Ep 140 – No Biggie – Side A

09/05/23 • 51 min

Where are all the small dicks? Beau explores the topic of 'dickflation' and gay men's obsession with penis size and the desire to be hung. We discuss the "long and short" of penis size perceptions within the gay, bi, and queer community. Joining us is the Beau, as we tip-toe through the not-so-tiny world of how media, porn, and Twitter chatter shape expectations around the ol' tallywhacker. From societal standards that can sometimes feel as rigid as, well, you know, to the portrayal of penile prowess in various forms of entertainment, we're unzipping the truth of penis size. We'll probe into the intersection of racism and fatphobia and how these factors play a role in perceptions. But wait, there's more! We'll also tap into the art of measurement, exploring how this delicate matter often gets tangled in the web of confirmation bias. And speaking of web, Twitter culture's impact? Oh, it's a throbbing subject, alright. Amidst all the winks and nods, we'll shed light on nudism's role as a liberating route to embracing diversity in the, let's say, "appendage arena." We revisit the time Tim and Michael attempted to mold their own members and whether Beau had more success in that regard. So, join us for a no-'holes'-barred, ballsy discussion that's all about breaking down the expectations, revealing the realities, and, most importantly, celebrating the wondrous spectrum that the male form has to offer. Remember, it's not just the size of the boat, but the motion of the ocean, and the camaraderie on the deck that truly counts. Read Beau's article in Drip Feed https://dripfeed.life/blogs/dripfeed/where-are-all-the-small-dicks-dickflation-and-the-problem-with-amateur-porn Drip Feed is, of course, run by the immeasurable Hugh from our Live Lube Love episode: https://joy.org.au/hideandseek/2022/09/ep-99-live-lube-love/ Find out more about Beau https://linktr.ee/beaunewham This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

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Ep 139 – Lavender Gays – Side B – Tomboy After Dark

Renee from Tomboy joins us to explore femme sexuality, kinky queer events that cater to lesbian, bi, and queer women + likeminded queer folk. The After Dark series is darker, it's sexier, and it's sluttier. Join us as we delve into some of the kinky stuff that happens at Tomboy like sexy tattooing, pole, shibari, and a whole lotta lovin' This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au Follow Tomboy https://www.tomboyonline.net/ https://www.instagram.com/tomboy_melbourne/ https://www.facebook.com/TomboyPartyMelbourne/

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Ep 140 – No Biggie 2 The Dickening – Side B

Beau is back for more dick! Yes, we missed quite a lot of your community questions during our main episode - so we're here to set the record gay and delve into some of what you shared with us on socials. Did you miss the first episode? What are you doin here, what do you think this is? Check out the main ep first No Biggie - Side A with Beau as we got into the long and short of pecker size: https://joy.org.au/hideandseek/2023/09/ep-140-no-biggie-penis-size/ Here we go...