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Three threads at the heart of every argument
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07/19/21 • 5 min
When we argue, and particularly when we argue with loved ones and colleagues — those with whom we are in ongoing relationship — the argument has three threads at its core. It doesn’t matter what we’re arguing about; those three threads are there. When we attend to those three threads, we set the stage for a much better conversation.
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07/19/21 • 5 min
The non-comeback comeback after an insult
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06/25/21 • 3 min
Sometimes the best comeback after an insult -- the comeback that actually does something for us instead of to them -- is no comeback at all, as the following Zen koan so beautifully illustrates.
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06/25/21 • 3 min
New name for the podcast
Disagree better
06/24/21 • 2 min
The Space Between is now called Disagree Better
06/24/21 • 2 min
05/21/21 • 5 min
When we want to reduce animosity and increase empathy toward a group or individual, we may try perspective-taking, the act of trying to stand in their shoes and view the situation from their perspective. But what if there’s something even more powerful for the job?
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05/21/21 • 5 min
What is the real issue?
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04/22/21 • 6 min
A subscriber emailed me with the question, “How do I know when I’ve figured out the real problem or issue?” It’s a question worth unpacking and I have an alternative question to propose.
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04/22/21 • 6 min
A conflict resolution mini-manifesto
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03/12/21 • 5 min
Five ways to stop "less-than"-ing during conflict and conflict resolution.
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03/12/21 • 5 min
02/09/21 • 5 min
Conflict spirals are patterns of friction or tension that worsen over time. Distancing spirals are a particularly insidious form of conflict spiral because they cause relationship damage while we think we’re doing nothing wrong at all.
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02/09/21 • 5 min
Introducing QueryCards
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01/15/21 • 2 min
Self-coaching questions for conflict resolution.
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01/15/21 • 2 min
When opinions contrast sharply, practice scales
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11/24/20 • 4 min
Practicing scales is an elegantly simple way to get a read on where someone stands along a continuum. It’s useful for illuminating the nuances in disagreements that sound polarized.
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11/24/20 • 4 min
Conflict resolution is like driving at night in the fog
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09/02/21 • 5 min
Better conflict resolution habits don’t start with learning a new approach and then trying it in your next difficult conversation. Just as you wouldn’t start running and try a marathon the following week, better conflict resolution habits begin with a slow, steady build. Here are some ways to start strong and build from there.
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09/02/21 • 5 min
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How many episodes does Disagree better have?
Disagree better currently has 150 episodes available.
What topics does Disagree better cover?
The podcast is about Management, Podcasts and Business.
What is the most popular episode on Disagree better?
The episode title 'Three threads at the heart of every argument' is the most popular.
What is the average episode length on Disagree better?
The average episode length on Disagree better is 6 minutes.
How often are episodes of Disagree better released?
Episodes of Disagree better are typically released every 14 days, 1 hour.
When was the first episode of Disagree better?
The first episode of Disagree better was released on Jan 19, 2016.
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