Hide & Seek

Where are all the small dicks? Beau explores the topic of 'dickflation' and gay men's obsession with penis size and the desire to be hung. We discuss the "long and short" of penis size perceptions within the gay, bi, and queer community. Joining us is the Beau, as we tip-toe through the not-so-tiny world of how media, porn, and Twitter chatter shape expectations around the ol' tallywhacker. From societal standards that can sometimes feel as rigid as, well, you know, to the portrayal of penile prowess in various forms of entertainment, we're unzipping the truth of penis size. We'll probe into the intersection of racism and fatphobia and how these factors play a role in perceptions. But wait, there's more! We'll also tap into the art of measurement, exploring how this delicate matter often gets tangled in the web of confirmation bias. And speaking of web, Twitter culture's impact? Oh, it's a throbbing subject, alright. Amidst all the winks and nods, we'll shed light on nudism's role as a liberating route to embracing diversity in the, let's say, "appendage arena." We revisit the time Tim and Michael attempted to mold their own members and whether Beau had more success in that regard. So, join us for a no-'holes'-barred, ballsy discussion that's all about breaking down the expectations, revealing the realities, and, most importantly, celebrating the wondrous spectrum that the male form has to offer. Remember, it's not just the size of the boat, but the motion of the ocean, and the camaraderie on the deck that truly counts. Read Beau's article in Drip Feed https://dripfeed.life/blogs/dripfeed/where-are-all-the-small-dicks-dickflation-and-the-problem-with-amateur-porn Drip Feed is, of course, run by the immeasurable Hugh from our Live Lube Love episode: https://joy.org.au/hideandseek/2022/09/ep-99-live-lube-love/ Find out more about Beau https://linktr.ee/beaunewham This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

We came in like we're wrecking balls... Michael and Tim get the balls rolling, and squeezing, and dripping, and stretching this week as we get right into cock and ball torture. Craig's list With the help of our expert in cock and ball torture, Craig, we work through the kinds of CBT - it's not all about paddles and getting kicked in the junk! We chat about wax vs paddles, suspension vs boots - and how to keep the whole experience safe and sane. Missed an episode? All the Hide and Seek episodes are available at joy.org.au/hideandseek You can also find us on... Facebook via /hideandseekjoy949 Instagram @hideandseekonjoy Twitter @hideseekonjoy Want to sniff out what's happening with the proposed ban on poppers? Check out one of the two public meetings on poppers! More info and to register, go here: https://thorneharbour.org/news-events/news/amyl/ Sydney Thursday, 31 January Kirby Institute UNSW Wallace Wurth Building, High St, Kensington NSW 16:00 - 18:00, Afternoon tea 15:30 Melbourne Thursday 7 February 2019 La Trobe City Campus 360 Collins St, Melbourne VIC 16:00 – 18:00, Afternoon tea 15:30 Thorne Harbour Health's Poppers news Down an' Dirty on CBT Mannhaus, Eagle Leather, SAX Leather and Fetish, and Lucrezia & De Sade where you can find all manner of cock and ball torture devices, tools, and info!

Guess who's back in the house... Michael and Tim are BACK for a 2019 full of sexy content, and we've invited two very special guests to join us on the show this week. Midsumma is fast approaching, as as the community kicks back, parties, and gets frisky in the summer months we talk about consent in sex spaces, and also about substances we might take over the party season. Consent is sexy! We are joined by Hide and Seek listener and consent advocate Brodie Turner who is the coordinator of Midsumma 2019's Consent Festival - the launching event for the Midsumma season! We talk about queer people leading in the consent advocacy space, and auctioning practical skills around consent. We look beyond sex in consent in health, and the workplace outside the general concept of "yes is yes, no is no" Double Drop! We double drop this week, as we are again joined by Owen Hall from Dancewize (a program of Harm Reduction Victoria) to talk about drug safety, and pill testing over the summer party season. Heading out, and potentially imbibing in some substances? Take a listen in. We talk briefly on how you can STILL have your say on the poppers ban. Public submissions close soon - and you can follow this messaging guideline to help craft a submission to the TGA and have your say. It has been put together by health professionals and advocates to help you get the most out of your say! http://bit.ly/NAGmessagingguide You can also attend two public consultation forums, in Sydney and in Melbourne before the TGA makes it's decision. Sydney Thursday, 31 January Kirby Institute UNSW Wallace Wurth Building, High St, Kensington NSW 16:00 - 18:00, Afternoon tea 15:30 Melbourne Thursday 7 February 2019 La Trobe City Campus 360 Collins St, Melbourne VIC 16:00 – 18:00, Afternoon tea 15:30 Consent Festival at Midsumma 2019 Dancewize BeHeardNotHarmed: Pill Testing Campaign event

Tim and Michael recap our biggest loads of 2018... ...downloads obviously. It's the best of 2018! We had a peek behind the curtain to see what you, our thirsty listener, really absorbed in 2018. We also talk about our favourite shows, spoiler - Tim's is getting naked. Check out our best of for the year, and get in touch about what YOU want to hear on the airwaves in 2019 by getting in touch with us!

We've got a wheely good show, no butts about it... The World Naked Bike Ride in Melbourne is coming up in a few weeks - so Tim and Michael think thats as good an excuse as any to strip off in the studio and chat with (the other) Michael from the World Naked Bike Ride team. Giving Body-ody-ody So why strip naked and ride through the city streets? Great question. Whether it's for body positivity, to promote cyclist safety, or for mother earth - the World Naked Bike Ride is a great way to show your creativity and advocate for a good cause. Ride it! Michael from the World Naked Bike Ride talks to us about what to expect at the event, how to get involved, and whether stripping off to nothing is mandatory or not. We chat about how to keep your bits safe (chafing!) and being sunsmart when you're on full display. Missed an episode? All the Hide and Seek episodes are available at joy.org.au/hideandseek You can also find us on... Facebook via /hideandseekjoy949 Instagram @hideandseekonjoy Twitter @hideseekonjoy Ride World Naked Bike Ride Melbourne 16 March 2019, peddling off from North Melbourne Click to register, and more info about the event WNBR Melbourne on Instagram | Facebook Other nude events around town ADAM Nude events for men Cosmex Nude Swim and Massage Skinz nude pop-up Restaraunt Helios members club NUDIES