Dad Hat Shenanigans: The Unfiltered Truth of Being a Dad

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In this powerful and raw episode of Dad Hat Shenanigans, Brent Dowlen sits down with Yusef Marshall—aka Mista Yu—for an unforgettable conversation on standing tall as a father, leading with purpose, and building unity in marriage. From confronting systemic bias at a parent-teacher conference to navigating power struggles at home, Yusef shares wisdom earned through decades of parenting and marriage.

Topics include:

• Why having a united front with your spouse is non-negotiable
• How to deal with power struggles in parenting
• The importance of sacrifice in fatherhood
• Lessons learned through conflict
• The legacy of presence, consistency, and community

Listen now for real talk, big laughs, and insights that will challenge and encourage every dad on the journey.

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As a dad, have you ever felt like you're juggling too many balls in the air? Trying to balance work, family time, and personal life can feel like an impossible task. But what if I told you that perfect balance isn't the goal?

In this episode, I sit down with Oliver Marcelle, a relationship coach, author, and fellow dad, to discuss the challenges of modern fatherhood and how to make the most of the time we have with our kids.

We dive into:

The myth of work-life balance

Discover why chasing perfect balance might be setting you up for failure and what to focus on instead.

The power of intentional time

Learn how to create meaningful moments with your children, even when time is limited.

Setting boundaries for quality time

Practical tips for minimizing distractions and maximizing connection during family time.

The importance of physical touch and verbal affirmation

Simple yet powerful ways to show your kids you love them every single day.

Lessons from a grandfather's perspective

Oliver shares insights from his journey as a dad and what he wishes he'd done differently.

Whether you're a new dad or a seasoned parent, this conversation will inspire you to rethink how you approach family time and provide practical strategies for deepening your connection with your kids.

Remember, it's not about being perfect - it's about showing up consistently and making the moments count.

Are you ready to transform your approach to fatherhood?

Listen now and discover how to create lasting bonds with your children, even in the busiest of times.

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YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/denolillc
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/denolillc
Website - https://www.denoli.org/
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/denolillc
Podcast - https://goodpods.com/podcasts/relationship-trade-secrets-171100

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In this heartfelt episode, Pastor and author Josh Poteet joins Brent to talk about what it really means to lead your kids with love and intentionality. From hilarious dad fails (yes, it involves diapers and IKEA) to raw moments about fatherhood, faith, and apologizing to your kids, this conversation is a must-listen for any dad who wants to do more than just "get by."

🎯 Topics Discussed:

• What happens when you forget diapers at IKEA
• Why apologizing to your kids builds stronger relationships
• The balance between protecting and preparing your children
• How struggle helps kids grow wings
• Josh’s core parenting goals and how they influence every decision

📚 Connect with Josh at parentingagainstthecurrent.com
📖 Check out his book Parenting Against the Current

In this heartfelt episode, Pastor and author Josh Poteet joins Brent to talk about what it really means to lead your kids with love and intentionality. From hilarious dad fails (yes, it involves diapers and IKEA) to raw moments about fatherhood, faith, and apologizing to your kids, this conversation is a must-listen for any dad who wants to do more than just "get by."

🎯 Topics Discussed:

• What happens when you forget diapers at IKEA
• Why apologizing to your kids builds stronger relationships
• The balance between protecting and preparing your children
• How struggle helps kids grow wings
• Josh’s core parenting goals and how they influence every decision

📚 Connect with Josh at parentingagainstthecurrent.com
📖 Check out his book Parenting Against the Current

Connect with Josh:
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https://www.facebook.com/ParentingAgainstTheCurrent
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Ever feel like fatherhood is an endless juggling act? You're not alone. As dads, we often find ourselves wearing multiple hats, trying to balance work, family, and personal life. But what if I told you there's a way to embrace this diversity and become an even better father?

In this special episode of the Dad Hat Shenanigans podcast, I'm sharing the secret weapon of great dads: the Dad Hat Methodology. It's not about perfection; it's about being open-minded and adaptable in your parenting journey.

Here's what you'll discover in this episode:

The Power of Open-Mindedness

Learn why questioning your parenting beliefs and being open to new possibilities is crucial for your relationship with your kids.

Beyond the Three P's

Discover why being a provider, protector, and presider isn't enough, and how embracing diverse roles can strengthen your bond with your children.

The Boundary Ballet

Understand the delicate dance of setting limits while allowing freedom, and why some rules might need rethinking.

Growth Mindset for Dads

Find out how learning alongside your kids can keep you relevant in their world and model lifelong learning.

Creating Lasting Memories

Hear real-life examples of how stepping out of your comfort zone can lead to unforgettable experiences with your children.

Whether you're a new dad or a seasoned parent, this episode will inspire you to reconsider your approach to fatherhood. You'll walk away with practical strategies for deepening your connection with your kids and embracing the many hats of dadhood.

Remember, it's not about being perfect - it's about being present, open, and willing to grow. Are you ready to take your fatherhood journey to the next level? Listen now and discover how to create lasting bonds with your children that will stand the test of time.

00:00:00 - The Dad Hat Methodology: Embracing Fatherhood's Many Roles

00:12:17 - Open-Mindedness: The Secret Weapon of Great Dads

00:24:34 - Reflecting, Reinventing, and Growing with Your Kids

00:36:51 - Embracing Growth and Creating Lasting Connections

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In this episode of Dad Hat Shenanigans, Brent sits down with Andy Coyle—father of four, longtime friend, and parenting realist—to talk about supporting your kids even when their interests leave you totally clueless. From hilarious parenting fails to heartfelt reflections on fatherhood, Andy shares the truth about balancing love, exhaustion, and the overwhelming joy of being a dad.

You’ll laugh. You’ll nod in agreement. You’ll walk away encouraged.

🎙 Topics include:

• Supporting passions you don’t share
• Dad roles in theater, sports, and school
• Honest emotions of fatherhood
• Making memories that matter
• Why it's okay to not “get it”

🎧 Listen now on your favorite podcast platform.

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