How Can Recovery Lead to a New Growth Mission?

06/12/24 • 32 min

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In today's episode, I have a heart-to-heart with Stephen Cervantes about the journey of recovery. We dive into how it's more than just getting back on your feet; it's about pausing, finding stability, and reaching out for a helping hand. But that's not the end of the road!

Recovery is this beautiful bridge to an exciting phase of self-discovery and growth. Together, we unpack the deeper mission that lies ahead—embracing the love of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, and getting to know ourselves better.

So, if you're curious about turning a new leaf and finding purpose post-recovery, this chat is for you. Join us as we explore these transformative steps to a fuller, love-filled life!

For daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

Concept of recovery and transition to a new growth mission
Importance of stopping and stabilizing in recovery
Seeking outside help and community support
Recovery as a bridge to discovery and growth
Purpose of new growth mission: learning about love of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, understanding oneself
Different interpretations of recovery
Role of relationships and community in the recovery process
Recovery as a journey toward growth and learning
Shift in focus from negative behaviors to love and personal understanding
Emphasis on community, outside help, and shift in focus towards love and personal understanding

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So, if you're curious about turning a new leaf and finding purpose post-recovery, this chat is for you. Join us as we explore these transformative steps to a fuller, love-filled life!

For daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

Concept of recovery and transition to a new growth mission
Importance of stopping and stabilizing in recovery
Seeking outside help and community support
Recovery as a bridge to discovery and growth
Purpose of new growth mission: learning about love of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, understanding oneself
Different interpretations of recovery
Role of relationships and community in the recovery process
Recovery as a journey toward growth and learning
Shift in focus from negative behaviors to love and personal understanding
Emphasis on community, outside help, and shift in focus towards love and personal understanding

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Navigating the 3 Stages of Recovery from Porn Addiction

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In today’s episode, we have Vern Tompke back with us. Vern is our Canadian pastor and coach who helps other pastors and men break free from unwanted sexual behaviors.

We talked about the three key stages of recovery, which are:

Breaking the habit
Addressing the deep-seated issues of the heart and mind
Recalibrating sexuality to enjoy the abundant life Christ offers

Whether you are just starting your recovery journey or years into it, Vern’s wisdom is a beacon of hope. And we mention lots of really good resources that will help you along the way, which we will include in the show notes.

To learn more about Vern and his resources, visit BandofBrothers.care.

Topics Covered in This Episode:

Three stages of recovery from porn addiction
Breaking the habit
Dealing with underlying issues
Redeeming or recalibrating one's sexuality
Importance of practical tools, boundaries, and grace-filled accountability
Addressing underlying lies, pain, wounds, attachment issues, and unmet needs
The ongoing nature of the recovery journey
Emphasizing the need to move beyond objectification and consumption of beauty
Encouraging men to engage in real relationships and build healthy social and coping skills
Advocating for living in the light, engaging in community, and seeking a fuller understanding of recovery

More Resources:

Willpower Doesn't Work* by Benjamin Hardy
The Thing Beneath the Thing* by Steve Carter
The Psychology of Porn* by Andrew Bauman

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How Can Therapeutic Disclosure Help Heal Marriages Affected by Sexual Betrayal?

In this episode, I welcome back Dan Drake and introduce Janice Caudill, both experts in therapeutic disclosure for marriages affected by sexual betrayal. We dive into the importance of truth in healing relationships, discussing how disclosure helps rebuild trust.

In our conversation, Dan and Jaunice walk us through the disclosure process, emphasizing the impact of betrayal, readiness for disclosure, tailored approaches, the “choreography” of disclosure, and the post-disclosure phase that highlights potential obstacles when rebuilding trust.

To get access to Dan and Janice’s resources, visit KintsugiRecoveryPartners.com.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

Development of resources for disclosure in marriages affected by sexual betrayal
Availability of resources on Kintsugi Recovery Partners website
Impact of sexual betrayal on relationships
Definition of disclosure and its importance in healing
Importance of readiness for disclosure
Tailored approaches to disclosure based on each couple's unique situation
Process and key elements of disclosure
Choreography of the disclosure process
Significance of disclosure in healing and rebuilding trust

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