#teakink with Dominatrix Eva Oh

When people ask Eva Oh how her dates or partners “handle” her job and industry, it’s a frustrating time. Although she has come to understand the societal shortcomings that inspire this question, she has also learned of the incredible skills that sex work can offer the individuals who choose to work in it - and so perhaps the more important question is, ‘Would a Sex Worker Date You?’. Listen to this eye opening episode of the #teakink Podcast to find out. Leave a voice note question or story about anything for Eva to respond to on the next season here: https://bit.ly/teakinknote More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - Would a Sex Worker Date You? (01:00) - Unfortunate Case Studies (05:11) - Sex Work and Elevated Communication Skills (06:30) - Do You Deserve the Empathy? (08:55) - How Sex Work Has Changed Me (14:49) - Understanding Society’s Shortcomings (16:25) - A Better Case Study (18:00) - “I Never Thought I Could Have a Relationship Like This” (19:50) - How and Why Monogamy Was Constructed? (22:14) - Why I’ve Become So Picky, What I Deserve

It’s been a rich experience discovering more about gender fluidity for Eva Oh through her sex worker community and the many requests around it at the dungeon. But it’s a process still in progress, and on this episode of the #teakink Podcast Eva attempts to break her experience down. Including some pointers on the challenging balance of our choices of gender presentation, profit and personal sanity.
More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:18) - A Question on Gender Fluidity within BDSM and Sex Work
(01:40) - Opening My Eyes at the Dungeon
(03:30) - Thoughts On Presenting in Sex Worker Branding
(06:30) - Gender Exploration within Session
(10:20) - Presenting, Profit and Personal Sanity

Is there a difference between women, non-binary and other clients? Do they apply for a session differently, have differing kinks or play styles? Eva Oh reveals how her bias is the key defining factor in her work with a wide range of individuals as a Dominatrix in this episode of the #teakink Podcast.
More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:18) - A Question on the differences between Women, NB and Other Clients
(00:45) - The Evolution of My Understanding
(02:55) - My Bias
(04:20) - I Need to Expand My Sample Size
(05:50) - Application Quality
(06:05) - When You Are In My Hands
(08:13) - The Limitations of the Professional Session
(09:00) - The Differences in My Personal Interactions
(11:40) - My Ever Evolving Answer

Eva Oh dedicates a #teakink episode to her experience working as an Escort, Brothel and Massage Worker.

Leave a voice note question or story about anything for Eva to respond to on the next season here: https://bit.ly/teakinknote

More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com

HIGHLIGHTS:

Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.

(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink

(00:18) - What is an Escort?

(00:50) - How I Became an Escort

(03:50) - My First Escort Photoshoot, in the middle of nowhere

(07:00) - A Bad Feeling

(08:00) - A Better Feeling

(09:15) - Job Satisfaction

(10:15) - These Ease of My First Booking

(11:00) - Escort Agency and Dungeon Loyalty

(12:20) - What the Job of Escorting Is - to me

(13:20) - Girl Friend Experience VS Porn Star Experience

(15:20) - Brothels

(18:50) - Massage Parlours

(20:20) - How I Structured My Work Life

(21:00) - My Physical Gratification

(21:50) - Missing the Workplace