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The Conscious Couples Podcast

The Conscious Couples Podcast

Alan Lazaros and Emilia Smith

Welcome to The Conscious Couples Podcast with your host Emilia Smith and Alan Lazaros. In this podcast, we share our life, love story & combined relationship expertise to help you create & consistently cultivate the most magnificent intimate relationship possible. Never again will you feel hopeless and alone in facing your intimate relationship challenges. Having accumulated thousands of hours coaching conscious couples & individuals all over the world, as well as starting & growing a global business together, we are here to guide you on all things relationships. Thank you again for tuning into the one place where it’s not about you, or me, it’s about The We!
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The Conscious Couples Podcast - #25 - How to Live Together in Harmony

#25 - How to Live Together in Harmony

The Conscious Couples Podcast

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08/01/22 • 31 min

Welcome back to The Conscious Couples Podcast with your hosts and real-life couple, Emilia Smith and Alan Lazaros. In this episode, they share how you can keep harmony in your relationship while living together. Living together can be both exciting and stressful. You’ll have to make adjustments to your lifestyle when you move in together to accommodate each other. No matter what changes or adjustments you’ll have to make, it’s important to understand your partner’s day-to-day life before you officially move in.
Relationship Talks #14: Building Your Future as a Team: https://bit.ly/3obtAnH
Show notes:
[2:05] Emilia and Alan on moving in together
[10:29] Identify the things that are not in harmony
[15:18] Lynn Nguyen on her Relationship Talks experience as a single person
[16:33] Your harmony should be your bubble
[23:22] You can lead, leave, or appease
[27:23] Next monthly event is on August 11, 2022
[28:57] Reach out to Emilia and Alan
[31:04] Outro

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The Conscious Couples Podcast - #105 - Living a Valentine's Day Life Instead
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02/12/24 • 19 min

Welcome to The Conscious Couples Podcast with your hosts and real-life couple Emilia Smith and Alan Lazaros. In today’s episode, they discuss a journey, making Valentine’s Day a weekly event rather than a once-a-year occurrence. They share personal anecdotes and strategies to infuse romance every week, turning relationships into a continuous celebration of love. This approach to love is proactive and intentional, emphasizing the importance of regularly nurturing the bond between partners. This conversation serves as a reminder that love is not confined to a calendar date but a feeling and action that can be cultivated daily.
Show notes:
(2:40) Weekend getaway
(5:15) Little things to make every day/week special
(8:35) Julie, a listener to The Conscious Couples podcast, shares why she subscribes and listens to the podcast consistently
(9:31) Three criteria: Quality alone time, something special, and at least 1hr
(11:57) The We Nucleus
(14:04) Make ’em special
(15:33) Me date
(18:20) Outro
Book a FREE Relationship Talk:
https://calendly.com/alanlazaros/30-minute-relationships-talk-coaching
Join us on Relationship Talks #32 on Thursday, February 15th, 2024, at 06:00 Eastern Time: “How To Stay Emotionally Connected”
https://us06web.zoom.us/meeting/register/tZcpc--qpjIiHdQa2jry4-w1PNFa9MyaKwbL#/registrationFollow us on Instagram:
Emilia Smith @evolvewithemilia
Alan Lazaros @alazaros88
*Email:* 💬
[email protected]
[email protected]
Learn more about The Conscious Couples: http://www.theweuniversity.com
Thanks for joining us for another episode of The Conscious Couples Podcast; we love connecting with the Conscious Couples community, so please make sure you follow us on Instagram. If you enjoyed this episode and would like to hear more like it, it would mean the world to us if you subscribe, leave us a review, and please share this with someone you love & care about. Until next time, and remember, it’s not about you or me, it’s about The We!

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The Conscious Couples Podcast - #111 - Accepting Your Partner For Who They Are
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03/25/24 • 26 min

Welcome to The Conscious Couples Podcast with your hosts, real-life couple Emilia Smith and Alan Lazaros. In today’s episode, they’ll walk us through the simple yet powerful ways to connect with your partner truly. Discover how embracing and celebrating each other’s unique qualities can lead to a stronger, more loving relationship. Learn about the 25 conscious love languages to help you and your loved one grow together. It’s all about understanding, appreciating, and loving your partner for who they are.
Show notes:
(2:41) Importance of accepting your partner and exploring mismatches in 25 conscious love languages
(4:16) Understanding each other: connecting hearts and minds
(7:25) Projecting expectations
(8:56) Accepting your partner where they’re at and falling in love with potential.
(12:26) Listen to Jason’s and Lisa’s testimonial on Alan and Emilia’s Relationship Coaching.
(14:18) Balancing acceptance, integration, and personal boundaries
(16:02) Embracing passions and the power of open hearts and support
(19:33) Suppressed VS Supportive
(23:15) Love languages simplified: Three buckets to harmony
(25:30) Outro
The 25 Conscious Love Languages:
https://bit.ly/3TLc2PS
Book a FREE Relationship Talk:
https://calendly.com/alanlazaros/30-minute-relationships-talk-coaching
Join us on Relationship Talks #34 on Thursday, April 18th, 2024, at 06:00 Eastern Time: “Who is Your Partner Getting Bad Advice From?”
https://us06web.zoom.us/meeting/register/tZUof-GpqzkiGNABm8VXe1lAo5HbFLourzQD#/registration
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Follow us on Instagram:
Emilia Smith @evolvewithemilia
Alan Lazaros @alazaros88
*Email:* 💬
[email protected]
[email protected]
Learn more about The Conscious Couples: http://www.theweuniversity.com
Thanks for joining us for another episode of The Conscious Couples Podcast. We love connecting with the Conscious Couples community, so please make sure you follow us on Instagram. If you enjoyed this episode and would like to hear more, it would mean the world if you subscribed, left us a review, and shared this with someone you love and care about. Until next time, remember, it’s not about you or me; it’s about The We!

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The Conscious Couples Podcast - #38 - How to NOT Lose Yourself in Your Relationship
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10/31/22 • 22 min

Welcome to The Conscious Couples Podcast with your hosts and real-life couple Emilia Smith and Alan Lazaros. Relationships are wonderful. And we know how exciting it is when you’re first starting to combine your life with another person. But that can sometimes become our whole world! You don’t connect with your friends as much, you stop doing activities you love, all because you’re totally infatuated with this one person. In this episode, they talk about losing yourself in a new relationship and what to watch out for to avoid it.
Show notes:
[1:43] Episode intentions
[2:36] What does losing yourself look like?
[6:26] We tend to villainize the people who want to give us guidance
[9:36] Take the best of yourselves and put them into the relationship
[10:55] Jessica and Michael shares their experience with Emilia and Alan and Relationship Talk
[13:33] Be careful of people who say you have a choice but don’t mean it
[15:55] The power of humility
[17:42] Let the fear of losing yourself in the relationship outweigh the fear of being alone
[18:30] Join Relationship Talks #17: "Putting Your Relationship First During the Holidays" on November 10, 2022 - https://bit.ly/3eUKR3J
[20:18] Book a slot for Alan and Emilia’s Service Saturdays - https://bit.ly/3eWc8Tl
[20:55] Join the Conscious Couples and Conscious Singles WhatsApp community
[21:25] Outro
Learn more about The Conscious Couples: www.theweuniversity.com
Follow us on Instagram:
Emilia Smith @evolvewithemilia
Alan Lazaros @alazaros88
Book a FREE Relationship Talk: https://calendly.com/alanlazaros/book-your-relationship-talk-with-emilia-and-alan
Thanks for joining us for another episode of The Conscious Couples Podcast; we love connecting with the Conscious Couples community, so please make sure you follow us on Instagram. If you enjoyed this episode and would like to hear more like it, it would mean the world to us if you subscribe, leave us a review, and please share this with someone you love & care about. Until next time, and remember, it’s not about you or me, it’s about The We!

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The Conscious Couples Podcast - #136 - A Secret to Living Together Better

#136 - A Secret to Living Together Better

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09/16/24 • 21 min

Do minor disagreements at home sometimes turn into more significant issues? Welcome to The Conscious Couples Podcast with Emilia Smith and Alan Lazaros. Together, they dive into the little habits that can make or break harmony in relationships. From bedtimes to dishes, they explore why understanding each other’s lifestyle preferences is vital to living together better. Tune in to discover how you and your partner can align your needs for a deeper connection. Whether in a relationship or embracing self-love, this episode offers valuable insights to help nurture fulfilling connections with others or yourself.
Show notes:
(3:05) 25 Conscious Love Languages Worksheet
(4:14) Importance of lifestyle preferences
(5:31) Safety and comfort in home environments
(7:18) Sharing personal experiences and tips
(10:16) Derek shares his experience with Alan and Emilia
(12:46) Discussing individual lifestyle musts
(19:31) Closing thoughts and invitation to upcoming events
(20:17) Outro
Digital Asset:
The 25 Conscious Love Languages: https://bit.ly/3TLc2PS Book a FREE Relationship Talk:
https://calendly.com/alanlazaros/30-minute-relationships-talk-coaching
Join us at Relationship Talks Event #39 on Thursday, September 19th, 2024, at 05:00 pm Eastern Time: “How to NOT Be Held Back in Your Relationship” https://us06web.zoom.us/meeting/register/tZwof-yrqTsjGtEUfK4DcWkkAtxnTFHLoAQd#/registration
___________________________Follow us on Instagram:
Emilia Smith @evolvewithemilia
Alan Lazaros @alazaros88
*Email:* 💬
[email protected]
[email protected]
Learn more about The Conscious Couples: http://www.theweuniversity.com
Thanks for joining us for another episode of The Conscious Couples Podcast. We love connecting with the Conscious Couples community, so please make sure you follow us on Instagram. If you enjoyed this episode and would like to hear more, it would mean the world if you subscribed, left us a review, and shared this with someone you love and care about. Until next time, remember, it’s not about you or me; it’s about The We!

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The Conscious Couples Podcast - #115 - Your Trust Issues Aren't Just From Your Partner
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04/22/24 • 28 min

Navigating the nuanced world of romantic relationships can be as challenging as rewarding. Welcome to The Conscious Couples Podcast with your hosts, real-life couple Emilia Smith and Alan Lazaros. In this episode, they discuss trust, advice, and the dynamics of love, dissecting the essence of what makes or breaks the bonds we share with our significant others. Their discussion empowers listeners to guard the sacred space of their relationship and keep it thriving amidst challenges and change.
Show notes:
(5:28) Identify your friends
(6:33) What could be on the other side?
(9:51) Break the cycle
(12:12) Your partner shouldn’t be your everything?
(15:05) Julie, a listener to The Conscious Couples podcast, shares why she subscribes and listens to the podcast consistently.
(16:27) Importance of self-advocacy and safe space in relationships
(19:10) Growing and learning: Developing discernment with influences
(23:16) Recognize the power of our influences
(28:04) Outro
Digital Asset:
The Conversations You Need To Have But Don’t Have The Courage To
https://bit.ly/3Ucjpie
Book a FREE Relationship Talk:
https://calendly.com/alanlazaros/30-minute-relationships-talk-coaching
Join us on Relationship Talks Event #35 on Thursday, May 16th, 2024, at 06:00 pm Eastern Time: “How Your Self-Talk Is Sabotaging Your Relationship” https://us06web.zoom.us/meeting/register/tZwsf-GvrD8sH9b0QAH6BsZsZs8-oVsVJisE#/registration
___________________________
Follow us on Instagram:
Emilia Smith @evolvewithemilia
Alan Lazaros @alazaros88
*Email:* 💬
[email protected]
[email protected]
Learn more about The Conscious Couples: http://www.theweuniversity.com
Thanks for joining us for another episode of The Conscious Couples Podcast. We love connecting with the Conscious Couples community, so please make sure you follow us on Instagram. If you enjoyed this episode and would like to hear more, it would mean the world if you subscribed, left us a review, and shared this with someone you love and care about. Until next time, remember, it’s not about you or me; it’s about The We!

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The Conscious Couples Podcast - #113 - How to Spot Pretend Growth in Your Partner
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04/08/24 • 32 min

Welcome to The Conscious Couples Podcast with your hosts, real-life couple Emilia Smith and Alan Lazaros. Today’s episode serves as a valuable guide for individuals seeking to enhance their relationships. It underscores the benefits of self-reflection, open dialogue, and personal growth. By fostering an environment conducive to genuine progress, couples can fortify their bond and progress together. The guide also aids in discerning between genuine personal growth and superficial changes, a crucial aspect of maintaining a profound and enduring relationship.
Show notes:
(1:59) Love story
(5:07) Be yourself
(6:19) Key demarcation line
(9:25) No inflation, no deflation
(10:51) Courage component: How do you spot pretend growth?
(15:35) Bonnie says this about Alan and Emilia’s Relationship Talks.
(17:58) Traning wheels analogy
(19:39) Mismatched growth trajectories
(21:16) Hide the struggles and amplify the successes
(23:09) Honeymoon, power struggle and commitment
(25:40) Trigger warning
(26:15) Intentions, effort, and intuitions
(29:15) Signs of growth in relationships
(31:48) Outro
Digital Asset:
Alan & Emilia’s first date: https://bit.ly/43Rs8e5
Book a FREE Relationship Talk:
https://calendly.com/alanlazaros/30-minute-relationships-talk-coaching
Join us on Relationship Talks Event #34 on Thursday, April 18th, 2024, at 06:00 Eastern Time: “Who is Your Partner Getting Bad Advice From?”
https://us06web.zoom.us/meeting/register/tZUof-GpqzkiGNABm8VXe1lAo5HbFLourzQD#/registration
___________________________
Follow us on Instagram:
Emilia Smith @evolvewithemilia
Alan Lazaros @alazaros88
*Email:* 💬
[email protected]
[email protected]
Learn more about The Conscious Couples: http://www.theweuniversity.com
Thanks for joining us for another episode of The Conscious Couples Podcast. We love connecting with the Conscious Couples community, so please make sure you follow us on Instagram. If you enjoyed this episode and would like to hear more, it would mean the world if you subscribed, left us a review, and shared this with someone you love and care about. Until next time, remember, it’s not about you or me; it’s about The We!

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The Conscious Couples Podcast - #114 - Are You Jumping to Conclusions Too Much?
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04/15/24 • 28 min

Welcome to The Conscious Couples Podcast with your hosts, Emilia Smith and Alan Lazaros. In this episode, they delve into the intricate dance of relationships, a delicate balance between trust, communication, and managing insecurities. They offer practical insights and tools from their experiences and research to help listeners distinguish thoughts from actions, manage emotions with reason, and foster trust and intimacy. This topic is a practical guide towards healthier and happier relationships.
Show notes:
(2:30) Jumping to conclusions: CBT triad
(5:03) Trust, fear or insecurity
(8:21) Cagey
(9:43) Managing insecurities and fears in relationships
(11:06) Fear VS Data
(13:01) Alicia shares her experience with Relationship Talks
(14:43) Emotional regulation
(17:46) Distorting the reality
(19:01) Stay at five
(21:25) Jump from A to B
(23:04) Hybrid model for couples coaching
(27:21) Outro
Digital Asset:
Cognitive-Behavior Triad: https://bit.ly/3TXBr7L
Book a FREE Relationship Talk:
https://calendly.com/alanlazaros/30-minute-relationships-talk-coaching
Join us on Relationship Talks Event #34 on Thursday, April 18th, 2024, at 06:00 Eastern Time: “Who is Your Partner Getting Bad Advice From?”
https://us06web.zoom.us/meeting/register/tZUof-GpqzkiGNABm8VXe1lAo5HbFLourzQD#/registration
___________________________
Follow us on Instagram:
Emilia Smith @evolvewithemilia
Alan Lazaros @alazaros88
*Email:* 💬
[email protected]
[email protected]
Learn more about The Conscious Couples: http://www.theweuniversity.com
Thanks for joining us for another episode of The Conscious Couples Podcast. We love connecting with the Conscious Couples community, so please make sure you follow us on Instagram. If you enjoyed this episode and would like to hear more, it would mean the world if you subscribed, left us a review, and shared this with someone you love and care about. Until next time, remember, it’s not about you or me; it’s about The We!

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The Conscious Couples Podcast - #141 - Does Your Partner Know How to Support Your Goals?
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10/21/24 • 28 min

Discover the secret to thriving relationships! In this heartfelt episode, hosts Alan and Emilia discuss how differing ambitions can create tension in relationships, especially when one partner feels unsupported. Alan shares stories from past relationships where he felt dragged down due to a lack of shared vision, while Emilia reflects on her experiences with misaligned goals in her relationships. Together, they offer listeners practical advice on communicating needs, setting clear boundaries, and supporting one another’s dreams. Whether you’re a conscious couple or a single individual eager to strengthen your love life, this episode promises to equip you with the skills and mindset needed for a successful and harmonious partnership.
Show notes:
(3:01) Metaphor of goals and dragging a partner
(4:06) Types of relationships (A, B, C)
(5:33) Alan’s personal story of feeling unsupported
(7:07) The courage to express what support looks like
(10:35) Emilia’s experience with juggling goals and unsupportive partners
(14:03) Listen to Jason’s and Lisa’s testimonial on Alan and Emilia’s Relationship Coaching
(16:25) How to measure and communicate goal support in relationships
(21:45) Practical steps to enhance goal support in your relationship
(27:57) Outro
Book a FREE Relationship Talk:
https://calendly.com/alanlazaros/30-minute-relationships-talk-coaching
Join us at Relationship Talks #41 on Friday, November 22nd, 2024, at 05:00 pm EST: “Our Top 5 Relationship Game Changers and How to Implement Them” - https://bit.ly/4dTp0C8
___________________________Follow us on Instagram:
Emilia Smith @evolvewithemilia
Alan Lazaros @alazaros88
*Email:* 💬
[email protected]
[email protected]
Learn more about The Conscious Couples: http://www.theweuniversity.com.
Thanks for joining us for another episode of The Conscious Couples Podcast. We love connecting with the Conscious Couples community, so please make sure you follow us on Instagram. If you enjoyed this episode and would like to hear more, it would mean the world if you subscribed, left us a review, and shared this with someone you love and care about. Until next time, remember, it’s not about you or me; it’s about The We!

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The Conscious Couples Podcast - #86 - Are You in a Surface Level Relationship?
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10/02/23 • 24 min

Welcome to The Conscious Couples Podcast with your hosts and real-life couple Emilia Smith and Alan Lazaros. They discussed that surface-level relationships often manifest as interactions that skim the surface without delving into emotional depths. This can leave individuals feeling unsatisfied, unfulfilled, and craving for more. Transforming your relationships from superficial to significant requires courage, vulnerability, and humility. It involves acknowledging your emotions, addressing conflicts, and leading by example. The journey might be challenging, but the destination - a life enriched by deep, meaningful connections - is worth every step.
Show notes:
[0:00] Intro
[1:38] Understand and identify if your relationship is in the shallows
[2:14] Where are you stagnating or losing momentum?
[4:10] Start leading as an example
[6:31] Raise the awareness (Don't be lonely)
[8:15] Live an authentic life
[12:18] Derek shares his experience with Alan and Emilia about Relationship Talks
[12:41] Don't live your life chasing a quick fix
[14:48] Conflict avoidance
[16:10] View conflicts as constructive
[17:22] It stunts your growth
[18:09] RRedefinewhat a quality relationship looks like with your partner
[19:38] Go a little deeper than the surface
[23:17] Outro
Learn more about The Conscious Couples: http://www.theweuniversity.com
Join us on Relationship Talks #28 on Oct 19th, 2023, at 06:00 PM Eastern Time: “Creating Deeper Emotional Connection in Your Relationship.”
https://us06web.zoom.us/meeting/register/tZItdeCppj0jGdXgU_ZYHih7WtK7kMQVAAvv#/registration
Follow us on Instagram:
Emilia Smith @evolvewithemilia
Alan Lazaros @alazaros88
*Email:* 💬
[email protected]
[email protected] a FREE Relationship Talk: https://calendly.com/alanlazaros/free-30-minute-relationships-talk-with-alan-and-emilia
Thanks for joining us for another episode of The Conscious Couples Podcast; we love connecting with the Conscious Couples community, so please make sure you follow us on Instagram. If you enjoyed this episode and would like to hear more like it, it would mean the world to us if you subscribe, leave us a review, and please share this with someone you love & care about. Until next time, and remember, it’s not about you or me, it’s about The We!

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The Conscious Couples Podcast currently has 149 episodes available.

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The podcast is about Society & Culture, Podcasts, Self-Improvement, Education and Relationships.

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The episode title '#100 - The 2 Biggest Relationship Unlocks' is the most popular.

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