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In this episode, Monique and Renee talk about the connections or lack thereof that they have with their current exes. They gab about the differences in these post-romantic relationships and how they can range from awkward check ups, to toxic conversations or genuine friendships. The ladies discuss knowing when and how to stay friends with an ex, and also knowing when to cut them off.

This episode's conversation, about who we seek advice from, was triggered by the exposure of a popular relationship guru on social media as living a hypocritical life. In this episode, the ladies also share their thoughts about the toxic portrayal of public relations and how social media can become a breeding ground for viewers to cast shame.

During the transition from age 29 to 30, most people go through a self-reflective analysis of their lives which is typically accompanied with major changes as well. In this episode, the ladies reflect on the shortcomings of attaining success as they evaluate their lives as work in progress.

During this call, the ladies reflect on their teenage years. They speak about their journey to finding their identity in the face of peer pressure, self-esteem issues and the general physical and mental development that occurs from adolescence to adulthood.

The high-value man has been defined as a 'money-man', a powerful man, or simply a man of high-class. However, value itself is subjective and when choosing a partner it is important we assess their value for ourselves. In this episode the ladies deconstruct societal value systems for men and women.