154 | Tongue? Teeth? Balls? A Finger Up Your Ass? Charlie’s Sex Stories

➡️SHAME-O-METER: a 2 or 3

Mostly out; not with his mom, yes with his siblings

Wants to tell her, doesn’t know how

She suspects — someone asked him, Don’t you have a girlfriend? Or a boyfriend?

“I’m actually just enjoying myself ... not just pleasing other people”

TURN-ONS:

Thigh high stockings

Short skirts

See the shape of the ass

Feminine guys

Nice butts everywhere

TURN OFFS:

He’s not so much into beards (but maybe)

Not wanting to use a condom — safer sex convos are straightforward for him

EARLY YEARS:

Sex was taboo; no one talked about it

Friends saw parents doing it

Sex Ed in High School biology lesson; students weren’t separated, were snickering

A talk from his mom: don’t get anyone pregnant

Church-wise, just be solid with the 10 commandments; church was community, they didn’t talk about sex

SELF-EXPLORATION:

12-13 years old: DVD w music videos

Fiesta: R Kelly & Jay Z & topless ladies

Details of masturbation discovery: a GLORIOUS story

Stopping himself the first time, afraid to pee

Prepared next round with a bucket: got a bucket in case of pee, discovered cum

EVOLUTION:

He loves toys now!

00:13:58:13 Any movies not from Nigeria were black market all the way—including porn

mostly used imaginations of porn

HIGH SCHOOL:

They talked about it one on one, not in groups

One on one explorations/touches — a neighbor who came to see him

16:34

“So let it happen”

A suspicious neighbor

An unfortunate cockblock

Another neighbor by the well — her well was dry! A fine girl, with big tits

Summer of tease

Summer of cockblocking

DISCOVERING QUEERNESS:

Writing it off, of course I like my friends

A friend who showed him how to masturbate — interrupted (again!) by parents

No sign of judgement, no shame, felt normal — if you like it then you like it

Younger years: jumped in, go with the flow

MOVING TO GERMANY:

First years: mostly learning the language and the area

GERMAN SEX TOYS??

First jumped into Anime — and then discovered Hentai

Why he likes amateur porn

His masturbation routine(s) and explorations

FIRST TIME WITH A BUTT PLUG WAS SCARY

TWO fleshlights!!!

Turns it on first

Loves edging with toys

Can cum faster with his toys

Great details of his sensitive spots

TINDER: mostly guys so far! Is patient and COVID-conscious.

EXPLORATIONS: BDSM is on his horizon

Wants to go slow and learn what he likes and what he doesn’t like before he enters

Fantasies about being Dom’d by guys and girls

An opportunity early on to be a bull

Baby steps!

GROUP SEX: Excited for it

He’s super great at reading what is needed in a place

A couple almosts, one with a couple — HOT threesome...mostly

It’s so HOT to not force things

Sexual patience because he gets himself off

And, the familiarity of impatience: i

“Hey, I sucked that dick.”

I see a need, I fulfill it. I want to please me, too. A two-way street to enjoy the situation.

BLOWJOBS:

Basically, I go as slow as I can

Tongue? Teeth? Balls? A Finger Up Your Ass?

Hotttt group sex orgy fantasy

Taking it one experience at a time.

Advocates for talking to kids about sex.

Letting young people know how to be safe, how to communicate with one another

Let them know to enjoy themselves, we should enjoy ourselves

Beyond Birds & Bees by Bonnie J Rough

Charlie’s process: talking himself through scenarios, being his own friend.

How would Wyoh be different if she hadn’t gotten rejected during her initial forays into sex?

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