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Don't Blame Me! / But Am I Wrong?

Don't Blame Me! / But Am I Wrong?

Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. Monts

Actor/Content Creator Meghan Rienks and Producer/Writer/Director Melisa D. Monts are like every other person with access to a microphone, they started a podcast. But to be fair they’ve been at it for a while. It all began with one show which led to another, but as they say, more is more. On Mondays they release Don’t Blame Me!, which is an advice podcast where listeners call in and we share our thoughts on situations such as “What to do if you’re going to your boyfriend’s family function and you haven’t told him that you previously slept with both his twin brothers.” Then on Thursdays they release But Am I Wrong?, where they ethically gossip about pop culture, politics, their lives, and the listener's lives. Listeners write in and Meghan and Melisa tell them if they’re wrong or right in a situation. On Tuesdays and Fridays they throw in a little something extra as well. Meghan and Melisa strive to create community, grounded in activism, mental health, and inclusively. Think of them as your blunt, honest friends who give you the advice you need to hear, not what you want to hear, but are rooting for your success. What they lack in credentials, they make up in opinions. They’re professional unprofessionals. So if you’re looking for a new slate of podcasts to add to your routine, we’re here for you.
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Don't Blame Me! / But Am I Wrong? - S1Welcome to the Podcast!

S1Welcome to the Podcast!

Don't Blame Me! / But Am I Wrong?

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03/31/17 • 11 min

Welcome to my brand new podcast, “Don’t Blame Me!”
Every other week I, Meghan Rienks, will offer you, my new (and loyal) listeners, questionable advice for all of your problems. Just call and leave me a message at...
(310) 694-0976
...with your question and as much detail as possible. And I will do my best to offer my words of wisdom.
If you’re under 18, please get your parent’s permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only. Don’t blame me if it ruins your life. lol, jk, my advice is always the best.
(310) 694-0976. Do it!

Support the show: https://www.patreon.com/join/dontblameme

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Don't Blame Me! / But Am I Wrong? - FF: Bay Area Iconic (?) Songs

FF: Bay Area Iconic (?) Songs

Don't Blame Me! / But Am I Wrong?

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03/14/25 • 68 min

Join Meghan and Melisa for another dose of their signature blend of pop culture, personal updates, and unfiltered commentary! This week, Meghan dives deep into her musical roots, sharing a curated playlist of classic Bay Area tunes that are sure to get you grooving. Meanwhile, Melisa confesses she's been happily lost in the world of daytime drama, catching up on all the latest soap opera twists and turns.

Meghan also revisits some of her past predictions, offering a candid update on how they're holding up (or not!). Then, Melisa shares her excitement about attending an upcoming women in music concert, promising to report back with all the highlights.

And of course, no episode would be complete without a juicy celebrity discussion! This week, they dissect a certain actor's undeniable "glow up," exploring what might be behind their stunning transformation. Get ready for laughter, relatable moments, and maybe even a few musical throwbacks. Tune in!

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Don't Blame Me! / But Am I Wrong? - S5E1: 100th Episode - Live Calls

S5E1: 100th Episode - Live Calls

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12/02/19 • 77 min

It’s our 100th Episode, baby!!! We’re doing something special for this one. We’re talking to the callers LIVE on air and sharing advice on carrying emotional baggage into a new relationship, what to do if your high school sweetheart won’t make time for you, dealing with your study buddy who never talks about his girlfriend , and talking to your partner about bad sex. We also have an update from the caller whose dad was sleeping with masseuse. It’s a fun one. Thanks to EVERYONE who has listened over the past 99 episodes.


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Need Advice?

... with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! I’ll do my best to share my wonderful words of wisdom. If you’re under 18, please get your parent’s permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can’t blame me if I screw up your life. I kid! My advice IS AMAZING.


Want to WATCH this episode as well? Check out my YouTube channel:

http://youtube.com/meghanrienks


Support the show: https://www.patreon.com/join/dontblameme

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Don't Blame Me! / But Am I Wrong? - BAIW: Locking Down Your Situationship

BAIW: Locking Down Your Situationship

Don't Blame Me! / But Am I Wrong?

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05/12/25 • 80 min

But Am I Wrong:

  • Meghan: Getting Your Sibling's Name Tattooed on Your Body
  • Melisa: AI Ruining Business

But Are You Wrong:

  • Big Egg rant
  • Asking someone your dating to be exclusive

But Are They Wrong:

  • Meghan: Syd Towle Snark Members
  • Melisa: Liberty Hotel

Write In: ⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠

Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/⁠⁠⁠

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Don't Blame Me! / But Am I Wrong? - CLASSIC: Accidental Murder w/ Nikki Limo

CLASSIC: Accidental Murder w/ Nikki Limo

Don't Blame Me! / But Am I Wrong?

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12/30/24 • 73 min

Original Air Date: December 3, 2018 (He Murdered Someone on Accident?)

Actress Nikki Limo is here to share her amazing advice. We’re answering your questions about being homesick, weed allergies, dating in college, being harassed by a guy with little man syndrome, and reaching out to an ex that murdered someone. We also have a listener sharing support for the caller that was sexually assaulted by her co-worker’s fiance.

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Don't Blame Me! / But Am I Wrong? - My Aunt Said I Stole From My Cousin

My Aunt Said I Stole From My Cousin

Don't Blame Me! / But Am I Wrong?

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03/28/22 • 54 min

Meghan and Melisa give advice on:

  • Balancing school and social life
  • Not speaking to your aunt again
  • Longing for you ex
  • Breaking up with a partner you live with
  • Don’t Blame Them: Meeting immigrant parents

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Subscribe to our new show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/but-am-i-wrong/id1591757891


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Need Advice?

... with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI'll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you're under 18, please get your parent's permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can't blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING.


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Don't Blame Me! / But Am I Wrong? - FF: Musical Mayhem and Marvelous Love Stories

FF: Musical Mayhem and Marvelous Love Stories

Don't Blame Me! / But Am I Wrong?

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02/16/24 • 59 min

It's party time on this episode as we celebrate Melisa's birthday! Join the dynamic duo as they:

  • Review Melisa's nephew's theatrical debut: Drama on and off the stage?
  • Dive into the world of musicals: Wicked whispers and beyond!
  • Discuss Halle Bailey's baby news: Keeping it real in Hollywood.
  • Dream up Meghan's movie musical masterpiece: What show will she bring to life on the silver screen?
  • Finally unleash their "The Marvels" love fest: Carol and Maria, unite!

Get ready for laughs, gossip, and a whole lot of birthday cheer! Don't miss this special episode - download and listen now!

P.S. Want to share your musical movie ideas? Slide into our DMs and let's chat!

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Don't Blame Me! / But Am I Wrong? - FF:  J. Lo's Getting an Oscar!

FF: J. Lo's Getting an Oscar!

Don't Blame Me! / But Am I Wrong?

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01/31/25 • 61 min

Melisa spills some tea (lore if you will) that's just for Meghan's ears – sorry, everyone else! Meghan shares a surprising tidbit: they were mentioned on the Morning Toast Snark subreddit! We then move on to some truly bizarre news: the Louisville Zoo is letting you name a cockroach for Valentine's Day!

From now on, we're honoring Keke and referring to her by her given and preferred name, Lauren Palmer. We take a moment to gush over the talented Leon Thomas and reminisce about working with him on Mr. Student Body President.

Then, we dive into a discussion about Jennifer Lopez's new film, "Kiss of the Spider Woman." Melisa revises her Letterboxd top 4 movies (and can't believe she forgot her favorite gem!) while we both express our appreciation for the charming Diego Luna.

Meghan's excitement for Kenny Ortega's future projects continues, and we explore the Olson Twins' status as millennial fashion icons, which naturally leads us to a conversation about Raven. Finally, Melisa reveals a possible birthday plan: going to the CLUB!

Tune in for all this and more!

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Don't Blame Me! / But Am I Wrong? - S3E12: Guest: Mats - Into Bad Boys?

S3E12: Guest: Mats - Into Bad Boys?

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02/18/19 • 64 min

My boyfriend Mats is back for another episode! This time we’re sharing our advice on what to do if you have a crush on your study buddy’s roommate, how to deal with lying to your boyfriend about how many partners you’ve had, worrying about your friend marrying a guy to help him get his green card, and comforting a spouse with mental health issues. We also have someone sharing their advice on getting a restraining order.


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Need Advice?

... with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! I’ll do my best to share my wonderful words of wisdom. If you’re under 18, please get your parent’s permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can’t blame me if I screw up your life. I kid! My advice IS AMAZING.


Want to WATCH this episode as well? Check out my YouTube channel:

http://youtube.com/meghanrienks


Support the show: https://www.patreon.com/join/dontblameme

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.


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Don't Blame Me! / But Am I Wrong? - S3Don't Blame Me! Season 3 Trailer

S3Don't Blame Me! Season 3 Trailer

Don't Blame Me! / But Am I Wrong?

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11/26/18 • 3 min

Hey Lil Fuckers and Sweet Babies! We’ll be back for a whole new season starting Monday, December 3rd! That’s right, we’re switching our regular podcast days to MONDAYS! So start your week off right.
And for all you Bougie Babes, starting Wednesday, December 12th, we have BONUS EPISODES only on Stitcher Premium. Plus, you can check out our regular episodes ad-free!
Click Here to Listen on Stitcher
Follow Us!
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Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976
International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: [email protected]
... with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! I’ll do my best to share my wonderful words of wisdom. If you’re under 18, please get your parent’s permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can’t blame me if I screw up your life. I kid! My advice IS AMAZING.
- Want to WATCH this episode as well? Check out my YouTube channel:
http://youtube.com/meghanrienks

Support the show: https://www.patreon.com/join/dontblameme

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.



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Don't Blame Me! / But Am I Wrong? currently has 820 episodes available.

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The podcast is about Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Podcasts, Self-Improvement and Education.

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The episode title 'S6E4: My Twin Slept with My Best Friend w/ Melisa D. Monts' is the most popular.

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The average episode length on Don't Blame Me! / But Am I Wrong? is 60 minutes.

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Episodes of Don't Blame Me! / But Am I Wrong? are typically released every 2 days, 1 hour.

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The first episode of Don't Blame Me! / But Am I Wrong? was released on Mar 31, 2017.

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