compassionate mindset.

Resources:

Check out my FREE Training, Reclaiming Your Intuitive, Confident, and Sensual Self https://www.sexualalchemy.com/free-training

The Sexual Alchemy Journal for Men: The Sexual Alchemy Journal for Men: 6 Weeks to Discovering and Embracing Your Full Sexual Self https://www.sexualalchemy.com/shop/p/sexualalchemyjournalformen

The Sexual Mastery Activation Cards for Men https://www.sexualalchemy.com/shop

Sign up for bi-weekly(ish) Love Letters straight to your inbox https://self-alchemy.activehosted.com/f/11

Free resources: https://www.sexualalchemy.com/free-resources/

My book "101 Meditations for Life, Business and Bedroom Success" https://www.amazon.com/Meditations-Life-Business-Bedroom-Success/dp/0993207626/

My website https://www.sexualalchemy.com/

Find me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/s_xualalchemy/

Find me on Twitter https://twitter.com/rebeccalowrie/

Find me on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/rebecca.lowrie1

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Find me on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@sexualalchemy

10/31/22 • 17 min

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