Gender F*ck

Love dating apps? Hate them? Constantly deleting and redownloading them? Whatever your experiences, we hope you enjoy this episode! We spoke all about dating apps. The pros, cons, research, our own experiences as trans people on dating apps, and more!

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References:

Aizura, A. Z., Bey, M., Beauchamp, T., Ellison, T., Gill-Peterson, J., & Steinbock, E. (2020). Thinking with Trans Now. Social Text, 38(4), 125-147.

Batiste, D. P. (2013). '0 Feet Away': The Queer Cartography of French Gay Men's Geo-social Media Use. Anthropological Journal of European Cultures, 22(2), 112-132.

Beauman, F. (2020). Matrimony, Inc. Pegasus Books.

Feder, S. (Director). (2020). Disclosure [Film]. Field of Vision; Disclosure Films; Bow and Arrow Entertainment.

Fernandez, J. R., & Birnholtz, J. (2019). "I Don't Want Them to Not Know": Investigating Decisions to Disclose Transgender Identity on Dating Platforms. Proceedings of the ACM on Human-Computer Interaction, 3(CSCW), 1 – 21.

Fetters, A. (2018). THE FIVE YEARS THAT CHANGED DATING. https://www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2018/12/tinder-changed-dating/578698/

Fredrickson, B. L., & Roberts, T.-A. (1997). Objectification Theory: Toward Understanding Women’s Lived Experiences and Mental Health Risks. Psychology of Women Quarterly, 21(2), 173–206.

Iglikowski-Broad, V. (2019). ‘Bohemian, broad-minded, unconventional.’ What was it like to be queer in the 1920s? https://blog.nationalarchives.gov.uk/bohemian-broad-minded-unconventional-what-was-it-like-to-be-queer-in-the-1920s/

Kane, M. (2012). GLAAD Examines Ten Years of Transgender Images on Television; More than Half Were Negative or Defamatory. https://www.glaad.org/blog/glaad-examines-ten-years-transgender-images-television-more-half-were-negative-or-defamatory

Lauckner, C., Truszczynski, N., Lambert, D., Kottamasu, V., Meherally, S., Schipani-McLaughlin, A. M., Taylor, E., & Hansen, N. (2019). “Catfishing,” cyberbullying, and coercion: An exploration of the risks associated with dating app use among rural sexual minority males. Journal of Gay & Lesbian Mental Health, 23(3), 289-306.

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Reimann, M. (2016). The chatty, charming history of personal ads. https://timeline.com/tinder-personal-ads-history-4c34c7d6dbcb

Wetzel, C. G., & Insko, C. A. (1982). The similarity-attraction relationship: Is there an ideal one? Journal of Experimental Social Psychology, 18(3), 253-276.

( Also, here's that trans sport group Oliver mentioned: https://leapsports.org/activities/TransActive )

In today's episode, we tackle the slightly controversial topic: Pornography. We talk about what it is, why people consume it, and why people have such hangups about it! We don't have all the answers, but we do know that there's no need to feel ashamed for watching porn. It has pros and cons just like all other media you consume!

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The Second Circle: Bad Sex Series

Sources:

Nordic Model Mindmap

What's The Safeword: How Billie Eilish Got it Wrong

Peter, J., & Valkenburg, P. M. (2007). Adolescents’ Exposure to a Sexualized Media Environment and Their Notions of Women as Sex Objects. Sex Roles, 56(5–6), 381–395. https://doi.org/10.1007/s11199-006-9176-y

Gangon, J, H. & Simon, W. (1973). Sexual Conduct: The Social Sources of Human Sexuality. Piscataway, NJ: A Division Transaction Publishers.

Lim, M., Agius, P., Carrotte, E., Vella, A., & Hellard, M. (2017). Young Australians' use of pornography and associations with sexual risk behaviours. Australian And New Zealand Journal Of Public Health, 41(4), 438-443. doi: 10.1111/1753-6405.12678

Relationships and Sex Education (RSE) | Terrence Higgins Trust. (2019). https://www.tht.org.uk/our-work/our-campaigns/relationships-and-sex-education-rse

Bőthe, B., Vaillancourt-Morel, M., Bergeron, S., & Demetrovics, Z. (2019). Problematic and Non-Problematic Pornography Use Among LGBTQ Adolescents: a Systematic Literature Review. Current Addiction Reports. DOI: 10.1007/s40429-019-00289-5

Arrington-Sanders, R., Harper, G., Morgan, A., Ogunbajo, A., Trent, M., & Fortenberry, J. (2015). The Role of Sexually Explicit Material in the Sexual Development of Same-Sex-Attracted Black Adolescent Males. Archives Of Sexual Behavior, 44(3), 597—608. DOI: 10.1007/s10508-014-0416-x

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Ashton, A., McDonald, K., Kirkman, M. (2019). Pornography and Women’s Sexual Pleasure: Accounts From Young Women in Australia. Feminism & Psychology, 29(3), 409—432. DOI: 10.1177/0959353519833410

Kvalem, I. L., Træen, B., Lewin, B., Štulhofer, A. (2014). Self-Perceived Effects of Internet Pornography Use, Genital Appearance Satisfaction, and Sexual Self-Esteem Among Young Scandinavian Adults. Journal of Psychosocial Research on Cyberspace, 8(4) (doi: 10.5817/CP2014-4-4)

! TW: mentions of sexual abuse, rape !

[Dan] - Sorry my audio is a bit bad this week! Totally my bad, I hope you enjoy it anyway!

In today's episode, we're joined by special guest Lam Captan, a good friend of Dan from uni, to talk about her experiences and knowledge about religious trauma. We discuss what it is, how it may impact people, the effects on queer people specifically, and how some people reclaim their religion while embracing their sexual orientation or gender identity. We hope you enjoyed today's episode, we thought it was super interesting!

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Resources:

https://www.restorationcounselingseattle.com/religious-trauma-transitions

https://rebelliousmagazine.com/navigating-sex-relationships-with-religious-trauma-syndrome/

https://www.hrc.org/resources/the-lies-and-dangers-of-reparative-therapy

Green, A.E., Price-Feeney M., Dorison, S.H., and Pick, C. J. (2020). Self-Reported Conversion Efforts and Suicidality Among US LGBTQ Youths and Young Adults, 2018. American Journal of Public Health 110, 1221_1227, https://doi.org/10.2105/AJPH.2020.305701

Etengoff, C., & Rodriguez, E. M. (2021). Incorporating Transformative Intersectional Psychology (TIP) into Our Understanding of LGBTQ Muslims’ Lived Experiences, Challenges, and Growth. Journal of Homosexuality, 68(7), 1075-1082. https://doi.org/10.1080/00918369.2021.1888582

Sachdej R. (2021) LGBTQ Global Mental Health: Ethical Challenges and Clinical Considerations. In: Dyer A.R., Kohrt B.A., Candilis P.J. (eds) Global Mental Health Ethics. Springer, Cham. https://doi.org/10.1007/978-3-030-66296-7_18

Robinson, B.A. (2005-03-20). "Virginity/sexual abstinence pledges". Ontario Consultants on Religious Tolerance.

Hello and welcome back to one of our best episodes yet, where we discuss menstrual equity with our incredible guest Rosie Glaser (she/they)!

Rosie Glaser is a Master of Public Health Candidate at the Colorado School of Public Health. They currently work in the Center for Women’s and Gender Equity at UNC where they work within a collective to continue developing the menstrual equity program that they created as an undergraduate student Project M.E.

They are also a NASPA certified sexual health peer educator, a Survivor’s Advocate with the Assault Survivor’s Advcocacy Program, and the Wellbeing Research Intern at the Center for Peer Education, and coincidentally- a huge fan of Genderf*ck! Rosie is passionate about understanding health disparities, and informing systemic care for all menstruating bodies.

(editors notes from Dan: 1. sorry about my voice, I was started to get sick when we recorded this and it shows 2. sorry for ANOTHER intro song change, I'll stop now)

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Resources:

2021 State of the Period

https://period.org/uploads/State-of-the-Period-2021.pdf

2019 State of the Period

https://thepolicyproject.org/wp-content/uploads/2019/10/State-of-the-Period-white-paper_Thinx_PERIOD.pdf

Helpful glossary of terms for the menstrual equity movement

https://mhhub.org/glossary

1 in 10 menstruating youth have missed school due to inadequate menstrual management resources

https://policylab.chop.edu/blog/period-poverty-public-health-crisis-we-dont-talk-about

Period Poverty & College Student Mental Health

https://bmcwomenshealth.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/s12905-020-01149-5

Toolkit that Rosie developed around addressing menstrual equity & student activism:

https://acrobat.adobe.com/link/track?uri=urn:aaid:scds:US:d8eebbb8-5f7f-3d8c-9121-c1c1b83c0138

Degendering Menstruation: Making Trans Menstruators Matter

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK565621/

ACLU menstrual equity toolkit resource:

https://www.aclu.org/sites/default/files/field_document/121119-sj-periodequitytoolkit.pdf

Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!):

https://uppbeat.io/t/tatami/mellow-skies

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Today is World AIDS Day, where we remember all those who have died due to AIDS-related illnesses. For this episode, we wanted to talk about HIV and AIDS- the history, the transmission, the treatment, and the stigma.

Sources:

AIDS Memorial Quilt

https://s-x.scot/

https://www.waverleycare.org/

https://www.tht.org.uk/

https://www.aidsmap.com/

https://www.history.com/topics/1980s/hiv-aids-crisis-timeline

https://time.com/4705809/first-aids-drug-azt/

https://www.spin.com/2015/10/aids-and-the-azt-scandal-spin-1989-feature-sins-of-omission/

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