
#23 "I've Never Been Married And Feel Like It's A Mark Against Me": Listener Question from Susanna, 46
10/20/23 • 18 min
Why you should listen to this episode: Not getting married isn't and shouldn't feel like a mark against you. But it's easy to feel or think that it is. But EVERY Later Dater can potentially feel like there is a label slapped on them (divorced, never married, widowed, married multiple times). It's what we make it mean that matters.
Who's a Later Dater? Anyone who feels they are dating later in life, or feels like they are just getting their head wrapped around how they want to date in today's world. Dating later in life has changed. And Later Daters often have the know-how and connection skills from pre-dating app days. Learn more at www.thelaterdatertoday.com.
Lakshmi was named among the "Best Guests of 2023" on tech and culture podcast PIVOT with Kara Swisher & Scott Galloway. https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/best-friends-of-pivot/id1073226719?i=1000639439067
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The Later Dater Today is a podcast all about dating Later In Life but mostly the 45-59 window. This overlooked and often misunderstood part of the dating timeline is both under-discussed and wildly undervalued. Host, Lakshmi Rengarajan has been trying to bring both innovation as well as an analog approach to how we date today for the past 15 years.
Episodes every Friday and follow us on Instagram for bite size servings of ideas from the podcast.
Follow us there: https://www.instagram.com/the_later_dater_today
And be sure to visit us at the The Later Dater Today.com , sign up for our email list and please send us your questions!
Why you should listen to this episode: Not getting married isn't and shouldn't feel like a mark against you. But it's easy to feel or think that it is. But EVERY Later Dater can potentially feel like there is a label slapped on them (divorced, never married, widowed, married multiple times). It's what we make it mean that matters.
Who's a Later Dater? Anyone who feels they are dating later in life, or feels like they are just getting their head wrapped around how they want to date in today's world. Dating later in life has changed. And Later Daters often have the know-how and connection skills from pre-dating app days. Learn more at www.thelaterdatertoday.com.
Lakshmi was named among the "Best Guests of 2023" on tech and culture podcast PIVOT with Kara Swisher & Scott Galloway. https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/best-friends-of-pivot/id1073226719?i=1000639439067
Help keep the The Later Dater Today podcast ad-free.
https://www.buymeacoffee.com/later_Lakshmi
The Later Dater Today is a podcast all about dating Later In Life but mostly the 45-59 window. This overlooked and often misunderstood part of the dating timeline is both under-discussed and wildly undervalued. Host, Lakshmi Rengarajan has been trying to bring both innovation as well as an analog approach to how we date today for the past 15 years.
Episodes every Friday and follow us on Instagram for bite size servings of ideas from the podcast.
Follow us there: https://www.instagram.com/the_later_dater_today
And be sure to visit us at the The Later Dater Today.com , sign up for our email list and please send us your questions!
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#22 Don't Date Someone You Like
Why you should listen to this episode: Being so focused on "liking" someone might actually be getting in the way of connecting with them.
Who's a Later Dater? Anyone who feels they are dating later in life, or feels like they are just getting their head wrapped around how they want to date in today's world. Dating later in life has changed. And Later Daters often have the know-how and connection skills from pre-dating app days. Learn more at www.thelaterdatertoday.com.
Lakshmi was named among the "Best Guests of 2023" on tech and culture podcast PIVOT with Kara Swisher & Scott Galloway. https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/best-friends-of-pivot/id1073226719?i=1000639439067
Help keep the The Later Dater Today podcast ad-free.
https://www.buymeacoffee.com/later_Lakshmi
The Later Dater Today is a podcast all about dating Later In Life but mostly the 45-59 window. This overlooked and often misunderstood part of the dating timeline is both under-discussed and wildly undervalued. Host, Lakshmi Rengarajan has been trying to bring both innovation as well as an analog approach to how we date today for the past 15 years.
Episodes every Friday and follow us on Instagram for bite size servings of ideas from the podcast.
Follow us there: https://www.instagram.com/the_later_dater_today
And be sure to visit us at the The Later Dater Today.com , sign up for our email list and please send us your questions!
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#24 Meg Ryan's New Movie and Reconnecting With Someone From Your Past
What Happens Later Trailer, Starring Meg Ryan & David Duchovny
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zceSigCGWSQ
The Afterlife Set-up: Two 80-somethings reconnect in the pandemic after being set-up by a spirit from the beyond. Hear the incredible story here:
https://www.pairedbythepeople.com/featuredepisodes/project-three-x6djm-dz7lj
Who's a Later Dater? Anyone who feels they are dating later in life, or feels like they are just getting their head wrapped around how they want to date in today's world. Dating later in life has changed. And Later Daters often have the know-how and connection skills from pre-dating app days. Learn more at www.thelaterdatertoday.com.
Lakshmi was named among the "Best Guests of 2023" on tech and culture podcast PIVOT with Kara Swisher & Scott Galloway. https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/best-friends-of-pivot/id1073226719?i=1000639439067
Help keep the The Later Dater Today podcast ad-free.
https://www.buymeacoffee.com/later_Lakshmi
The Later Dater Today is a podcast all about dating Later In Life but mostly the 45-59 window. This overlooked and often misunderstood part of the dating timeline is both under-discussed and wildly undervalued. Host, Lakshmi Rengarajan has been trying to bring both innovation as well as an analog approach to how we date today for the past 15 years.
Episodes every Friday and follow us on Instagram for bite size servings of ideas from the podcast.
Follow us there: https://www.instagram.com/the_later_dater_today
And be sure to visit us at the The Later Dater Today.com , sign up for our email list and please send us your questions!
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