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Christa Desir & Carrie Mesrobian

A frank and personal discussion of sexuality and young adult books between two authors who are friends.

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Episode 17: YA Sex Scenes

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09/20/16 • 70 min

Episode 17: We discuss craft issues and questions involved in YA sex scenes, whether you’re reading them or writing them, and reference several titles in the process.

https://theoralhistorypodcast.files.wordpress.com/2016/09/sept16.mp3

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SHOW NOTES

Our Current Reads

Carrie:

Women In Clothes, by Sheila Heti, Heidi Shulavits and Leanne Shapton
Unbroken Brain: A Revolutionary New Way of Understanding Addiction, by Maia Szalavitz
The Careful Undressing of Love, by Corey Ann Haydu

Christa:

The Imperfectionists, by Tom Rachman
Underground Railroad, by Colson Whitehead
Never Look An American in the Eye: A Memoir of Flying Turtles, Colonial Ghosts, and the Making of a Nigerian American, by Okey Ndibe
Rani Patel in Full Effect, by Sonia Patel

Announcements

— Our TinyLetter serves as a companion piece for each episode and guess what: you can subscribe here

— We’re working on an episode about censorship and YA fiction, and how this has occurred at any point in the publication or distribution process, whether you are an author, editor, teacher or librarian. We can keep each submission anonymous if preferred. We’d love to hear from you! Email here.

“Let’s break it all down for you.”

Books and Other References

Thief of Shadows, by Elizabeth Hoyt
Wintersong, by S. Jae-Jones
Plus One by Elizabeth Fama
Graceling by Kristin Cashore
The Black Dagger Brotherhood series ,by J.R. Ward
My Year Zero, by Rachel Gold
Three Truths and A Lie, by Brent Hartinger
Underneath Everything, by Marcy Beller Paul
“Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?” by Joyce Carol Oates
Smooth Talk movie
“Welcome to the New America: Straight-ish, heteroflexible, and pansexual”
See No Color, by Shannon Gibney
The Cheating Episode that Carrie’s “condom stalemate” anecdote referenced
The concept of lunarception

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Episode #12: Worst Dude Ever

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02/05/16 • 86 min

Episode 12: We discuss traditional cultural lessons regarding masculinity and YA titles that address masculinity in fascinating ways.

https://theoralhistorypodcast.files.wordpress.com/2016/02/january-2016.mp3

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SHOW NOTES

Our Current Reads

Christa
The War That Saved My Life, by Kimberly Brubaker Bradley
Fates & Furies, by Lauren Groff
Carrie:
Raging Star, by Moira Young
The Narcotic Farm, by Nancy D. Campbell

“As an underclassman who suddenly has to be the quarterback while taking care of my grandmother and having no parents, I’m here to say being a man is complicated.”

References
2nd Annual WriteLadyHeadRight Flash Fiction Tumblr & submission guidelines
My So-Called Life: the scene when Jordan Catalano holds Angela’s hand
on the slobby dress of men & the movie Clueless
Anatomy of a Country Music Song series
Angie Manfredi on Twitter @misskubelik
Iron John: A Book About Men, by Robert Bly
Starhawk, author & activist
a collection of romance novels edited by Christa
“Best Of Grindr” on Instagram
Sabaa Tahir on research and world-building in An Ember in the Ashes

“Sure I get the ladies but I basically have no education or idea of what to do with my life post-football. So, yeah.”

Recommended Reads
Fever Pitch, by Heidi Cullinan
Jellicoe Road, by Melina Marchetta
All-American Boys, by Jason Reynolds & Brendan Kiely
Winger, by Andrew Smith
September Girls, by Bennett Madison
An Ember in the Ashes, by Sabaa Tahir

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02/05/16 • 86 min

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Episode #11: Our Sexual Education

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12/18/15 • 73 min

Episode 11: We discuss some of the books that helped shape our own sexual education and thinking over the years.

https://theoralhistorypodcast.files.wordpress.com/2015/12/december.mp3

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Our Current Reads
Christa
The Theory of Everything by Gae Polisner

Carrie
The Spymaster’s Lady by Joanna Bourne
Rogue Spy by Joanna Bourne
An Ember in the Ashes by Sabaa Tahir

“everything you’re saying is so resonant and deep and important; never stop talking...”

References
In Bed with Susie Bright podcast
On Our Backs magazine
writer Carol Queen
Susie Sexpert’s Lesbian Sex World by Susie Bright
Mother-Daughter Sex Advice by Susie Bright & Aretha Bright
A Natural History of Love & A Natural History of the Senses by Diane Ackerman
Leatherfolk: Radical Sex, People, Politics, and Practice edited by Mark Thompson
a bit on Jocelyn Elders, former SURGEON GENERAL (not Attorney General candidate, that’s Carrie’s error)
Disgruntled by Asali Solomon
Sula by Toni Morrison
The Bluest Eye by Toni Morrison
Penis Passion” essay by bell hooks
The FetLife website

“wow, yr both really turning me around on a lot of topics here”

Recommended Reads
Full Exposure by Susie Bright
Woman: An Intimate Geography by Natalie Angier
Outrageous Acts & Everyday Rebellions by Gloria Steinem
The Best American Erotica anthology series edited by Susie Bright & others
Harmful to Minors: The Perils of Protecting Children from Sex by Judith Levine
Cunt: A Declaration of Independence by Inga Muscio

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12/18/15 • 73 min

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Episode #10: Illicit Relationships

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11/13/15 • 66 min

Episode 10: We discuss illicit relationships where there is a power differential between the people involved, as well as legal and social restrictions.

https://theoralhistorypodcast.files.wordpress.com/2015/11/illicit.mp3

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Our Current Reads
Carrie
Walk On Earth A Stranger by Rae Carson
The Master by Kresley Cole

Christa
Traffick by Ellen Hopkins
The Death and Life of Zebulon Finch, Volume I: At the Edge of Empire by Daniel Kraus

the power & control wheel

References
being on “the down low”
“Is This TMI?” flash fiction
Drowning Instinct by Ilsa J. Bick
Boy Toy by Barry Lyga
Flawed by Kate Avelynn
Forbidden by Tabitha Suzuma
How I Live Now by Meg Rosoff
Searching for Caleb by Anne Tyler
Other Broken Things by Christa Desir

Recommended Reads
Consent by Nancy Ohlin
Girl by Blake Nelson
How We Fall by Kate Brauning
Out of Darkness by Ashley Hope Perez
The Sacred Lies of Minnow Bly by Stephanie Oakes
Still Waters by Ash Parsons

Tell us what you think! Leave a comment or send us an email: feedback AT theoralhistorypodcast DOT com

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11/13/15 • 66 min

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Episode #6: The Greatest Love Of All

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04/27/15 • 56 min

Episode #6: We discuss that most taboo sex act, the Greatest Love of All, masturbation.

https://theoralhistorypodcast.files.wordpress.com/2015/04/og6final.mp3

Subscribe in iTunes here; listen via Stitcher here.

Current Reads
– Christa: just finished The F-It List by Julie Halpern; now reading My True Love Gave To Me: Twelve Holiday Stories by Various YA Authors
– Carrie: just finished The Alex Crow by Andrew Smith & The Summer Prince by Alaya Dawn Johnson; now reading By Its Cover by Donna Leon

References
Dahlia, the Twitter reference = Dahlia Adler, YA/NA Author
– Betty Dodson’s main site w/ Carlin Ross, plus their YouTube channel and the video Carrie referenced where Betty draws the internal clitoral structure
– Jaclyn Friedman’s main site and podcast “Fucking While Feminist” & book What You Really Really Want: The Smart Girls Shame-Free Guide to Sex & Safety
Susie Bright’s podcast: “In Bed with Susie Bright” (free episodes via iTunes; subscribe via Audible)

A Few Other Smart Women Who Write About Sex
Carol Queen
Chelsea G Summers
Tristan Taormino

On Euphemisms & Masturbation
Euphemism Generator site
– Some slang for masturbation (FYI, this is a Reddit thread)
Beautiful Agony Tumblr (masturbation images from the neck up)

Books Mentioned
Bastard Out of Carolina by Dorothy Allison
The Color Purple by Alice Walker
Push by Sapphire
Cunt: A Declaration of Independence by Inga Muscio

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04/27/15 • 56 min

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Episode #4: The LadyHead Seal of Approval

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03/20/15 • 50 min

Episode #4: We discuss the whys and wherefores of oral sex, in life and in YA fiction.

https://theoralhistorypodcast.files.wordpress.com/2015/03/oh4.mp3

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Show Notes

Christa is currently reading The Alex Crow by Andrew Smith; just finished Bone Gap by Laura Ruby & The Boy in the Black Suit by Jason Reynolds
Carrie is currently reading Infandous by Elana K. Arnold; just finished There Was and There Was Not by Meline Toumani

On Curtis Sittenfeld’s Prep and John Green’s Looking for Alaska
John Green on the Looking for Alaska blowjob scene
Prep by Curtis Sittenfeld
Looking for Alaska by John Green

Book Recommendations
Uses for Boys by Erica Lorraine Scheidt
Don’t Let Me Go by JH Trumble
The Piper’s Son by Melina Marchetta
poem referenced: “Japan” by Billy Collins
Raw Blue by Kirsty Eagar

YA Books Featuring Oral Sex
The DUFF by Kody Keplinger
Wicked Lovely by Melissa Marr
Starglass by Phoebe North
The Program by Suzanne Young
Kiss It by

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Episode #3: Girl Fantasies & 50 Shades of Grey

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02/21/15 • 23 min

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Episode 24: What Belongs To You by Garth Greenwell

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12/06/19 • 57 min

https://theoralhistorypodcast.files.wordpress.com/2019/12/october-2019.mp3

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SHOW NOTES

Our Current Reads

Christa
The Bride Test,
by Helen HoangCarrie
How To Do Nothing: Resisting the Attention Economy,
by Jenny Odell

“what am I even doing here?”

Announcements

Subscribe to our companion TinyLetter for this (and every) episode here;
and visit us on Facebook here.

This episode’s excerpt is from What Belongs To You, by Garth Greenwell.

Books & References

“How I Feel In Love With The Beautiful Art of Cruising,” by Garth Greenwell
Cleanness, by Garth Greenwell
The Kiss Quotient, by Helen Hoang
Less, by Andrew Greer

“no one reads these captions, Adam, just go with it...”

Let us know what you think? feedback AT the oral history podcast DOT com

About Our Sponsor

This podcast is supported by Tessera Editorial, a full service editorial company that’s changing the face of publishing. Find them at TesseraEditorial.com for all your editing needs – developmental, line, or copyedits. Whether indie or publishing house, they’ll treat your manuscript with integrity. Plus, if you’re Black, Indigenous, and/or a Person of Color interested in breaking into publishing, Tessera offers a free Mentorship Program that helps teach you the ins and outs of the editing process. Learn more at TesseraEditorial.com.

About This Podcast

Carrie Mesrobian and Christa Desir are two good friends who love discussing sex & books. The idea for The Oral History Podcast came out of their daily dog-walking conversations when they realized that others might be as interested in this topic as they were. Each podcast focuses on a topic of sexuality in relationship to books. Previous podcasts have included discussions about masturbation, first kisses, cheating, illicit relationships, oral sex, and “girl talk” to name a few. Frank, engaging, and filthy, these two podcasters will leave you laughing, blushing, or ready to start writing sex scenes in your novel in an authentic and excellent way.

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Episode 23: Sula by Toni Morrison

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09/30/19 • 0 min

click to subscribe in Spotify, GooglePlayMusic, iTunes, or Stitcher. SHOW NOTES Our Current Reads Carrie Sex Objects: Art & The Dialectics of Desire, by Jennifer Doyle Christa An American Summer: Love and Death in Chicago, by Alex Kotlowitz Announcements Subscribe to our companion TinyLetter for this (and every) episode here; and visit us on Facebook here. This episode’s excerpts are from Sula, ... Continue reading Episode 23: Sula by Toni Morrison
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Episode #19: Dating

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01/12/17 • 69 min

In this episode of the Oral History Podcast, we discuss the concept of dating: what it was like when we were teenagers, what it is like for teenagers now, and how some books we recommend handle this variable romantical endeavor. Do you have some insight on dating then/now or any book recommendations that deal with dating in a significant way? Tell us what you think: (feedback AT theoralhistorypodcast DOT com).

https://theoralhistorypodcast.files.wordpress.com/2017/01/dec16.mp3

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SHOW NOTES

Our Current Reads

Christa:

Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent and Lead, by Brene Brown
Pasadena, by Sherri L. Smith

Carrie:

Fragrant: The Secret Life of Scent, by Mandy Aftel
The Fire This Time: A New Generation Speaks About Race, by Jesmyn Ward (editor)
The Leftovers, by Tom Perrotta

Couple at rollerskating rink. Southside, Chicago, Illinois. Link here.

References

Subscribe to our companion piece TinyLetter
Our One-Star Review T-shirt shop (all proceeds go to Scarleteen)
Money Talks, a movie that Christa was not into
This is who Eddie Money is, just FYI
“We’re Now Dating Six People At Once, According To Study”
Ghosting
Bread-crumbing

“Hey you know I only got a flip phone so I gotta ask you out on a date the old fashioned way, baby.”

Recommended Reads (listed in the order in which they were discussed)
Aristotle and Dante Discover The Secrets of The Universe, by Benjamin Saenz Alire
Just Listen, by Sarah Dessen
Freefall, by Mindi Scott
The Female of the Species, by Mindi McGinnis
Dreamland, by Sarah Dessen
Stay, by Deb Caletti

Want more? Subscribe to our accompanying TinyLetter for further discussion on this episode!

“What’s not to love, eh?”

About This Podcast

Carrie Mesrobian and Christa Desir are two good friends who happen to be YA authors interested in discussing sex. The idea for The Oral History Podcast came out of their daily dog-walking conversations when they realized that others might be as interested in this topic as they were. Each podcast focuses on a topic of sexuality in the lives of teens. Previous podcasts have included discussions about masturbation, first kisses, cheating, illicit relationships, oral sex, and “girl talk” to...

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How many episodes does The Oral History Podcast » podcast have?

The Oral History Podcast » podcast currently has 39 episodes available.

What topics does The Oral History Podcast » podcast cover?

The podcast is about Literature, Fiction, Podcasts, Books, Book, Arts and Sexuality.

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The episode title 'Episode 17: YA Sex Scenes' is the most popular.

What is the average episode length on The Oral History Podcast » podcast?

The average episode length on The Oral History Podcast » podcast is 39 minutes.

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Episodes of The Oral History Podcast » podcast are typically released every 23 days, 5 hours.

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The first episode of The Oral History Podcast » podcast was released on Jan 29, 2015.

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